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Girls who "want to be friends first" before sleeping with you. What to make of t

Is this what girls do when they want to start settling down?...
Arrogant address
  09/25/18
ITT: massive levels of estrogen
concupiscible ruddy gunner
  09/25/18
yeah, so take your bitch tits and leave.
avocado harsh corn cake
  09/25/18
(guy literally making threads about his massively high estro...
concupiscible ruddy gunner
  09/25/18
What nonsense are you talking about? If a girl is saying ...
Floppy Insane Church Building
  09/25/18
do you have a healthy relationship with a woman with high se...
Arrogant address
  09/25/18
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avocado harsh corn cake
  09/25/18
tbf if a girl fucks me right away i through the idea of an a...
twinkling hunting ground
  09/25/18
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flickering amethyst locale
  09/25/18
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twinkling hunting ground
  09/25/18
that's my theory in op, that the girls im meeting now are th...
Arrogant address
  09/25/18
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flickering amethyst locale
  09/25/18
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twinkling hunting ground
  09/25/18
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Arrogant address
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Greedy coiffed sandwich resort
  09/25/18
yeah man i think saying "friends" is what does it ...
Arrogant address
  09/25/18
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friend_zone
Thirsty dun native
  09/25/18
not applicable because it leads to sex eventually but the pr...
Arrogant address
  09/25/18
"they're not really into me as much as i am into them&q...
Thirsty dun native
  09/25/18
Are you 15 or something? 3 date rule. 4 date max. HTH.
Infuriating olive space
  09/25/18
Just go out with her for 2-3 dates and gauge. See how intere...
nofapping grizzly coffee pot site
  09/25/18
you're way overthinking this. either she's a virgin or ...
blue apoplectic hospital half-breed
  09/26/18
She only has sex on the first date with Chad
Transparent Abnormal Stead
  09/26/18
my only problem is I've been girls' chad and they came to ge...
Arrogant address
  09/26/18


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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:20 PM
Author: Arrogant address

Is this what girls do when they want to start settling down? When I was younger girls never did this to me and girls who liked me would just hook up.

My theory: Twice I was in a relationship where the girl expressed a wish that we would have waited to have sex so that our relationship would have been even stronger. Is "current me" meeting those types of girls 3 years and a busted relationship later, and now they're trying to learn from their previous relationships by postponing sex and making sure they only do it with the "one"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36888949)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:21 PM
Author: concupiscible ruddy gunner

ITT: massive levels of estrogen

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36888957)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:22 PM
Author: avocado harsh corn cake

yeah, so take your bitch tits and leave.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36888966)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:54 PM
Author: concupiscible ruddy gunner

(guy literally making threads about his massively high estrogen levels projecting)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889213)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:23 PM
Author: Floppy Insane Church Building

What nonsense are you talking about?

If a girl is saying this to you, she is lying and is just not into you.

That is not a real thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36888970)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:51 PM
Author: Arrogant address

do you have a healthy relationship with a woman with high self esteem who is not a whore?

This has only been happening with a specific type of shrew; they tend to be a bit more aspie, professionally driven, and conservative about premarital sex. I don't think it's as simple as them not being into you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889189)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:23 PM
Author: avocado harsh corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36888976)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:24 PM
Author: twinkling hunting ground

tbf if a girl fucks me right away i through the idea of an actual relationship is out the window so this dumb cooze might be onto something

saying "friends" is p fucking gay though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36888982)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:52 PM
Author: flickering amethyst locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889201)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:53 PM
Author: twinkling hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889209)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:55 PM
Author: Arrogant address

that's my theory in op, that the girls im meeting now are the same as my ex's who walked out of their relationship with me thinking "if only i'd waited longer to have sex with him, we would've been great together"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889216)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:59 PM
Author: flickering amethyst locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889244)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:04 PM
Author: twinkling hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889265)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:12 PM
Author: Arrogant address



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889309)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:14 PM
Author: Greedy coiffed sandwich resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889794)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:54 PM
Author: Arrogant address

yeah man i think saying "friends" is what does it for me. just too cucky for me to take seriously.

but i don't know dude i think i need to mature past hookups and easy sex if i want a healthy relationship, but it's tough because then your mental connection with the girl becomes much more important and i hate talking with most women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889210)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:52 PM
Author: Thirsty dun native

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friend_zone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889195)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:56 PM
Author: Arrogant address

not applicable because it leads to sex eventually but the process is just tough as fuck and makes me think that they're not really into me as much as i am into them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889222)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 9:58 PM
Author: Thirsty dun native

"they're not really into me as much as i am into them"

gee ya think?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889236)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 10:05 PM
Author: Infuriating olive space

Are you 15 or something? 3 date rule. 4 date max. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889283)



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Date: September 25th, 2018 11:27 PM
Author: nofapping grizzly coffee pot site

Just go out with her for 2-3 dates and gauge. See how interested she is into you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36889911)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 12:21 AM
Author: blue apoplectic hospital half-breed

you're way overthinking this.

either she's a virgin or she's not. if she is you can wait (if you want to) if she's not then lol just lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36890319)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 12:27 AM
Author: Transparent Abnormal Stead

She only has sex on the first date with Chad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36890351)



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Date: September 26th, 2018 12:33 AM
Author: Arrogant address

my only problem is I've been girls' chad and they came to genuinely regret sleeping with me early on, since they thought it made the relationship too physical and not emotionally intimate.

so now i'm faced with girls who are telling me "I want a real relationship and sleeping with you now will ruin that" and even though I know they've likely been pumped and dumped, I think they're being honest when they say they view sex early in the relationship as an impediment to emotional intimacy. I don't think it means they think little of me



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4087571&forum_id=2#36890372)