Was nutella bullying TC?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#36982688)

Her getting fired caused her to completely nut out. Apparently she owes a ton of money in taxes I didn’t know about and hasn’t received a check in months from her previous employer. She got nutty about money and accused me of stealing money from our shared account and just drained that account, forcing me to put money in to cover all our bills and prevent payments from bouncing. I had to put an excel sheet together to convince her she is wrong. We got into some nasty fights over money and the fact that we bought a house in OC and are stuck here now because of her job. She insists it costs close to a million for a normal house everywhere in the country and that it is actually not more expensive to live here than Colorado or any of the other places we talked about moving. She also unilaterally decided to pull our daughter out of daycare and we have no idea who is going to watch our kid next week. We have to find a nanny ASAP. My daughter has been really sick and between taking care of her and getting hammered at work and dealing with shit at home I haven’t had time to poast or do much of anything else.

Anyway, things seem to be getting better. I think my wife’s work situation has stabilized, she got her paychecks, and has calmed down. My daughter is feeling better too, but I am still not getting any sleep because she wakes up screaming every night. Just gonna have to keep grinding away I guess.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37042976)

Not far off tbh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37042996)

https://www.zillow.com/orange-county-ca/home-values/

https://www.zillow.com/denver-co/home-values/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043021)

Antidepressants might help as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043135)

I have suggested meditation and going back to therapy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043155)

Meditation, if practiced seriously, eventually allows people to view their emotions with equanimity and not immediately identify with them. It would absolutely help her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043209)

where's honiara when you need him the most

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043123)

All things are relative. Better, in the context of what you just went through, also seems to suck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043150)

godspeed brother hope you come out okay in the end

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043151)

https://imgur.com/a/qvT9jZP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37042994)

TC was she promiscuous at all before marrying you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043485)

This is an odd way to engage with your spouse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043395)

You're right about expensive homes and insane CA taxes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37045706)

yeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043030)

hold up a crucifix and throw holy water at them if necessary

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043106)

TC, have you gotten a DNA test yet?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043149)

There is no way my daughter isn't my kid. Physical resemblance is clear.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043180)

Do her problems often lead to problems with her relationships with people and many unstable relationships?

If yes to both of those, she's almost certainly BPD.

Keep in mind, BPD is almost always comorbid with bipolar and/or many other disorders.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043202)

I know tons of bi-polar people and none of them have problems with relationships.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043266)

Also, if her "manic" states are just her being fun to be around, she's not really manic.

Real manic people are fucking annoying and delusional as fuck and people who know them often prefer them when their depressed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043286)

A few thoughts: how did she make it through med school, residency being that stubborn/difficult to work with?

Also, you need to start a tv show/stream show that poasters can pay to watch. Sounds like the most entertaining thing ever.

Do you think that fundamentally your relationship is solid with her? Like aside from all the craziness/shrewery, is she committed to you? If she is, it definitely makes everything else easier to deal with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043284)

A reality-TV version of my life would be like something never seen before on TV.

Yeah, I think she is really committed to our relationship and our kid. I would be really surprised if we actually got divorced in the near future.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043646)

Hows your job situation these days? Aren't you in sales/biz dev or something with some god awful commute

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37045215)

if TC's wife lived in the middle east, her husband would just beat her every time she acted up until she eventually stopped. i'm not saying that's what he should do, but....yeah....

the human race didn't force-feed histrionic women psychotropic drugs for the previous 99.9% of our existence, so i don't see why we should start doing it now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043547)

1) My kid got scratched in the face by another kid who was trying to steal her food and my wife demanded to know the identity of the assailant. They said they couldn't do so for "safety" reasons. I think they are glad we are taking our kid out.

2) Wife ordered a bunch of warning signs online and placed them on our street without permission from the neighborhood association. I am getting lots of questions about the signs when I am out on walks with my dog/kid.

3) Wife wants another kid and is constantly begging me to creampie her when we fuck. Says she won't nut out this time and that we have an incomplete family with only one kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043676)

She goes on and on about how it is too bad I don't have a son and how I am missing out on that relationship and would be able to make friends through coaching/boy scouts etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37043836)

In reality, she will will go FULL PSYCHO if he leaves her. She will beat herself up and call the police. She will accuse him of molesting the kid. Etc. And the courts will take her side.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37044258)

20+ years later I still have major resentments that he didn't do more, even though he wasn't the predominant injurer - if he had just picked his kids up and gotten away, or at least taken six months to come up with a real plan, collect enough data to stand up against her -- not a lawyer so I don't understand this aspect of it -- and THEN get away, my sibs and I could have been spared some irreparable pain

I wonder how isolated TC is and who in his IRL life is helping to challenge this shitty reality his wife has churned up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37046830)

My offer last month still stands despite the fact that you never responded.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37044057)

We could meet at an LA meetup but doubt he’d ever come to one. I do not meet guys one on one for drinks. That’s inappropriate to do as a married woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37049696)

ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4100211&forum_id=2#37045269)