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I’m 38. Dating anyone over 30 in nyc is miserable.
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:27 PM Author: Mint at-the-ready bawdyhouse keepsake machete They bring up wanting kids on the first date. They are no fun. Constantly sizing up as to what kind of father you’ll be. I’m only dating 20 somethings from here on out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023899) |
Date: October 14th, 2018 10:29 PM Author: Passionate cocky church building The trick is not to date professional women. My wife was a gig musician who was happy making like zero dollars. I have since ruined her with money. Basically just avoid professional shrews and chicks whose profiles bring up travel or brunch or TTT dogs. Fuck all that shit. Any chick who would keep a dog in her TTT 300sq foot Manhattan studio is a narcisstic cunt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023919) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:47 PM Author: Citrine hall a gig musician survives by...?
aren't you the guy shilling for used optimas? |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:03 PM Author: fear-inspiring painfully honest trailer park sounds fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024220) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:15 PM Author: exhilarant philosopher-king Didn’t you marry a 35 year old 8 months after meeting her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024302) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:17 PM Author: Passionate cocky church building No. The fuck? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024316) |
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Date: October 15th, 2018 2:44 PM Author: avocado trip property lol. a poor female musician? how much cock has she taken? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37028323) |
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Date: October 15th, 2018 3:10 PM Author: territorial appetizing doctorate Kilometers! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37028515) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:30 PM Author: Spruce electric nowag it's just how it is. Went on a break from LTR and went right back and I'm about to get marred. It's hell out their man. Their are all like broken robots (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023925) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:31 PM Author: Passionate cocky church building This is why I don’t get cheatmos. LJL at wanting to date chicks. That shit was literally hell. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023936) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:30 PM Author: magenta exciting locus Cr. It's weird what a world of difference there is between even 27 and 30. Former is fun and carefree. Latter wants to shackle you down and put a harness on you from the beginning. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023926) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:34 PM Author: Mint at-the-ready bawdyhouse keepsake machete First date tonight. She literally asked me in the first ten minutes if I wanted kids. She’s mid 30s. A lawyer. Clearly been p & d her entire life. Basically I think she’s marry anyone who would say yes. It was honestly depressing. Plus she’s overweight. It’s like if you want to be married lose some weight. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023958) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:34 PM Author: Spruce electric nowag Should have responded, "Maybe, do you wanna lose weight?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023968) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:36 PM Author: Mint at-the-ready bawdyhouse keepsake machete Can’t be that mean. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023972) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:00 PM Author: Poppy parlor old irish cottage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024199) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:33 PM Author: maize theatre messiness imagine trying outside NYC (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37023949) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:40 PM Author: racy crystalline depressive Why are you unmarried at 38? Another decade of dating sounds exhausting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024007) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:42 PM Author: Spruce electric nowag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024026) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:42 PM Author: Mint at-the-ready bawdyhouse keepsake machete Work a lot. Haven’t put time into a rship. As I get older the more I want a done piece. Spending more and more time at gym. Can I snag at 25 year old or unrealistic? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024028) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:44 PM Author: Spruce electric nowag salary? height? race?
are you willing to make a sacrifice to go down in age? would you date outside your race, slightly less inteligent, little heavier or from a different socioeconomic background? if yes, to these things and taller than 6'1" ---> maybe |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:49 PM Author: racy crystalline depressive I'm regularly surprised by how many 20s women go for 30s men. I'd be a little concerned about dating one of those women, but I'm probably just naïve. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024096) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:05 PM Author: fear-inspiring painfully honest trailer park 38 is too damn old man. you may have missed the boat. you should either settle for a 35 y/o or do seeking arrangement. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024237) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:16 PM Author: Mint at-the-ready bawdyhouse keepsake machete Yeah agreed 38 is too old. Prolly missed the boat. But I thought I could meet a cool 28 year old who is “mature for her years”. Looks like I was very naive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024313) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:19 PM Author: Sepia Kink-friendly Karate why do you need more than avg 28 year old maturity? i feel like most of the difference in maturity happens btw 22 and 25. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024329) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:25 PM Author: Mint at-the-ready bawdyhouse keepsake machete Good point. Can I get a 28 year old to seriously date me? I don’t think 10 years is too many? I worry about what her friends will think and if that poisons the well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024391) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:30 PM Author: Sepia Kink-friendly Karate will you take any 28 year old?
attractive thin together women have options until 35 imo.
i really wouldn't think about it that much?
25 - 35 is all the same-ish bucket of life phase (have jerb and out of school, but before midlife and marriage/kids for singlemos). when i was single i would say i saw women 25 to 35 as competition so long as they were about the same in looks. |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:31 PM Author: Spruce electric nowag *31/32 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024444) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:42 PM Author: Irradiated church toilet seat Lol so youre dating fat 30-somethings in nyc? In all fairness to them having kuds is the whole point of dating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024027) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:43 PM Author: Mint at-the-ready bawdyhouse keepsake machete Agreed. But how about not bring it up for a few dates. Maybe I’m wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024033) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:44 PM Author: Irradiated church toilet seat Lol no. Im a man and i wouldnt even pretend to date a 30 something woman who didnt want kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024043) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 10:46 PM Author: Fishy Pungent Orchestra Pit Faggot Firefighter Protip: elsewhere in the country you were expected to get married 10+ years ago. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024062) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:13 PM Author: exhilarant philosopher-king You’re 38 bro... too old to be picky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024285) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:38 PM Author: charcoal casino (30+ year old that has never had a gf or had sex without paying) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024479) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:31 PM Author: rebellious zippy stage It's not easy to date attractive young chicks as a 30-something dude, but then it's not easy at any age. Don't listen to the haters telling you it's impossible. I've dated and/or hooked up with numerous hot girls in their 20's (and teens) as a mid-30's bro. Some were from SA of course, but some I met elsewhere.
The thing that you have to understand is that instead of sweating bullets over how to make your age as little of a liability as possible, you should turn it into an asset. You're a successful older guy who has a lot of experience and wisdom. You're the man, so act like it.
There is a large subset of women who are open to dating older guys or even enthusiastic about doing so. But they don't want a balding, fattening nerd. They want a leader, a man's man, someone who will allow them to live out their fantasies. Kind of like a HS freshman girl dating a senior. So whatever traits you have like this, play them up. Increase your own market value as much as possible. Hit the gym, build muscle, walk with some swagger. There's a lot of trial and error involved, but if you work hard, before you know it, you'll notice those young chicks checking you out. At the same time, don't rule out the cool older chicks who are out there. |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:39 PM Author: charcoal casino But really he SHOULD rule out older girls unless he wants to have a downs baby with a 36 year old law shrew. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024489) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:41 PM Author: rebellious zippy stage I would be concerned about getting with a girl my age for that reason, absolutely. But 30-32 could be an option. Not my first choice, but if everything else about her were excellent, worth considering. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024500) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:44 PM Author: charcoal casino The problem is if she’s 32 now you need to figure in the time you date before marriage, etc...she will be a liability by the time she’s knocked up. It sucks but some girls who might be cool need to be ignored if you’re serious about settling down because they have simply gone rotten. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024511) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:48 PM Author: rebellious zippy stage We really do live in a fucked up society. Or maybe it's just evolution operating and weeding genes out like it always has. But I know a disturbingly large number of girls who are well into their 30's, unmarried the last time I checked, and unlikely to have kids. It seems like a lot of them were the slightly more sophisticated, refined girls. Like maybe they had really high standards, or they didn't attract the high T guys, or they were just elbowed out of the way by the girls with more raw physical hotness. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024537) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:49 PM Author: Sepia Kink-friendly Karate mostly failed ltrs ime (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024541) |
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Date: October 15th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: exhilarant philosopher-king And/Or a mediocre to ugly professional woman who thinks she deserves a chad billionaire simply because she makes 200k/ year (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37028189) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:51 PM Author: charcoal casino A large # of them were hot and refused to ever deal with reality. Thought they could ride the cock carousel forever then at 36 some alpha billionaire would want them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024548) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:55 PM Author: flesh location you suck imho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024586) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:36 PM Author: Judgmental navy incel weird flame. obviously a chick in her 30s who is "dating" is specifically looking for a dude to marry and have kids with. obviously she's gonna be sizing you up as a father. why is this weird?
why are you even still looking to pump and dump chicks at 38 years old lol. you're worse than the shrews |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:45 PM Author: Hairraiser deer antler lay (guy who thinks shrews and whores dont exist) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024517) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:47 PM Author: charcoal casino (Guy who is an authority on actual whores) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024528) |
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:51 PM Author: Hairraiser deer antler lay unmarried women over 30 are not looking to marry and form babby
the ones who are have already shacked up. what youre left with are SATC shrewbeasts and undesirables who were too ugly or mentally fucked to lock a man down
OP is near-40 and also unmarried. why hes conplaining about 30+ year old women is beyond me. anal then dump? sure. meet some 20 somethings if you want marriage material and stop complaining
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Date: October 14th, 2018 11:53 PM Author: charcoal casino We know you’re an idiot who doesn’t understand women at all due to a lifetime of NOWAG, but “unmarried women over 30 are not looking to marry and form babby” may be the stupidest thing you’ve ever posted. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024564) |
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Date: October 15th, 2018 12:01 AM Author: Judgmental navy incel "unmarried women over 30 are not looking to marry and form babby"
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Date: October 15th, 2018 12:05 AM Author: Hairraiser deer antler lay which is why ATDing old shrewbeasts is EAZY-E.
what the OP is doing is walking into the produce section of a grocery store at night and complaining about why the clearance section is stocked with discolored and shriveled vegetables
if you want quality women then stop dating 30 year old shrewbeasts, dummy OP |
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Date: October 15th, 2018 12:07 AM Author: Orchid Athletic Conference it's sad the sickness in your head that plagued you as an undergrad hasn't been cured but has evolved into the pathetic pathologies you exhibit today (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024638) |
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Date: October 15th, 2018 12:09 AM Author: Hairraiser deer antler lay the cold nigga truth is hard to swallow sometimes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37024650) |
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Date: October 15th, 2018 12:08 AM Author: pearly vibrant cuckold I kind of agree. Even if you *technically* can have kids for a few more years, you're at the end of your practical reproductive cycle too. At this rate ,you would be fucking 80 when your FIRST grandkid was born. So even if you had a kid, you'd be like 50/50 on being able to interact with their kid or help out in a meaningful way.
So I don't think its unreasonable to talk about kids on the first date if you met them on a dating site - because you all are running out of time. It's the equivalent of flying out for 30 rounds of interviews before you even discuss salary.
Don't hate on them for trying to get on the same page. They're not insane just because they're making you realize your own age. |
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Date: October 15th, 2018 2:45 PM Author: Mint at-the-ready bawdyhouse keepsake machete those are good points.
I don't even think I want kids. But just constantly pumping and dumping gets old.
Not sure what to do long term. |
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Date: October 16th, 2018 3:13 PM Author: Swashbuckling dragon The idea of dating/marrying some used-up shrew in her early 30s is truly horrifying (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4106389&forum_id=2#37035985) |