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name your overarching parenting philosophy

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biryani
  10/24/18
Everything I do is to ensure he does not grow up to be a twi...
Morning In America
  10/24/18
DESCRIBE the actions you have taken, dork
biryani
  10/24/18
Never allow him to apologize Speak to grown ups respectfull...
Morning In America
  10/24/18
2 & 3 are good. never allowing them to apologize is psyc...
biryani
  10/24/18
One must be a measured psychopath to truly succeed in this h...
Morning In America
  10/24/18
2 is also awful. He is not "equal" to people who ...
....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:
  10/25/18
Lol at you beta yellow bellied faggots always looking for ac...
Morning In America
  10/25/18
Nice.
....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:
  10/25/18
are you teacher?
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
Not currently but I have taught kids before. It's always th...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
So you're a failure.
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
cr if you ain't biglaw you = shit. #1 lesson 2 teach ur kid...
A Jurisprudence is Performed
  10/25/18
...
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
Sounds sensible.
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  10/25/18
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Martin Prince
  10/24/18
"Never allow him to apologize" WTF?
IronMonkey
  10/24/18
2 is really good
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  10/24/18
all great tips
Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman
  10/25/18
Instilling a sense of superiority and confidence so they don...
Martin Prince
  10/24/18
How are you doing this?
biryani
  10/24/18
Giving my kids all of the educational and personal growth op...
Martin Prince
  10/24/18
Sounds like you're raising jerks.
biryani
  10/24/18
Following all the rules and being subservient ensures a dron...
Martin Prince
  10/24/18
You can raise a kid who's a confident risk taker but isn't a...
David Morse
  10/24/18
(Not Fred Trump)
Martin Prince
  10/24/18
...
biryani
  10/24/18
Lol this is terrible! Like what a 20 year old might say.
Great Emperor Trump
  10/24/18
Let me tell something: If you keep telling them they are sm...
....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:
  10/25/18
this, you're supposed to congratulate your kid for their eff...
David Morse
  10/25/18
as I said, if parents needed licenses to procreate …
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  10/25/18
remember there are no subtle hints w little kids. everythin...
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  10/25/18
Very cr but it's hard to balance this one
Morning In America
  10/24/18
(Modesto "Pete" Cunanan)
bill laimbeer
  10/24/18
cr approach maybe have them start by murdering a pawnshop ow...
A Jurisprudence is Performed
  10/24/18
...
Martin Prince
  10/24/18
Seems vaguely crime and punishment like.
....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:
  10/25/18
cr
Boomer Parable
  10/24/18
family first, no excuses
Taylor Swift was not a hobby she was a lifestyle
  10/24/18
180.
biryani
  10/24/18
...
TRUMP rulez
  10/25/18
Except you don't have kids
JewJew Smith-Shyster
  10/25/18
Concerted cultivation without overstructuring. Free play wit...
David Morse
  10/24/18
lol, you make it sound like you’re growing plants or s...
Oh, you travel?
  10/24/18
...
luis
  10/24/18
Concerted cultivation a phrase in use
David Morse
  10/24/18
A Child is Cultivated
IronMonkey
  10/24/18
...
very stable genius!
  10/25/18
say free play again you fucking rapist
theology is great
  10/24/18
...
opportunist
  10/24/18
It's okay to be white
Maori woman performing defiant haka
  10/24/18
no clue
A Jurisprudence is Performed
  10/24/18
many successful men seem to have had absentee fathers.
H.L.R.L. Menckenstine
  10/24/18
Helicopter parenting. Too many crazies in this world
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  10/24/18
This is a terrible idea
biryani
  10/24/18
ruthless denial of the fact that im the parent
boner police?
  10/24/18
The child is chosen to be a great man
xo kav
  10/24/18
What will you do to foster that colt
leolenin
  10/24/18
Expose him to many, many things and let him develop his own ...
xo kav
  10/24/18
...
biryani
  10/24/18
This is an excellent poast. 180.
Hegemon
  10/25/18
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  10/26/18
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AssFaggot
  10/29/18
this was gay as fuck
boner police?
  10/30/18
Genes are destiny
leolenin
  10/24/18
Apparently "authoritative parenting" (not "au...
Jim_Kelly
  10/24/18
Yea this whole shit is a cycle one generation to the next. A...
leolenin
  10/24/18
...
A Jurisprudence is Performed
  10/25/18
Cr. Parenting "philosophy" is a fraud. I'm with Ma...
End Road Work
  10/25/18
this is basically what i try to do as well.
biryani
  10/24/18
Same approach as you and same reaction to my authoritarian u...
nutella
  10/24/18
...
biryani
  10/24/18
"They need to know the world doesn’t give a shit ...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
high expectations are something I am sure I will have but hi...
opportunist
  10/24/18
that they will work hard and try their best on everything th...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
High expectations to work hard and be decent and ethical hum...
nutella
  10/25/18
Yes, its authoritative parenting that works best. Readers c...
....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:
  10/25/18
you have to force them when they hit a difficult hump in lea...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
Egoism
Tufts Law
  10/24/18
Anything other than "fuck libs" is child abuse
hank_scorpio
  10/24/18
I use the approach detailed in this thread: http://autoadmit...
histrionic bitchmade lawyerfaggot
  10/24/18
TIGER | MOM | HYMN
Baltimore Orioles
  10/24/18
no kids
Punctuation Monica
  10/24/18
The gospel of JESUS CHRIST is the most important thing in yo...
GOTTA MOVE FAST
  10/24/18
I dont know why but exposing a child to religion really both...
Morning In America
  10/24/18
I'm not at all religious.
GOTTA MOVE FAST
  10/24/18
Are there a lot of gospels besides "of Jesus Christ&quo...
Great Emperor Trump
  10/24/18
This is all pretty good.
Hegemon
  10/25/18
I have 4 kids so I am just trying to make sure I don't lose ...
ptbarnum
  10/24/18
Lol, I have no idea how you do it.
nutella
  10/24/18
The answer is negligence, but not gross negligence.
ptbarnum
  10/24/18
180
opportunist
  10/24/18
cr
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.
  10/24/18
Fair. Have you ever lost one? Come on …
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
Never lost one but a non-negligible number of times, I forgo...
ptbarnum
  10/25/18
Do the absolute minimum necessary for the kids to grow up he...
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.
  10/24/18
First sentence is the most Russian thing ever poasted.
GOTTA MOVE FAST
  10/24/18
I'm paying for college you fuckers.
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.
  10/24/18
You'll welsh on it.
GOTTA MOVE FAST
  10/24/18
Nah. I suspect my kids will be too lazy and low energy to go...
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.
  10/24/18
Tufts is a damn good school
http://i.imgur.com/GzDww8M.jpg
  10/24/18
It seems fine. I'm not going to go crazy about the college r...
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.
  10/24/18
HInt: if you don't want your kid to major in bullshit, don't...
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  10/25/18
I am very committed to telling the truth. It's easy and tend...
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.
  10/25/18
So you're not necessarily paying for college
bud select
  10/25/18
Nah, they'll major in something sensible out of laziness and...
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.
  10/25/18
Correct. If they're shitheads they're on their own.
ESL TM..,..;;.
  10/26/18
just keep feeding the educational-industrial complex beast
Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman
  10/25/18
I kind of figure they will come out sensible and sane all on...
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.
  10/25/18
wgwag
deus vult
  10/24/18
to raise socially conscious people who acknowledge and respe...
Dupa
  10/24/18
You cannot spoil a child with love or gifts. However, if yo...
;;;;.....;...;.............;;..;.;.;
  10/24/18
Smothering my daughter with affection so she don’t se...
Insane right-wing gun nut
  10/24/18
Number one might not lead to a slut but seems like a recipe ...
End Road Work
  10/25/18
What is the cr approach
A Jurisprudence is Performed
  10/25/18
Lol who the fuck knows. No judgment in this thread but I'm ...
End Road Work
  10/25/18
That is in fact how I want men to treat my daughter. You can...
bud select
  10/25/18
Thanks but I'm good. The point is most guys will have a tast...
End Road Work
  10/25/18
You think showering your children with love makes them needy...
bud select
  10/25/18
I think you can’t treat one kid like a princess and be...
Boomer Parable
  10/25/18
I agree. I should have spent more time ion this or not comm...
Insane right-wing gun nut
  10/25/18
Consistency. They need to know that you mean what you say, ...
IronMonkey
  10/24/18
...
opportunist
  10/24/18
do so much fucking better than mine - kid will not miss o...
opportunist
  10/24/18
...
The Lawman on the Sybian
  10/24/18
but if your parents were so SPS, how'd you turn out more tha...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
how do you know I'm okay
opportunist
  10/29/18
you are a future north shore mommy, just don't leave little ...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
lol
opportunist
  10/29/18
you should also give kid an opposite-gender (any of the 47 o...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
Go play in traffic and don't bother me
Morbidly Obese Sex Robot
  10/24/18
well they'll go to another room and chill out if you've alre...
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  10/25/18
Crazy pills
Dr. Ford
  10/24/18
Let them play with dynamite. God favors the strong.
http://i.imgur.com/GzDww8M.jpg
  10/24/18
http://mwkworks.com/desiderata.html
Verne lundquist
  10/24/18
...
xo kav
  10/24/18
Rejecting all of the retarded GC and Boomer tropes my idiot ...
and when i started to squeeze the bar brother
  10/24/18
...
In re: Favor House Atlantic
  10/25/18
(guy playing with his iphone with his right hand while cradl...
bud select
  10/25/18
Lol at the sociopathy raging itt
Great Emperor Trump
  10/24/18
ITT: kidhavers tripping over themselves to give parenting ad...
jag
  10/24/18
In this subthread: jag
xo kav
  10/24/18
these threads are the worst. like threads where people are a...
jag
  10/24/18
some of us provided good insights itt
boner police?
  10/25/18
wherever whatever children I've fathered are, hope their mot...
Sotomayor McCheese
  10/24/18
Now what about your wife's children
End Road Work
  10/25/18
Heh
....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:
  10/25/18
1. Be involved in the kid's life. 2. Patiently answer ...
fiasco
  10/25/18
Re #2 I nearly missed my flight because some new age bitch w...
End Road Work
  10/25/18
This is all pretty good
Hegemon
  10/25/18
Slide and let do. Die of alcoholism while they are in middl...
Bart O'Kavanaugh
  10/25/18
No need for a philosphy. It's pretty obvious that you have t...
H.R. Puffendorf
  10/25/18
this is probably closest to what we try to do but LJL at cal...
A Jurisprudence is Performed
  10/25/18
raise them to be conservative and be confident that they're ...
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  10/25/18
Hope they end up as good looking as their parents
boner police?
  10/25/18
chums, let me tell you something: Most people are shitty ...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
i'm listening. what are your thoughts on child rearing best ...
The Lawman on the Sybian
  10/25/18
okay --look, just read up on authoritative parenting techniq...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
ty. i agree that children have rich emotional lives and do b...
The Lawman on the Sybian
  10/25/18
teach emotional regulation early on too. "Smell th...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
this sounds like spaceporn. Are you spaceporn?
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
spaceporn doesn't poast here any more. But didn't SP ha...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
okay so this is spaceporn's pumo. You get high around yo...
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
this isn't spaceporn --he doesn't poast here. I agree w...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
You are so fucking stupid.
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
Rude! I don't care whether you pay attention to what I'm sa...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
literally everyone here knows this is you, spaceporn. Stop g...
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
whats shitty about the advice? be specific. and I assume yo...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
I will await an apology from you for being so rude to me whe...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
Shouldn't you be trying to stop that pumo from raping your k...
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
and try not to say NO all the time when they are little kids...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
All of your advice is effeminate and dumb and you're overthi...
H.R. Puffendorf
  10/25/18
(dummy)
Great Emperor Trump
  10/29/18
I REFUSE to compliment kid unless he worked hard to do somet...
No way jose
  10/25/18
You compliment when you see something positive. Like, "...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
okay but I assume you think it would also lead to some negat...
Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman
  10/25/18
what would?
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
Talk to your kids about niggers.
Talk to Your Kids About Niggers
  10/25/18
...
jag
  10/25/18
three knuckles on left hand + don't swing like a ballerina =...
.,,,.,.,,...,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,....:..,:.::,.
  10/25/18
fuck libs 180
libcrusher180
  10/25/18
My first priority is instilling in my children an indelible ...
Royall Jenkins
  10/25/18
yeah the dog thing is good. they are quick to get this.
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  10/25/18
Explain waking kids up early to do some chore
End Road Work
  10/25/18
kids can be dicks about this. like, "NOOOOOW I'MMMM A ...
..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.
  10/25/18
Both my wife and I are prone to debilitating procrastination...
Royall Jenkins
  10/25/18
Idk seems like this strategy would backfire bigly, at least ...
End Road Work
  10/25/18
It's not like I'm running drill sergeant shtick from Full Me...
Royall Jenkins
  10/25/18
Btw, you people realize “parenting” matters a lo...
nutella
  10/25/18
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4450758-dr-spock-on-pare...
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
Yeah each of my kids has fairly different personalities and ...
ptbarnum
  10/25/18
you’re doing it right by having more kids. There are ...
nutella
  10/25/18
whatever you have to say to justify you only seeing them for...
.,,,.,.,,...,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,....:..,:.::,.
  10/25/18
Yes, parenting is a completely made up concept that was only...
fumblerooski
  10/25/18
...
chilmata
  10/29/18
I spend 4-5 hours/day on the weekdays and all day on weekend...
nutella
  10/25/18
Sounds like bullshit. Why are there so many strippers with d...
,.,.,.,..,.,.,:,,:,..,:::,.,,.,:.,,.:.,:.,:.::,.
  10/25/18
probably makes a difference in their life outcomes having a ...
David Morse
  10/25/18
this is just you justifying your decision to procreate with ...
boner police?
  10/25/18
And evidently the everyone gets a trophy generation is comin...
H.R. Puffendorf
  10/25/18
Lol coming from the woman who admitted to hating her gook ch...
Morning In America
  10/25/18
lmao if she thinks her nutelliot rodgers isn't gonna pick up...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
...
Thunder Collins
  10/25/18
my thought has always kind of been parents can certainly do ...
Dupa
  10/29/18
don't currently have kids but do want them someday I feel l...
literal Marxist calling you a literal Nazi
  10/25/18
my mom forcememed reading hard for us but i was the only one...
David Morse
  10/25/18
cr again, obviously parental impact is inherently limited, ...
literal Marxist calling you a literal Nazi
  10/25/18
1. Never discipline in anger. There's no single thing I can ...
Hegemon
  10/25/18
Congrats ur not a garbage poster
theology is great
  10/25/18
1 10 6 3 4 14 are YUGE.
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
Hylomorphism
theology is great
  10/25/18
As if I'd ever be in a position to need one.
~~(>' ' )>
  10/25/18
https://files.catbox.moe/mml5it.jpg
~~(>' ' )>
  10/26/18
when moon son
luis
  10/26/18
89437562948376982473823423
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
shouldn't this be "im gay" though???
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
As far as the education of children is concerned I think the...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
We usually give a quite unwarranted importance to our childr...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
What we must remember above all in the education of our chil...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
...
anglican lawyer
  10/29/18
sexual conquest/social hypergamy loyalty to family skeptic...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
one and three will be used to critique 2, 8 will be the exit...
anglican lawyer
  10/29/18
yeah 8 is a joke. 2 makes sense to ME because 2 informs 3 in...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
nah, not in the slightest. teaching your kid about the inevi...
anglican lawyer
  10/29/18
Absolutely not. It's perfectly fine, particularly within the...
Hegemon
  10/30/18
I would like to read each of these lines as the title of a c...
opportunist
  10/29/18
contrary to popular belief, I am not, in fact, schizohipster...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/29/18
Heat is 180^180, but the moral to draw from it is that the t...
Hegemon
  10/29/18
McCauley would’ve gotten away if he had stuck by his g...
Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept.
  10/30/18
Yes. He should've taken it.
Hegemon
  10/30/18
cr, though i wouldn't even call it "alpha" necessa...
anglican lawyer
  10/30/18
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1lFUswrf6yA
ARE Reptile
  10/29/18
ITT: the results of xoxoers having kids
nyuug
  10/29/18
husband of an attachment parent
thots & prayers
  10/30/18
Have a bunch of kids with a woman I love. Try to spend ti...
twins
  11/09/18


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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:05 PM
Author: biryani



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087786)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:06 PM
Author: Morning In America (πŸ™ )

Everything I do is to ensure he does not grow up to be a twink, risk averse loser like me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087797)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:07 PM
Author: biryani

DESCRIBE the actions you have taken, dork

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087799)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:11 PM
Author: Morning In America (πŸ™ )

Never allow him to apologize

Speak to grown ups respectfully but as equals

Constant physical activity

Put myself in social situations I'd rather avoid to give him a good example of what confident discourse looks like

Lots of HGH

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087838)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:14 PM
Author: biryani

2 & 3 are good. never allowing them to apologize is psychopath territory, but do you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087856)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: Morning In America (πŸ™ )

One must be a measured psychopath to truly succeed in this hellscape

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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:21 AM
Author: ....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:

2 is also awful. He is not "equal" to people who are trying to teach him or who are experts in some field he is dependent on. The kids who act like this also never get the first part of the equation right in practice either. This is the way to raise entitled ignorant jerks. I see this nonsense in classrooms when kids say, "Well u gotta respect ME, teacher!". Its poisonous trash.

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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:26 AM
Author: Morning In America (πŸ™ )

Lol at you beta yellow bellied faggots always looking for acceptance and trying to roll over and show off that proud drone stomach.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091063)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:27 AM
Author: ....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:

Nice.

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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:26 AM
Author: fumblerooski

are you teacher?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091547)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:29 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

Not currently but I have taught kids before. It's always the worst, most indulged kids who say that stuff. I had a Brazilian kid who would say that stuff--he would fuck around at the pencil sharpener for 4 minutes and make noises and shit when I was trying to do something w the rest of the class.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091580)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:33 AM
Author: fumblerooski

So you're a failure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091604)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (You Have the Plague)

cr if you ain't biglaw you = shit. #1 lesson 2 teach ur kids from day 1

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091630)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:40 AM
Author: fumblerooski



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091646)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:42 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

Sounds sensible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091661)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: Martin Prince (βš–οΈ = πŸ™)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087868)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:35 PM
Author: IronMonkey

"Never allow him to apologize"

WTF?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089161)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:56 PM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,.,,.;:,,..,:,.;.:..:.,:,::,.


2 is really good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089344)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 9:57 AM
Author: Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman

all great tips

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091407)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: Martin Prince (βš–οΈ = πŸ™)

Instilling a sense of superiority and confidence so they don't take shit from dumb people or accept a life of wagecuckery.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087807)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: biryani

How are you doing this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087813)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:10 PM
Author: Martin Prince (βš–οΈ = πŸ™)

Giving my kids all of the educational and personal growth opportunities I can.

Subtle hints to remind them that they're smarter than 99% of people they meet and that rules that apply to dumbs shouldn't apply to them.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087827)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:10 PM
Author: biryani

Sounds like you're raising jerks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087832)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:13 PM
Author: Martin Prince (βš–οΈ = πŸ™)

Following all the rules and being subservient ensures a drone life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087853)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:15 PM
Author: David Morse

You can raise a kid who's a confident risk taker but isn't also an insufferable twat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087869)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:17 PM
Author: Martin Prince (βš–οΈ = πŸ™)

(Not Fred Trump)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087878)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:20 PM
Author: biryani



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087886)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:41 PM
Author: Great Emperor Trump

Lol this is terrible! Like what a 20 year old might say.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089711)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:25 AM
Author: ....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:

Let me tell something: If you keep telling them they are smart they wont ever push themselves and will be mediocre when with a little effort they could be really good.

Likewise, if you send a message that they are better than everyone else, they wont get a job and move out when they are grown up. Not to mention they'll be complete shits.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091057)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:27 AM
Author: David Morse

this, you're supposed to congratulate your kid for their effort, not for their intelligence. that way they connect success with hard work, not raw smarts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091558)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:38 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

as I said, if parents needed licenses to procreate …

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091637)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:04 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

remember there are no subtle hints w little kids. everything you do SCREAMS significance to them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091757)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:12 PM
Author: Morning In America (πŸ™ )

Very cr but it's hard to balance this one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087843)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:22 PM
Author: bill laimbeer (old John L.)

(Modesto "Pete" Cunanan)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087898)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:24 PM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (You Have the Plague)

cr approach maybe have them start by murdering a pawnshop owner, or a deaf girl. just to get a start. see where things progress from there

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087910)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:35 PM
Author: Martin Prince (βš–οΈ = πŸ™)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087974)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:29 AM
Author: ....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:

Seems vaguely crime and punishment like.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091069)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 8:55 PM
Author: Boomer Parable

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088892)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: Taylor Swift was not a hobby she was a lifestyle (βœ“)

family first, no excuses

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087811)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:08 PM
Author: biryani

180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087815)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:57 AM
Author: TRUMP rulez



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091123)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:18 AM
Author: JewJew Smith-Shyster

Except you don't have kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091834)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:13 PM
Author: David Morse

Concerted cultivation without overstructuring. Free play with the addition of adult socialization. I guess this is called "slow parenting" where you get the self-assuredness of the upper class style of parenting without stressing the kid out while fostering creativity and free play. Less likely the kid turns out to be a deferential prole or a neurotic, entitled rich kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087848)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 7:03 PM
Author: Oh, you travel?

lol, you make it sound like you’re growing plants or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088172)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 7:54 PM
Author: luis



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088479)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 8:29 PM
Author: David Morse

Concerted cultivation a phrase in use

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088743)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:42 PM
Author: IronMonkey

A Child is Cultivated

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089224)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:23 AM
Author: very stable genius! (πŸΎπŸ‘£)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37090607)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:11 PM
Author: theology is great (β›ͺ)

say free play again you fucking rapist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088981)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:52 PM
Author: opportunist



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089310)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:13 PM
Author: Maori woman performing defiant haka

It's okay to be white

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087854)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:16 PM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (You Have the Plague)

no clue

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087876)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:20 PM
Author: H.L.R.L. Menckenstine

many successful men seem to have had absentee fathers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087887)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:20 PM
Author: .;:..;:;.:.;.,,,.,.:,.;;,;;;..;,


Helicopter parenting. Too many crazies in this world

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087889)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:29 PM
Author: biryani

This is a terrible idea

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087939)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:23 PM
Author: boner police?

ruthless denial of the fact that im the parent

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087903)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:26 PM
Author: xo kav (colt)

The child is chosen to be a great man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087923)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:29 PM
Author: leolenin

What will you do to foster that colt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087937)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 8:31 PM
Author: xo kav (colt)

Expose him to many, many things and let him develop his own preferences, then teach him a path to excellence in those things and the overarching principle of self-accountability and maximum effort in all things regardless of circumstances.

As he gets older, teach him the difference between the man and the woman, the owner and the employee, the gladiator and the critic, the leader and the follower.

Christian ethics based upon the golden rule, sermon on the mount (create the basis of servant leadership), beatitudes, 10 commandments.

Appreciation for the moment.

Teach him about money and financial principles early and build a mind that understands entrepreneurship.

Allow him to watch my relationship with my wife as the basis for how to treat others.

Let him choose his path from there. If I have succeeded in teaching those things and encouraging my son to live a thoughtful and intentional life, there is no more I could do as a parent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088752)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:07 PM
Author: biryani



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088959)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:11 PM
Author: Hegemon

This is an excellent poast. 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095679)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 12:52 AM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,.,,.;:,,..,:,.;.:..:.,:,::,.




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37097627)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 9:52 PM
Author: AssFaggot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121793)



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Date: October 30th, 2018 2:23 AM
Author: boner police?

this was gay as fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37123306)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:29 PM
Author: leolenin

Genes are destiny

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37087940)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:51 PM
Author: Jim_Kelly

Apparently "authoritative parenting" (not "authoritarian parenting") - high expectations but a lot of nurturing and explanation and kid has input.

We're also trying to expose her to a lot. Letting her pick what she likes to do and encouraging her to pursue those things. My parents (father) was authoritarian and I've told myself for 25 years that I would never be like that with my own kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088087)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:55 PM
Author: leolenin

Yea this whole shit is a cycle one generation to the next. All these poasters wanting to be hardasses bc they blame parental laxity for their failure to reach potential, then their kids will be resentful of their strict raising and do the opposite. In the end its 80% genes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088117)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 7:51 AM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (You Have the Plague)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37090959)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:21 AM
Author: End Road Work

Cr. Parenting "philosophy" is a fraud. I'm with Mandy on this one. Don't let them die. Anything else is a crapshoot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091044)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:55 PM
Author: biryani

this is basically what i try to do as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088120)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:02 PM
Author: nutella

Same approach as you and same reaction to my authoritarian upbringing. I do not want my kids to fear me, but sometimes I question if it’s too wishy washy, like acknowledging feelings (“i know it’s frustrating when you can’t have 2 candies”). Sometimes I just want to put my foot down without an explanation.

When older, I want to make sure my kids don’t feel like they’re special snowflakes. They need to know the world doesn’t give a shit about them and they’re not entitled to anything. I need to counteract their privileged upbringing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088925)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:07 PM
Author: biryani



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088958)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:39 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

"They need to know the world doesn’t give a shit about them"

Hopefully the death toll won't be too high by the time the police shoot them down

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37120872)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:55 PM
Author: opportunist

high expectations are something I am sure I will have but high expectations of what exactly?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089340)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:41 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

that they will work hard and try their best on everything they undertake. Google ARETE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091652)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:05 AM
Author: nutella

High expectations to work hard and be decent and ethical human beings. Not high expectations of success, academic or otherwise (other than to try and work hard). I do not believe parents have much impact on whether their children do well academically or succeed in life. All the emphasis these days in preschool in learning to read and write early on is rubbish. Children need to play and be children. I do, however, believe parents can influence their values and how they conduct themselves in society through both example and respecting their children at an early age (without being pushovers).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091759)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:27 AM
Author: ....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:

Yes, its authoritative parenting that works best. Readers can google this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091065)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 9:47 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

you have to force them when they hit a difficult hump in learning so they get over the hump because they will otherwise just quit but I agree.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091371)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 6:52 PM
Author: Tufts Law

Egoism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088090)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 7:04 PM
Author: hank_scorpio

Anything other than "fuck libs" is child abuse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088181)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 7:39 PM
Author: histrionic bitchmade lawyerfaggot

I use the approach detailed in this thread: http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2623523&mc=96&forum_id=2#26082249.

So far so good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088377)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Baltimore Orioles (J. Timberlake)

TIGER | MOM | HYMN

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088417)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 7:54 PM
Author: Punctuation Monica

no kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37088483)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:17 PM
Author: GOTTA MOVE FAST

The gospel of JESUS CHRIST is the most important thing in your life.

Respect your mother or face the wrath of G_d.

You will play a sport at least three seasons of the year. At least two of them will be team sports.

Speak your mind.

Ignore morons. You'll know them when you see them (you'll see a lot of them).

Protect your sister at all costs, including physical harm to yourself.

Don't let anybody punk you, ever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089013)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:19 PM
Author: Morning In America (πŸ™ )

I dont know why but exposing a child to religion really bothers me. Must be some semblance of jewish brainwashing still left in me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089022)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:25 PM
Author: GOTTA MOVE FAST

I'm not at all religious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089057)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:47 PM
Author: Great Emperor Trump

Are there a lot of gospels besides "of Jesus Christ"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089758)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 7:37 PM
Author: Hegemon

This is all pretty good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095471)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:19 PM
Author: ptbarnum

I have 4 kids so I am just trying to make sure I don't lose one accidentally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089021)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: nutella

Lol, I have no idea how you do it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089141)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:20 PM
Author: ptbarnum

The answer is negligence, but not gross negligence.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089558)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:54 PM
Author: opportunist

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089332)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:55 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. (πŸ—½MND πŸ—½)

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089338)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:07 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

Fair.

Have you ever lost one? Come on …

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091767)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 1:43 PM
Author: ptbarnum

Never lost one but a non-negligible number of times, I forgot which kid is where and with whom and whether I am picking up the right one from the right place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37092963)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:19 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. (πŸ—½MND πŸ—½)

Do the absolute minimum necessary for the kids to grow up healthy with all limbs attached etc. Pay for college.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089023)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:21 PM
Author: GOTTA MOVE FAST

First sentence is the most Russian thing ever poasted.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089032)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:22 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. (πŸ—½MND πŸ—½)

I'm paying for college you fuckers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089042)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:24 PM
Author: GOTTA MOVE FAST

You'll welsh on it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089054)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:31 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. (πŸ—½MND πŸ—½)

Nah. I suspect my kids will be too lazy and low energy to go to college and have jobs. We'll have to pay for it. Grad school too, tbh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089112)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:29 PM
Author: http://i.imgur.com/GzDww8M.jpg


Tufts is a damn good school

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089642)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:33 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. (πŸ—½MND πŸ—½)

It seems fine. I'm not going to go crazy about the college rank. I want it to be something decent but in the end it's what you do with it, not the degree itself. It's more important that the degree be substantive. I'm not paying for English or poli sci majors. At least, not unless there is a very substantive plan behind it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089668)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:18 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

HInt: if you don't want your kid to major in bullshit, don't tell him he's smart. compliment him when he works hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091841)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 1:47 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. (πŸ—½MND πŸ—½)

I am very committed to telling the truth. It's easy and tends to get the best results. If they are smart (and I expect they will be), I will tell them so but smart isnt enough. Without hard work, smart gets you a bench in the park.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37092999)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 4:03 PM
Author: bud select

So you're not necessarily paying for college

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37094106)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 6:49 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. (πŸ—½MND πŸ—½)

Nah, they'll major in something sensible out of laziness and inertia. You'll see.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095131)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 12:51 AM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

Correct. If they're shitheads they're on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37097623)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:02 AM
Author: Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman

just keep feeding the educational-industrial complex beast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091444)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:02 AM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. (πŸ—½MND πŸ—½)

I kind of figure they will come out sensible and sane all on their own. That's how I got here.

My theory is that kids are logical and rational and their parents and society screw them up. If I just let them learn all they want about the world and think for themselves, I hope they will come to the right conclusions with no major interference from me. Except I won't pay for poli sci or English degrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091743)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:22 PM
Author: deus vult (from Constantinople to the stars)

wgwag

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089037)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:26 PM
Author: Dupa (bloodacre@gmail.com)

to raise socially conscious people who acknowledge and respect that there are many, many genders.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089066)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:33 PM
Author: ;;;;.....;...;.............;;..;.;.;


You cannot spoil a child with love or gifts. However, if you are not a firm parent, keep to your word, rise to meet their challenges, and be their PARENT, you spoil your children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089139)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:35 PM
Author: Insane right-wing gun nut

Smothering my daughter with affection so she don’t seek it out elsewhere. Teach my son that being a man usually means choosing the more difficult path.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089162)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:04 AM
Author: End Road Work

Number one might not lead to a slut but seems like a recipe for a princessy whiny cunt if she grows up believing this is how men should treat her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37090569)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 9:07 AM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (You Have the Plague)

What is the cr approach

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091153)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:18 AM
Author: End Road Work

Lol who the fuck knows.

No judgment in this thread but I'm with Leo Lenin. Everything you do will damage them in the opposite way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091508)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 4:04 PM
Author: bud select

That is in fact how I want men to treat my daughter. You can take a pass if you're not interested.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37094109)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 4:11 PM
Author: End Road Work

Thanks but I'm good. The point is most guys will have a taste and then take a pass cuz they're not interested in dealing with her bitchy neediness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37094146)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 6:36 PM
Author: bud select

You think showering your children with love makes them needy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095045)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 9:22 AM
Author: Boomer Parable

I think you can’t treat one kid like a princess and be rough with the other one - they will notice that and it will cause them both problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091238)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:25 AM
Author: Insane right-wing gun nut

I agree. I should have spent more time ion this or not commented.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091540)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:41 PM
Author: IronMonkey

Consistency. They need to know that you mean what you say, and no amount of whining is going to get you to drop it out of convenience. Say things that you care about in a manner that conveys importance. Don't say "hey remember not to draw on the walls" in passing and then fail to follow up on whether they actually stopped doing it.

Let them know that your standards (your family's standards) might not be the same as standards applied to others. I think it's perfectly fine/healthy for them to see other kids acting up and being little shits and just wonder "what the fuck is that kid doing?"



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089217)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:51 PM
Author: opportunist



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089305)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:51 PM
Author: opportunist

do so much fucking better than mine

- kid will not miss opportunities they've earned access to

- kid will not question if they are loved or worthy of love

- kid will have clear expectations set for them - not many, but a few important ones

- kid will experience consistent rules and developmentally appropriate household responsibilities commensurate with age

- kid will get to be a kid

- kid will not ever feel like it has to take care of me until I'm old and grey and even then I'll have my shit so organized it won't be too involved

- kid will not live in a place where TV is king

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089302)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 9:56 PM
Author: The Lawman on the Sybian



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089346)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:41 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

but if your parents were so SPS, how'd you turn out more than okay?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37120887)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: opportunist

how do you know I'm okay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37120915)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:49 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

you are a future north shore mommy, just don't leave little brayden behind home alone in winnetka for xmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37120962)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:58 PM
Author: opportunist

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121058)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:46 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

you should also give kid an opposite-gender (any of the 47 on facebook) sibling.

also be careful about #2. Not all other kids will love your kid (for example, many urban youfs are lost causes). Make kid evaluate friend-enemy distinction with a gimlet eye

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37120937)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:24 PM
Author: Morbidly Obese Sex Robot

Go play in traffic and don't bother me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089602)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:09 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

well they'll go to another room and chill out if you've already spent like three hours w them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091780)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:24 PM
Author: Dr. Ford

Crazy pills

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089606)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:29 PM
Author: http://i.imgur.com/GzDww8M.jpg


Let them play with dynamite. God favors the strong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089648)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:30 PM
Author: Verne lundquist

http://mwkworks.com/desiderata.html

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089655)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: xo kav (colt)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089940)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:35 PM
Author: and when i started to squeeze the bar brother (http://youtu.be/sqLsqHctThU)

Rejecting all of the retarded GC and Boomer tropes my idiot parents raised me on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089680)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:48 AM
Author: In re: Favor House Atlantic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37092095)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 4:06 PM
Author: bud select

(guy playing with his iphone with his right hand while cradling his child over his left shoulder.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37094122)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 10:52 PM
Author: Great Emperor Trump

Lol at the sociopathy raging itt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089796)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 11:15 PM
Author: jag

ITT: kidhavers tripping over themselves to give parenting advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089913)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 11:18 PM
Author: xo kav (colt)

In this subthread: jag

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089924)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 11:20 PM
Author: jag

these threads are the worst. like threads where people are asked to list their favorite movies. thread baloons to 100 posts and no one reads any post but their own

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089935)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:15 AM
Author: boner police?

some of us provided good insights itt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37090594)



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Date: October 24th, 2018 11:22 PM
Author: Sotomayor McCheese

wherever whatever children I've fathered are, hope their mothers are raising them well and commit to meeting and potentially feeding them if they ever show up at my door.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37089949)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:06 AM
Author: End Road Work

Now what about your wife's children

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37090574)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:03 AM
Author: ....;..;.:.;.;...;.;;:

Heh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37090995)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 7:59 AM
Author: fiasco (Hayden van Persie tp)

1. Be involved in the kid's life.

2. Patiently answer every single question they ask.

3. Expose them to a lot of different activities.

4. Let them decide which activities to gravitate to.

5. Give them the means to pursue those activities. Do not push them past the point of not enjoying the activity. But also be firm in not allowing them to quit when they face adversity or briefly lose interest.

6. Teach them to respect all people. You don't have to like everyone and you don't have to be friends with everyone, but you have to respect everyone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37090984)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:26 AM
Author: End Road Work

Re #2 I nearly missed my flight because some new age bitch was explaining to her son why they had to check the bag and this went on for like 15 minutes until he was completely satisfied.

Some of these responses have pernicious externalities that cause the kids to be narcissistic and self obsorbed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091061)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 7:39 PM
Author: Hegemon

This is all pretty good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095477)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 7:59 AM
Author: Bart O'Kavanaugh (not that crazy)

Slide and let do. Die of alcoholism while they are in middle school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37090985)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:18 AM
Author: H.R. Puffendorf

No need for a philosphy. It's pretty obvious that you have to set rules and enforce them and don't reward whining.

Other than that, I just stress the importance of working hard and praise them when they do. I try to tell them all the traditional morals (Ten Commandments, boy who cried wolf, etc.)

Perhaps most importantly limit TV to 2 movies a week. No ipads.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091039)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 9:56 AM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (You Have the Plague)

this is probably closest to what we try to do but LJL at calling it a "philosophy"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091403)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 9:01 AM
Author: .,,,.,.,,...,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,....:..,:.::,.


raise them to be conservative and be confident that they're genetically superior to just about everyone else.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091131)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 9:38 AM
Author: boner police?

Hope they end up as good looking as their parents

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091329)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 9:46 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

chums, let me tell you something:

Most people are shitty parents. Most people out and about are doing all sorts of messed up scarring crap, just not loving enough and openly, just not listening, not encouraging, using force when they need understanding, through neglect and indifference occluding all the passageways that need to stay open for the child to be receptive to needed advice later on.

If you had to take an extensive battery of tests and meetings w social workers and such to get a license to procreate, and the bar were set at a level sure to raise healthy, well-rounded kids who grow up to be gentlemen, most current kid havers would fail. Nearly half of the stuff ITT right now is dead wrong, like DEAD WRONG. Think about this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091361)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:30 AM
Author: The Lawman on the Sybian

i'm listening. what are your thoughts on child rearing best practices? which half of ITT is wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091582)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

okay --look, just read up on authoritative parenting techniques. Then go from there.

remember kids get fucked up If you downplay their own feelings--remember they are little scientists in every aspect of their behavior--when we say "testing boundaries" they are literally being scientific in figuring out what works.

Also practice reflective listening w them rather than horning in on what they SHOULD do. If you do that all the time when they are little they will come to you for help w the big problems too later on.

Read brain books when they are babies. Talk to them all the time--non stop prattling when they are even tiny little babies. Just talk about what is around them--like some sort of idiot. "see the big flower its green, green and white and there's a big car--the doors make a noise when they close"--kids have to hear a bunch of words by the time they are 4 in order to maximize brain growth. Talk talk talk. every minute you are with them you shoud be talking. Start reading when they are tiny little babies. Do the same thing over and over--same books--as a man, speak in a soothing deep voice--you want them to feel safe. They need to FEEL SAFE to explore shit. No screen time AT ALL the first couple years.

If you have a tiny little baby now like uh incelot, and you don't know what to do w him, just talk all the time talk talk talk about any kind of nonsense. tlak about whats around you what you see whats what--play w shapes and blocks and just jabber like a retard. it's all good for them.

Google reflective listening and google authoritative parenting. I know retards on here wont bother to investigate anything ive just said but look into those items.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091632)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:50 AM
Author: The Lawman on the Sybian

ty. i agree that children have rich emotional lives and do best when they feel safe and understood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091695)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:51 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

teach emotional regulation early on too.

"Smell the rose, blow out the candle 5 times when you are so mad you can't stand it!"

LEt them have their own downtime after some intense activity. They like it and learn to regulate their feelings by doing so.

Make sure they are outside running around a bit every single day you can. nowadays you basically have to do PLAYDATES--kids don't bicycle to other kids houses any more and most young parents are too retarded to realize that they are externalizing daycare costs by letting their kid go to a SAHM house every single damn day--so these things have to be organized a bit by the parents. And most parents are in fact assholes who rarely reciprocate but it doesn't matter--the focus is on socializing YOUR kid even though other young parents will gladly drop their kid off at your house but wont ever offer to reciprocate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091698)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:52 AM
Author: fumblerooski

this sounds like spaceporn. Are you spaceporn?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091705)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:54 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

spaceporn doesn't poast here any more.

But didn't SP have to read a bunch of books and undergo months and months of testing and training and meeting w social workers etc before he could be a parent?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091712)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:57 AM
Author: fumblerooski

okay so this is spaceporn's pumo.

You get high around your kid all the time. Why the fuck are you dolling out advice?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091721)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:06 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

this isn't spaceporn --he doesn't poast here.

I agree w you--Spaceporn shouldn't smoke weed while his kid is in the house, even if its in a different part of the house.

Also, it seems as though SP's kid is doing great on all fronts. he's a bit babyish still but that's because his mom babies him when SP's not around--but SP breaks that stuff up by spending his entire Saturday out and about w him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091763)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:10 AM
Author: fumblerooski

You are so fucking stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091788)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:15 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

Rude! I don't care whether you pay attention to what I'm saying or not man. But there's a right way and a wrong way to raise kids. Do the wrong way, and youll have a kid who calls smart people who know vastly more than they do on a wealth of topics "so fucking stupid" online.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091818)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:24 AM
Author: fumblerooski

literally everyone here knows this is you, spaceporn. Stop giving your shitty advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091881)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:28 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

whats shitty about the advice? be specific. and I assume you wont make the cognitive error of associating the person with the advice.

A bold assumption for xo in its current incarnation I know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091907)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:34 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

I will await an apology from you for being so rude to me when I am providing some of The Best Advice ITW on this subject.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091965)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:44 AM
Author: fumblerooski

Shouldn't you be trying to stop that pumo from raping your kid?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37092068)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:53 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

and try not to say NO all the time when they are little kids. My mom would say NO! every third word growing up. Only say NO if safety is legitimately an issue. I mean you can move them around and stuff just don't have the word NO coming out of your mouth all the time when they are tiny little babies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091707)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:00 PM
Author: H.R. Puffendorf

All of your advice is effeminate and dumb and you're overthinking this stuff. And you also hilariously are convinced you are right.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093093)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 9:39 PM
Author: Great Emperor Trump

(dummy)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121703)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:00 AM
Author: No way jose

I REFUSE to compliment kid unless he worked hard to do something. I firmly believe that my parents fucked me up by always praising my supposed innate abilities rather than hard work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091427)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:03 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

You compliment when you see something positive. Like, "Hey, I really like how you took that risk at the talent show--that was really cool that you just stood up and said you'd do it."

You also compliment for hard work performed. All the time. You DO NOT compliment for "being smart". You do not teach them they are better than others. Why on earth would you teach them this. If you teach them this you wont be able to dislodge them from your house when it comes time to get an entry level job, for one thing. Also, they'll be jerks who talk about their mansion when they play w other kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091450)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:20 AM
Author: Wilbur Mercer, the supreme gentleman

okay but I assume you think it would also lead to some negative behaviors?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091519)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:31 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

what would?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091589)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:01 AM
Author: Talk to Your Kids About Niggers

Talk to your kids about niggers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091433)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:08 AM
Author: jag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091472)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:21 AM
Author: .,,,.,.,,...,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,....:..,:.::,.


three knuckles on left hand + don't swing like a ballerina = I don't pay for college (at least for girls)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091525)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:22 AM
Author: libcrusher180 (😎)

fuck libs 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091531)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:36 AM
Author: Royall Jenkins

My first priority is instilling in my children an indelible confidence in their immediate family while also appreciating that we are all fallible.

Confidence in themselves to be able to do almost anything they set their minds to with sufficient preparation and commitment.

I try to foster true empathy in them without self-defeating deference to other's SPS ideas. I have had good success using their pet dog and their care for the dog to achieve this (e.g., how do you think the dog feels when he asks to be let out so he can do what he knows we want him to do, but you ignore him?). I also point out that just because they are empathizing with the dog, they shouldn't assume licking their own ass is a good idea.

We make sure they get up no later than a predetermined time every morning, with no exceptions, and immediately do a chore they don't necessarily want to do, such as making their bed, picking up toys, etc.

To sum it up, I am trying to foster their understanding that their and their family's well-being is paramount and their achieving this desired well-being takes real, often monotonous, effort on their part, but not being an asshole to others while pursuing their own self interest.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091623)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:42 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

yeah the dog thing is good. they are quick to get this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091658)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:46 AM
Author: End Road Work

Explain waking kids up early to do some chore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091682)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 10:52 AM
Author: ..,..,.,..,.,..,.,...,.

kids can be dicks about this. like, "NOOOOOW I'MMMM A SNAAAAAIIILLLL" and shit like that when they need to get moving and your stressed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091702)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:13 AM
Author: Royall Jenkins

Both my wife and I are prone to debilitating procrastination, and we both had parents that were soft on this behavioral issue. I am hoping that by structuring the kids' day-to-day lives in a way that it always begins by doing a boring a chore of some sort, it helps prevent their dopamine receptors from becoming blown the fuck out and doing boring shit is not a painful experience.

I am also a big fan of structuring their lives in a way so that desired behaviors are a natural consequence of their lifestyle. Making them get up at the same time every day and immediately be active is a huge help with getting them to go to sleep.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091802)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 11:34 AM
Author: End Road Work

Idk seems like this strategy would backfire bigly, at least the way you're presenting it. I imagine they'll soon consider that you're waking them up for some trivial bullshit that could wait until they were ready.

I get the lesson but not the interference with sleep.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37091970)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 12:02 PM
Author: Royall Jenkins

It's not like I'm running drill sergeant shtick from Full Metal Jacket and waking them up at random times in the middle of the night. As for waking them up at the same time everyday, I don't think that is a controversial parenting practice from anyone's perspective.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37092203)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 12:26 PM
Author: nutella

Btw, you people realize “parenting” matters a lot less than you think in life outcomes right? So much of it is already ingrained by virtue of genetics and personality. Parenting wasn’t even a verb until the last 15-20 years. Current generation of young adults and 20-somethings are not any better than older generations. Yes I pay 10x more attention to my kids than my parents did, but it’s because I want to foster good relationships with my children and because I want to give them a happy childhood. There’s only so much you can do to influence their outcomes though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37092379)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 12:41 PM
Author: fumblerooski

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4450758-dr-spock-on-parenting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37092487)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 1:46 PM
Author: ptbarnum

Yeah each of my kids has fairly different personalities and it was noticeable at an early age (and haven't really changed since then).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37092989)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 3:52 PM
Author: nutella

you’re doing it right by having more kids. There are a lot of books, like “all joy, no fun” and “the self driven child” which talks about how parenting has evolved over the decades and how kids and their parents these days are more anxious, depressed and insecure than ever. This is the result of helicopter parenting, social media, and the pressure to devote more and more attention and resources into each child. As a result, educated people have fewer kids which is not what society needs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37094012)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 1:53 PM
Author: .,,,.,.,,...,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,....:..,:.::,.


whatever you have to say to justify you only seeing them for 45 minutes a day. ovsiouly whatever you do is the perfect thing to do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093043)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:01 PM
Author: fumblerooski

Yes, parenting is a completely made up concept that was only invented 15 years ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093095)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:52 PM
Author: chilmata (Big Dawg)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37120995)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 4:07 PM
Author: nutella

I spend 4-5 hours/day on the weekdays and all day on weekends with my kids. My job has super flexible hours. We read books, do crafts, and go outside and play. Minimal screen time. Not sure where you get 45 min/day from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37094126)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 1:56 PM
Author: ,.,.,.,..,.,.,:,,:,..,:::,.,,.,:.,,.:.,:.,:.::,.


Sounds like bullshit. Why are there so many strippers with daddy issues?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093069)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:02 PM
Author: David Morse

probably makes a difference in their life outcomes having a happy childhood, which you want to give them

it also helps to direct their personalities within a certain social habitus. you can have an outgoing kid who runs around pissing people off like he's raised by wolves or you can have an outgoing kid who has manners and social skills

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093101)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:03 PM
Author: boner police?

this is just you justifying your decision to procreate with some white nerd and drink wine

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093110)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:05 PM
Author: H.R. Puffendorf

And evidently the everyone gets a trophy generation is coming up with even more conculated ways to mess their kids up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093116)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:05 PM
Author: Morning In America (πŸ™ )

Lol coming from the woman who admitted to hating her gook child

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093124)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:56 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

lmao if she thinks her nutelliot rodgers isn't gonna pick up on that.

helpful reminder: adam lanza (or w/e idiot did sandy hook) shot his mom FIRST.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121039)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 4:20 PM
Author: Thunder Collins



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37094210)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:55 PM
Author: Dupa (bloodacre@gmail.com)

my thought has always kind of been parents can certainly do a lot of damage to their kids but don't really have the same potential to affect them positively.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121035)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:08 PM
Author: literal Marxist calling you a literal Nazi

don't currently have kids but do want them someday

I feel like I need to develop an overall "philosophy" before then. As of now, I only really have some specific planned tactics such as:

- read to them every night from the day they're born. Obviously it's true that IQ is genetic, but being an early and avid reader is a yuuuuuge leg up in the long run over kids whose parents just hand them an iPad.

- on that note, very limited tech use until their teens. No smartphone until maybe 11-12.

- frank discussion of sex at an appropriate age, striking a balance between not shaming the act but giving healthy warnings/advice

- hard curfew until HS. not sure what time, something reasonable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093140)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:10 PM
Author: David Morse

my mom forcememed reading hard for us but i was the only one out of three who really ran with it. it made a massive difference to me though, maybe the most important single factor in my development

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093153)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 2:12 PM
Author: literal Marxist calling you a literal Nazi

cr

again, obviously parental impact is inherently limited, but this seems like a no-brainer to me. So many parents these days seem to start turning their kids into braindead Netflix drones from like age 2 instead of encouraging reading. They should be HAPPY to read

Chronicles of Narnia blew my fucking mind as a child. Even intelligent comics like Calvin & Hobbes are good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37093170)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 7:22 PM
Author: Hegemon

1. Never discipline in anger. There's no single thing I can think of that caused more resentment or contempt towards my parents from me and my siblings than when one was out of control and unable to be reasoned with.

2. Always discipline consistently, and don't tolerate disrespect. Inconsistency breeds contempt. Compel respect for authority figures, and the need for order.

3. Always be willing and able to explain what is expected of them and the reasons for it. When challenged, draw a distinction between disrespect and legitimate questions.

4. Always treat them as much like adults as possible; while there are some things that they can't understand the complexities of until they're older, most things can be simplified to a level that they can understand, even from a very young age.

5. Don't tolerate cowardice. Explain to them that while fear is normal, it's also something that should be overcome. (E.g. If they're afraid of heights, expose them to heights from a young age and push them to get over it.) Similarly, teach them to get over pain and minor injury quickly by letting them play outside and not babying them when they get cuts and scrapes.

6. Teach them to read and to do math as soon as possible. I was reading by two, thanks wholly to my mother's diligence in teaching me as soon as I knew my alphabet. I regard this as the best thing my parents ever did for me. This teaches them to love books, makes learning easier, and opens up an entire world to them much sooner. It really allows them to begin self-development.

7. Regularly play and hang out with them, from birth through adulthood. Every single father-child relationship I have ever seen that I consider successful has ended with a close friendship, particularly during middle/high school. This is, by far, the most effective way to guide children during adolescence; punishments and rewards don't work, but genuine mutual affection allows you to influence their decisions more than anything else will.

8. Teach them to work hard at things. This is a lesson I never learned; virtually everything came very easily for me and I learned to coast, which made learning to work hard difficult when it became necessary. There is little that is more fulfilling than hard work rewarded by accomplishment, and the sooner they learn that, the happier and better their lives will be.

9. Mandate lots of physical activity. Sports, lifting, and running will all be mandatory for both boys and girls. This is valuable for teaching several things, and also teaches them to enjoy exercise, which is an excellent habit.

10. Teach them to follow Christianity. Teach them the reasoning behind an intelligent faith - make them read Aquinas, MacIntyre, Plantinga, & co. in high school, and push them to reason through theology on their own.

11. Provide as many opportunities as possible for them to pursue their interests - music lessons, sports, academic competitions, etc. will all be a priority.

12. Model a strong marriage for them; the primary shaping influence of what is "normal" in a home and in a marriage is the parental example. During high school and college, have frank discussions with them about relationships and marriage.

13. No video games. Give a frank explanation of the neurological problems that video games create. Similarly, no internet until they need it for school, and minimal TV exposure.

14. Teach them to value family.

i think that's most of it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095367)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 7:40 PM
Author: theology is great (β›ͺ)

Congrats ur not a garbage poster

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095485)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:57 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

1 10 6 3 4 14 are YUGE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121046)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 7:38 PM
Author: theology is great (β›ͺ)

Hylomorphism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095472)



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Date: October 25th, 2018 8:19 PM
Author: ~~(>' ' )>

As if I'd ever be in a position to need one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37095737)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: ~~(>' ' )>

https://files.catbox.moe/mml5it.jpg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37097363)



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Date: October 26th, 2018 12:48 AM
Author: luis

when moon son

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37097610)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:57 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

89437562948376982473823423

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121048)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:14 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

shouldn't this be "im gay" though???

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121122)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:58 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

As far as the education of children is concerned I think they should be taught not the little virtues but the great ones. Not thrift but generosity and an indifference to money; not caution but courage and a contempt for danger; not shrewdness but frankness and a love of truth; not tact but love for one’s neighbor and self-denial; not a desire for success but a desire to be and to know.

Usually we do just the opposite; we rush to teach them a respect for the little virtues, on which we build our whole system of education. In doing this we are choosing the easiest way, because the little virtues do not involve any actual dangers; indeed they provide shelter from Fortune’s blows. We do not bother to teach the great virtues, though we love them and want our children to have them. But we nourish the hope that they will spontaneously appear in their consciousness someday in the future. We think of them as being part of our instinctive nature, while the others, the little virtues, seem to be the result of reflection and calculation and so we think that they absolutely must be taught. . . .

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121054)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 7:59 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

We usually give a quite unwarranted importance to our children’s scholastic performance. And this is nothing but a respect for the little virtue “success.” It should be enough for us that they do not lag too far behind the others, that they do not fail their exams. But we are not content with this; we want success from them; we want them to satisfy our pride.

It is not true that they have a duty to do well at school for our sake and to give the best of their skills to studying. Once we have started them in their lessons, their duty is simply to go forward. If they wish to spend the best of their skills on things outside school — collecting Coleoptera [beetles] or learning Turkish — that is their business and we have no right to reproach them, or to show that our pride has been hurt or that we feel dissatisfied with them. If at the moment the best of their skills do not seem to be applied to anything, then we do not have the right to shout at them very much in that case either; who knows, perhaps what seems laziness to us is really a kind of daydreaming and thoughtfulness that will bear fruit tomorrow. If it seems they are wasting the best of their energies and skills lying on the sofa reading ridiculous novels or charging around a football pitch, then again we cannot know whether this is really a waste of energy and skill or whether tomorrow this too will bear fruit in some way that we have not yet suspected. Because there are an infinite number of possibilities open to the spirit. But we, the parents, must not let ourselves be seized by a terror of failure.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121061)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:00 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

What we must remember above all in the education of our children is that their love of life should never weaken. This love can take different forms, and sometimes a listless, solitary, bashful child is not lacking in a love of life. He is not overwhelmed by a fear of life; he is simply in a state of expectancy, intent on preparing himself for his vocation. And what is a human being’s vocation but the highest expression of his love of life? And so we must wait, next to him, while his vocation awakens and takes shape.

A vocation, an ardent and exclusive passion for something in which there is no prospect of money, the consciousness of being able to do something better than others, and being able to love this thing more than anything else — this is the only, the unique way in which a . . . child can completely escape being conditioned by money, so that he is free of its claims; so that he . . . will not even be conscious of what clothes he is wearing, or of the clothes around him, and tomorrow he will be equal to any privation because the one hunger and thirst within him will be his own passion which will have devoured everything futile and provisional and divested him of every habit learned in childhood, and which alone will rule his spirit. A vocation is man’s one true wealth and salvation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121065)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 10:07 PM
Author: anglican lawyer (πŸ”™πŸŒŒ)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121908)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:05 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

sexual conquest/social hypergamy

loyalty to family

skepticism towards The System

cui bono?/Ubi est mea? (edit: Cohen benefits, but the micks and the hicks are worse)

GNON / does it fly? physical reality >>>>> lefty ideology at school

don't start a bar fight, but never lose one

reading is fundamental

don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121087)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:07 PM
Author: anglican lawyer (πŸ”™πŸŒŒ)

one and three will be used to critique 2, 8 will be the exit mechanic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121097)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:12 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

yeah 8 is a joke. 2 makes sense to ME because 2 informs 3 in the fundamental text of my personal moral bildung, The Godfather the novel

do you think admitting fallibility and foibles as a father is shitlibby and weak? "don't fucking do X, I did X and now I'm a POS wagecuck, I want better for you, etc."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121117)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:39 PM
Author: anglican lawyer (πŸ”™πŸŒŒ)

nah, not in the slightest. teaching your kid about the inevitability of failure is a necessity, even better if there are personal anecdotes HE (allah willing) can learn from

my parents never did that and i spent a large portion of my adolescence as an acid spitting fire breathing little fascist Damien

you don't want that; your son will team up with your wife to castrate you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121310)



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Date: October 30th, 2018 12:00 AM
Author: Hegemon

Absolutely not. It's perfectly fine, particularly within the context of good parenting - if you're not just a general fuckup, it's not going to ruin your credibility. If you are, then you're fucked whether or not you admit/discuss it (and so are your kids).

You should be able to command respect in other areas. I think it's much harder to command respect when you're physically weak or unable to reason with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37122710)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:08 PM
Author: opportunist

I would like to read each of these lines as the title of a chapter in a novella

go

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121103)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:10 PM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

contrary to popular belief, I am not, in fact, schizohipster aznfaggit author Tao Lin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121111)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 11:54 PM
Author: Hegemon

Heat is 180^180, but the moral to draw from it is that the titular quote shouldn't be construed to include family, just stuff/jobs. The whole point of the movie - which happens to be my favorite - is that McCauley and Chris both find emptiness without family, while Hanna keeps needing one to be happy - why else would he have three (going on four) divorces - but can't manage to wean himself from the job he loves more, in order to make the family work. EDIT: Hadn't read your above poast that this one is a joke before writing this.

1 is corrosive and will destroy 2, while also encouraging a hedonistic bent; a better revision would contextualize that within marriage. I think sexual dominance/stereotypically "alpha" behavior have their place within (and strengthen) a marriage.

The rest are excellent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37122669)



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Date: October 30th, 2018 12:59 AM
Author: Det. Mike Hunt, Beaver Falls, PA Police Dept. (πŸ…)

McCauley would’ve gotten away if he had stuck by his gf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37123076)



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Date: October 30th, 2018 2:29 AM
Author: Hegemon

Yes. He should've taken it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37123313)



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Date: October 30th, 2018 2:32 AM
Author: anglican lawyer (πŸ”™πŸŒŒ)

cr, though i wouldn't even call it "alpha" necessarily

just make sure that he knows what "masculine" means within the context of a christian marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37123317)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 8:10 PM
Author: ARE Reptile

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1lFUswrf6yA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121113)



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Date: October 29th, 2018 9:48 PM
Author: nyuug (Spaceporn = CUCKED for LIFE. I NEVER forget!)

ITT: the results of xoxoers having kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37121763)



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Date: October 30th, 2018 12:59 AM
Author: thots & prayers

husband of an attachment parent

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37123078)



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Date: November 9th, 2018 1:07 PM
Author: twins

Have a bunch of kids with a woman I love.

Try to spend time with them both doing fun things but also teaching them about virtue, practical wisdom, and how to get on in the world.

Put hard limits on stuff like screen time and other addictive behaviors.

Encourage and allow them to take risks by toiling away and being generous -- but also letting them feel the sting of failure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4114268&forum_id=2#37197964)