Has any guy ever actually successfully overcome Madonna-whore complex?
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Date: November 13th, 2018 11:32 AM Author: multi-colored hall
By landscape reminded once of his mother's figure
The mountain heights he remembers get bigger and bigger:
With the finest of mapping pens he fondly traces
All the family names on the familiar places.
In a green pasture straying, he walks by still waters;
Surely a swan he seems to earth's unwise daughters,
Bending a beautiful head, worshipping not lying,
"Dear" the dear beak in the dear concha crying.
Under the trees the summer bands were playing;
"Dear boy, be brave as these roots," he heard them saying:
Carries the good news gladly to a world in danger,
Is ready to argue, he smiles, with any stranger.
And yet this prophet, homing the day is ended,
Receives odd welcome from the country he so defended:
The band roars "Coward, Coward," in his human fever,
The giantess shuffles nearer, cries "Deceiver".
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Date: November 13th, 2018 11:34 AM Author: Ungodly Drab Heaven
No dude
This is wanting raunchy kinky as fuck sex with some absolute slore that will completely debase herself for you
Meanwhile inwardly being completely fucking disgusted at your wife/mother of your children if she's willing to gape her asshole for you with a dildo while you fuck her
You want an angel for a wife that will raise your children properly
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Date: November 13th, 2018 11:39 AM Author: clear boyish center sneaky criminal
Maybe it's me, but I've never had this problem with a LTR in the context of her doing those things to me.
It's not like her making me feel good would make her any less of a good wife or mother in my eyes. If anything it would make it better since she was attuned to my needs in the family as well.
In my mind that issue would only arise in the context of others (either before the marriage, or during the marriage say if we involved other people in the bedroom).
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131895&forum_id=2#37223250) |
Date: November 13th, 2018 12:22 PM Author: apoplectic lascivious mood dilemma
And if we can find a way to "solve" madonna/whore complex in men, can we also apply this "solution" to the corresponding provider-protector/Chad complex in women?
Stay tuned for the next episode of Great Breakthroughs By The Internet Intelligentsia
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Date: January 31st, 2019 8:56 PM Author: Electric fantasy-prone tanning salon son of senegal
In a way, I have - but it's not what you think. I think the phenomenon originates from one not sufficiently prioritizing lustful desire from their prospective partner. Most likely an unwittingly committed oversight, this unconscious dismissal of sexual desire allows the individual to begin cultivating the love narrative where there is limited physical desire.
It might be said that it is easier to develop love where there is desire than to foster desire where there is love for we can more readily obtain, and encourage, that type of platonic and familial love, than we can find deep and raw sexual attraction where there is little to none on the surface. Indeed, that surface attraction - that erection you get just from noticing the well proportioned lower-half of her body in too tight jeans, cannot actually be cultivated.
Too many men, hoodwinked by society and their family to believe that their partner must fit some arbitrary set of parameters (well-educated at the right schools, of a particular family and community, interested in consuming the same types of films, reading the same books, etc.,) miss the point completely. That is not where true love comes from. It comes from the bottom up, so to speak. It actually starts from lust and not the other way around.
If you couldn't resist the temptation to masturbate to the thought of your wife when you first met - you are almost certainly with the wrong person. There is nothing wrong with her and nothing wrong with you - not the least of which is some ill-contrived "disorder" about finding love and lust mutually exclusive - there is something wrong about your chemistry together.
The Madonna-Whore Complex speaks to something legitimate, however: that men make the mistake of pursuing women who they do not actually find sexually attractive. Pretty and attractive even, sure. But they make excuses, and tell themselves lies without even realizing it, about what it is they actually desire and why they can't have it, or why the women they do desire do not make for suitable mates. The truth is, you cannot start from acceptability. You must start from that irrational need to explode inside a woman and take it from there because that is the only thing from which real sustainable romantic love can spring forth. It is why you possess this biological impulse to want to fuck these women in the first place - it's a starting point for everything meaningful in life (partnership, children, family, etc.,) whose significance you have most likely ignored for most of your life. You are thinking about it all wrong.
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Date: January 31st, 2019 10:29 PM Author: apoplectic lascivious mood dilemma
thanks for the effortpost, but what you're describing isn't the same thing as madonna-whore complex. you're just describing dudes marrying/having serious relationships with women they aren't sexually attracted to. which i agree is a big problem for men too, but it's not the same problem
madonna-whore complex is the cognitive dissonance between desiring a woman as a strictly sexual object, and loving and respecting her as a full person and companion. a man can (and usually does) start with both of these simultaneous feelings for a woman, but over time we gravitate toward one end of the continuum or the other because the cognitive dissonance of these contradictory feelings is too difficult to bear. it's what ends up sabotaging most healthy relationships
the only dudes i've ever met who "solved" this conundrum turn out to be lying about still being sexually enamored by their wife or gf, or are sociopaths who don't actually love and care about their wife/gf to begin with and so they don't have the cognitive dissonance issue
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4131895&forum_id=2#37701402) |
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