Disappearance of fem posters shows that brunt of household duties lies w women
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Date: November 21st, 2018 7:40 AM Author: Heady Nursing Home
Before most of us were 30 there were plenty of fem posters, around a dozen regs at a time.
But now most people have married and procreated.
My xoxo sisters have no time for leisurely pursuits such as xoxo because they are spending all their time caring for babby, taking care of their lame ass husbands, cooking, cleaning the house and so forth.
OTOH male posters appear to have plenty of time to squander on xoxo; their ranks have not thinned at all.
Why do xo men spend their nights and weekends on a fucking message board rather than with their kids, or perhaps helping out their wives around the house?
Sad.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37275642) |
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Date: November 21st, 2018 9:00 AM Author: Heady Nursing Home
Female posters who have left between 2010 and 2018:
honey Ryder
CAC
Lisa Rowe
Lonely hunter
Tina
Dr. Troy
Shivering Jenny
Ruskin
BEL
Julia
29
433
adidas wuss
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37275844)
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Date: November 21st, 2018 9:29 AM Author: Green sex offender
honey Ryder - she got married?
CAC - posting ITT
Lisa Rowe - had nothing to do with marriage/kids
Lonely hunter - lol, ran off after massive board drama. Was single after a very public divorce where she abandoned her husband to live a SATC lifestyle. Marriage/kids definitely wasn't the culprit here.
Tina - Who?
Dr. Troy - I don't recall her saying anything about marriage/kids. I think she left around the time of the lolsuit.
Shivering Jenny - Fair. She stayed in biglaw, iirc, and had kids. I have no idea how she has time to go to the bathroom, let alone posts.
Ruskin - Ruskin was female?
BEL - lol, you're joking, right?
Julia - pretty sure kids wasn't why she left because she posted a bunch after having a kid.
29 - she left after someone kept reposting pics of hers.
433 - don't remember why she left.
adidas wuss - don't remember who she is.
I can add more female posters that have left too. But similarly, I don't think I can point to marriage/kids as the primary culprit. I can also point to 100 male posters that left.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37275987) |
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Date: November 21st, 2018 10:22 AM Author: splenetic hot institution
Lisa Rowe is either dead or in jail
29 left because she went on an insane weeks-long manic megapoasting/shitmodding spree that blew up in her square-jawed face
Ruskie? Bel? lmao yeah i'm sure they're barefoot in the kitchen totally devoted to a husband who loves them and a brood of rugrats
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37276238) |
Date: November 21st, 2018 9:02 AM Author: Titillating Masturbator
You are much busier after children. Not marriage. It's not housework IMO. It's childhaving.
And after having children there are so many more places on the internet relevant to your interests. More competition for your internet time.
I have to juggle urbanbaby xoxo mother.ly geoexpat baby. It's a lot.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37275854) |
Date: November 21st, 2018 9:06 AM Author: Mint whorehouse azn
I only poast after babby goes down and if my chores are complete
I’m also back now bc husband works weird shifts sometimes, and I don’t care much for TV
ty for this thread, sister
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37275873) |
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Date: November 21st, 2018 9:55 AM Author: Green sex offender
"I'm 34."
Right, so like I said - we're not much older.
"I'll prob have kids before 40."
Saying this as a single female, not engaged, no house or other preparations for kids, etc. is preposterous. It has taken us this long in part because it has taken years to get all the pieces into place (despite us getting married very young). Now we have 2 solid careers and salaries, a nice, big house, and a general game plan for how to handle kids. You're not even at step 1. Yes, I get that you could get knocked up by a guy off of tinder, of course. Not exactly a recipe for success though.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37276134) |
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Date: November 21st, 2018 10:13 AM Author: Green sex offender
Obviously, we're not massively pro-kids, the sort of people who view having kids as central to our life goals or we would have had them a long time ago. That said, this is also how long it took for us to unfuck ourselves post-ITE and get all the pieces into place. Of course, we could have kids at any time. It is a rational choice not to.
"Whereas I could get married and have kids shortly thereafter."
LOL, oh ok. You don't have a great job, you don't have money in the bank, don't have a house, don't have a man you're planning to marry, are already mid-30s but sure, it is nbd and you could get it done in like a few months or however long it takes...
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37276207) |
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Date: November 21st, 2018 12:07 PM Author: Green sex offender
And if you, like "most women", lived in Iowa or whatever then that might be fine. But you don't, and around where you live $75k is peanuts.
"There was a thread recently asking guys whether they'd rather a wife who made 35k or one who made 350k. 30k won out by far."
Mostly with single males not seriously dating voting for $30k (based on assumptions that the $30k wife will be SUPER DUPER GRATEFUL), and married men overwhelmingly voting for $350k.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37276989) |
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Date: November 21st, 2018 1:08 PM Author: Mint whorehouse azn
me too re: leaving
how are things with new babby? anything you’re surprised about this time? major differences between 1 and 2 coming through yet?
I enjoy reading your xo contributions - you have command of subjects I do not and you def bolster valued content
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37277383) |
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Date: November 21st, 2018 4:39 PM Author: dashing geriatric bawdyhouse sandwich
Objectively more difficult with 2 kids, but mentally less difficult having gone through it once and being calmer now. No idea how the kids are different (other than my daughter has started sleeping through the night on her own at 2.5 months, and it took my son about 8 months before we night weaned).
My son has a very outgoing personality and is very inquisitive and I’ll be curious to see how my daughter is. I feel guilty sometimes that he still gets all the attention and I frequently just plop her in the bouncer.
I should quit xoxo because this place is quite depressing and the content is toxic whereas I’m generally being more hopeful and positive after having children.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37278724) |
Date: November 21st, 2018 11:43 AM Author: out-of-control bateful jew theater stage
NO PICS PWNED
ljl at women being smart enough to enjoy all-text sites like XO. The women we had, like Box, aced their SATs. How many of those are there?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37276804) |
Date: November 21st, 2018 12:46 PM Author: poppy church building
"Women are too busy doing housework to play around on the internet!!!"
*logs onto Urbanbaby to complain about husband*
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37277283) |
Date: November 21st, 2018 4:43 PM Author: Big Chad Elastic Band
they love it that way.
division of labor
Vive la Différence
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37278755) |
Date: November 23rd, 2018 3:04 PM Author: Excitant Dun Senate Quadroon
This is probably true. There are two camps of families that I've seen IRL. The first is the husband making decent money and wife SAHMs and does all of the household chores. The second is where both work full time and the wife still does all of the household chores.
The only way to escape this is to outsource the labor (hire a maid, etc.) and/or don't GAF about cleaning/cooking, etc. and you can both eat Taco Bell for dinner.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4138889&forum_id=2#37288225) |
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