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is it creepy to message an app girl that ghosted you to ask if you saw her IRL?

Super hot app chick that was messaging with me a lot last we...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
BEEP BEEP BEEP
***AUTISM ALERT***
  03/28/19
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american space force
  03/28/19
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boltzmann penis
  03/28/19
dude, i consider you to actually be fairly socially savvy, b...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
I think I'm pretty good socially too, but I'm not thinking s...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
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dirte
  03/28/19
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Sir Incelot
  03/28/19
Do it, what could go wrong haha.
gecko
  03/28/19
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90s david duke
  03/28/19
it's a lost cause but you have nothing to lose either
Maori woman performing defiant haka
  03/28/19
that would be creepy. creepier, but worth it if it works,...
MoreDoughHi
  03/28/19
should have approached her irl edit: if she seriously wor...
John Jacob Jingleheimer Schtick
  03/28/19
Should have slammed your hand on the table and yelped like K...
Boichester United
  03/28/19
Looked just like her but I wasn't sure
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
might as well, who cares youre never gonna see her again ...
GOY SUPERSTAR
  03/28/19
She will 90% find this creepy, but you have nothing to lose.
Jim_Kelly
  03/28/19
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
of course its creepy -- to her. But honestly what do you car...
Sticky, and still cleaning up the mess!
  03/28/19
“messaging...a lot” I think we found your pro...
..,,,.....,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,..,,.,,...,,..,,
  03/28/19
I was trying to string it along because I was out of town Th...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
Don't do this. Move on.
""""'''""'
  03/28/19
It would be taken as creepy, but you've got nothing to lose....
cannon
  03/28/19
heroically saving her from a burning building is considered ...
christian pulisic
  03/28/19
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..,,,.....,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,..,,.,,...,,..,,
  03/28/19
"PLS RESPOND" Lol? She's not opposing counsel.
,,,....,
  03/28/19
not my exact words. more of a "how was your weekend&quo...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
I got ghosted only once in in Russia. This chick asked me be...
............. ....................................
  03/28/19
even peasants have cars in Russia
..,,,.....,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,..,,.,,...,,..,,
  03/28/19
My gf says that it wouldn't be creepy and that she'd be flat...
Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle
  03/28/19
Your GF sounds stupid. What is there to be flattered about i...
""""'''""'
  03/28/19
Someone caring enough to notice her in public & being co...
Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle
  03/28/19
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
Confidence would've been him approaching her IRL. Sending h...
""""'''""'
  03/28/19
I feel like I might be invading her safe space if I disclose...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
There is literally no way you would have known where she wor...
Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle
  03/28/19
just have lunch there every day until you run into her again...
'''''''''''"'
  03/28/19
lol it was pretty good too. pizza joint
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
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donny (retired)
  03/28/19
post her pics
'''''''''''"'
  03/28/19
just do it. as others have said, its creepy and likely wont ...
Bacon, the Cocker Spaniel
  03/28/19
yes its creepy. Instead go talk to her IRL if you see her a...
Jim Damiano
  03/28/19
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""""'''""'
  03/28/19
yeah but I'll never see her again IRL I don't approach ra...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
yea we need to see her pics
'''''''''''"'
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
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'''''''''''"'
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donny (retired)
  03/28/19
Why you asking us? See what the Chads at GameFAQs recommend
Woah Cr friend!
  03/28/19
Better not. I've got them really riled up right now.
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
lol
donny (retired)
  03/28/19
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A Jurisprudence is Performed
  03/29/19
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my dog has more potential mates than i do
  03/29/19
This never works unless you tell her that you know where she...
Nicholas Van Orton
  03/28/19
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
"think I need to have my eyes examined haha!"
Naked in his Chinkle Chankle
  03/28/19
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
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So we looked at the data
  03/28/19
Alright, I'm going to embarrass the fuck out of myself to al...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
say something cheesy about her being even more stunning in p...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
our prior conversations were her telling me about all of the...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
maybe claim that the pizza place you saw her at was pretty g...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
hey saw you at antico today. this weekend you wanna pizza di...
Jim_Kelly
  03/28/19
lol
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
lol come on he might actually send that if you don't disclai...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
This is funny. Depending on the girl, may be better than op'...
drunken donuts
  03/28/19
carve both of your names into one of those pizza paddles on ...
niggardly jigger
  03/28/19
highly credited.
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
Do it, please post, creat content for us bro, godspeed
Allen Akbar
  03/28/19
this will probably result in zero content, because she proba...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
i was hoping you were really fat and ugly after getting ghos...
sealclubber
  03/28/19
"Next time you're at ____ grab me a slice"
GAS GAS GAS
  03/28/19
underappreciated itt is how fucked up the dating market must...
boltzmann penis
  03/28/19
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
...
Woah Cr friend!
  03/28/19
wait why is that fucked up? the alternative is shrews, and x...
drunken donuts
  03/28/19
just do find some cute smart girl doing tfa, convince her no...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
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cannon
  03/28/19
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donny (retired)
  03/28/19
Average optometrist assistant with sub 30 age and bmi thinks...
GAS GAS GAS
  03/28/19
Cr move is to ask a question like "What'd you go with f...
''''"''"""'
  03/28/19
Not creepy as long as make sure to mention that you noticed ...
GAS GAS GAS
  03/28/19
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ESL TM..,..;;.
  03/28/19
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
Had another pretty good match today on hinge. Seems like a ...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
you're set to rock and roll with dat one too.
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
Sent the message. Here goes probably nothing
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
what did you say? let's see/hear the sonnet.
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
Almost exactly what I wrote today, but I put her name in the...
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
did you do the "haha" to show how "random&quo...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
...
christian pulisic
  03/28/19
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'""''""'
  03/29/19
A no dignity hail mary should have been at least clever or i...
End Road Work
  03/28/19
you never know for certain until you see.
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
That text was 100% creepy and also dull and weak "I did...
End Road Work
  03/28/19
oh i basically agree on all that. just saying, odder things...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/28/19
I fully acknowledge this. This is not going to work
michael doodikoff
  03/28/19
ty
Don Kihote
  03/28/19
ITT: massive levels of assburgers
nyuug
  03/28/19
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libcrusher180
  03/29/19
(self deporting gook incel)
'''''''''''"'
  03/29/19
UPDATE: She responded "Haha yes!"
michael doodikoff
  03/29/19
haha
GOY SUPERSTAR
  03/29/19
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SomeOtherGhost
  03/29/19
lmao.
boltzmann penis
  03/29/19
perfect response. you're done
sealclubber
  03/29/19
I know. Do I continue down this path of utter humiliation or...
michael doodikoff
  03/29/19
just cut to the chase and get her # and ask her out and show...
'''''''''''"'
  03/29/19
...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/29/19
you tried, you failed, she let you keep your dignity this ti...
sealclubber
  03/29/19
"wasn't sure it was you, guess those are some old pictu...
'''''''''''"'
  03/29/19
This is op's only chance of salvaging this humiliation
GAS GAS GAS
  03/29/19
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cannon
  03/29/19
"so umm maybe wanna have sex?"
SomeOtherGhost
  03/29/19
"Haha awesome! Let's meet for a drink so I can put a vo...
'""''""'
  03/29/19
Oh god jfc
Heteronormative, Cisgendered Bro
  03/29/19
ROFL.
""""'''""'
  03/29/19
Your reply after 12-36 hrs: "lol small world. Their ___...
""""'''""'
  03/29/19
(Expert in getting ghosted)
GAS GAS GAS
  03/29/19
Yea bro, straight up insulting a chick that could've ghosted...
""""'''""'
  03/29/19
different women respond differently to different things. ne...
SomeOtherGhost
  03/29/19
Seriously laughing at your clueless message 🤣
GAS GAS GAS
  03/29/19
don't do this
'""''""'
  03/29/19
Just heard a gong noise
Woah Cr friend!
  03/29/19
Follow up with the lick msg
,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,..,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.
  03/29/19
thread of the year candidate right here, folks
..,,,.....,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,..,,.,,...,,..,,
  03/29/19
the answer to any question starting with "is it creepy ...
christian pulisic
  03/29/19
update?
The Buzz Aldrin Spacelaw Fellowship
  04/15/19
He was arrested for attempted rape
hung stud
  04/15/19
I let this one slip away. No follow up other than described ...
michael doodikoff
  04/15/19
The lick message won't work here because she's clearly prett...
hung stud
  04/15/19


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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:10 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Super hot app chick that was messaging with me a lot last week abruptly stopped messaging me on Friday. I sent her a last ditch "PLS RESPOND" type message on Sunday but got no response. This happens quite a bit but this one particularly hurt because she was so hot.

I generally never message girls again if they don't respond to two consecutive messages from me.

Anyway I went to lunch at a new place today, a girl walked in to get takeout that I swore was her. I knew from our messaging that she is some sort of assistant at an optometrist office, and there was a big optometrist office right across the street when I left the restaurant. I looked up the website for that optometrist office, and there she was on the staff list.

Would it be overly creepy if I messaged her a third time like "hey hope you are doing well. Was that you that I saw at [restaurant] today haha?"

I was certain I was going to do this after lunch but now I'm not so sure, might be creepy. I need xoxo here, my mind isn't thinking straight about this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005840)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:18 PM
Author: ***AUTISM ALERT***

BEEP BEEP BEEP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006216)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:59 PM
Author: american space force (sellcuck)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006746)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:33 PM
Author: boltzmann penis



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006955)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:14 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

dude, i consider you to actually be fairly socially savvy, but yea that's a creeper move. still might pay off. (persistence is often considered creepy, but sometimes it pays in pussy.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005856)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:15 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

I think I'm pretty good socially too, but I'm not thinking straight here and I acknowledge this fact.

After a bunch of reflection I think its creepy too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005867)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:42 PM
Author: dirte



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006043)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:43 PM
Author: Sir Incelot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006054)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:14 PM
Author: gecko

Do it, what could go wrong haha.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005858)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:13 PM
Author: 90s david duke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006181)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:14 PM
Author: Maori woman performing defiant haka

it's a lost cause but you have nothing to lose either

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005859)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:15 PM
Author: MoreDoughHi

that would be creepy.

creepier, but worth it if it works, just go into the place say "hey" kiss her cheek and walk out. nothing more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005862)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:15 PM
Author: John Jacob Jingleheimer Schtick (fratty)

should have approached her irl

edit: if she seriously works across the street from you just approach her next time she's grabbing lunch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005864)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:17 PM
Author: Boichester United

Should have slammed your hand on the table and yelped like Kramer trying to get Joe Dimaggio's attention at Dinky Donuts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005877)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:17 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Looked just like her but I wasn't sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005878)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:15 PM
Author: GOY SUPERSTAR

might as well, who cares youre never gonna see her again

add a "you're really hot btw" comment too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005865)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:16 PM
Author: Jim_Kelly

She will 90% find this creepy, but you have nothing to lose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005871)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:19 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005894)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:16 PM
Author: Sticky, and still cleaning up the mess!

of course its creepy -- to her. But honestly what do you care about her impression of you, given she's already rejected you.

It's a hail mary, but the game is already lost, so wtf, go for it.

Worst case, she shudders and rejects you again; youve lost nothing.

(multiple messages is stalking)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005873)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:16 PM
Author: ..,,,.....,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,..,,.,,...,,..,, (Pederastrian)


“messaging...a lot”

I think we found your problem

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005876)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:18 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

I was trying to string it along because I was out of town Thurs-Sun last week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005892)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:17 PM
Author: """"'''""'


Don't do this. Move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005880)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:19 PM
Author: cannon

It would be taken as creepy, but you've got nothing to lose.

That being said, you would feel worse about it if you sent that and she still never responds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005896)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:21 PM
Author: christian pulisic

heroically saving her from a burning building is considered creepy if you're 5'9

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005904)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:22 PM
Author: ..,,,.....,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,..,,.,,...,,..,, (Pederastrian)




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005907)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:23 PM
Author: ,,,....,

"PLS RESPOND"

Lol? She's not opposing counsel.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005915)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:24 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

not my exact words. more of a "how was your weekend" type of text.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005921)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:24 PM
Author: ............. ....................................


I got ghosted only once in in Russia. This chick asked me before a planned dinner date "in the rare event that I might have to stay at work a little later(and that's a Sunday) would you drive over here to pick me up", I said "no I'm on foot, I can wait". She then ghosted me and I blocked her. She clearly was setting me up to be some sugar daddy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005916)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:42 PM
Author: ..,,,.....,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,..,,.,,...,,..,, (Pederastrian)


even peasants have cars in Russia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006044)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:29 PM
Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle

My gf says that it wouldn't be creepy and that she'd be flattered

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005954)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:30 PM
Author: """"'''""'


Your GF sounds stupid. What is there to be flattered about in this situation?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005958)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:40 PM
Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle

Someone caring enough to notice her in public & being confident enough to say it. Now, if she knew about this thread, she'd be creeped the fuck out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006030)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:41 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006034)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:43 PM
Author: """"'''""'


Confidence would've been him approaching her IRL. Sending her a second text along the lines of: "PLZ RESPOND, oh by the way I'm pretty sure I saw you at XYZ, was that you?" is creepy as fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006052)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:34 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

I feel like I might be invading her safe space if I disclose that I was eating lunch right across the street from her office where she presumably works. She seemed like she was very friendly with the people ringing up her takeout lunch as well.

Maybe if I saw her somewhere else, but I was literally 50 feet away from her office. Unknowingly.

Plus all the usual ramifications to my self esteem by messaging a girl multiple times with no response.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38005992)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:39 PM
Author: Taylor Swift is not a hobby she is a lifestyle

There is literally no way you would have known where she works

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006023)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:41 PM
Author: '''''''''''"'

just have lunch there every day until you run into her again, this romcom writes itself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006039)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:42 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

lol

it was pretty good too. pizza joint

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006046)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:16 PM
Author: donny (retired) (donny)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007933)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:40 PM
Author: '''''''''''"'

post her pics

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006027)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:46 PM
Author: Bacon, the Cocker Spaniel (Zurich is Stained)

just do it. as others have said, its creepy and likely wont work, but who gives a fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006072)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:46 PM
Author: Jim Damiano (earl)

yes its creepy. Instead go talk to her IRL if you see her and pretend to have no idea its the girl you are messaging.

That might win you some boldness points if it is her, to counter your beta behavior sending 6 gorillian texts last weekend.

If its not her then you are good anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006073)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 4:46 PM
Author: """"'''""'




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006075)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:00 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

yeah but I'll never see her again IRL

I don't approach random girls at lunch either. Call me beta, but I just don't do it.

FYI I only sent her two messages that she didn't respond to, not 6 gorillian.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006124)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:12 PM
Author: '''''''''''"'

yea we need to see her pics

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006175)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:26 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006287)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:34 PM
Author: '''''''''''"'



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006603)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:16 PM
Author: donny (retired) (donny)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007934)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:15 PM
Author: Woah Cr friend!

Why you asking us? See what the Chads at GameFAQs recommend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006196)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:20 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Better not. I've got them really riled up right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006241)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:26 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006286)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:16 PM
Author: donny (retired) (donny)

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007937)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:42 AM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (AJiP)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009541)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 6:30 PM
Author: my dog has more potential mates than i do



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38012156)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 5:35 PM
Author: Nicholas Van Orton

This never works unless you tell her that you know where she works AND where she lives. You are almost guaranteed to get a response if you can also describe a room in her home where she was sitting when you saw her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006332)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:39 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006627)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:37 PM
Author: Naked in his Chinkle Chankle

"think I need to have my eyes examined haha!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006621)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:39 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006629)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:39 PM
Author: So we looked at the data



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006630)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:44 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Alright, I'm going to embarrass the fuck out of myself to all of you, but please review and revise the following draft of my note to app girl, THank. (taking suggestions)

I know this is random, but were you at ______ today? I was eating there and saw a girl come in that looked just like you, but left before I could get up to say anything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006655)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:46 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

say something cheesy about her being even more stunning in person. i'd also start by using a line or two that's truly continuous with your prior communications.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006658)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:48 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

our prior conversations were her telling me about all of the restaurants that she liked, and her asking me about my favorite restaurants, which I already responded to, and her telling me about her family. I figure skipping all of that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006664)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:51 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

maybe claim that the pizza place you saw her at was pretty good, if not one of your favorites. i think it's worth being a little less "random" and you won't seem like more of a creeper (a little less actually).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006686)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:33 PM
Author: michael doodikoff



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006953)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:47 PM
Author: Jim_Kelly

hey saw you at antico today. this weekend you wanna pizza dis guy haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006661)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:48 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006665)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:48 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

lol come on he might actually send that if you don't disclaim serious

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006669)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:41 PM
Author: drunken donuts

This is funny. Depending on the girl, may be better than op's suggestion.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007009)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 9:01 PM
Author: niggardly jigger

carve both of your names into one of those pizza paddles on the wall and send her a photo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007467)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 9:05 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

highly credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007494)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:50 PM
Author: Allen Akbar

Do it, please post, creat content for us bro, godspeed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006678)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 6:55 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

this will probably result in zero content, because she probably won't respond and will likely magically disappear from my matches list

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006722)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:41 PM
Author: sealclubber

i was hoping you were really fat and ugly after getting ghosted, but i actually saw you today at ___ when i was getting lunch and now i feel even worse. damn the app gods! :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007010)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:30 PM
Author: GAS GAS GAS

"Next time you're at ____ grab me a slice"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008017)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:38 PM
Author: boltzmann penis

underappreciated itt is how fucked up the dating market must be if a cool guy like doodikoff can be so casually pwned by a fucking optometrist’s office assistant. what a world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38006989)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:42 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007013)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:43 PM
Author: Woah Cr friend!



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007018)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:44 PM
Author: drunken donuts

wait why is that fucked up? the alternative is shrews, and xo hates shrews.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007024)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 7:46 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

just do find some cute smart girl doing tfa, convince her not to go to law school, fuck her, win etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007035)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 9:52 PM
Author: cannon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007802)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:17 PM
Author: donny (retired) (donny)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007939)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:35 PM
Author: GAS GAS GAS

Average optometrist assistant with sub 30 age and bmi thinks she DESERVES to jet set around with a 6'4, hung, jacked, billionaire instagram celebrity. I truly can't imagine more than 10% of millennials getting married and having a marriage that lasts more than a decade given how blown out their minds are

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008050)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:11 PM
Author: ''''"''"""'


Cr move is to ask a question like "What'd you go with for lunch today at _____....Chicken Parm or salad?"

She'll respond and say "how'd you know?!!" If you have any game, you might be able to salvage the situation

But in the event she still doesn't respond, just wait a few weeks and hit her with dat lick measage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007906)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:24 PM
Author: GAS GAS GAS

Not creepy as long as make sure to mention that you noticed the optometrist office and remember she worked at one so you looked her up on their staff list haha. So how are you doing?? ;)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007978)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:25 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007982)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:25 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38007985)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:28 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Had another pretty good match today on hinge. Seems like a good girl. I knew her entire educational resume, job title and work address, and home address before she sent me her second message.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008003)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 10:29 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

you're set to rock and roll with dat one too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008010)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:01 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Sent the message. Here goes probably nothing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008161)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:05 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

what did you say? let's see/hear the sonnet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008171)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:08 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Almost exactly what I wrote today, but I put her name in the beginning and put the restaurant name and location.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008179)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:09 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

did you do the "haha" to show how "random" and jovial and funny it all is?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008182)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:13 PM
Author: christian pulisic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008193)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:07 AM
Author: '""''""'




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009649)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:12 PM
Author: End Road Work

A no dignity hail mary should have been at least clever or interesting.

"hey I'm stalking you pls respond" is not going to work in your favor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008188)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:13 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

you never know for certain until you see.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008195)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:21 PM
Author: End Road Work

That text was 100% creepy and also dull and weak "I didn't have the courage to talk to you

The lick message would have worked better.

"saw you today at anticos and wanted to rip off your panties and lick you for hours. I know it was you. Call me"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008231)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:25 PM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

oh i basically agree on all that. just saying, odder things have happened in life than op's face in that girl's crotch, even given most recent wonderful textual volley.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008255)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:19 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

I fully acknowledge this. This is not going to work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008220)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:14 PM
Author: Don Kihote

ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008196)



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Date: March 28th, 2019 11:13 PM
Author: nyuug (Pop BOTTLES. Pop MODELS.)

ITT: massive levels of assburgers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38008191)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:50 AM
Author: libcrusher180 (😎)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009570)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:05 AM
Author: '''''''''''"'

(self deporting gook incel)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009641)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:48 AM
Author: michael doodikoff

UPDATE: She responded "Haha yes!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009559)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:50 AM
Author: GOY SUPERSTAR

haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009565)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:51 AM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009582)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 10:51 AM
Author: boltzmann penis

lmao.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009579)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:03 AM
Author: sealclubber

perfect response.

you're done

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009630)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:06 AM
Author: michael doodikoff

I know. Do I continue down this path of utter humiliation or hang it up?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009644)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:09 AM
Author: '''''''''''"'

just cut to the chase and get her # and ask her out and show us fucking pictures.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009662)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:14 AM
Author: SomeOtherGhost



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009696)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:12 AM
Author: sealclubber

you tried, you failed, she let you keep your dignity this time

you might not get so lucky if you keep trying. i'd forget about her.

mr doodikoff, we received a complaint from a jenny smith...



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009690)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:06 AM
Author: '''''''''''"'

"wasn't sure it was you, guess those are some old pictures ;)" the NEG

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009645)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:09 AM
Author: GAS GAS GAS

This is op's only chance of salvaging this humiliation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009659)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:12 AM
Author: cannon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009686)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:07 AM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

"so umm maybe wanna have sex?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009652)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:09 AM
Author: '""''""'


"Haha awesome! Let's meet for a drink so I can put a voice to a face ;)"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009660)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:09 AM
Author: Heteronormative, Cisgendered Bro

Oh god jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009669)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:11 AM
Author: """"'''""'


ROFL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009683)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:15 AM
Author: """"'''""'


Your reply after 12-36 hrs: "lol small world. Their _________ (whatever food you ate) was pretty good, you should try it."



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009705)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:16 AM
Author: GAS GAS GAS

(Expert in getting ghosted)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009711)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:17 AM
Author: """"'''""'


Yea bro, straight up insulting a chick that could've ghosted on him is a surefire way to get her to respond.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009719)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:20 AM
Author: SomeOtherGhost

different women respond differently to different things. negs are usually pretty good, but "joking" about women looking old usually isn't a good place to go (they're justifiably pretty sensitive about that)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009735)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:23 AM
Author: GAS GAS GAS

Seriously laughing at your clueless message 🤣

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009749)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 11:18 AM
Author: '""''""'


don't do this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38009723)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 1:21 PM
Author: Woah Cr friend!

Just heard a gong noise

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38010379)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 2:27 PM
Author: ,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,..,..,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.


Follow up with the lick msg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38010734)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 1:05 PM
Author: ..,,,.....,,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,,,..,,.,,...,,..,, (Pederastrian)


thread of the year candidate right here, folks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38010271)



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Date: March 29th, 2019 1:30 PM
Author: christian pulisic

the answer to any question starting with "is it creepy if i" is always yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38010448)



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Date: April 15th, 2019 8:29 PM
Author: The Buzz Aldrin Spacelaw Fellowship

update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38094322)



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Date: April 15th, 2019 8:34 PM
Author: hung stud

He was arrested for attempted rape

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38094335)



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Date: April 15th, 2019 8:36 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

I let this one slip away. No follow up other than described ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38094343)



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Date: April 15th, 2019 8:36 PM
Author: hung stud

The lick message won't work here because she's clearly pretty cautious. You may need to pair it with the offer of a cell phone pre-dialed to 911

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4231056&forum_id=2#38094341)