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Muscadine wine, give us an update on the improvements in your home life

I saw in the other thread that things have improved (not the...
Hazarding a Bort
  06/06/19
TWIST: His situation improved because she spontaneously comb...
Guy Debord
  06/06/19
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Hazarding a Bort
  06/06/19
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Hazarding a Bort
  06/06/19
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Woah Cr friend!
  06/06/19
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ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/06/19
I think he said in another thread that his wife mellowed out...
....,;:.,.,;,...,.,.,,.,.,..,,,.,.,;:...,;:;:...:;
  06/06/19
There was a whole lot of drama still going on after she had ...
Hazarding a Bort
  06/06/19
If my superior memory serves me correctly, she was still a c...
lawman8
  06/06/19
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Hazarding a Bort
  06/06/19
Apparently they still rarely have sex.
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/06/19
Well, maybe they'll try for a third.
ddr
  06/06/19
maybe he still uses an old flip phone?
Toro XII
  06/06/19
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21st century schizoid lawyer
  06/06/19
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A Jurisprudence is Performed
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ESL TM..,..;;.
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Jim_Kelly
  06/06/19
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Toro XII
  06/06/19
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Maori woman performing defiant haka
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Judas Jones
  06/12/19
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longwangpoontang
  06/12/19
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Hazarding a Bort
  06/06/19
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Hazarding a Bort
  06/12/19
There isn't much to say about it, my Wife just has stopped b...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
You maed it bro
Emotionally + Physically Abusive Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
Not sure if there's a way to say this without being a dick, ...
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
Yes. If she commits adultery, she's totally barred from any...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
The whole "goes off to do things by herself and her gir...
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
I've considered this. The girls that she goes with are no...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Yeah, but as someone who was in a sexless relationship, it's...
Jim_Kelly
  06/12/19
"These same women may be overtly sexual in the beginnin...
Hazarding a Bort
  06/12/19
I’m working with a sample size of one, but mine sounds...
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TBF, it doesn't sound like there has been much of a change. ...
Hazarding a Bort
  06/12/19
CDBR.
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  06/12/19
>> These same women may be overtly sexual in the begin...
Toro XII
  06/12/19
For every chick who is actually ok with never having sex wit...
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  06/12/19
A lot of these dead bedroom girls have guys they genuinely w...
Toro XII
  06/12/19
Yes, credited and in line with my Darwinism theory above. T...
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  06/12/19
all 100% cr and thank god i didnt end up marrying that
don't run xo po process servers see ur moniker
  06/12/19
Theoretically u could spend six months in jail here for adul...
pepito
  06/12/19
Most importantly, you've conducted yourself in a "manne...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
It sounds like you broke the cycle of insanity by learning t...
Hazarding a Bort
  06/12/19
I agree with every word of this.
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
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Sir Incelot
  06/12/19
Shes waiting until the kids all turn 18 then shell take the ...
pepito
  06/12/19
Nah she’ll want to have the option to snag a higher st...
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"fucking your wife for the 436th time" LMAO if you...
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ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
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So u let her go get fucked by other men on your dime and th...
pepito
  06/12/19
I don't think she's doing that. If she did, I can leave and...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
So she enjoys trips but not taking cock?
pepito
  06/12/19
Yea, that seems to be the deal.
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
After you've been married for enough years this no longer se...
histrionic bitchmade lawyerfaggot
  06/12/19
Do you still do heroin?
chilmata
  06/12/19
Never once.
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Damn, I could have swore I saw a post from you a couple year...
chilmata
  06/12/19
But, you haven't regularly engaged in any sort of activity a...
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
Never once.
chilmata
  06/12/19
LOL, out of all the male posters through the ages, I think M...
Hazarding a Bort
  06/12/19
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pepito
  06/12/19
I think I may be even less likely. I've never even tried we...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
lmao
leolenin
  06/12/19
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21st century schizoid lawyer
  06/12/19
do you think she would get MAF if you cheated given her unwi...
leolenin
  06/12/19
calm down you're engaged now
Jim_Kelly
  06/12/19
I'm guessing she would get MAF to the extent she would view ...
Hazarding a Bort
  06/12/19
tcr. She obviously dgaf about MW.
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
She sounds awful.
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
"Awful" would be a generous label for her.
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
I have thought a lot about that. Rationally, it makes sense...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
"However, in reality, she would be crushed and devastat...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
Not really, it's just someone who can lie to themselves effe...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Yeah good point that’s totally sane.
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ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
Did you think saying that to her would not be hurtful? Inste...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
Uh, he wasn't nearly hurtful enough IMO. But then again, I ...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
you're also an aspie who doesn't know how to talk to people,...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
Hey, I'm not the one in a laughably horrible, sexless marria...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
Uh, so? You also know nothing about relating to people, main...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
I know that his wife is awful and that he now only has the d...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
Lol. Coach him up, hoss. How does a good beta provider resp...
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ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
Or like a normal human? No, I am not happy because sex is ve...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
(well-adjusted grownup)
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
I have attempted this, and it doesn't work. She shuts this ...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Sounds like a improvement, but have you considered that mayb...
nutella
  06/12/19
otoh, maybe he'd spend 3 days doing that shit if she bent ov...
Toro XII
  06/12/19
Chicken or the egg problem. Spending time with your spouse ...
nutella
  06/12/19
yes, except her concession costs no money and takes 5-10 min...
Toro XII
  06/12/19
His wife is mentally ill and prob also no sex drive from cli...
nutella
  06/12/19
Oh what a sacrifice! If she doesn’t want to do it, she...
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
You ignored the part where she is mentally ill and unstable ...
nutella
  06/12/19
lmao it's not even a sacrifice; it's a trade i bet she's ...
Toro XII
  06/12/19
It’s a sacrifice in her mind because she is incapable ...
nutella
  06/12/19
someone who is incapable of seeing outside herself will just...
Toro XII
  06/12/19
She mocked him once about how little sex she was giving him....
ddr
  06/12/19
Yeah, seriously.
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
Not sure how Muscadine getting pegged helps here. I know th...
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  06/12/19
At this point in my life, I wouldn't care. It seems better ...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
I have, it doesn't work.
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Lol, what does your wife think of this? (I agree by the way...
ddr
  06/12/19
Lol I def think this thread should make him ecstatic about ...
Get Thee To The Rapery
  06/12/19
Not if your wife holds you in contempt.
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
I know she thinks MW’s wife is fucking ridiculous.
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
" Spending time with your spouse is always a good thing...
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
If it isn't, then the marriage is dead.
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
I wouldn't go that far. I mean, some alone time is pretty g...
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
lol at you rationalizing dragging your alchy mick husband to...
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  06/12/19
Lol at that being the solution.
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
...
Judas Jones
  06/12/19
I’m not saying it’s necessarily the solution. I...
nutella
  06/12/19
I’m guessing he’s tried already. What is more l...
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
Nope. That’s normie girl rules. Will make her more c...
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So she's too mentally ill to think "hey let me fuck my ...
Toro XII
  06/12/19
It sounds like she’s the kind of person who is incapab...
nutella
  06/12/19
A few years ago, I threatened divorce if our sexual relation...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
I don't remember, has she tried therapy? Or is TC's wife?
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
No, would not go to therapy, flat refused.
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
What was her reason for refusing? Does she have any friends ...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
She refused because there was nothing wrong and no reason to...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
So in this case, having a stranger to talk to may be better,...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
"Even if she doesn't think it's an issue, does she also...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
To be fair, weird shit puts women in the mood. My wife is w...
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
I think this has to do with minimizing distractions and lett...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
yeah this is a little different than what i was talking abou...
Toro XII
  06/12/19
True.
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
Wait, so he works all the time and comes home to his wife wh...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
The problem with the latter scenario is that you’re fr...
Get Thee To The Rapery
  06/12/19
Based on everything we know about MW's wife, I don't think w...
Hazarding a Bort
  06/12/19
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Hazarding a Bort
  06/12/19
it's his wife. if his dick is still getting hard in the morn...
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At 41 I could still break cinderblocks with my morning wood....
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
I can see why you would think that, but for this to work the...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
"Of interest, she goes to sleep very early every day, 7...
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  06/12/19
No, 7. She sleeps more than any adult I have ever met.
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Depression?
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
I've suggested that she's caught up in a nasty anxiety-depre...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
So in other words, she suspects it is true but doesn't want ...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
why the fuck do you always feel the need to interject in nor...
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  06/12/19
How am I not right? And how is this "normal people stu...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
your a jew so think everyone has some clinical disorder and ...
.,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.
  06/12/19
Nah, I don't mean Jewy "omg, I'm soooo depressed today!...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
Because you recommend, while talking with people like that, ...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
She isn't interested in being nice or resolving his problems...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
Probably. Either way, the original question was: how th...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
You're a better man than I am.
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
You don't know that. You can say how you think you'd react ...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
I can't function like that at all. No, I'm far too selfish ...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
You have also said you would be biglaw partner, never move o...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
"You have also said you would be biglaw partner, never ...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
She may be defensive about it coming from you and might be m...
drunken donuts
  06/12/19
Yeah, she isn't coddled enough! (female poster)
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
holy shit. Is she clinically depressed? LMAO at sleeping 11...
""""'''""'
  06/12/19
do you fuck escorts or side pieces at least?
Maori woman performing defiant haka
  06/12/19
Given the opportunity, I would say no to almost nothing. Ho...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Why aren’t you cheating, MW?
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
He'd rather lie next to his enemy and not rock the boat vs. ...
""""'''""'
  06/12/19
Sex is too important to give up.
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
Flame
leolenin
  06/12/19
Probably credited, but people are flexible and we make all s...
""""'''""'
  06/12/19
(Will die childless)
pepito
  06/12/19
That’s an odd thing to say to me.
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
he'd get skullfucked in divorce and also still gets rub and ...
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  06/12/19
He's said in other threads that he has an outlet but didn't ...
ddr
  06/12/19
I'm making due with what I have. Really, with 2 kids and ...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
just rape your wife some time when the kids are asleep. she...
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  06/12/19
If all else fails, right
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Get snipped and then convince her to try for another kid.
ddr
  06/12/19
raping would be more fun but this is also credited
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"I don't really have time for another woman" Sa...
IronMonkey
  06/12/19
Would you prefer "I'm not taking any efforts to seek ou...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
It’s just amazing how women can get away with being su...
Get Thee's Ex-Husband
  06/12/19
CR. Back in the good days you could beat this behavior out ...
""""'''""'
  06/12/19
yea man, dead bedrooms didn't exist before 1982
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Our laws and culture give no incentive for a woman to be a g...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Great thread. Mgtow 4ever.
BLACK GOY
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Peter Blunt System
  06/12/19
If I got divorced, I would NEVER EVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE...
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
This is marriage #2 for you, right? Was marriage #1 really ...
ESL TM..,..;;.
  06/12/19
This is marriage #1 for me
Muscadine wine
  06/12/19
Literally post of the fucking year man Salt this earth
BLACK GOY
  06/12/19
Is wife southern? Spike her food and drink with molly, roof...
put some respek on my name
  06/12/19
I would if she was 2 decades younger
GOY GUN NUT
  06/12/19
does your wife have abandonment issues? does she impulsi...
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Date: June 6th, 2019 12:50 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort

I saw in the other thread that things have improved (not the first time you have said that).

What changed? Did you change your approach to your wife, or did she spontaneously improve?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349083)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 1:15 PM
Author: Guy Debord

TWIST: His situation improved because she spontaneously combusted.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349236)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 12:55 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349115)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 1:10 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349201)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 1:14 PM
Author: Woah Cr friend!



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349226)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 1:14 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349231)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 1:15 PM
Author: ....,;:.,.,;,...,.,.,,.,.,..,,,.,.,;:...,;:;:...:; (jcm)


I think he said in another thread that his wife mellowed out and is less psycho after having kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349237)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 1:23 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort

There was a whole lot of drama still going on after she had kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349294)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 1:30 PM
Author: lawman8

If my superior memory serves me correctly, she was still a crazy bitch after he had 1 kid. Once he had the 2nd, she got better

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349341)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 2:41 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38349703)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 3:45 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

Apparently they still rarely have sex.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350018)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 3:51 PM
Author: ddr

Well, maybe they'll try for a third.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350039)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 3:51 PM
Author: Toro XII

maybe he still uses an old flip phone?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350045)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 3:52 PM
Author: 21st century schizoid lawyer (a vice media property)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350048)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 3:53 PM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350050)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 3:59 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350093)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 4:03 PM
Author: Jim_Kelly



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350122)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 4:04 PM
Author: Toro XII



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350132)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 4:14 PM
Author: Maori woman performing defiant haka



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350199)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:51 PM
Author: Judas Jones



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378400)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 4:59 PM
Author: longwangpoontang



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379839)



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Date: June 6th, 2019 5:21 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38350594)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:07 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378168)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:13 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

There isn't much to say about it, my Wife just has stopped being so crazy. There's a lot to do with the kids, and it keeps us busy. I've encouraged her to travel with her friends every now and then so she can go do the stuff I hate doing (shopping, expensive dinners, travel, fancy hotels, etc.).

I don't know, things just got easier. Also, when she gets crazy, I just take the kids and clear out for a little while, and when I return it's all good.

It may be a function of just learning how to deal with someone.

We still have almost no sexual relationship, and that is not good, but whatever. I'd prefer to not get fucked than to get fucked with alimony, equitable division, etc. That's never going to change, she just has no sexual desire, and it seems that 3/4 times a year is as much as she wants. I don't know if she doesn't like fucking me or she doesn't like fucking at all, and as far as I'm concerned, it doesn't matter - end result is the same.

About the sex: it's not me. I look great, I'm in shape, my business is killing it and I feel great. Women notice me when I go places, I'm as attractive to the opposite sex as I've ever been. Either she just doesn't like me, for her own reasons, or she is just not capable of a sexual relationship. Again, it doesn't matter what it is, it's not going to change, so talking about it or thinking about it is a waste.

I can live with it though. I focus on my work, keep my drinking in check, and enjoy raising my kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378197)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:16 PM
Author: Emotionally + Physically Abusive Ex-Husband

You maed it bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378207)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:17 PM
Author: IronMonkey

Not sure if there's a way to say this without being a dick, but didn't you say something about your jurisdiction punishing cheating spouses in a divorce context?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378212)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:19 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Yes. If she commits adultery, she's totally barred from any form of alimony.

I don't think she's going to do it. However, if she did, trust me when I say that I'm not going to be crying over it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378221)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:28 PM
Author: IronMonkey

The whole "goes off to do things by herself and her girlfriends" and "not interested in sex [with you]" bit sort of sounds like prototypical XO cuck fodder.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378266)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:32 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I've considered this.

The girls that she goes with are not cheating, or at least I would be very surprised to find that they would. A couple of these girls I've know for 30+ years and they would totally rat my wife out if she did it. The others are such gossips that there are no way that they wouldn't tell their husbands, who would tell me.

I'd be very surprised to find that she's cheating on these trips. But, if she did, and I found out about it (and I probably would), she's fucking outta here and I have my ticket out of this marriage.

Really though, she likes going and is happy, so I don't see the problem.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378292)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:37 PM
Author: Jim_Kelly

Yeah, but as someone who was in a sexless relationship, it's completely believable the way he tells it. It's the most bizarre thing: You're both fairly young, reasonably attractive, people see you and think you're an outwardly happy couple, yet there's an enormous piece missing. Some women have absolutely zero interest in sex, and don't even have interest in pretending for their partner's sake. These same women may be overtly sexual in the beginning of the relationship, and then it just stops one day like turning off a switch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378326)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:39 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort

"These same women may be overtly sexual in the beginning of the relationship, and then it just stops one day like turning off a switch."

I'm convinced this behavior is 100% the product of changes to hormones or neurotransmitters, and it is far more common than most people think.

EDIT: Anyone who has experienced an altered libido from medications (SSRIs destroy my desire for sex, while amphetamines turn me into a sex addict adjacent) can appreciate the huge affect underlying physical processes in the body can have on desire for sex.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378336)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:34 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


I’m working with a sample size of one, but mine sounds so similar to Muscadine’s that I want to count his as two—root cause is untreated and relatively functional but still very serious depression. And part of the problem is that SSRIs will just make it worse, as you said. Bad news for Muscadine is that the odds of this change he’s observed being permanent are probably 100/1 at best. I’ve given this a ton of thought over the last 15 years and I honestly think it’s Darwinism at work. She is hot enough to attract a high status male long enough to procreate but is annoying enough to cause high status male to not want to mate for life thereby making his genes available to other women. We are fighting evolution/god’s plan by staying bc of insane penalties on husbands in divorce that the baby boomers invented.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378577)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:52 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort

TBF, it doesn't sound like there has been much of a change. He is just managing the situation better, which has resulted in a broad reduction in the level of conflict and anxiety in his household.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378659)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:28 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


CDBR.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378550)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:38 PM
Author: Toro XII

>> These same women may be overtly sexual in the beginning of the relationship, and then it just stops one day like turning off a switch. <<

It's because they are using sex to get your attention, not because they like sex.

Once they have all your attention they don't need to have sex anymore. That's one thing the red pill comics get wrong -- it's not always about Chad vs non-Chad per se -- it's that once certain women have Chad A they feel like they don't need to be sexual to get his attention, even if they would be sexual for Chad B to get his (because they'd have to be).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378598)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:40 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


For every chick who is actually ok with never having sex with anyone there are about 1000 chicks who would be ok fucking Chad every night for 20 years but have zero interest in ever fucking one of those red pill Melvins. These dead bedroom bitches don’t go after Chad bc they know they will have to work too hard to get his commitment and he has too many options to be trapped by them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378615)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:48 PM
Author: Toro XII

A lot of these dead bedroom girls have guys they genuinely wanted to fuck at first, it's just that the circumstances have changed and they no longer need to fuck to get what they want.

I'm not saying what you describe never happens, just that what I am describing happens a lot too.

This is why sometimes guys end up with girls who slept around a lot and now have a dead bedroom. The girl was using sex to get attention, including from her now bf/spouse, but once the relationship progresses far enough she no longer needs to give as much sex to keep the attention, and that's triply true if she doesn't like sex to begin with. The person she ended up marrying often isn't the cause of the dead bedroom, but rather the commitment itself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378646)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:58 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


Yes, credited and in line with my Darwinism theory above. That said my made up proportion numbers are unassailable correct.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378699)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:46 PM
Author: don't run xo po process servers see ur moniker

all 100% cr and thank god i didnt end up marrying that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378641)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:30 PM
Author: pepito

Theoretically u could spend six months in jail here for adultry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378276)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:33 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Most importantly, you've conducted yourself in a "manner that is immoral and unlawful" in the context of child custody litigation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378302)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:23 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort

It sounds like you broke the cycle of insanity by learning to accept de facto celibacy and chilling the fuck out. Good for you, bro. Obviously, sex is very important, but in the grand scheme of things, sex (with someone you have fucked countless times before) is not worth destroying the rest of your life.

If you can convincingly maintain an above it all approach to sex, your wife may warm up to fucking more often in a couple years when your kids are a little older. Regardless, who gives a fuck. Fishing >>>>>> fucking your wife for the 436th time. If you ever begin to falter on this point, watch some re-runs of Married with Children. Al had this shit figured out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378240)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:23 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I agree with every word of this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378242)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:47 PM
Author: Sir Incelot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379034)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:32 PM
Author: pepito

Shes waiting until the kids all turn 18 then shell take the cash and house

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378289)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:38 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


Nah she’ll want to have the option to snag a higher status/more productive provider, so he’s in the divorce pwnage zone n+4ish years after they’re done. Basically as soon as the youngest one is able to dress and feed itself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378600)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:46 PM
Author: """"'''""'


"fucking your wife for the 436th time" LMAO if you haven't fucked for the 436th time during the FIRST YEAR of a relationship... lol at you sexless weirdos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378370)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:50 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378398)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:48 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379044)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:27 PM
Author: pepito

So u let her go get fucked by other men on your dime and this is an okay outcome for you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378260)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:27 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I don't think she's doing that. If she did, I can leave and not alimony destroyed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378264)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:31 PM
Author: pepito

So she enjoys trips but not taking cock?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378282)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:32 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Yea, that seems to be the deal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378298)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:28 PM
Author: histrionic bitchmade lawyerfaggot

After you've been married for enough years this no longer seems like a negative outcome. And at least you get the house to yourself for a few days.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378265)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:32 PM
Author: chilmata (Big Dawg)

Do you still do heroin?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378296)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:34 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Never once.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378306)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:34 PM
Author: chilmata (Big Dawg)

Damn, I could have swore I saw a post from you a couple years ago about that. You must have been flaming or my memory is fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378309)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:38 PM
Author: IronMonkey

But, you haven't regularly engaged in any sort of activity associated with memory loss, have you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378333)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:44 PM
Author: chilmata (Big Dawg)

Never once.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378357)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:41 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort

LOL, out of all the male posters through the ages, I think Muscadine Wine may be the least likely to try H.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378343)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:42 PM
Author: pepito



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378345)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:43 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

I think I may be even less likely. I've never even tried weed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378354)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:45 PM
Author: leolenin

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378369)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:03 PM
Author: 21st century schizoid lawyer



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378724)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:40 PM
Author: leolenin

do you think she would get MAF if you cheated given her unwillingness to put out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378338)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:41 PM
Author: Jim_Kelly

calm down you're engaged now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378341)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:43 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort

I'm guessing she would get MAF to the extent she would view such response as increasing her leverage in the relationship/divorce, but her honest reaction would be more amusement than anything else, especially if it was with someone she didn't view as "competition."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378352)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 12:45 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

tcr. She obviously dgaf about MW.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378365)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:11 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

She sounds awful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378476)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:56 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

"Awful" would be a generous label for her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378689)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:55 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I have thought a lot about that. Rationally, it makes sense that I would go get what I need elsewhere so that I don't need to bother her for it. Both of us would be happy.

However, in reality, she would be crushed and devastated. How she deals with her lack of interest in sex is by pretending that there is no problem at all, convincing herself that this is the normal way to do things, and that my desire is unusual or my problem. To give an example, she asked me once if I was happy sexually. I responded that, considering we hadn't had sex in months, she should hope not because that means I was getting it elsewhere. She was really hurt by that statement.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378676)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:59 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

"However, in reality, she would be crushed and devastated. How she deals with her lack of interest in sex is by pretending that there is no problem at all, convincing herself that this is the normal way to do things, and that my desire is unusual or my problem. To give an example, she asked me once if I was happy sexually. I responded that, considering we hadn't had sex in months, she should hope not because that means I was getting it elsewhere. She was really hurt by that statement."

Everything in this paragraph was insane.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378702)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:00 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Not really, it's just someone who can lie to themselves effectively enough to believe it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378712)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:03 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


Yeah good point that’s totally sane.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378726)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:04 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378732)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:01 PM
Author: drunken donuts

Did you think saying that to her would not be hurtful? Instead of being snide, you could have used her question to start a more productive discussion, no?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378716)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:05 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

Uh, he wasn't nearly hurtful enough IMO. But then again, I would have stayed in his married for all of 1 week before throwing her shit to the curb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378742)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:06 PM
Author: drunken donuts

you're also an aspie who doesn't know how to talk to people, so your relationship advice is irrelevant.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378747)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:07 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

Hey, I'm not the one in a laughably horrible, sexless marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378754)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:09 PM
Author: drunken donuts

Uh, so? You also know nothing about relating to people, maintaining relationships with them (just Mandy doesn't count), and resolving conflict amicably.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378777)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:15 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

I know that his wife is awful and that he now only has the duty of a prisoner ("the only duty of a prisoner is to escape.")

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378814)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:06 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


Lol. Coach him up, hoss. How does a good beta provider respond to his nosex wife asking a question like that? “I feel” statements? Does he turn it back on her “well actually I want to know how you think I’m feeling. I’ll tell you l, but I want you to go first.” And then build off her answer, am I right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378748)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:07 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378758)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:11 PM
Author: drunken donuts

Or like a normal human? No, I am not happy because sex is very important to me, and I do not get enough of it in our relationship. I wish we were closer and had sex more often. I am happy your brought it up, because I have wanted to talk to you about this for a while now.

Accusations and butthurt never make communication and issue resolution better, even if they are completely founded. Relationships are not a competition of who can be more hurtful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378785)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:15 PM
Author: IronMonkey

(well-adjusted grownup)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378813)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:22 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I have attempted this, and it doesn't work. She shuts this conversation down because she doesn't want to acknowledge the problem. However, the one time I told it was change or we're through, she just talked her way out of it by saying exactly what she knew I wanted to hear just to get past the day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378856)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:04 PM
Author: nutella

Sounds like a improvement, but have you considered that maybe she’d be more interested in sex if you went and did the stuff you hate instead of encouraging her to go do them with her gfs? It’s not a bad thing to spend time with your wife. Get a sitter and go out to dinner with her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378452)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:08 PM
Author: Toro XII

otoh, maybe he'd spend 3 days doing that shit if she bent over and spent 5 minutes pretending she'd die if he didn't cum in her ass immediately

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378464)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:15 PM
Author: nutella

Chicken or the egg problem. Spending time with your spouse is always a good thing though, sexless marriage or not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378490)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:17 PM
Author: Toro XII

yes, except her concession costs no money and takes 5-10 minutes

his takes hours to days and costs hundreds to thousands.

i mean, if she can't pretend to enthusiastically fuck him for 5-10 mins, how bad does she really want to do that shit with him?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378497)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:19 PM
Author: nutella

His wife is mentally ill and prob also no sex drive from clinical depression/anxiety. Can’t expect her be the one to make such a sacrifice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378507)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:21 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

Oh what a sacrifice! If she doesn’t want to do it, she should let him do it with other chicks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378514)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:22 PM
Author: nutella

You ignored the part where she is mentally ill and unstable so cannot be expected to act rationally and so the normal rules don’t apply.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378519)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:23 PM
Author: Toro XII

lmao it's not even a sacrifice; it's a trade

i bet she's not mentally ill enough to trade for what she wants

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378529)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:28 PM
Author: nutella

It’s a sacrifice in her mind because she is incapable of seeing outside herself. That is abundantly clear in how she treats her kids and husband. It sounds like he’s decided to just stay out of her way and let her go do the things she likes that put her in a good mood. My suggestion is why not try to go do things with her that obviously put her in a good mood and then maybe she will be more open to throwing him a bone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378547)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:29 PM
Author: Toro XII

someone who is incapable of seeing outside herself will just see him as funding things she deserves.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378553)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:37 PM
Author: ddr

She mocked him once about how little sex she was giving him. She knows full well what she is doing and it has nothing to do a lack of nice dinners together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378596)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:42 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

Yeah, seriously.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378627)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:57 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


Not sure how Muscadine getting pegged helps here. I know that’s what you and your husband like to do but the rest of us aren’t weird like you two are. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378693)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:23 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

At this point in my life, I wouldn't care. It seems better than nothing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378860)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:59 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I have, it doesn't work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378705)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:28 PM
Author: ddr

Lol, what does your wife think of this? (I agree by the way)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378551)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 8:02 PM
Author: Get Thee To The Rapery

Lol I def think this thread should make him ecstatic about OUR frequency

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38380593)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:18 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

Not if your wife holds you in contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378502)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:46 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

I know she thinks MW’s wife is fucking ridiculous.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378639)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:20 PM
Author: IronMonkey

" Spending time with your spouse is always a good thing though"

Not sure if this is true in all marriages.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378509)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:12 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

If it isn't, then the marriage is dead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378794)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:23 PM
Author: IronMonkey

I wouldn't go that far. I mean, some alone time is pretty good/healthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378863)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:29 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.


lol at you rationalizing dragging your alchy mick husband to dumbass brunches and birthday parties every weekend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378904)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:11 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

Lol at that being the solution.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378472)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:14 PM
Author: Judas Jones



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378489)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:17 PM
Author: nutella

I’m not saying it’s necessarily the solution. It is more a way to spend time with your spouse though. And maybe she’ll just drink a little too much at dinner and stop being so frigid. Worth trying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378500)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:20 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

I’m guessing he’s tried already. What is more likely to work is him starting to have a close female friend and not cheating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378510)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:47 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


Nope. That’s normie girl rules. Will make her more crazy and assume cheating, again from personal experience. We hired a somewhat attractive paralegal who is eight years younger than wife and she’s texted me after work in a mildly flirty way (really more kissing ass to her boss but that wasn’t how my wife saw it) once or twice, and my wife hates her now but my birthday just passed and the only orgasms I’ve had in the last six weeks were courtesy of my right hand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378645)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:25 PM
Author: Toro XII

So she's too mentally ill to think "hey let me fuck my husband and he'll give me an expensive trip", but not too mentally ill to have a glass of wine at dinner and then fuck him?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378531)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:38 PM
Author: nutella

It sounds like she’s the kind of person who is incapable of seeing the bigger picture and incapable of feeling anything than what she is feeling at that instant. I don’t think she’s capable of understanding “if I do x, I can get y.” All she would think in the moment is “I don’t want to fuck my husband, I hate this.” If you’ve seen his posts about her, she would fly off the handle about completely inane shit and she can’t think outside of whatever situation or moment she is in.

I think the only way he can get sex is if she thinks at that moment she wants to have sex. She’s probably in a good mood. They do it 3-4 times a year so I’d be curious to know the circumstances of how that happens. I don’t think it will ever happen if she doesn’t want it because she is incapable of making such a sacrifice for his benefit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378602)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:06 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

A few years ago, I threatened divorce if our sexual relationship didn't get better. I told her it was torture and that I was beginning to plan for divorce because it is too unbearable. This was about the time I was bad-Wife posting like crazy here.

She went out to dinner, and we discussed what divorce would look like. She laughed, smiled, and said that having sex a few times a month seems a better deal than selling the house, losing access to our money, etc. She even suggested that we go on Amazon and order some sexual position books so that we could learn to do this together, etc.

The next morning we had good sex. She actually kissed me - real kiss with the tongue - which is strange because she hates doing that.

I was content, and she could tell. She was so sweet, told me that we were going to be OK, and that she was happy that I was happy. That was late 2016.

Since then we've had sex maybe 7 times. She never even opened the books and they were recently thrown out when we cleaned the books.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378743)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:08 PM
Author: drunken donuts

I don't remember, has she tried therapy? Or is TC's wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378761)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:09 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

No, would not go to therapy, flat refused.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378769)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:13 PM
Author: drunken donuts

What was her reason for refusing? Does she have any friends who have had a good experience with therapy? Can her friends try to talk to her about it, if she doesn't accept it from you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378804)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:15 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

She refused because there was nothing wrong and no reason to go. She is not close to anyone, and even if she was, she can't admit to herself the issues much less admit it to a friend. She is not close enough to either of her parents to talk to them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378817)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:22 PM
Author: drunken donuts

So in this case, having a stranger to talk to may be better, if she doesn't want to admit her issues to anyone around her. What about asking her to see a couples' therapist to talk about nosex? Even if she doesn't think it's an issue, does she also refuse to recognize that it's an issue for you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378857)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:23 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

"Even if she doesn't think it's an issue, does she also refuse to recognize that it's an issue for you?"

She avoids the issue all together and gives it no thought herself (from what I can tell).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378868)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:33 PM
Author: IronMonkey

To be fair, weird shit puts women in the mood. My wife is way hornier when the house is clean, but if I told her "if you fuck me I'll clean the toilets afterward" it would definitely not have the same effect. And my wife isn't even crazy[er than most].

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378932)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:41 PM
Author: drunken donuts

I think this has to do with minimizing distractions and letting her get in the mood. If she's worried about dirty dishes in the sink, she may have a hard time thinking about your cawk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378984)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:44 PM
Author: Toro XII

yeah this is a little different than what i was talking about

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379015)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:48 PM
Author: IronMonkey

True.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379050)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:54 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

Wait, so he works all the time and comes home to his wife who does absolutely nothing and sleeps 12 hours a day and he needs to clean the toilets? Seriously?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379085)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 8:06 PM
Author: Get Thee To The Rapery

The problem with the latter scenario is that you’re framing it like she’s a whore exchanging sex for goods or services. With the former, a clean house means she’s thinking less about what needs to get done and is less stressed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38380604)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:26 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort

Based on everything we know about MW's wife, I don't think we can definitively conclude that them spending more time together is a good thing. In fact, I'm inclined to believe that this is one of the relatively rare relationships where the more time they spend apart, the better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378538)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:23 PM
Author: Hazarding a Bort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378527)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:23 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.


it's his wife. if his dick is still getting hard in the morning then they should bang. he shouldn't have to wine and dine her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378526)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 3:26 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

At 41 I could still break cinderblocks with my morning wood. I'm sure it will fade one day, but that day isn't today.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379302)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:58 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I can see why you would think that, but for this to work there would have to be some sort of desire. When she flipped the switch, I started getting upset that I would go on these dates only to see her yawning at the end of the dates and see her go to bed as soon as possible when we got home.

Of interest, she goes to sleep very early every day, 7:30 or so, so a date that lasts to 9:00 is way past her bedtime. Thus, the only time we would have sex (if she was so included) is on Saturday or Sunday mornings. With children, that's a no go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378697)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:00 PM
Author: """"'''""'


"Of interest, she goes to sleep very early every day, 7:30 or so"

What in the hell??? Does she wake up at 3AM?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378711)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:08 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

No, 7. She sleeps more than any adult I have ever met.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378765)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:10 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

Depression?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378783)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:19 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I've suggested that she's caught up in a nasty anxiety-depression cycle, but she gets upset when I even suggest it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378838)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:26 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

So in other words, she suspects it is true but doesn't want to admit it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378888)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:27 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.


why the fuck do you always feel the need to interject in normal people stuff

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378895)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:30 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

How am I not right? And how is this "normal people stuff"?

I've known people with clinical depression.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378908)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:32 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.


your a jew so think everyone has some clinical disorder and also i didnt' read any of your poasts because like everyone else here I automatically ignore subthreads you poast in

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378927)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:34 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

Nah, I don't mean Jewy "omg, I'm soooo depressed today!" I mean like people who had clinical depression that made them unable to function throughout their lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378936)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:37 PM
Author: drunken donuts

Because you recommend, while talking with people like that, to be a hurtful dick instead of trying to find common ground. So you're a total fucking aspie who has no idea what normal people feel or experience.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378951)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:44 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

She isn't interested in being nice or resolving his problems. Therefore, this won't work.

The only thing that was effective was outright threatening her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379008)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:28 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Probably.

Either way, the original question was: how things are today? The answer is that things are fine, much better, with the exception that it's still basically no sex for me.

I've accepted the outcome and making the best of it. The worst of the craziness is over so I'm thankful for where I am. Also, it's defeatist thinking to believe that whatever bad thing I'm dealing with today is going to last forever, and there are a lot of things that could happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378902)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:32 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

You're a better man than I am.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378921)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:34 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

You don't know that. You can say how you think you'd react in a similar situation, but you don't know for sure.

The poster above said it, fishing is pretty 180. You focus on other things and move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378941)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:53 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

I can't function like that at all. No, I'm far too selfish to deal with that. OTOH, that also ensures that I wouldn't get into that situation to begin with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379081)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 3:01 PM
Author: drunken donuts

You have also said you would be biglaw partner, never move out of NYC, etc. So you are clearly incapable of abstract thinking outside your tiny little brain in this very moment. Hence why your advice is irrelevant -- it does not account for other humans functioning differently from you, or that even you may function differently under different circumstances.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379149)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 3:06 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

"You have also said you would be biglaw partner, never move out of NYC, etc."

I would absolutely not say those things. For one, I'm not really from NYC, left NYC a bunch of times, etc. The only time I remotely thought I'd be a biglaw partner was in expat biglaw (again, outside of NYC) and once that wasn't an option, the goal was to find something that would work for me (decent pay and QOL), which is exactly what I ended up with.

"Hence why your advice is irrelevant -- it does not account for other humans functioning differently from you, or that even you may function differently under different circumstances."

What? I adapted fairly predictably.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379187)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:26 PM
Author: drunken donuts

She may be defensive about it coming from you and might be more receptive if it came from someone else she trusts and respects, so it really sucks that she doesn't have anyone in her circle who could talk to her about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378890)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 8:35 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

Yeah, she isn't coddled enough! (female poster)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38380751)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:11 PM
Author: """"'''""'


holy shit. Is she clinically depressed? LMAO at sleeping 11-12 hours a day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378784)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:11 PM
Author: Maori woman performing defiant haka

do you fuck escorts or side pieces at least?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378787)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:36 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Given the opportunity, I would say no to almost nothing. However, I spend my life working and then taking care of children, so there is not a lot of opportunity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378946)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:10 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

Why aren’t you cheating, MW?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378468)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:13 PM
Author: """"'''""'


He'd rather lie next to his enemy and not rock the boat vs. pay his enemy 50% of his take home salary and have her turn his kids against him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378482)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:14 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

Sex is too important to give up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378488)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:18 PM
Author: leolenin

Flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378503)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:23 PM
Author: """"'''""'


Probably credited, but people are flexible and we make all sorts of concessions given different situations. He's holding shitty cards and all of his options suck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378523)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:26 PM
Author: pepito

(Will die childless)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378539)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:27 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

That’s an odd thing to say to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378542)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:56 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378683)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:26 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.


he'd get skullfucked in divorce and also still gets rub and tugs anyways

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378536)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:27 PM
Author: ddr

He's said in other threads that he has an outlet but didn't say what is is. I'm guessing rub and tug.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378544)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:14 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

I'm making due with what I have.

Really, with 2 kids and running a firm, I don't really have time for another woman. I've had some ex girlfriends reach out to me (who I declined to hook up with), and I've texted them, but it is exhausting to do. Also, the constantly being aware of where my phone is, did I delete messages, etc. is miserable.

One of the downsides to living in a smaller area is that it would be very hard from me to maintain a girl on the side. If I go to a local bar, almost certainly I will see someone who I know. Even if I don't know them, since I've been practicing for 14 years in this town and hold a minor government position, a lot of people recognize me. I would have to do it out of town, and my practice doesn't have me out of town very often.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378807)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:23 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.


just rape your wife some time when the kids are asleep. she probably will like it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378869)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:26 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

If all else fails, right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378885)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:30 PM
Author: ddr

Get snipped and then convince her to try for another kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378910)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:31 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.


raping would be more fun but this is also credited

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378915)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:38 PM
Author: IronMonkey

"I don't really have time for another woman"

Say no more (no homo)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378956)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:40 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Would you prefer "I'm not taking any efforts to seek out other women?" It's the same thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378974)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 3:07 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379192)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 1:42 PM
Author: Get Thee's Ex-Husband

It’s just amazing how women can get away with being such shifty spouses in our society.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378624)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:12 PM
Author: """"'''""'


CR. Back in the good days you could beat this behavior out of them. Now the gov't holds a proverbial gun to mens' heads, forcing them to support these unappreciative whores.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378793)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:24 PM
Author: .,,,..,,..,.,.,:,:,,...,::,...,:,...:..,:.::,.


yea man, dead bedrooms didn't exist before 1982

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378877)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:32 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

Our laws and culture give no incentive for a woman to be a good spouse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38378925)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 2:58 PM
Author: BLACK GOY

Great thread.

Mgtow 4ever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379119)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 3:35 PM
Author: Peter Blunt System



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379352)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 3:38 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

If I got divorced, I would NEVER EVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES consider remarriage. No fucking way. I have my kids, there is absolutely no reason to marry. The crying, screaming, the weaponized helplessness, the manipulation, the selfishness, and you have to grin and bear it or else the state comes and takes half of what you worked so hard to earn and maybe your children as well. All that and you deal with no sex, but if you have sex with someone who actually wants it from you, the state comes for half your things and kids.

No fucking way would I ever do this again. It is an insane system and I cannot fathom what the benefits for a man are outside of having children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379382)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 4:26 PM
Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈)

This is marriage #2 for you, right? Was marriage #1 really the same?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379694)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 6:02 PM
Author: Muscadine wine

This is marriage #1 for me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38380155)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 5:36 PM
Author: BLACK GOY

Literally post of the fucking year man

Salt this earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38380027)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 5:52 PM
Author: put some respek on my name (🐅)

Is wife southern?

Spike her food and drink with molly, roofies, meth etc. Even if it didn’t work for getting you sex you'd have evidence she’s an unfit mother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38380105)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 6:52 PM
Author: GOY GUN NUT

I would if she was 2 decades younger

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38380351)



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Date: June 12th, 2019 4:23 PM
Author: .,.,.,,,,,,,,,,,,............,,,,,,,,,,,,


does your wife have abandonment issues?

does she impulsively react to a situation that would upset anyone in a manner that will make that situation worse?

when shes arguably a "victim", will she take steps to maximize the damage inflicted so shes even more of a victim?

does she self harm, or do you ever see evidence of self harm like cutting and unexplainable bruises on arms and legs?

just comparing notes to an ex that i had. i'll give you her diagnosis once you answer the q's. some stuff sounds similar to my experience but other stuff doesnt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4277625&forum_id=2#38379680)