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moving out of marital home soon :(

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TY brother. I appreciate it.
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Your income and hers? Your height and his?
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I'm beta biglaw senior associate. She makes literally und...
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races of everyone involved?
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all white.
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So here's what you do. Step one, go find the dude...
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I am too beta to do anything. He would knock me unconscious...
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the first three questions were: STATE your income, STATE you...
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How much $ did she get? Alimony?
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Yes, and constantly demands more even outside the court proc...
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But if she ruined your career, how would you pay her her ali...
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she knows ill cave into her demands.
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I don't understand, why would you do this? Why would you ev...
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women are stupid
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i'll kill her for $5000
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How much do you have to pay here. Lmao at alimony jfc
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in terms of non-court ordered shit, its now getting close to...
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Like 6 figures and she’s gone or every year. Just give...
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Cr. OP please flesh out this thread
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Thanks for specifying. You no longer biglaw?
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what is she now?
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u dodged a cannonball
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Jfc were their red flags looking back?
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flame jumped here
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typical shit. abuse in the relationship, infidelity etc.
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I've been with my wife for almost 20 years. When did you no...
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race?
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went through the same with my first gf who i was with for al...
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Sry to hear brother. how is the situation now?
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that was over a decade ago. we haven't talked in a long time...
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any tips for getting over?
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not really. it is just a matter of time passing.
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shitty unbelievable flame, down to the moniker
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Some helpful comforting words ITT. Proud of xo
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it's poorly written, poorly constructed flame at that
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your house and stuff is just that. stuff.
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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:16 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

Been selling furniture etc. Feels bad. I feel like I am generally a reasonable, level-headed person but this is fucking devastating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705867)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:18 PM
Author: Olive erotic ticket booth place of business

Well, there's no way around it. Might as well get through this tough transition and on to the next phase of life. There's nothing else you can do. I know it sucks. Hang in there man. I'm rooting for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705871)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:31 PM
Author: shaky bateful location

Better days are coming you just need to endure the bad parts and not lose the mental game.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705913)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:31 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

TY. Just sucks remembering when/how we bought each piece of furniture, shit we were excited about, and creating a home I thought we'd have a family in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705915)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:41 PM
Author: Olive erotic ticket booth place of business

It must be absolutely fucking brutal. I don't know what to offer except platitudes like "don't dwell on that stuff man." Must be insanely difficult. Just hang in there and get past this. Then you can begin to move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705956)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:44 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

TY brother. I appreciate it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705971)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:23 PM
Author: avocado trump supporter knife

this is why you're a faggot getting cucked.

imagine a "man" crying about furniture. ur wife sure can't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706317)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 9:35 PM
Author: Free-loading Orchestra Pit Mexican



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:21 PM
Author: lake brethren space

is she fucking another dude?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705883)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:31 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

I think so. At least actively pursuing. She's an aspiring artist of sorts and this guy is a struggling artist -- exactly the type of romantic type relationship she craved and that I could not provide since I am a striver beta.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705912)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:32 PM
Author: Kink-friendly french chef mental disorder

your wife is a moron

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705916)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:35 PM
Author: fiercely-loyal site



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:39 PM
Author: soul-stirring property



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:20 AM
Author: Boyish honey-headed stage

, screamed the rat-faced man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708011)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:18 AM
Author: Khaki Ceo



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:33 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

Your income and hers?

Your height and his?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705919)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:37 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

I'm beta biglaw senior associate.

She makes literally under $5,000/year (Lives off parents + money she got from me in divorce).

I'm 5'10. He's around 6' LJL. Dont know his income, but when I stalked him last, he was complaining about not having $$ to pay a parking ticket.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705939)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:38 PM
Author: Yapping old irish cottage

races of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705941)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:38 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

all white.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705947)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:40 PM
Author: fiercely-loyal site

So here's what you do.

Step one, go find the dude...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705953)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:41 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

I am too beta to do anything. He would knock me unconscious anyways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705958)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:48 PM
Author: Free-loading Orchestra Pit Mexican

step 2: shave boistinker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706424)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:43 PM
Author: Vivacious alpha

lol xo: "races of everyone involved"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705965)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:45 PM
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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:46 PM
Author: Vivacious alpha

this would be a better story if she was leaving him for bbc instead of "artist"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705983)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:18 PM
Author: Yapping old irish cottage



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Date: August 19th, 2019 10:28 AM
Author: Passionate iridescent brunch party of the first part

the first three questions were: STATE your income, STATE your height, STATE your race

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708573)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:42 PM
Author: trip new version

How much $ did she get? Alimony?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705961)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:44 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

Yes, and constantly demands more even outside the court process (subtle threats she will ruin my job etc. based on dirt she has on me through 10 years of marriage).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705968)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:44 PM
Author: Olive erotic ticket booth place of business

But if she ruined your career, how would you pay her her alimony? Doesn't she understand that the two are connected?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705973)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:45 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

she knows ill cave into her demands.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705977)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:20 AM
Author: Khaki Ceo

I don't understand, why would you do this? Why would you even marry her in the first place? Why ... any of this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708390)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:45 PM
Author: Vivacious alpha

women are stupid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705978)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:45 PM
Author: Vivacious alpha

i'll kill her for $5000

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705974)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:46 PM
Author: soul-stirring property



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:46 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

How much do you have to pay here. Lmao at alimony jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705984)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:02 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

in terms of non-court ordered shit, its now getting close to 6-digits in terms of $$ she's demanded.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706044)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:34 PM
Author: trip new version

Like 6 figures and she’s gone or every year. Just give us the #s

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706172)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:40 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

Cr. OP please flesh out this thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706188)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:07 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

No. She'll run low on money and make a demand. Of course, it's not a straight-up demand but something like "well you're living in the house, and the guest house is rented out. i should get some % of that money since I saved you money so well while we were together which allowed you to buy the house in the first place."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706272)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:44 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

How much are you court ordered to give

You gotta stop paying her the other shit wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706409)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:50 PM
Author: Free-loading Orchestra Pit Mexican

yeah the threats to ruin his career etc are empty. if she really tries to contact employer with "dirt" on him, doubt anyone will believe the bitch, and at that point you can probably get restraining order etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706436)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 9:05 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

This is what everyone tells me. Everyone at my firm thinks she's insane based on how she's behaved in the past. But still, her making a stink will damage my rep. and im up for promotion.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706511)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 7:14 AM
Author: supple violet idiot

I say this out of love brother: this is the same kind of pussy behavior and thinking that led to your divorce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708158)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 10:29 AM
Author: Passionate iridescent brunch party of the first part



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Date: August 19th, 2019 12:56 PM
Author: lake brethren space



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:24 PM
Author: Khaki Ceo



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:48 PM
Author: Bossy house messiness

I had to move out of a place we shared after our engagement fell apart, and it was fucking brutal. Sorry, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705988)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:48 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

Price of ring, status of ring post breakup, heights and races of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705990)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:49 PM
Author: Bossy house messiness

$50k ring, have it back, 5'8 white and 5'4 azn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705994)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:50 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

What do you plan to do with the ring

Why the fuck do you spend 50k on a ring

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705997)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:53 PM
Author: Bossy house messiness

On the first question, I'm hanging on to it so I can repurpose the diamond if needed. I obviously wouldn't give a used engagement ring to a new girl.

On the second question, she was in finance, she was insistent that she needed to impress her coworkers, and I was in biglaw at the time so figured I could afford it. In retrospect, not the brightest move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706013)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:29 PM
Author: avocado trump supporter knife

trying to understand beta xo lawyers dating lives is like trying to get inside the mind of a honeybee doing its little bee dance.

like I know there's a scientific reason for this shit but I can't empathize at all. it's completely fucking opaque to me, a human mind-haver.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706335)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 4:45 PM
Author: Disturbing parlour



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710631)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:50 AM
Author: Smoky gas station

you could just say she was a gook and leave it at that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708457)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 4:45 PM
Author: Disturbing parlour

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710632)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:25 PM
Author: titillating buck-toothed roommate circlehead

Well bro, you should have never chased a taller white girl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706132)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:35 PM
Author: Bossy house messiness

That is fair, I should have specified. I am 5'8" white, she was 5'4" azn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706174)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:42 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

Thanks for specifying.

You no longer biglaw?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706196)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:45 PM
Author: Bossy house messiness

In-house. Non-NYC. Total comp is the same but a huge chunk of it is deferred (bonuses, stock, etc.).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706206)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 4:22 PM
Author: greedy persian codepig

I no rike defulled comprensations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710485)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:34 AM
Author: insecure bright crackhouse

what is she now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708020)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 10:31 AM
Author: Hairless startled den turdskin

lol a fucking 5’4” insect?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708581)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:36 PM
Author: Transparent Mischievous Center

u dodged a cannonball

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706180)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:50 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

$30k ring she kept that I did not ask for back. Yet her and whole money-grubbing family still think I owe her money that I don't even have. No joke, her dad told me I should pay her $5 million and he was serious. I don't have anywhere close to that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38705998)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:52 PM
Author: razzmatazz fat ankles

did you cheat or beat her or do something else to make her family feel that way?

10 years exactly? as in, the minimum amount of time in California to be considered a long term marriage?

sorry man, can't imagine how hard it is. i hope you can move on soon. at least there aren't kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706007)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 6:59 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

she claims violence, but those were me restraining her when she was blackout drunk since she was a full blown alcoholic.

Just short of 10 years.

TY and yes, having bros who went through divorce w/ kids, I'm extremely happy for that.

I get that I wasn't perfect, but it seems like she's already gotten and will get a significant amount of money from me (which I did not fight about), but its really getting ridiculous with these demands. Especially since I find out she's giving money/shit to her "artist" boyfriend. For example, I did not fight her on our shared car that I paid for. Then it turns out she gifted the car to her bf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706030)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:04 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

Unreal devastation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706053)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:17 PM
Author: soul-stirring property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706106)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:47 PM
Author: Frozen glittery heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706209)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 10:24 AM
Author: wine misunderstood gay wizard black woman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708560)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:31 AM
Author: Boyish honey-headed stage

Then it turns out she gifted the car to her bf.

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708017)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:03 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen

Jfc were their red flags looking back?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706051)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:17 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

yes. relationship was toxic for years, but i still thought to tough it out and make it work. and i did. then she decided to end it and move out and file. FML.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706104)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:17 PM
Author: soul-stirring property



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706108)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:38 PM
Author: Transparent Mischievous Center

you're a dumbass for not fighting back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706184)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 7:48 PM
Author: dashing jewess nibblets



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706211)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:08 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

im scared to lose my job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706274)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 9:07 PM
Author: Transparent Mischievous Center

stop being a pussy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706516)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:35 AM
Author: insecure bright crackhouse

flame jumped here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708021)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:15 PM
Author: talented digit ratio set

You thought you could buy love.

Lesson learned

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706295)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:19 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

Yes. Clear for years she didn't "love" me. I accept some blame for that as I was a selfish asshole. But I thought as long as I had a job and could pay for her aspirations, she'd stick with me. LOL on me, as she's not with me AND still leaching off my money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706309)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:25 PM
Author: Aqua Histrionic Home Useless Brakes

ITT: what the third world looks sounds and feels like

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706327)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 10:32 AM
Author: Hairless startled den turdskin

A 3rd worlder married you took your $ then left you back to Russia, remember gook?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708587)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 4:23 PM
Author: greedy persian codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710489)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:37 PM
Author: Violent wonderful azn son of senegal

Zoloft would do you wonders. I'm on 150 mg and have no discernable emotions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706377)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 8:44 PM
Author: Puce Underhanded Casino Liquid Oxygen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706413)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:41 AM
Author: Painfully honest indecent hospital

lmao your s/n is literally benzo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708025)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 4:23 PM
Author: greedy persian codepig

, he lisped as the five African American prisoners took turns beating and sodomizing him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710497)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 9:00 PM
Author: Pontificating excitant range reading party

How bad can this "blackmail" be that it's worth this? No amount of money will ever make that go away. Even if you pay her, she'll still have that over you and continue to demand more.

The only solution is to tell her to fuck off, or as said above, get her on a recording making the threats so you can threaten extortion charges. Your work might not even GAF and it would just blow over. What is it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706478)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 11:41 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

typical shit. abuse in the relationship, infidelity etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707542)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:14 AM
Author: Pontificating excitant range reading party

Start ghosting her, and if she contacts you, record it. She either won’t go to your work at all or no one will care.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708375)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:52 AM
Author: Smoky gas station

yea you're really at risk for being the first lawyer in the history of lawyering to cheat on his wife or go through a messy divorce in general

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708461)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 9:52 PM
Author: Lavender locus

Bro everyone has personal stuff they would rather not divulge. Can't imagine your stuff is that bad. And it sounds like she's been manipulating you via threats -- you need to cut off contact, stop giving her a dime more than you're ordered to, and move on. I know it's mentally really hard to move on from stuff that you shared an interest in (including furniture) but you will be able to do it over time and be better for it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706787)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 11:41 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

Thank you. I truly appreciate all the advice/support here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707538)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 10:06 PM
Author: Cerebral Tan Dingle Berry

I've been with my wife for almost 20 years. When did you notice issues?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38706879)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 11:42 PM
Author: Topaz pistol

Probably by the third year. But she was my first serious relationship and much more attractive than me so I rode it out, thinking she'd be more mature as she got older. The opposite happened.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707544)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 11:43 PM
Author: Disturbing parlour

race?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707547)



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Date: August 18th, 2019 11:46 PM
Author: autistic marketing idea preventive strike

went through the same with my first gf who i was with for almost 8 years

we had all shared friends, so we would still socialize occasionally. i remember she had her birthday party and people all went back to "our" (now her) place - it was devastating to be there and be reminded of what was no longer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707557)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 12:13 AM
Author: Topaz pistol

Sry to hear brother. how is the situation now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707660)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 12:39 AM
Author: autistic marketing idea preventive strike

that was over a decade ago. we haven't talked in a long time. she is married with kids now (as am I). took me a long time to get over her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707725)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 12:42 AM
Author: Topaz pistol

any tips for getting over?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707736)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 12:47 AM
Author: autistic marketing idea preventive strike

not really. it is just a matter of time passing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707762)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 10:37 AM
Author: frum hairy legs twinkling uncleanness

I remember breaking up with my ex and her moving out of our NYC apartment. She would later come by for occasional post-breakup sex and would almost always comment about how much she missed the apartment and how moving out of the apartment was the hardest part of the breakup. so glad we weren't married, it would have been her apartment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708607)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 12:51 AM
Author: Beady-eyed Fear-inspiring Field Puppy

stop giving into her demands. the move would have been to cut her off. Do you not have a sex drive? hire a couple of hookers and have a 180 orgy. You're free now mother fucker. Enjoy that shit. Don't put the pussy on a pedestal. Pussy old as fuck too now. Unless this cunt put you through law school and gave you head every morning, nothing to cry about.

shit, you have money, fucking use that shit on yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707776)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 1:49 AM
Author: Topaz pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707935)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 2:46 AM
Author: Brilliant community account

shitty unbelievable flame, down to the moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38707998)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 2:55 AM
Author: Insanely creepy buff masturbator

Some helpful comforting words ITT. Proud of xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708004)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:27 AM
Author: Boyish honey-headed stage

OP is possibly the most pathetic creature I've ever encountered in any medium. Wish he would off himself already so I don't have to suffer the indignity of having anything in common with such a whiny sycophantic dullard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708015)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:42 AM
Author: Painfully honest indecent hospital

ARE REptile, is this your shitty flame?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708027)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:18 AM
Author: Obsidian Stead

I would never joke about divorce. Tindersloot leaving me would result in me killingself for real.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708384)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:44 AM
Author: Magical Death Wish

Something for us all to root for!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708430)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 10:34 AM
Author: Hairless startled den turdskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708591)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:42 PM
Author: lascivious duck-like stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710218)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:24 AM
Author: Khaki Ceo

1) I hope everything here is flame;

2) If not, OP needs to get the most hardcore lawyer out there and 100% let them handle his affairs, and otherwise break off contact. And by break off contact, if she contacts him again file for an order of protection. Fight her on absolutely everything. Do not give an inch.

3) I don't get how murder-suicide doesn't happen more often.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708397)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 9:27 AM
Author: Obsidian Stead

All he needs to do is get on a plane to Eastern Europe where no court is going to enforce a Yankee order of spousal support. In Russia they will laugh the bitch out of the court building. All men have to do is leave Yankeestan.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708402)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 10:06 AM
Author: Khaki Ceo

There's a million things he could do if he had balls but then again, if he did he wouldn't be in this mess.

Step 1 is not marrying some girl that is some "artist" or that otherwise doesn't get paid shit. That is asking for exactly this result.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38708507)



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Date: August 20th, 2019 1:49 PM
Author: Brilliant community account

it's poorly written, poorly constructed flame at that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38714508)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 2:40 PM
Author: Smoky gas station

your house and stuff is just that. stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38709801)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 2:41 PM
Author: Stirring well-lubricated feces

Congratulations on your newfound freedom. Maybe your fortune will improve even more and she'll get hit by a bus, thereby saving you the expense of divorce proceedings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38709812)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:15 PM
Author: rambunctious athletic conference mother

why do guys get married again? christ even if you're a total incel you're about 10-15 years away from robot girlfriends and AR/VR everywhere

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710035)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:23 PM
Author: Khaki Ceo

Don't marry some stay at home artist type. That's just asking for this result. Basically, people should marry under a limited set of circumstances only.

That said, I still think this poster is pure schtick.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710093)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 3:33 PM
Author: rambunctious athletic conference mother

yes, under limited set of circumstances: when it's 1500 and you get a dowry and a wife who couldn't fathom being anything but a homemaker

TBF, of the ~20 married couples i know, exactly ONE is happy. and they're genuinely happy. but they're both very ... idk paul rudd types? just happy people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710154)



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Date: August 19th, 2019 4:23 PM
Author: Henna senate

let go, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4325873&forum_id=2#38710495)