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My (30s F) SO (30s M) confessed his kink to me and I am growing increasingly unc

Trying to find the right sub to post this in, so if it's n...
husbands
  11/07/19
"If you want a dog to perform in a certain way, on comm...
first incel president
  11/07/19
"I like being tied up and called a slut while being fac...
Roger BULLman
  11/07/19
pic of a typical reddit meetup. so, yeah, don’t get an...
Guy Debord
  11/07/19
lol there is some horrific fucking shit on that sub https:/...
zoomer
  11/08/19
*smashes fascism by sitting on it*
dont run Clinton Epstein seeswhoops never mind lol
  11/08/19
she’s against it because... the dog can’t give c...
Fratty
  11/08/19
Smooth brains
self talk
  11/08/19
elaborate false flag written by either a dog or a discarded ...
chickenshit fucking pussy asshole
  11/08/19
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zoomer
  11/08/19
This dumb cunt is so retarded. Your husband wants to see you...
egirl wearing 'daddy' tee shirt groyper
  11/08/19
askav triggered
Fratty
  11/08/19
Disappointed to learn that my all time favorite rapper is pr...
.....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;
  11/08/19
Remember when Earl’s moniker was that horse fucker?
dirte
  11/08/19
Kenneth pinyan...lol
histrionic bitchmade lawyerfaggot
  11/08/19
That’s it
dirte
  11/08/19
"but why is white fertility declining?" whined the...
Apologize to Larry
  11/08/19
the problem she sees is that the DOG can't CONSENT?
A Jurisprudence is Performed
  11/08/19
see I don't really believe this. She's viscerally disgusted ...
A Jurisprudence is Performed
  11/08/19
And if she is not a vegan, does she really give a shit about...
husbands
  11/08/19
100% correct
first incel president
  11/08/19
I'm confused, is this Johnsmeyer flame somewhere?
There's always a link in SF
  11/08/19


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Date: November 7th, 2019 10:33 PM
Author: husbands

Trying to find the right sub to post this in, so if it's not here, I apologize.

Anonymous and vague for soon to be obvious reasons. I promised my SO I wouldn't tell anyone, but I need advice.

For context, i'm bisexual, into light BDSM, and have friends across the spectrum from vanilla to cuckolding Dom play. But, this...THIS I don't know what to do about.

My SO of a year and a half confessed that he enjoys watching porn of women getting fucked by dogs and wondered if I would be interested in such an act.

I felt like I was hit by a truck. I didn't want to shame him, I could tell he felt shame and was confessing to me because he felt like I wouldn't judge him for it. I am outright against it, but I had so. Many. Questions. To determine the what level of interest we had here.

First off, does he want to fuck dogs? No. Okay.

What exactly about the videos "excite" him? The primal nature of the act and where after it's done, the dog's knob pops out....okay. I can get that. I'm kinda into BDSM and sub/Dom play for similar reasons.

He is so adamant about not being okay with me sleeping with someone else, but he wants to watch a dog go at me? Wtf is that about? He doesn't view the dog as a threat to our relationship.

How did he get into it? 14 year old boy with the internet. Someone sent him a video as a joke. Turns out he was kinda into it.

I tried to stay focused on ensuring the fact that he does not want to personally engage in sex with animals. He just thinks that the dogs are willing participants and finds the above aspects sexually exciting.

We had a lot of conversations about this where I tried to, as non-judgementally as possible, tell him how very much not okay I was with this. That dogs can't give actually consent. (Tell every man that has been taken advantage of that an erect penis is consent). I've gone through dog training courses and pretty much view dogs to be akin to children. They are clever, smart, and can learn a lot, but at the end of the day they are just not cognitive adults that really understand how they are being used. If you want a dog to perform in a certain way, on command, it has to be trained. I've done a bunch of reading on the subject of bestiality since to be sure in , dogs basically have to be trained for sex with humans, it does not "come naturally" as a lot of people claim.

We eventually came to an understanding that he was to just never watch these videos with me around. But that's not enough for me anymore.

I managed to put it out of my head for awhile, but the other day we were joking around about sex and it came up that sometimes he masturbates twice a day. And....I know what he is watching when he does this. In our bed. With our (female) dogs in the other room. I've been growing increasingly unsettled and am feeling put off from sex with him.

He is not performing bestiality acts and he has no desire to have sex with an animal. Something being illegal is a shitty high ground (marijuana is illegal, people), and I'm not looking to break up with him. I like being tied up and called a slut while being face-fucked, and my fantasy is to be bound up and spit-roasted involving or with my SO watching. BUT my kink requires the consent of all parties.

We all have things and we otherwise have a healthy and loving relationship, that I'm not willing to juat throw out over what he happens to find erotic in porn.

But........I just kinda can't help equate it to pedophilia. Obviously not as bad, but...only a little not as bad.

I honestly don't know how to talk about it at this point. He has mentioned casually that I made some points which turned him off from the more violent videos, but he still is turned on by and watches it.

I can't even look at dogs or animals without feeling an intense need to protect them. I want him to stop watching these videos. I want him to stop thinking this dogs aren't being harmed.

Is this an okay thing to ask? Am I just being controlling?

Tl;dr My SO of 1.5 years is into watching porn where women get it on with dogs, I am 140% not okay with this and I want to ask him to stop. We've talked about it before, but I don't know how to broach it again or what else to say, and I want him to stop.

Edit: through my research I have learned that fantasizing and actually committing bestiality is way more common than the average person would think. If even the idea of it being a fetish is a deal breaker for you, you should have a serious conversation with your SO.

In the meantime, I appreciate all the inputs (both here and via pms) because it has helped me work through how to reapproach the issue and make it clear to him that there is no such thing as a dog consenting to have sex with a human woman, that it is animal abuse, and that is something he needs to come to terms with and put behind him because it is not reasonable or acce

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39087809)



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Date: November 7th, 2019 11:05 PM
Author: first incel president

"If you want a dog to perform in a certain way, on command, it has to be trained. I've done a bunch of reading on the subject of bestiality since to be sure in , dogs basically have to be trained for sex with humans, it does not "come naturally" as a lot of people claim."

I don't believe this for a second.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39087976)



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Date: November 7th, 2019 11:11 PM
Author: Roger BULLman

"I like being tied up and called a slut while being face-fucked, and my fantasy is to be bound up and spit-roasted involving or with my SO watching."

lol at redditurds believing this sort of lifestyle wont lead directly to dog fucking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088006)



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Date: November 7th, 2019 11:17 PM
Author: Guy Debord

pic of a typical reddit meetup. so, yeah, don’t get any ideas

https://www.reddit.com/r/Cringetopia/comments/bi27ap/reddit_meetup/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088037)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 12:46 AM
Author: zoomer (uspo)

lol there is some horrific fucking shit on that sub

https://www.reddit.com/r/Cringetopia/comments/dt4rts/%F0%9D%95%AC%F0%9D%96%93%F0%9D%96%8C%F0%9D%96%8A%F0%9D%96%97_%F0%9D%96%8E%F0%9D%96%98_%F0%9D%96%86_%F0%9D%95%B2%F0%9D%96%8E%F0%9D%96%8B%F0%9D%96%99/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088248)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 2:13 PM
Author: dont run Clinton Epstein seeswhoops never mind lol

*smashes fascism by sitting on it*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39090128)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 12:27 AM
Author: Fratty (fratty)

she’s against it because... the dog can’t give consent lolololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088223)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 10:08 AM
Author: self talk

Smooth brains

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39089044)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 12:30 AM
Author: chickenshit fucking pussy asshole

elaborate false flag written by either a dog or a discarded femoid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088225)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 12:32 AM
Author: zoomer (uspo)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088226)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 12:53 AM
Author: egirl wearing 'daddy' tee shirt groyper (🚫🌶️🔥🚫 🅰️ 🇸 🇰 🅰️ ✌️ 🚫🌶️🔥🚫)

This dumb cunt is so retarded. Your husband wants to see you degraded on his terms. Yours are different but no better. "I want to be spit roasted by multiple men." Shut the fuck up and go to church and be a mom you stupid whore. Fine, don't indulge your husband's disgusting, weird fetish. But (1) don't equate it to pedophilia (has nothing to do with it and you know it you cow); and (2) don't act like it's any worse, at all, than your whore needs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088262)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 8:05 AM
Author: Fratty (fratty)

askav triggered

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088764)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 2:19 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


Disappointed to learn that my all time favorite rapper is pro-beastiality and also pro-pedophilia.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39090152)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 9:47 AM
Author: dirte

Remember when Earl’s moniker was that horse fucker?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39088976)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 12:53 PM
Author: histrionic bitchmade lawyerfaggot

Kenneth pinyan...lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39089758)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 2:09 PM
Author: dirte

That’s it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39090117)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 10:01 AM
Author: Apologize to Larry

"but why is white fertility declining?" whined the xo poa

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39089023)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 10:23 AM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (Dictated But Not Read)

the problem she sees is that the DOG can't CONSENT?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39089100)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 10:28 AM
Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (Dictated But Not Read)

see I don't really believe this. She's viscerally disgusted for the obvious reasons. But as a "light BDSM" redditrix she literally lacks the vocabulary to say that. So she has to recast her natural revulsion in a language that makes sense within her culture, and in that culture *the* single prime rule is that everything is Ok if there is "consent" and terrible if there is no "consent." So she latches on to the consent angle as the only possible outlet for her feelings.

Even if we accept her argument on her own terms, btw, it's extremely unlikely that the women in these videos are meaningfully "consenting" to having sex with a dog. That seems like a more forceful argument.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39089116)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 12:44 PM
Author: husbands

And if she is not a vegan, does she really give a shit about animal consent? Animals would rather fuck humans than be eaten by them.

No dog consented to have her own them either.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39089719)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 2:16 PM
Author: first incel president

100% correct

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39090141)



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Date: November 8th, 2019 1:44 PM
Author: There's always a link in SF

I'm confused, is this Johnsmeyer flame somewhere?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4378225&forum_id=2#39090026)