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In the last 5 years, I know 30 men getting divorced. All because the WOMAN cheat
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:19 PM Author: dirte I think women cheat a lot more than men do.
All because we've created a system that encourages and empowers women, and create financial incentives for them to divorce. |
Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:30 PM Author: Ozzie Canseco men don't seem to get that marriage is literally giving someone the right to sue you or at least dangle the threat of a lawsuit over your head in a relationship. you cant marry any woman you started dating after she was 25. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203534) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:31 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost women are oddly enough the ones who tend to decide that they got a raw deal in the marriages they dragged their "men" into. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203537) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:32 PM Author: Shut The Fuck Upset Jew they sold themselves short. they could have done so much better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203544) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:34 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203551) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:39 PM Author: diogenes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204021) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:29 PM Author: ;;::;;;::;;.;;,::;;;;;; And now that they're older and the SMV has dropped, they're finally ready to do better! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39209139) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:35 PM Author: Mark Ironside actually, this ignores the circle in which they run.
it's pretty easy to imagine a 6-7 who gets married and then stays fit, puts effort into her appearance as her husband makes more money, gets fake tits -- all while most of the wives around her do the opposite -- and suddenly at age 43 she's MILFy as fuck compared to her peers and she wonders why fat frumpy Suzy has the husband who makes $2M per year and does triathlons. suddenly all the negative aspects of her relationship with her husband stand out, while an idealized version of Suzy's husband is out there married to a chubby frumpster who is kinda bitchy to boot. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:33 PM Author: dirte Yeah... they initiate like 70-80% of all divorces. Why wouldn't they, they have a huge financial incentive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203548) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:37 PM Author: Mark Ironside women are much less loyal than men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203561) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:37 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203562) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:38 PM Author: Mark Ironside women very disloyal to their men, friends, country, people! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203569) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:40 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203586) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:43 PM Author: Dux many people are saying this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203604) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:49 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203639) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:51 PM Author: Mark Ironside (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203654) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:36 PM Author: \"\'\"\"\'\"\'\'\"\" ( ) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205598) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:18 AM Author: Hitler Did Nothing Wrong (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207585) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:35 PM Author: north atlantid when u marry a woman in exchange u should get to have her on a leash at all times only way its a square deal imo
this would probably fix everything |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:51 PM Author: north atlantid 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203659) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:55 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost yea great poast bro malone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203692) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:35 PM Author: spritezero i hate women (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203555) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:39 PM Author: ,.,...,.,.,.,..,...,,,...,.,...,.,...,.......,,,,, why cant the fathers of these women put them on an honorable path starting in childhood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203576) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:41 PM Author: north atlantid email me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203589) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:12 PM Author: TS Amanda Lawson (𓀐𓂺👩🏻🎤) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205480) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:24 PM Author: diogenes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205547) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 4:41 AM Author: howie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206530) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:42 PM Author: Earl (The Goat) Manigoat (earl) They receive positive reinforcement on the internet for degeneracy, like wearing law firm marketing materials in sex photos/videos. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203598) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:44 PM Author: ,.,...,.,.,.,..,...,,,...,.,...,.,...,.......,,,,, I'm a dirty jew. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203610) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:33 PM Author: north atlantid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203993) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:45 PM Author: dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203614) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:10 PM Author: Frank Lloyd Wrong (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203803) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:41 PM Author: .;:..;:.;.:.;.,,,..,.:,.;....;,;;;..;,.., How many of these couples met when they were >24 years of age? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203595) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:46 PM Author: dirte Probably half. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203615) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 8:26 PM Author: calishitlawguru Started dating my wife at 18, brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204867) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 8:43 PM Author: .;:..;:.;.:.;.,,,..,.:,.;....;,;;;..;,.., Similar situation for me. Can't imagine dating/marrying in this Tinder generation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205009) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 9:52 PM Author: .,.,,...;.;,.,.,:,,:,...,:;:,...,:,.,.:..:.,:.::,. LOL. Number of lifetime sexual partners? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205383) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:42 PM Author: '""""'" the only way you can keep a woman married to you is to become one of those guys who is a 24/7 mental abuser, who thrives on the view that a marriage/family is a venue for creating interpersonal chaos and elaborate, sadistic emotional torments of his wife. this is the only thing that will keep a woman's interest over the long term, but it's too exhausting for normal men to keep up. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:48 PM Author: Earl (The Goat) Manigoat (earl) The Catholic Church did this for my wife, so I don’t have to. Seems to be working out so far. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203630) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 8:48 PM Author: coronavirus You nicely summed up the reason my marriage is a "success." That, and the fact that I keep the relationship on the brink of disaster at all times (which I guess is one in the same). And by that I mean that divorce will mean mutual, individual destruction. Lmao @ my wife raising 5 kids without me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205037) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:13 PM Author: TS Amanda Lawson (𓀐𓂺👩🏻🎤) MFCR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205487) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:37 AM Author: LJL at wagecucks Cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206145) |
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Date: December 11th, 2019 1:10 PM Author: the walter white of this generation (walt jr.) **smugly smiles and nods, closes thread** (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39248435) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:46 PM Author: dirte I've been thinking lately that the institution of marriage should be abolished. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203621) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:50 PM Author: Oh, you travel? It's weird because today it doesn't even have the veneer of social utility that it maybe did in the past. It is simply an empty gesture now that has no bearing on anything except how beholden you are to the state's whims and caprices once the marriage is OVER. a marriage today means as much as a civil war reenactment. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203646) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:54 PM Author: dirte Exactly.
Why do we need the state to sanction anything related to marriage? |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:55 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, The nuclear family is still important to society (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203695) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:56 PM Author: dirte What does that have to do with marriage?
I think the traditional nuclear family is quickly fading away like white people in photo from the future. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:56 PM Author: ~~(> ' ' )> It's not entirely empty. Marriage comes with a convenient set of pre-packaged rights (e.g., inheritance, spousal privilege). Whether they're even worth the cost of the wedding reception is another issue. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203699) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:06 PM Author: impeachment 3.0 it has been
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:50 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) if men had equivalent options to cheat, more men would cheat than women
stop pretending men are virtuous. they're not. they just don't have options. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:52 PM Author: Mark Ironside perhaps, but it's also that women and men cheat for different reasons, and get different things out of cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203663) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:53 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203672) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:53 PM Author: My real dad left at 11, brother. If you cheat with a guy you can both get the same thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203682) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:54 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203687) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:58 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) yes men and women are different
women are more likely to construct elaborate emotional justifications (almost narcissistic and infuriating in its lack of self-awareness) for why they cheated, and also to take advantage of an antiquated justice system that's weighted in their favor. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:56 PM Author: benzo gambit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204399) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:52 PM Author: dirte But, they don't cheat as often as women. I think you're missing the point.
In the past it was mostly men who cheated. Lately, it's almost all women. There is no virtue in either gender. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:56 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) right now more women cheat than men - this is mathematically possible - because they cheat with the same small group of alpha guys.
if in the past, more men cheated than women, then there must have been a subset of whores/sluts that all the guys were cheating with.
and ljl, what si your point? |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:52 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost a lot of guys would just stay on the market if they were just after the youngest hottest stuff as often as possible as long as possible
guys get married because they want kids, or because they don't like using women, or both. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:55 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) nah most guys peak at < 25 and do not get pussy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203697) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:57 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost you're a well-established board moron on these subjects, brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203705) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:59 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) you're literally a retard who says "guys get married because they want kids" as if that statement obviously applies to guys and not women (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203726) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:01 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost if they're already fucking the woman and prospective marital partner--as is basically always the case these days--why do you think they marry her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203730) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:09 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) lol at you trying to pretend like every man is some alpha stud unemotional automaton banging chicks left and right and optimizing his sex life like how NYUUG imagines himself to be (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203793) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:10 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost "or because they don't like using women"
who's pretending here bro |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:15 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) 1) they fall in love with their S/O and marry them out of devotion
2) they cheat and are prone to cheat and would really like to cheat and would cheat a lot more if they had more options
these two are not mutually exclusive by any means, for either gender |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:17 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost the guys who cheat tend not to marry out of "devotion." they're instrumental people who ultimately tend to just use others (like you, and perhaps nyuug). sorry that it's impossible for you to understand ordinary male psychology (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203855) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:19 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) ljl you dumb shit. and you think women who cheat were never "devoted" to their spouses?
tired of arguing with birdbrain males like you. men have greater innate propensity to cheat, and are currently overwhelmingly limited in their options vis-a-vis women. that's all. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:21 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost men want harems, women want princes. if your "argument" is that most men (for various and different reasons) give up on the former, and that many women tend not to give up on the latter, then we agree to some extent
btw: you're really stupid. sorry. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:28 PM Author: Deranged tinder pumo (SCAMMED by exeunt) men have a greater propensity to cheat than women, yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203943) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:47 AM Author: No Paye No Gain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207764) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:53 PM Author: north atlantid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203680) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:28 PM Author: you're fucked (retired) (👁☀️👁) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203953) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:41 PM Author: eat the bugs goy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204031) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:49 AM Author: ,.,.,.,..,.,.,:,,:,,.,:::,.,,.,:.,,.:.,:.,:.::,. Any man can get an escort/hooker so saying men don’t have options is false. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206379) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:39 PM Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,; He said "equivalent options." Women can fuck escorts, too. I.e. if every male 6 could go to a bar have three drinks and make eyes at 15-20 girls and it would be more likely than not he would fuck one of those 15-20 girls that night if he so chose, that would be equivalent, except you also have to deal with the divorce imbalance if we're talking about married cheaters. So e.g. if that plus also every woman who cheated lost all of her advantages in divorce court, then you would have an equivalence. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:57 PM Author: ,.,.,.,..,.,.,:,,:,,.,:::,.,,.,:.,,.:.,:.,:.::,. I honestly don’t see the difference. Directly paid or indirectly unpaid...all the same result. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39209306) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:53 PM Author: Aswath Damodaran is this the bitter man convention? ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203673) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:53 PM Author: north atlantid grr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203681) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:54 PM Author: dirte Grr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203689) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:57 PM Author: north atlantid all women should be raped ar gunpoint (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203702) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 4:58 PM Author: dirte I think the "rule of thumb" should still apply. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203711) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:08 PM Author: ddr Do you regret having kids, OP? Do you know they're yours if you ex cheated so much? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203773) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:30 PM Author: dirte It's too late for it to matter. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203971) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:11 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Blame no-fault divorce and our system of incentives. A bunch of women literally profit from cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203810) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:12 PM Author: Woody Woodpecker Get rid of alimony and give men full custody in divorce and watch how quickly women shape up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203820) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:14 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) tcr. This shit was rare and more common with men until very recently. In places without our current feminized divorced system it still is. Guess why that is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203835) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:15 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, Why would men get full custody? Joint custody would be more fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203841) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:15 PM Author: Mark Ironside i think he means primary physical custody (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203846) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:16 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Get rid of alimony.
Get rid of child support for joint custody.
Divide assets based on general contributions. Contributed nothing? You get nothing out.
Watch what happens next. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:18 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, What if its a traditional marriage where the wife stayed at home? GTTTR would be FUCKED (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203863) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:21 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) She can contract for a payout if she can agree to that. But good chance her husband would say "unless infidelity is involved" since it is so traditional. But the default system should not be encouraging divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203881) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:23 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, Right, but I think the system still needs to account for the fact that even in today's modern age most women make career sacrifices to spend more time with the kids (ie go in-house rather than gun for biglaw). If they had known they'd be single then their decisions might have been different.
Obviously agree that with any sort of infidelity woman should get nothing |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:24 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) It absolutely should not. If someone is "making sacrifices" and expects a payout in a divorce to reflect that then they should have that explicitly stated in a pre-nup. Otherwise, they should get nothing special.
Our society gives men nothing anymore. Women shouldn't get shit either. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:59 PM Author: Artie Schiller After a divorce, split all the assets equally and adjust for the future with alimony and child support. How is that not fair? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205742) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:39 AM Author: Industrial Society and Its Future (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207315) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:56 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Because they didn't contribute equally. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207431) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:17 AM Author: Artie Schiller Who brings something in is irrelevant. Once it comes in, both spouses own it equally. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207580) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:19 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) This is retarded and creates terrible incentives. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207595) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:23 AM Author: Artie Schiller The majority of society disagrees with you. Why should a stay at hom mom have to give up all her assets and income because her husband divorces her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207626) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:35 AM Author: dirte 80% of divorces are filed by the woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207687) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:38 AM Author: Artie Schiller That's not surprising. Marriage is harder for women than men. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207706) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:44 AM Author: dirte The SAHW is basically a relic of the past. The laws were enacted to protect these SAHW's, and these same laws fuck men over really badly with SAHW's. I don't feel sorry for women one bit, and alimony and child support should be eliminated completely. I don't care so much about the distribution of assets. My ex got 100% of my 401k and half of my pension up to the divorce date, and that doesn't bother me nearly as badly as paying her child support, despite having 50/50 custody. Thankfully, my state doesn't have alimony. But, as it's set up the Child Support is de facto alimony. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207744) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:45 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) lmao, it absolutely is not. The reason why is because they have much greater incentive to file for divorce. In general, whoever earns less has greater incentive because our system is stupid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207751) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:47 AM Author: Artie Schiller Most women work outside the house and still have to do the majority of the housework and childrearing while getting fucked by a bald fat husband. Marriage is terrible for women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207763) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:49 AM Author: dirte Have you seen North American women?
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:51 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) I assume this guy is flaming. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207786) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:53 AM Author: Artie Schiller Yes. I am married to one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207796) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:51 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) This is a ridiculous generalization. Some women do, some women are terrible mothers and earn nothing, some women earn the majority while men stay home, some never fuck their husbands (bald, fat, or otherwise), blah blah blah. The problem is that the incentives in divorce encourage the worst behaviors in marriage. The party that contributes less walks away with more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207783) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:54 AM Author: Artie Schiller MONETARY CONTRIBUTIONS DO NOT MATTER! THE SPOUSES ARE MARRIED. THEY AREN'T SEPARATE. GET IT THROUGH YOUR THICK RUSSIAN SKULL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207802) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:10 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Holy shitlawyer. This is why shitlawyers shouldn't discuss policy. Everyone understands the stupid system that presently exists. I'm explaining why that is stupid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207933) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:50 PM Author: Artie Schiller You don't even understand the current system. You apparently think what you earn is separate from what Mandy earns. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208203) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:02 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Thanks for reminding me of why we should shut down most law schools. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208295) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:09 PM Author: Artie Schiller I went to a top 30 law school, bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208328) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:25 PM Author: Mark Ironside why is that always described with the loaded word "sacrifice"?
most times they find spending more time with the kids and working less to be preferable, rather than a sacrifice where they are doing something they don't want to do. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:27 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Totally agreed. IRL, they prefer playing with their kids at home or in the park or whatever to going to a shitty office and doing boring work all day. I would too. How is that "a sacrifice"? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203936) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:27 PM Author: dirte This. Men are generally the only ones sacrificing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203940) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:28 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203944) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:28 PM Author: Mark Ironside (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203957) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:29 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Right, so in the scenario where the guy works harder to make more money and she checks out to stay home and play with the kid(s), he now owes her more money and the solution the system actually pushes for is either him outright quitting or making sure he only earns as much as she does. His sacrifice isn't appreciated at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203959) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:31 PM Author: dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203977) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:39 AM Author: Industrial Society and Its Future (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207317) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:27 PM Author: dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203937) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:29 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, It's a sacrifice if they end up single and end up needing more money. I take the point though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203962) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:31 PM Author: Mark Ironside well that's why i disagree with TMF and think the non-earning or lesser-earning spouse needs to get some assets out of the deal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203975) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:32 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) See below. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203986) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:32 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) If she fucked the milkman and is getting joint custody why does she deserve anything? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203985) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:33 PM Author: Mark Ironside fault is a different case (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203989) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:34 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) There should be no no-fault. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203994) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:35 PM Author: Mark Ironside totally agree, or at least the spouse filing for no-fault should suffer financial penalties, though i suppose that might encourage women to lie. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203998) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:36 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) And in a "but we just fell out of love" - presumption of fault is whoever files. They can turn that by providing legit grounds.
Also, BS abuse claims should be aggressively prosecuted. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:37 PM Author: dirte 100% agree with prosecution of all false alegations of abuse. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204007) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:41 AM Author: Industrial Society and Its Future (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207326) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:41 PM Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (Dictated But Not Read) CQ Ironside, very CQ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204029) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:46 AM Author: LJL at wagecucks Today's society myopically only views things from a monetary perspective. There is no consideration of the benefits confered by not having to wagecuck or not having hordes of unassimilable mudskins pouring into the country. The former is merely a loss of wages and the latter and loss of GDP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206185) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:35 PM Author: dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39209173) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:22 PM Author: Earl (The Goat) Manigoat (earl) most people would not have an exact 50/50 split like you and mandy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203886) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:26 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) I get that, which is why that rule would have the least impact on us. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203923) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:24 PM Author: Mark Ironside damn, even i don't think marital assets should be allocated 100% to the earning spouse.
agreed on the other 2 |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:31 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) There should be no profit from divorce. I am open to a modification that whoever files for divorce should have prejudice against them in the payout UNLESS there's a valid reasons such as infidelity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203981) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:35 PM Author: Mark Ironside >> I am open to a modification that whoever files for divorce should have prejudice against them in the payout UNLESS there's a valid reasons such as infidelity. <<
I definitely agree with this.
I just think you have to be careful here. You don't just want to encourage women to work full-time in case of divorce, just like you don't want to encourage women to act in bad faith and get a financial windfall. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:37 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) I don't approve of women staying home and expecting a payout anyway if they "fall out of love." Fuck that. Earn your keep or walk away with nothing if you decide to "eat, pray, love." Most women who stay home do so because they're riding the workhorse (the husband) and because working sucks. That shouldn't be rewarded. If they feel otherwise they can negotiate a prenup.
EDIT: One more note - with the current default system, a woman can without consulting her husband, BS him into saying she got fired, say she is looking for work, continue to lie, get pregnant, continue to be unemployed, leave him and profit massively. That shouldn't be the case. People not pulling their weight in a marriage should be the ones who worry, not vice versa. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:39 PM Author: Mark Ironside That's fine, but in some cases the man is at fault or he files. Clearly the woman should get something in that case. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204017) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:40 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Oh absolutely. If the man is at fault (or files) then he should have to pay.
And by the way, this shouldn't be gender based. This should be universal. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:43 PM Author: Mark Ironside agreed. it should be gender neutral (which feminists hate) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204039) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:57 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Don't worry, they'll find other ways to still BS things (like in France there's a ban on paternity tests, lol). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207436) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 11:03 PM Author: Artie Schiller The current rule doesn't allow women to profit from divorce. Before the divorce, they own everything the man owns and the woman is forced to give up half in divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205761) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 11:05 PM Author: dirte This is not true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205770) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 11:10 PM Author: Artie Schiller Divorce hurts both spouses financially and in an equal way. Do you think alimony and child support payments are unjust too? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205793) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 11:17 PM Author: dirte 100%
They should both be outlawed |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:44 AM Author: Industrial Society and Its Future (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207351) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:51 AM Author: LJL at wagecucks Why should they be rewarded for failing to keep their provider happy? They are dependents by nature so they ought to provide some consideration for the benefits they receive otherwise the institution of marriage fails as if has in the west (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206200) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:55 PM Author: Artie Schiller Why would assets be divided based on contributions? That is retarded. Each spouse owns half of the whole. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205721) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:57 PM Author: dirte (Woman) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205735) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 11:00 PM Author: Artie Schiller It doesn't matter which spouse brings something into the household. If it comes in, both spouses own it equally. If you don't like property law, don't get married. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205751) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:59 AM Author: LJL at wagecucks Woah, after hearing you appeal to tradition I love divorce law now! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206221) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:19 AM Author: Artie Schiller Explaining th law is an appeal to tradition? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207594) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:20 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) This is a normative and not a positive discussion. We understand the law now. The law as it stands now is retarded and is killing marriage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207610) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:25 AM Author: Artie Schiller Under your proposal, there would be no penalty for higher earning spouses to initiate divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207637) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:23 PM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Nope. That's why I'm proposing that we eliminate no fault and fault is assigned to the filer by default. If you're the higher earner and you file first you should worry that the asset distribution will reflect your fault.
That said, in general, the person who contributed less and doesn't earn as much SHOULD be the one that worries about a divorce. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:50 PM Author: Artie Schiller "I contributed with money!" shouted the ratfaced man.
Not all marriage contributions are financial, dumbass. You think judges should waste their time trying to value good sex and cooking? |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:56 PM Author: dirte Men contribute good sex and cooking too.
Any man with a SAHW should be very worried about divorce.
Any man that gets married, knowing the potential outcome, kind of deserves getting asswrecked. I tried to talk out 3 different guys out of marriage, none of them listened. I bet at least 2 of them are divorced in 10 years.
It's like you don't see how the system is rigged against men (or the higher earner) and are just trolling right now. Do you honestly believe a cheating wife deserves 50% of all the assets and also Child Support and Alimony after divorce?
I can't seem to figure out what your point is. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:07 AM Author: WASP money manager Logic like this is why Allen Iverson's ex-wife is worth $80 million. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207148) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:18 AM Author: Artie Schiller If they stayed married, she would have more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207590) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:10 AM Author: Mark Ironside this gets very skewed at higher income levels though. the lower earning spouse can get a huge financial windfall, whether man or woman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207160) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:20 AM Author: Artie Schiller The lower earning spouse would have more of they stayed married. There is no profit or windfall. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207606) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:22 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Not necessarily. Your spouse could spend the money, not give you access, etc. In divorce you can "cash out" and have zero responsibilities to the spouse that actually earned the money. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207622) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:24 AM Author: Artie Schiller A spouse can't "not give access" to money. A husband has a duty to support his wife. I can't believe you are married and an attorney. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207632) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:39 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) The easiest way to enforce that is to get a divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207709) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:21 PM Author: chilmata (Big Dawg) Sounds to me like she's going to win a move-away order. Hopefully she moves to a state where the child support laws are more lax. If she does, then he needs to move out of state also and then he can move to modify the child support payments in her new home state.
Sounds drastic, but if he doesn't do this then he will wind up paying the draconian amount of child support set by his home state while she is living in a lower COL area.
A great tactic that I would use is wait until the week she's getting ready to move. Let her cancel her lease, pack everything up and THEN you file to stop the move-away.
In California it takes a minimum of six months for the entire process to play out and he can use that as leverage to negotiate a favorable visitation schedule.
You can get up to a 40% timeshare even when they move across the country. You negotiate for all the major school holidays plus summer. So dad will get the entire summer, Xmas and Spring breaks. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:27 PM Author: chilmata (Big Dawg) What you can also do in California is lower the child support payments by factoring in all the travel costs dad will have to pay to fly the kids home each vacation.
So if dad has three visits per year (summer, Xmas and spring break) he will have to fly the kids home three times). Dad should print out estimated costs of the flights per year. Take that annual cost and divide it by 12. Child support should be reduced by that monthly amount so that dad has enough money to buy the tickets.
There is a California Supreme Court case that allows this deviation from the support guidelines, but I forget what its called.
It is sort of a constructive trust theory. We need to create this constructive trust by allowing dad to save money each month so he can afford tickets to see his kids, which is in the kids' best interest to do so as maintaining a strong bond with both parents is important. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:30 PM Author: dirte LOL at going from joint custody to visitation, because she wants to move.
My ex asked me last month if I'd be willing to move to colorado. I told her to pack sand. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:30 PM Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (Dictated But Not Read) Alaska draws high T women who have a propensity for risk taking and less interest in "traditional" lifestyles. Men too for that matter. Plus the high drinking levels, no doubt it's a 24/7 orgiastic fuckfest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203972) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:33 PM Author: north atlantid cr every girl from alaska is insane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39203987) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:41 PM Author: eat the bugs goy there are definitely more women who cheat than men, but it's because more women *can* cheat than men. there is always some guy who will fuck even an objectively unattractive married shrew, and he will do it for free. but there are not many women who will fuck unattractive married men, so that group of men overall has much less total opportunity to cheat. if prostitution was legal here, you'd see just as many married men "cheating" as married women
the solution is of course to deliberately restrict female sexuality, which is what human civilization did for the previous 99.9% of its existence to get around this problem. not surprisingly, as soon as we stopped doing this women spiraled completely out of control, just as you would expect |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:44 PM Author: '""""'" cr the people ITT drawing an equivalence between male/female cheating are retarded. chastity and fidelity are part of the female gender role, just like dying in war is part of the male gender role (but not the female role). learn your role. men ≠ women |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:50 PM Author: dirte Womyn are just as strong as men, even stronger. Bigot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204081) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:52 PM Author: American Tourist Goes Missing in Mexico (Dr. Thunder) ANYTHING YOU CAN DO I CAN DO BETTER! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204093) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:26 PM Author: rap parody (lttp) The solution is decriminalized unregulated prostitution plus open borders with free one-way plane tickets for all women with age and BMI <25 worldwide (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204255) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:44 PM Author: Splinter Incel (Dork Enlightenment) Fidelity is really more than can reasonably be expected from a woman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204049) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:45 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204054) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 5:45 PM Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (Dictated But Not Read) OP is a humblebrag about how many friends dirte has btw (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204053) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:00 PM Author: ,,,.,,,,;.,.,::;,,;..,,::.,.,,..:,:,.:..:,..:.::, Isn't the divorce rate pretty low for well-educated successful couples? It seems like divorces happen when there is a mismatch between the man and the woman, whether it's looks, education, success, money. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204123) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:02 PM Author: dirte It's still pretty high these days. It may be lower for the well educated, but it's still really high. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204126) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:07 PM Author: ,,,.,,,,;.,.,::;,,;..,,::.,.,,..:,:,.:..:,..:.::, I think I saw data recently that showed the divorce rate plummeting in recent years. What dating apps has done is effectively sort out the market, so that couples are evenly matched across the metrics. This results in lower divorce rates for recently married couples. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204150) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:11 PM Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (Dictated But Not Read) no what has happened is that there are fewer marriages ergo fewer divorces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204161) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:21 PM Author: Mark Ironside (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204226) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:39 PM Author: ,,,.,,,,;.,.,::;,,;..,,::.,.,,..:,:,.:..:,..:.::, I'm talking about the divorce rate %, not the absolute number. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204338) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 6:42 PM Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (Dictated But Not Read) same answer. the people who, in the past, would be getting married and divorcing relatively quickly, are now just living together for a couple years then splitting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204352) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 7:14 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204474) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 8:34 PM Author: \"\'\"\'\"\'\'\"\"\" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204917) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 8:35 PM Author: '''''''''''' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204924) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:54 PM Author: TS Amanda Lawson (𓀐𓂺👩🏻🎤) Don’t think any stat shows this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205712) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:46 AM Author: Industrial Society and Its Future (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207362) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 8:35 PM Author: \"\'\"\'\"\'\'\"\"\" Do most of them have kids? Curious how much this changes the equation for women (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39204927) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 9:43 PM Author: dirte I think all but two couples had kids. Most have two or more.
The woman gets more money with more kids.
Most live in Alaska, and Alaska has a presumption of joint custody 50/50. Every single one of the women in Alaska filed for DVRO’s, despite being baseless. In ever case, the father got 50/50 if they wanted it and the women were furious.
A few bros knew they weren’t cut out for 50/50 and accepted a different custodial arrangement. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:00 PM Author: \"\'\"\'\"\'\'\"\"\" Are there really men lining up there to date these whores? Who wants a woman with kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205434) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:05 PM Author: dirte Proles don’t seem to care. It’s actually astonishing how many proles are willing to date a woman with kids, and even marry them knowing full well they are cheating whores. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205447) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 8:47 PM Author: Doug Hopkins A lot of scholarship ITT, just want to add that one reason women are cheating more is because it has become almost socially acceptable to do so. In any functioning society, a woman who cheats would be ostracised from her friends and family, not celebrated for "finding her true self" or some other nonsense. It's disgusting what has happened to this country, and we will be paying the price for generations to come. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205031) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 9:43 PM Author: dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205337) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 9:44 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205340) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 9:57 PM Author: the gorgon Describe some of these women and their homewrecking BULLS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205412) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:03 PM Author: dirte I don’t know most of the dudes, but only a few of them are substantially better looking than the guys left behind. Almost all of them make far less money. I think like 5-6 of them are fitness instructors or CrossFit instructors.
Every chick I know that is married and has lost a bunch of weight, and their husband did not has cheated on their husband. Almost all of them have gotten divorced. The remaining ones are teetering on the edge. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:11 PM Author: ...,,,.,..,.,,..,,,.,,,..,,,,...,,. Sounds like these women don't work full time jobs
After work I am wiped out and too exhausted to even think about cheating. All I want to do is lie in bed and surf the web. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:15 PM Author: dirte Most are SAHW or have bullshit job at non-profit or as barista (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205499) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:18 PM Author: ...,,,.,..,.,,..,,,.,,,..,,,,...,,. That's the issue then - they need full time jobs and then they won't have time to think about cheating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205514) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:19 PM Author: dirte The issue is much deeper than that bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205519) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:16 PM Author: TS Amanda Lawson (𓀐𓂺👩🏻🎤) Women not being obese in America signals she wants to trade up, otherwise she doesn’t care to maintain herself out of respect to husband
Access to many women is about the hottest thing a man can have to women |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:17 PM Author: dirte This.
CW agrees |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:03 AM Author: Mark Ironside (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207128) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:11 AM Author: the gorgon Sounds like the real takeaway here is you’re an insane chump as a man in 2019 America if you’re not a CrossFit instructor - don’t even have to be good looking, just focus on being fit and chill. Some woman and her dumb beta provider ex-husband will take care of the $$$ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207168) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:37 AM Author: dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207700) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:09 PM Author: the gorgon if this has happened to like 30 people you know you cannot even blame women, they are just acting rationally and men should start doing the same. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207925) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:09 PM Author: Get Thee\'s Husband Link to study showing women cheat more than men? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205458) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:10 PM Author: '""'"'"'"" How do you know enough people to have 30 friends/acquaintances who are getting divorced? Like how the fuck are you keeping tabs on this much shit?
Guess it happened over 5 years but still.... |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:11 PM Author: dirte I live in the town I grew up in
I know everyone.
Everyone knows of the shitshow I went through and they call me for advice. Which lawyer? Should I try and make this work? How badly am I going to get fucked?
I’ve been telling them all to file domestic violence protective orders against the wives immediately. Only two have done this and they thanked me later. They said that was extremely helpful in their case since they filed it first. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:21 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, What do the orders do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205531) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:23 PM Author: dirte Get’s them a leg up in the custody suit. If they violate the order, it counts as a Domestic Volence related crime and basically gives the men all the power due to the statutes. This is why almost every woman files a “fear assault’ DVRO once they retain an attorney. It’s fucking ridiculous. My attorney said 95% of the DVRO’s are completely false.
That’s what happened to me. Luckily my case was dismissed or I wouldn’t have any custody right now. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:14 PM Author: TRUMP TEAM SIX (Trump Team 6) I will get married in the next few months. We will have the ceremony at the hotel and everything, except we will not be signing legal documents. lol @ guys who give the power to the girl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205489) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:14 PM Author: ...,,,.,..,.,,..,,,.,,,..,,,,...,,. Are you marrying one of your whores (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205492) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2019 10:17 PM Author: TRUMP TEAM SIX (Trump Team 6) no, im marrying one of my good girls (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39205508) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:47 AM Author: Here's Why prole tell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206188) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:03 AM Author: nyuug (1000 girls. GG.) ITT: what the third world looks sounds and feels like (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206238) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:04 AM Author: SomeOtherGhost can you bust inside that "sugar" "mommy"? be honest, bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206244) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:09 AM Author: SomeOtherGhost ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207155) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 4:53 AM Author: Stan Getz The problem is these people get married out of ennui and societal pressure. They don't have the capacity to introspect over the reality that they will be cumming home to the same person every day for the remainder of their life.
Marriage is no fucking joke. Unless you have somehow found the 100% greatest perfect person it will not work out. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 8:18 AM Author: dirte Twist: That person does not exist (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39206835) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:19 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) No one in prior generations ever thought like this, btw. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207598) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:44 AM Author: Harmon Killebrew This is insane solipsistic modern thinking, and it's toxic to live your life this way. And I say this as a perpetually single urban shithead. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207745) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:48 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) tcr. Traditionally, people have married for a million reasons but "it is time to get married and I like this person and I could raise a family with them" has been a pretty good reason. What hasn't been acceptable until recently is saying "you shouldn't get married unless the person is 100% perfect for you in every way". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207769) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:50 AM Author: dirte Yeah, it's weird that cultures with forced marriages seem to work very well with much lower divorce rates. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207777) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:52 AM Author: ESL TM..,..;;. (🦈) Or even without "forced" marriage - just cultures that don't reward divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207791) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:01 PM Author: dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207869) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 10:47 AM Author: KamalaSexyFineCleverChocolate The problem is when women cheat their bird brains start thinking they belong with the other guy. Men can cheat and just view at as a side deal much more easily.
Also, dirte how the fuck do you know that many people well enough to know the details of their divorce? |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:36 AM Author: dirte In a few threads above, I detailed why.
Everyone fucking calls me because they know all the shit I went through.
Also, I live in the same town I grew up in. I know everyone. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:26 AM Author: .,,..,,;,..,,.,.,;,..::,,....,:,...,:,,..:.,.:,. Holy shit you must be really fucking popular if you know that many guys who got divorced for that specific reason just in the past 5 years! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207650) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 11:27 AM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207653) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:19 PM Author: Belisarius Out of my friends from college, all of us have been married more than 8 years or more and no divorces. Only ones that came close we’re due to husband cheating but wife forgave (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39207985) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:36 PM Author: nutella Must be the Alaskan trash you’re around?
I don’t know anybody who is getting divorced and those stuck in shitty marriages that I know of, the woman is definitely not cheating. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:38 PM Author: dirte Yeah... because women who cheat brag to all their friends about it.
I think you'd be shocked about the shit that goes on behind closed doors in most marriages. I doubt you've ever worked in family law. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:49 PM Author: nutella I don’t know what goes on with acquaintances but within my circle of actual friends, I would know what is happening, and lots of my friends have issues in their marriage, though nobody will get divorced for at least 15 years. There is literally no time to cheat btwn work, household stuff, taking care of children, going to play dates on weekends etc. Hell, it’s like 30 min just to go 3 miles to meet someone, lol at going to a bar and then driving to some broke actor’s house in north Hollywood to bang. Everyone is too damn fucking tired, men and women. The only easy opportunity is if you travel for work and it’s mainly the husbands who do so. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208196) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:50 PM Author: dirte If the opportunity presents itself, men and women both will make time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208206) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:54 PM Author: nutella I can speak both firsthand and for my friends that there is NO opportunity. I wake up at 6am, with the kids until 8/8:30, am at work til 5/5:30, go home, cook, bathe, hang with kids, kids go to bed at 8. Then you go out and find someone at 8pm and leave your spouse alone? On weekends, am with the kids all day. Where and when is this opportunity that you speak of? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208240) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:57 PM Author: Mark Ironside don't be naive. opportunities present themselves and then people start lying and making time.
growing up, we lived in between two families. the wife on one side was fucking the husband on the other side when the opportunity presented itself. something like that could easily happen.
also banging someone at work. you've never seen co-workers take long lunches to fuck? i know i have. hell, i've DONE it. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:13 PM Author: nutella You don’t have kids yet as far as I know so you’re not in a position to talk about opportunities. We are talking UMC wagecuck professional circles. Uber wealthy and proles who don’t live scheduled lives may be different.
As for banging at work, 30-50 is the period where you’re not banging coworkers. You’re mid-career, the stakes are high and frankly you’re not powerful/rich enough to get the young hot juniors and your peers are also other parents with young children and busy schedules. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:39 PM Author: Mark Ironside i literally know a male married biglaw partner who got divorced because he was banging a female married biglaw partner
you are way, way off here. this stuff happens. more than you think, though less than dirte is suggesting imo. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:16 PM Author: Shut The Fuck Upset Jew FWIW, Nutella’s “friends” are coworkers who think befriending her helps their career. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208373) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:54 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost she's incredibly naive, especially given that her dad iirc was a cheat (i suppose in what passes for her brain, nutella has decided that all married people who cheat must be nasty outwardly like her pops) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208654) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:59 PM Author: the gorgon it is a little mean to blast out of the gates attacking dirte’s “Alaskan trash” acquaintances since your only point here is that your neurotic striver friend circle where nobody gets divorced is different & superior to the rest of the world (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208268) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:01 PM Author: Mark Ironside idk why she thinks she'd automatically know if someone were cheating?
if i were cheating on my wife i'd never tell ANYONE at work or in our town or circle of friends. i'd *MAYBE* tell my one best friend from growing up, depending on how hot the side piece was. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:10 PM Author: the gorgon she is way too busy juggling her high powered career with being a GREAT mom to EVER cheat and all her girlfriends are the same way lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208339) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:16 PM Author: nutella I can think of 2 girls who would tempted to cheat and they have dead bedrooms and talk about to me all the time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208375) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:46 PM Author: Mark Ironside it's one thing to talk about a dead bedroom.
it's another to talk about cheating.
the latter is far more dangerous. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:55 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208665) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:33 PM Author: nutella What you don’t apparently know about women is that we are blabber mouths and can’t keep anything to ourselves and need to confide in others to unload guilt/look for affirmation. Women do not compartmentalize well. I would absolutely know if any of my close female friend were cheating. They’d be dying to tell me and looking for affirmation that it’s ok. It’s the opposite of what men do. Xoxo claims to know women but know so little. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39209162) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:45 PM Author: dirte Do they tell you grimy details like "he's such a perv. He put big anal beads in my ass and as I was cumming he ripped it out like a lawnmower cord. I swear to got, my shit flung all over the room, I'm still cleaning it up. Talk about disgusting... but, let me tell you sister, I've never cum so hard in my life." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39209238) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:49 PM Author: Mark Ironside no because zero of her friends cheat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39209268) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:55 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208662) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:15 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, Women tell each other everything (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208364) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:15 PM Author: nutella They would tell me because all they do is complain and I’m fairly non judgmental in person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208366) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:16 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost "in person"
important qualifier, but i have to imagine that in your heart of hearts, you're incredibly judgy in person 2 |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:43 PM Author: nutella My close friends know how judgy I am, but I also have a great deal of empathy for those I care about, believe it or not. Cheating is not a topic I believe is black and white that’s reduced down to good or bad. I actually think my dads cheating on my mom was justified to a large extent. Which is also why I take issue with dirte’s characterization of all wives being selfish lying whores and men as mere victims. Marriages are complicated. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39209226) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:10 PM Author: A Jurisprudence is Performed (Dictated But Not Read) I think her husband is previously divorced (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208341) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:12 PM Author: Harmon Killebrew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208349) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:54 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208659) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:43 PM Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,; FYI all the husbands who travel and have dead bedrooms are banging hookers when they travel. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208567) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:21 PM Author: .,,..,,;,..,,.,.,;,..::,,....,:,...,:,,..:.,.:,. you only associate with annoying chinks and don't live in america. your opinion doesn't matter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208802) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 12:57 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, CR. Dirte state the average income and education levels before we engage you further (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208257) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:08 PM Author: dirte The mean income, probably $100K, and probably mean education level Associates degree. Probably half of the men have at least a bachelor's degree. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208323) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:14 PM Author: ;;;..;....;......,,, Lol jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208358) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:51 PM Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,; I will say that we know three couples well who are getting divorced, 2/3 are decidedly are country middle class, 100k HHI bachelors educational attainment like Dirte's, but the third is an VP MBA and a biglaw service partner with three young kids (ages 7, 4 and 2). Only one of the two prole couples involved cheating and the wife cheated first and then they reconciled and then they both cheated on each other when they broke up five years later, but he appears to have cheated first at that point. I was certain that the VP MBA had to be cheating on the midlaw partner, but the evidence has not borne that out. She apparently just got sick of his shit and decided she wanted to not live with him anymore.
You are way underestimating the amount of opportunity, though, apparently bc you never travel for work. All it takes is a work wife/husband and one business trip. |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 1:56 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208667) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:34 PM Author: dirte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39209164) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:14 PM Author: Frank Lloyd Wrong nutella would bend over and peel those dog hair covered lulu lemons right down for any tall white guy with blue eyes and thats on god (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208754) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:17 PM Author: SomeOtherGhost false she's not the kind of super rich gilf who can get the "hot juniors" (yet) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208779) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:20 PM Author: Mark Ironside lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208797) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:21 PM Author: Frank Lloyd Wrong (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208798) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 2:54 PM Author: Harmon Killebrew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4393459&forum_id=2#39208955) |
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Date: December 3rd, 2019 3:23 PM Author: nutella I’m already married to a (relatively) tall guy with blue eyes I bend over for regularly so why on earth would I be looking elsewhere?
You like to denigrate women and say we are all cheating whores. Then an actual woman talks about how it is to be a married woman who knows and has very personal conversations with a lot of other married women and am dismissed of course.
Xoxo only exists to confirm incel views so I know I shouldn’t even bother. |