For xo oldmos - what advice do you have for someone entering their 30s?
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Date: April 29th, 2020 12:33 AM Author: Gay Cracking School Cafeteria Faggotry
You hit a point in your life when things aren’t working out like you fantasized when you’re a kid. You mope around thinking life sucks.
Then you’re 32 or so. Let’s say you’re at a 2/10 mentally.
Then bam. Someone important in your life is going to die. For me it was my mom suddenly. For you it might be someone else. I know a dude in my position and his little dood died at 7 months suddenly. ( *god forbid*) . I know a guy in the same position who just had a stroke and is in a wheelchair forever at age 37.
Just saying that life sometimes really sucks. Then BAM something even worse happens and you feel like you’re at a negative 8 out of 10.
Life at 30 and 40 isn’t just about debt, bullshit, nasty wife. People die and health problems come up.
Then you feel like you’re in a dusty cloud fever dream depression forever. Except this time you don’t wake up and everything is better.
I guess by 30 *most* people haven’t had something really bad happen to them. You will and you’ll realize that life is a horror show after horror show until you die. You finally get to that point where you don’t care if you die but you really mean it. Like you’ll stop suddenly in traffic and stop getting that feeling in your stomach.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40114419) |
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Date: May 1st, 2020 11:04 AM Author: Carnelian Hell Therapy
"Life at 30 and 40 isn’t just about debt, bullshit, nasty wife. People die and health problems come up.
Then you feel like you’re in a dusty cloud fever dream depression forever. Except this time you don’t wake up and everything is better."
Holy shit does this guy gets it.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40128773) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 12:19 AM Author: fiercely-loyal contagious parlor
When you turn 30, you're not old. You might think right now that you'll be old when you turn 30, but you won't be. Don't let yourself be held back by any idea that you're too old to do something.
My 30's have been some of the best years of my life. I still have youthful energy, ambition and imagination, but now I also have some wisdom and resources to use in pursuing my goals.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40114357) |
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Date: April 29th, 2020 7:24 PM Author: violent dashing lay jew
CR. 30s were an amazing time for me. It's really the new 20s given how long it takes many young people to get their start these days and how much longer people work and live.
If you're building a career - great. But also don't feel pigeonholed and be afraid to pivot - there's still time.
Also: spend more time with your parents (while they are around and have their minds intact) and start building wealth (saving and investing as much as possible - it will compound so much in 30-40 years). Try to take a vacation each year and go abroad if that's your thing. If you're single and interested in marriage/kids, start figuring out what you're looking for and who would be compatible with you longterm, and pursue that rather than swiping every cute bar slut on Tinder.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40119116) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 1:30 AM Author: cream sex offender rehab
Get married. One of the key traits you should be looking for is frugality. So many married people fight about money, and even more build up incredible amounts of unspoken resentment about the spending habits of their spouse (usually the wife, and almost always clothing or house clutter).
Once you find wife, you should have kids asap. Truly no point in waiting - you'll never feel ready.
Manage to maintain some hobbies or interests (even if they're shelved for a few years). Ideally some or all of these are simple things.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40114653) |
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Date: April 29th, 2020 4:21 PM Author: cream sex offender rehab
Managed to maintain:
-light gardening
-cooking
Shelved a bit:
-wine (still buying and storing, but consumption is way down and I don't devote the same about of time reading and visiting)
-hiking (used to drag wife a couple of times/month, but tough with two kids 5 & under and a wife who wants to sleep in on the weekends)
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40118070) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 7:31 AM Author: glittery magenta piazza
So you should start thinking of greater preventative maintenance on your body, if you haven't already. A few small things.
-Double your water intake. Probably if you do this your body will become much better regardless of what else you do.
-Floss every night. And floss well, up and down each side of the tooth, not just push in and out.
-If you've got hair, cut back on days you shampoo/conditioner if you can, say on weekends or WFH days.
-Increase use of say SPF 15 on your face on sunny days.
-People mention fitness/workout, yeah sure, just make sure you're thinking of low impact for joints (womanly yes but long-term value).
-Take the stairs.
-Increase fiber intake. Decrease sugar intake. Even whatever else you do with nutrition, these two go a long way. (And if you're not already, reducing alcohol intake.)
-Keep noisy shit out of your ears to save yourself from hearing loss.
So these are stupid trivial things that just require a little conscious effort. Unbelievable how much these add up.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40115142) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 7:46 AM Author: erotic medicated stage
If you want kids, assess wife candidates on ability to have kids with / be a mother.
Granted every women's brain rewires after first kid and the first years are tougher, but do NOT marry the hot slightly crazy chick who is 180 in bed but just a little unstable.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40115177) |
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Date: April 29th, 2020 10:55 AM Author: Carnelian Hell Therapy
It's crazy that the concept of "you marry for the purpose of having children" can be controversial. Kids become your life and you need a partner who is in-it-to-win-it with you. Kids are also 180 and so much more satisfying than anything else in life.
EDIT: also, divorce can be so life-destroying bad that there is no reason to risk becoming someone's chattel slave (through alimony) unless you're getting something amazing out of the deal, i.e. kids.
I do a lot of divorce and some of the results from the family court are unspeakably evil, there is no worse life result than getting saddled with a big alimony award.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40115954) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 10:28 AM Author: Ungodly mischievous chad
at 30, you have at least 1-2 kids, wrapping up plans to have the rest by the time you 32 (50-51 when they 18) just starting to make real money. buying things that you give your kids, like land or offices. saving hand over fist for shit like college. fuckin your wife whose still pretty good lookin.
30 rocks.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40115755) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 10:41 AM Author: Carnelian Hell Therapy
My advice for someone in their 30's:
1. As a man, your 30's is when you go from being a young-man to a full grown man. Say goodbye to childish things and embrace your being full grown.
2. There is no time for bad women. If the girl is not marriage material, she has to go immediately.
3. Buy a boat. There is no end to why this is the CR. Also, buy a full sized truck.
4. Go out as much as you can. When kids come, it's over.
5. If you are with a woman who you think is the one, don't live together before you're married. Cohabitation is billed as a "trial-period" of marriage but it's not. Nothing can prepare you for marriage, best to go in with your eyes closed.
6. To build on #5, if you're with a girl you want to marry, marry her. Our ancestors barely knew the women they married. Also, as a divorce lawyer, I can tell you that I don't think that long courtships prevent divorce, I divorce plenty of people who were together for years prior to marriage.
7. Say HELL NO to a big wedding. The desire for a big wedding is the biggest red-flag of all for women and most of the really big weddings I have attended ended in relatively quick divorces.
8. Marriage is for the purpose of raising kids, so choose a wife that you think would be a good mom. Also, after getting married, there is no reason to wait to have kids.
9. Don't buy a house in the suburbs until you're married and planning on having kids.
10. Never complaint about your Wife to friends or family. Your complaining about your wife diminishes their opinion of you, handle your household the best you can but keep your family business between your family. Bad-wife poasting is the only CR if you want to complain about your wife.
I may think of more later, I'll add to the list.
EDIT:
11. Be careful with drug & alcohol use. Guys who really let loose with getting fucked up in their 30's can have bad outcomes. My stoner buddies have had trouble in life around 40, and my buddies who are raging drunks didn't have good outcomes when 40 hit. Like they say, drugs & alcohol go from fun, to fun with problems, to a problem. At 30, it's fun, but if you don't have control, at 40, it's problems.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40115847) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 11:04 AM Author: sticky confused chapel wagecucks
The gay version:
1) If you want kids, make sure you have at least 100k set aside for adoption. Much less if you're willing to settle for an Asian child or a Russian baby with fetal alcohol syndrome for adoption. If you're rich, you can do a surrogate, but let's assume you're average guy.
2) Don't stop going out or drinking. It's still fun.
3) You have to exercise now. No getting around it. It's required for maintenance now.
4) Do drugs but smaller amounts and with intention. No more all night coke/sex binges.
5) You're not a twink anymore, you're 34 but you tell people you're 29.
6) Settle into a nice relationship with a guy, and remember you can always make it an open relationship if you want to fuck other people but this is where companionship becomes important.
7) If you have nieces or nephews, be the greatest possible uncle/aunt you can, this is why god put you on earth and made you gay.
8) Continue to flaunt your relatively carefree lifestyle and ability to use disposable income on self to straight world/friends.
9) Brunch is still approved.
10) Own some type of property, somewhere like Palm Springs. Then talk about "my condo in Palm Springs".
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40115987) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2020 1:23 PM Author: Slate curious lodge
He was the son of god the entire time.
And by the end of age 30 he had wandered the desert, turned water into wine, formed his posse, and driven the moneymakers from the temple.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40134644)
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Date: April 29th, 2020 12:17 PM Author: multi-colored station
so basically everyone doing worse than u sucks
everyone doing better than u also sucks cause they don't have ur "chill" childless lifstyle
reminds me of that driving quote:
"if ur driving slower than me ur an idiot. if ur driving faster than me ur a maniac".
in psych 101 they call this id vs. ego mental gymnastics
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40116458) |
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Date: April 29th, 2020 12:41 PM Author: multi-colored station
agree with that
but lots of people in house or even at biglaw still have time to do the wife / family thing and do it well.
really depends on the person. there's the all-in club rats that do coke every night after work to blow off steam and then there are the homebodies who go home, play with their kids, and log back on and they're happy with their life.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40116611) |
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Date: April 29th, 2020 12:46 PM Author: Frozen Odious Center
In-house - yes. In-house is made for this.
Biglaw? lol. I don't buy this at all. Like consulting, biglaw is fundamentally not family friendly.
"there's the all-in club rats that do coke every night after work to blow off steam and then there are the homebodies who go home, play with their kids, and log back on and they're happy with their life."
Right, but one of these scenarios works better for your 30s and beyond than the other.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40116655) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 12:30 PM Author: iridescent set
1. stay active/healthy
2. eat better
3. maintain and build personal relationships
4. splurge where you need to be be frugal overall
5. wife a good person
6. poa on xo
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40116531) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 12:41 PM Author: Hyperventilating domesticated state national security agency
1. smoke more weed
2. if you haven't gotten into gaming yet, try to pick up gaming. if you already game, game more.
3. if you don't live with your parents, move back in with your parents.
4. smoke more weed
5. if your job is full time, look for something in the same field that is part time or do "consulting" work.
6. stop exercising--it will fuck up your joints and organs. hopefully you were active enough in your teens and twenties that you won't end up with some sort of ghoulish or corpulent physique.
7. spend all of your time in front of a screen--ideally multiple screens
8. eat cheaper foods. go for the good stuff, the canned stuff.
9. don't buy a gun--youll just shoot yourself in the head
10. start a blog
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40116618) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 2:31 PM Author: Razzle milky box office
Some good advice in here but you gotta know yourself, what you want, what you can live with.
If you want that family life, there are some common sense ways of attaining that. Stable job, stable wife, buy home in decent neighborhood with good schools, save money.
If you want freedom, novelty, and experience, do consulting, own property, develop some business that allows you to travel, bang international girls, and take time off periodically for yoga/meditation retreats, hippie communes, experiment with psychedelics, etc.
There is no right way.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40117420)
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Date: April 29th, 2020 3:57 PM Author: ebony tattoo philosopher-king
30 is just getting started. A lot will change in the next decade. In my case 30 sucked and was probably the worst year of my life. Things went dramatically uphill from there, but I had to make them happen. Not only do you need a core competence, i.e., the ability to add some kind of value to situations that you can get paid for, but you have to look for opportunity. Also, be kind to other people and help them, partly because it's the right thing to do and partly because it's a good investment. Some tiny fraction of them may some day return the favor.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40117969)
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Date: April 29th, 2020 4:49 PM Author: Misanthropic bawdyhouse
The death comments above are true - get right with people, tell them you love them.
Get your physical every year, take care of your teeth. Develop hobbies that are fun and relatively cheap, bonus if they include exercise and the outdoors. Track your expenses and come up with a financial plan.
Start stretching. Give up binge drinking liquor. Try to read before bed (not on your phone).
I’m becoming terribly routine oriented and old mannish... like I get upset when things don’t start on time or if my wife wants to go to a concert on a Wednesday. I hate it but haven’t found a solution. Been trying to meditate but it hasn’t stuck.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40118239) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 4:52 PM Author: Titillating violent puppy gunner
Avoid women with personality disorders and NEVER marry one. Think carefully about the personality and temperament of the person you are marrying and make sure she will be a good partner.
“Networking” is gay, but make sure you develop a solid network of people in your industry who you can count on. I have gotten multiple jobs through connections. This can also enable you to move to a lower COL area.
Reduce your expenses and save money.
Lift and eat healthy 80% of the time at least
Keep in touch with your guy friends and don’t let those relationships fade because you are busy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40118263)
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Date: April 29th, 2020 8:11 PM Author: painfully honest candlestick maker
My honest advice: Do not worry about this life too much.
Become a Buddhist and seek enlightmenment. It will get you out of the vicious cycle of coming back a lot faster than seeking to remain "young", "wealthy" and meeting all of the requirements of this life.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40119366) |
Date: April 29th, 2020 9:57 PM Author: talented property
hasn't been mentioned yet, but start to focus your career on living near family rather than prestige. when you have kids you will want to be near family. So if you're a lawyer and your family is in Arkansas, focus on real estate or trusts - not private equity.
You will be much happier making 150k in little rock with your parents pitching in with childcare than living in NYC making 400k but having to pay more than half of that to taxes and strangers raising your kids.
It's time to realize your life will be about your kids shortly and they don't care about those dumb $600 million deal trophies or livimg in a "cool" neighborhood
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Date: May 4th, 2020 9:28 AM Author: Zombie-like outnumbered resort becky
simmer down Slick. it's a film reference.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MImNGJNcvIc
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4522317&forum_id=2#40144454)
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