Today I Gave My Dad A Choice: Trump or His Grandkids and His Son
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Date: September 20th, 2020 12:23 AM Author: electric office
I felt the need to let him know what the stakes really were.
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I wrote earlier about trying to express my reasons to my dad in a calm and intellectual manner. I actually thought I had been calm and well-reasoned. I thought I might even be making progress.
Today I found out he put a Trump sign in his yard.
I got pissed. Really pissed. And I sent him and my mom a text message. Hands shaking, tears in eyes. This is what it said:
Due to the signs in the yard, the kids and I will not be down. The current occupant of the White House is preaching hate and violence, endangering the lives and safety of many of my friends. This is not acceptable to me at all. There is a complete disregard for women, minorities, science, ethics, and morality. Please consider if you support Trump that much. Because I hate him that much. I wanted to be upfront and honest about my feelings.
And then I went for a walk to calm down. And the more I thought about it, the more I agreed with the message. At this point, it is not acceptable to me. You can vote for whom you wish. But I can choose who I surround myself with. I love my dad, but I can’t be around him until he understands how vital I believe this election to be and what is truly at stake. It is not easy. But it was necessary. Now to see what fallout occurs.
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Date: September 20th, 2020 12:31 AM Author: Cream misanthropic hall messiness
"Hands shaking, tears in eyes."
"Hands shaking, tears in eyes."
"Hands shaking, tears in eyes."
"Hands shaking, tears in eyes."
"Hands shaking, tears in eyes."
"Hands shaking, tears in eyes."
"Hands shaking, tears in eyes."
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Date: September 20th, 2020 12:46 AM Author: violet tattoo
This is real mental illness. If you’re prepared to abandon the man that raised you over a national election over which none of you have any real sway....you’re a stupid mistake that should’ve never been born.
This makes me want trump to win 100x more. Trump is fat and stupid and I don’t care for him personally. but the agony of these people would bring me so much joy.
Thank goodness this freakshow assured us that he expressed his views in a “calm and intellectual” manner. He seems normal and well adjusted now.
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Date: September 20th, 2020 10:30 AM Author: spectacular blathering parlor
Libs are deeply disturbed, unhappy people. You see this when you travel across the country. Republican towns have happy families going out to eat, playing outside, laughing.
Liberal towns have nervous, twithcy people staring out fearfully at the world from behind their masks.
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Date: September 20th, 2020 1:46 PM Author: Mind-boggling boiling water
It’s really disturbing how the media (and particularly online media) holds up these people who are *legitimately mentally ill* as examples and suggests that their behavior is exemplary.
I don’t mean this in a haha libs are crazy way. It’s just objectively true. A significant proportion of these people are under a doctors care and taking serious medication yet they are trying to tell others how to live their lives. This is not right.
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Date: September 20th, 2020 10:19 PM Author: Razzle lodge filthpig
This or a permutation of it is what is going on inside the head of every TDS-afflicted internet shrieker:
What is Mental Illness?
Perspectives from inside the box
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I want to start off by saying that this will reflect my own experiences and opinions. I expect that many feel the same way, but I don’t want to assume that. I have been battling with depression and anxiety for about a decade now. And I came out of it. For the first time in a decade, I don’t need any medication to help me manage my mental health. It gave me a perspective that I hope will help others.
Before I address specific events in my past, I do want to start with some questions that I have started pondering recently. Thought experiments of sorts. One specifically drives the others: “What if everything we know is wrong?”
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Starting with that question, I began to question everything. Why are things the way they are? It turns out, the answer is very easy if you think about it. The past has led to the current point in time. The events of the past are innumerable, but some events had bigger impacts in time than others. But the past is what the past is. We can’t change it. What about the future?
What about the future?
This is something that hit me hard. I realized that I had gotten so withdrawn into me own head, I never considered the futures of anyone outside of myself in real detail. And that led me to another consideration. I had never really asked people what they wanted their futures to be.
Why is that?
It occurred to me that I viewed the world around me as robots. I would provide input, they would give me some output, and I would move on. I never considered anyone else’s relationship to time and in relationship to my own time. Think about that for a moment. It isn’t easy to grasp, but once you get it, it’s hard to lose.
One of the things I have been doing while stuck in my head is breaking down every part of myself. I approached my brain like an engineering problem. I am just going to strip away layer after layer of why thoughts until I understand why I am who I am.
Thankfully, I have been lucky in life. I have the privilege of being able to do this on my own for the most part. I have just recently started therapy, and it really helped me understand how privileged I have been. So I stripped my past down to understand what made me me. I do not recommend this on your own if you have had a traumatic past. Find help before really getting into the darker parts of your life.
An interesting thing happened. I eventually got to the bottom. Or at least, close enough to the bottom that I decided to start building back up. And I started building back up while considering the futures of those around me, in addition to my own. And then my futures started changing. And I am ok with that. I am willing to sacrifice clarity of my own future for a less clear future with others while working toward a collective good.
Time is interesting though, and every moment has an impact on something in future. And that doesn’t mean you need to understand what that impact will be. But by thinking of your actions in the present with the knowledge that they impact your futures, you can actually take control of your own life in the present. Maybe you can’t control all of your own futures in the moment. But if nothing else, you can make some part of some future more likely by an action now.
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I proved this to myself. I took small actions. If I couldn’t think of something to do, I had something I set myself to do automatically. One thing I found was that if I gave myself something to do every time I couldn’t think of something, I did a lot less of the things I didn’t like about myself. So I started drinking bottles of water. I told myself that if I didn’t have anything to do in a moment and I started wandering, I would just grab a bottle of water.
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I had to pee a lot. But also, it made it a lot easier to stop doing things I didn’t like doing. It started breaking the cycles I was letting myself get caught up in. And once I started breaking some cycles, there was a cascade effect. Cycles started breaking everywhere. And then my future became less clear, but also much brighter.
So where am I now? I am a work in progress. But I feel truly happy for the first time in a long time. And I was able to break my timeline. And I had, to me, a life-changing thought. Why didn’t I reach out for help earlier? And it was because I was looking for the map when I was already lost. We need to start addressing mental health not as optional, but as mandatory. It is just as important to get your mental health in line as it is your physical health.
Now for my other life-changing thought. What if we weren’t meant to deal with our thoughts on our own? What if humans at some point lost the ability to fully communicate with others, but their brains are wired to do exactly that. We all have shared experiences. But why should anyone have to learn something that someone else already has? If we freely communicate, we get to clearly discuss thoughts and feelings as we have them. Then things don’t build up. I think the key to better mental health is to talk about it. So I am doing so. Please feel free to reach out and ask me anything. I don’t think I have all the answers. But given a question, I know where to start looking.
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