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Ever fall in love?
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:43 PM Author: Bipolar double fault Not talking about dull slow love over time. Intense burning type love that is reciprocal. Not talking about obsessing over a girl that has no interest in you.
how long did it last? how did it end? |
Date: February 28th, 2024 5:43 PM Author: orange up-to-no-good point once it was gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448406) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:43 PM Author: Bipolar double fault Luis said you guys had a lot of fun (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448407) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:45 PM Author: orange up-to-no-good point fun, but we were terrible for each other (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448416) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:47 PM Author: White disturbing volcanic crater idea he suggested What does that mean (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448424) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:44 PM Author: Nudist Church Fleetingly a couple times, yes. In a way I wish I had never experienced love because life feels so meaningless without it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448412) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:45 PM Author: White disturbing volcanic crater idea he suggested (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448415) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:46 PM Author: Bipolar double fault How long did it last? What ended it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448420) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:51 PM Author: Nudist Church Both girls made sudden U-turns in their feelings for me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448440) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:52 PM Author: White disturbing volcanic crater idea he suggested Women are 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448446) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:54 PM Author: Bipolar double fault Sounds like they never really loved you then or you fucked up super badly
How long did it last? |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:58 PM Author: Nudist Church Eh complicated situation with the first one; we're still friends. Second situation it was factors out of my control (she had to move for work, but a manageable distance) and some fuck ups on my part. First relationship was about 7 months, second was just two very intense and promising months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448470) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 1:27 PM Author: Bipolar double fault How did you fuck up? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47450859) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 1:40 PM Author: Nudist Church She's pretty lib and I enjoy making off color jokes/commentary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47450915) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 1:43 PM Author: Bipolar double fault Then you guys didn't actually love each other. That is such a huge difference there is no way you could have really liked the girl that much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47450924) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 1:52 PM Author: Nudist Church Eh she wasn't really politically liberal, just her outlook. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47450960) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:56 PM Author: slippery genital piercing preventive strike (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448462) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:05 PM Author: alcoholic fighting dysfunction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451443) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:55 PM Author: Stimulating codepig seems gay af (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448459) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:57 PM Author: slippery genital piercing preventive strike yeah
what the poaster above said is very cr. once you've experienced being In Love, nothing else in life measures up to that afterwards. it's similar to violence or near-death experiences in this way
it becomes extremely hard to take the world and your life seriously after that. and makes it impossible to take "dating" seriously. lol |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 5:59 PM Author: Nudist Church Messaging app matches was already soulless and mindless. After having fallen in love it actively takes time off my life. But nothing else to do so alas. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448476) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 6:21 PM Author: Bipolar double fault How long did it last and why did it end? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448560) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 3:27 PM Author: Cordovan Rebellious Laser Beams Sometimes you can fall in love with app girls (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451314) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:10 PM Author: slippery genital piercing preventive strike haha yeah *avoids eye contact* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451471) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 7:04 PM Author: Cordovan Rebellious Laser Beams (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47452034) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:05 PM Author: alcoholic fighting dysfunction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451439) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 6:00 PM Author: Aquamarine appetizing toilet seat Twice once in high school, and once with The Box The Poaster. Really intense but different experiences. The first time around I lacked any control over my own feelings so it was a lot worse. I pushed her away and I could see it happening but I couldn't control myself. It was an awful experience. In my defense I was a teenager.
Second time I was a lot more in control of myself. It was very bittersweet but no regrets. Irreconcilable differences but we're still close friends and that's the best place for us. Third time will be the charm. |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 6:10 PM Author: Bipolar double fault How long with the Box? Why did it end? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47448514) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 6:17 PM Author: Aquamarine appetizing toilet seat ~9 mos to a year loosely.
We both tried to make it work but we had too many differences. It was an incompatibility. I triggered her often and she would go into a rage. We were both unwilling to change for each other. It would never have worked out. Props to her for giving it a shot though. And neither of us ever cheated. She is a loyal gal. |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 1:34 PM Author: Fragrant Lake Famous Landscape Painting It's almost as if literally every poster here other than you could see that "dating" an aging Box would result in disaster and humiliation.
You also have a tremendously low bar for "never cheated," considering that it's true that the Box slept with you, fucked several other men with bigger cocks, and then slept with you again. I get it, you rationalize this humiliation with the refrain that you "weren't exclusive," but that doesn't change the basic facts of this cuckery. |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 3:26 PM Author: cyan sweet tailpipe wow (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451305) |
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Date: February 28th, 2024 9:38 PM Author: Bipolar double fault (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47449150) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 1:39 PM Author: Fragrant Lake Famous Landscape Painting It was a complete shitshow every time and never lead to a sustainable LTR. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47450909) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 3:25 PM Author: twisted flesh senate the real thing is an all consuming flame, leaving nothing but a trace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451297) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:05 PM Author: alcoholic fighting dysfunction (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451441) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:09 PM Author: twisted flesh senate why won't u fall back in love with me?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztzfr1PjFCY |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:09 PM Author: alcoholic fighting dysfunction yeah. it fucking sucks. i think the only type of woman that can give and inspire this type of love has BPD. it's like heroin, i assume. it's the best feeling in the world, you'll ruin your life for it, and when you finally kick it everything feels duller by comparison. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451467) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:10 PM Author: drunken orchid stag film so is bpd a way for female to attract mat4e? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451473) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:13 PM Author: alcoholic fighting dysfunction sort of? all personality disorders are essentially normal behaviors turned to disordered levels. i would say that bpd is like turn all the aspects of being a woman into overdrive. all the great things are much better, all the bad things are much worse. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451485) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:35 PM Author: orange up-to-no-good point makes u feel like youre living in a movie rather than just dealing with banal reality. being around them is literally like taking a reality enhancing drug (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451563) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:48 PM Author: alcoholic fighting dysfunction during my time with it i would constantly emphasis "i swear, this is exactly what happened." when discussing the bad shit. i was always worried people would think i was bullshitting or leaving out key facts because it was so fantastical. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451607) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:50 PM Author: orange up-to-no-good point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451616) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:51 PM Author: slippery genital piercing preventive strike (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451620) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:34 PM Author: orange up-to-no-good point 100% (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451558) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 7:02 PM Author: Fragrant Lake Famous Landscape Painting This is...partially right. The only times it happened for me involved women that definitely had mental issues (whether BPD or adjacent).
However, there have also been a small handful of women who rejected me that seemed well-adjusted that I *think* I could have had that type of love with. Perhaps that was indeed true, and these women self-sorted and rejected me because they *were* well-adjusted and therefore sensed something wrong with me. Thus the hypothesis was never tested. It is also equally possible that these women were mentally ill and I just wasn't able to come to that determination yet with the limited information given. |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 7:14 PM Author: Aquamarine appetizing toilet seat I also sense there is something wrong with you, brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47452065) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:10 PM Author: Lemon aromatic circlehead *studio audience laughs* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451474) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:33 PM Author: Olive sadistic nursing home i can count four distinct times i lost my mind (all live-blogged extensively on here over the years under different monikers). burning love was a major but not sole factor in each. maybe it ends better if you're young and meet organically before the meatgrinder of life has you down to the waist in its pitiless maws. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451555) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:38 PM Author: Bipolar double fault How long did each last? How did it end? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451575) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:42 PM Author: Lemon aromatic circlehead the meatgrinder of life has you down to the waist in its pitiless maws tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47451585) |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 7:06 PM Author: Fragrant Lake Famous Landscape Painting It wasn't "love" if you only went out on 3-4 dates. It may have felt like love but the term for it is infatuation. Also, your experiences (at least the ones I recall) likely lacked the "reciprocal" element laid out in the OP.
I do wonder if OP was referring to "love" in the strict sense, or if mutual infatuation also fits the criteria in this thread. |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 8:43 PM Author: Olive sadistic nursing home these were all at least a year, friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5497272&forum_id=2#47452147) |
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Date: March 1st, 2024 4:09 PM Author: Fragrant Lake Famous Landscape Painting links or search keywords for the relevant threads?
i think i may have confused you with "dux" |
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Date: March 1st, 2024 11:56 AM Author: Bipolar double fault Isn't mutual infatuation love? From what I've understood infatuation is just unreciprocated feelings.
Also, how long do you think you need to be with someone to actually fall in love with them? 1 month, 3 months, 6 months, etc? Or is it by number of dates, how much time you spend together, the nature of the time you spend together, etc? |
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Date: March 1st, 2024 4:23 PM Author: Fragrant Lake Famous Landscape Painting infatuation is an intense initial feeling of affection/attraction that can form without knowing very much at all about the object (and the feeling could be reciprocated or unreciprocated, that is irrelevant). One could be infatuated within a date or two, but the feeling can easily be shattered.
love requires much deeper knowledge of the other person and understanding of the depth of their character. The time frame is a function of all of the things you raise. Another factor is whether the couple knew each other before beginning to date. The beginning transition from infatuation to love could happen in a month if the couple was spending all of their time together. Typically it takes longer than that for most couples but the mentally ill operate on shorter timeframes. |
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Date: February 29th, 2024 4:53 PM Author: Talking laughsome fortuitous meteor yes. with my cat. then later, a guinea pig. then later still, another cat.
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