Any way to responsibly have sexual relationship with secretary?
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:45 AM Author: Vivacious Azn Locale
I'm a solo. It's a very small office. Just me, 1 fulltime secretary/paralegal and a part-time bookkeeper who comes like once a week.
Secretary is a 25 year old tallish brunette. She's got a nice feminine figure. Not skinny but absolutely would never be described as fat. She's got a sweet, girl next door type of face.
We spend a lot of time together, and there is clear rising sexual tension between us. She will extend conversations for longer than they call for, we exchange looks and smiles, have been working in a way lately that puts us in very close physical proximity.
I'm 41. Divorced, no kids. She has a long term boyfriend that she does not seem very into and seems to be relocating soon for a job.
I get the feeling that it wouldn't take much to push things over the edge. Would this be a huge mistake? Has anyone gone down this path before?
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:50 AM Author: Irate at-the-ready party of the first part
1) There is no sexual tension.
2) Enjoy the lawsuit.
OTOH, one of my friends from law school married his secretary a few years after LS, and was probably fucking her as soon as they worked together. They have kids now and seem happy.
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Date: April 24th, 2024 12:52 PM Author: Vivacious Azn Locale
Correct.
I either have completely misread the situation and if I take some action, she will freak out and potentially sue me for sexual harassment. Spending so much time together, I might be overlooking the possibility that she's just being nice to me because i'm her boss.
Alternatively, she's receptive to it and a relationship blossoms. This could either end badly or with a happy marriage.
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Date: April 24th, 2024 4:12 PM Author: Stimulating fishy rigpig
Friend, women (and 99%) of men have no agency. She's not planning to fuck you up with a suit. She just genuinely, subconsciously wants to be your daughter and have babies put into her
Tell her your feelings
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Date: April 24th, 2024 8:28 PM Author: glassy crawly parlour macaca
Here's some actual good advice.
Do you want to marry this girl? If not, then if you do anythig you're an idiot.
If you do want something serious with her, then assuming the book keeper is normal cool, ask the book keeper if they think its a good idea. You need a third party opinion to see if what you're proposing will be reasonably received or not.
Also, you need a fucking escape plan for what happens if she says no or if you do date and break up. Get ready to pay for some hefty severance.
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:35 PM Author: Vivacious Azn Locale
I would pursue her in a serious manner and do believe she's wife material. The age difference might be a bit much, more so for her than me.
discussing with bookkeeper might actually be a good idea. She's my age and we are pretty tight. she's also very blunt with me.
Agreed on the last part which is obviously my big worry. I don't know what the escape plan could be.
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:14 PM Author: bipolar ruddy fat ankles
1) Find her a better job
2) encourage her to leave for that better job
3) ask out on date.
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Date: April 24th, 2024 11:47 PM Author: hyperventilating arousing sneaky criminal center
I know a few lawyers whose wives work as their office managers. I never thought about how many of them just started as employees.
I've noticed that these women frequently terrorize the other female employees.
Coming onto an employee is more often than not a very bad idea.
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Date: April 25th, 2024 9:51 AM Author: Exhilarant Water Buffalo Chapel
a divorced 41yo solo with no kids is afraid to say fuck it and just YOLO
man the law really attracts some risk averse fucks
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