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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
blathering high-end parlor lettuce
  09/22/25
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Burgundy main people
  09/23/25
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Burgundy main people
  09/23/25
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Burgundy main people
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
blathering high-end parlor lettuce
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
blathering high-end parlor lettuce
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
irate police squad parlour
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
blathering high-end parlor lettuce
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
Copper Vigorous Forum Stain
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
Charcoal pocket flask nursing home
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
Pearl anal locus roommate
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
Sable laughsome electric furnace school cafeteria
  09/23/25
wow
supple trump supporter home
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
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  09/23/25
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Burgundy main people
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
buff institution boiling water
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
Pearl anal locus roommate
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
buff institution boiling water
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
Shivering theatre bbw
  09/23/25
How so?
Pearl anal locus roommate
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
Shivering theatre bbw
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
Pearl anal locus roommate
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
walnut athletic conference
  09/23/25
…?
Pearl anal locus roommate
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
lemon fluffy step-uncle's house friendly grandma
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
Pearl anal locus roommate
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan
  09/23/25
Also this
Pearl anal locus roommate
  09/23/25
serious reply: dont even waste ur time on that shit buy a...
Jet-lagged Psychic
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
Sable laughsome electric furnace school cafeteria
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
Pearl anal locus roommate
  09/23/25
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Jet-lagged Psychic
  09/23/25
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supple trump supporter home
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
lemon fluffy step-uncle's house friendly grandma
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
scarlet slippery fortuitous meteor
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
lemon fluffy step-uncle's house friendly grandma
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
embarrassed to the bone boltzmann orchestra pit
  09/23/25
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crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
buff institution boiling water
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
bespoke avocado affirmative action
  09/23/25
Imo Amp is a better use of ur time
Jet-lagged Psychic
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
crawly keepsake machete national security agency
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.::
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
Mud
  10/21/25


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: blathering high-end parlor lettuce

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Burgundy main people

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Burgundy main people

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: Burgundy main people

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: blathering high-end parlor lettuce

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: blathering high-end parlor lettuce

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: irate police squad parlour

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: blathering high-end parlor lettuce

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: Copper Vigorous Forum Stain

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Charcoal pocket flask nursing home

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Pearl anal locus roommate

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: Sable laughsome electric furnace school cafeteria

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: supple trump supporter home

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: impertinent tank trailer park

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Burgundy main people

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: buff institution boiling water

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: Pearl anal locus roommate

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: buff institution boiling water

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: Shivering theatre bbw

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: Pearl anal locus roommate

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: Shivering theatre bbw

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Pearl anal locus roommate

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: walnut athletic conference

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: Pearl anal locus roommate

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: lemon fluffy step-uncle's house friendly grandma

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: Pearl anal locus roommate

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: Pearl anal locus roommate

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Psychic

serious reply: dont even waste ur time on that shit

buy a tenga flip and start autistically getting into a surrogate activity

if u really need it go to some 3rd world asian shithole and pound it out there

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: Sable laughsome electric furnace school cafeteria

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: Pearl anal locus roommate

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Psychic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: supple trump supporter home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: lemon fluffy step-uncle's house friendly grandma

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: scarlet slippery fortuitous meteor

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: lemon fluffy step-uncle's house friendly grandma

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone boltzmann orchestra pit

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: buff institution boiling water

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: bespoke avocado affirmative action

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Psychic

Imo Amp is a better use of ur time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: crystalline aphrodisiac mood coldplay fan

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: crawly keepsake machete national security agency

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.::


SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: Mud

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026hid=#49364751)