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Wife might be miscarrying. This sucks. Spotting the last two days
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Date: June 30th, 2024 1:05 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood And today some reddish colored spotting. Appointment isn’t for a couple weeks. Damn. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47794859) |
Date: June 30th, 2024 1:20 PM Author: Adventurous Fluffy Halford Useless Brakes Past some threshold like 19 weeks we could go to OB emergent triage for anything like that, didn't need to wait for an appointment (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47794904) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:28 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Yea this is really early. 7 weeks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795137) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 1:23 PM Author: Mischievous station windowlicker Vaxxed? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47794911) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 7:41 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood not covid, childhood vaxes yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795865) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 1:26 PM Author: Carnelian zippy school cafeteria Sorry man. I know how stressful this is. This happened to my wife with our first. Even went to the ER. We were finally able to get an ultrasound with the OB a couple days later and … everything was fine.
9 years later the and the kid is happy, healthy, thriving, and a total pain in the ass some of the time.
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:04 PM Author: Magical incel Yeah, spotting happens. It's not a death sentence (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795041) |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 2:44 AM Author: Arousing Primrose Kitty Cat 99% of the time spotting is nature's abortion (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796691) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:25 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795114) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:29 PM Author: soul-stirring market (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795148) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:30 PM Author: Cordovan milk becky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795153) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:33 PM Author: Adventurous Fluffy Halford Useless Brakes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795166) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 3:52 PM Author: blathering fuchsia pit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795353) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 9:33 PM Author: histrionic transparent area 180000 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796159) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:31 PM Author: Odious Pearl Parlor 180000000000000000000 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807203) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 1:26 PM Author: Galvanic olive church Sorry man hoping for best (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47794922) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:26 PM Author: Cordovan milk becky I'm sorry, I know what kind of experience this is.
How is your wife feeling? |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:27 PM Author: Dull principal's office idea he suggested have you alerted the father? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795126) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:52 PM Author: arrogant kink-friendly sweet tailpipe stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795217) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 5:08 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Seems unfair to burden him with these anxieties (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795501) |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 6:14 PM Author: histrionic transparent area (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47799307) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:20 PM Author: coiffed bateful cuckold (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796256) |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 12:10 AM Author: Titillating lemon knife hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796471) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:28 PM Author: concupiscible abnormal trailer park organic girlfriend https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loss_%28comic%29#/media/File:Loss_comic.jpg (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795141) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:33 PM Author: mildly autistic puppy https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/144/722/1217667390138.png (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795165) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:40 PM Author: Thriller Persian School We tried for 10 months before my wife got pregnant only to lose it at 10 weeks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795182) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:44 PM Author: Adventurous Fluffy Halford Useless Brakes Did either of you try fertility drugs? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795189) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 3:12 PM Author: Thriller Persian School Not yet. I had my semen tested and that is fine. She had her blood work done and her egg reserves are fine too.
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Date: June 30th, 2024 5:09 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Sorry man. We should count our blessings i guess. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795503) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:51 PM Author: arrogant kink-friendly sweet tailpipe stage has she miscarried before? if not, spotting is fairly common this early in pregnancy. at 7 weeks its still just cells. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795214) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 7:42 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood no but we only have one kid. hoping ur right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795867) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:51 PM Author: disrespectful foreskin meetinghouse age of wife? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795216) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:52 PM Author: arrogant kink-friendly sweet tailpipe stage more importantly, how tall is OP? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795221) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 5:09 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Old enough where a miscarriage would not be unusual (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795502) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 2:54 PM Author: Insane Fragrant Philosopher-king Weed Whacker Spotting probably isn’t a miscarriage unless she feels bad cramps as well. Call her doctor and ask if they want her to come in. Have you seen a heartbeat yet?
We had one miscarriage at about 7-8 weeks but then two healthy boys. |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 5:10 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood First appointment isn’t until 10 weeks so haven’t seen heartbeat yet.
She hasn’t had bad cramps either which makes me hopeful. |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:35 PM Author: hairraiser misunderstood macaca why the fuck is ur first appointment not until 10 weeks? there's so many things that could go wrong -- u should get seen after 6-7 weeks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796283) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:38 PM Author: Cerebral home Many OBs do it this way. You meet with a nurse just to see if you have questions and to go over stuff (testing options, prenatal vitamins, etc). You don't start getting heartbeat and belly checks until 10-12 weeks. Others do early ultrasounds, etc. Just depends on the practice. Most of the time if something's gonna go wrong early, you're not gonna catch it and/or there's not much you can do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796288) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:42 PM Author: hairraiser misunderstood macaca many medical practices do things contrary to the interest of the patients. i think they're often just busy and people call when they're 5-6 weeks pregnant (remember u dont even know ur pregnant until 4 weeks from the last LMP) and they cant get them in right away so they say, oh come in at 8-10 weeks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796299) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:56 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood what advantage is there to coming in at week 7 rather than week 10? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796334) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:59 PM Author: hairraiser misunderstood macaca i'm not an mfe but for our first kid, wife was low progesterone at like 6-7 weeks and they gave her supp progesterone. see: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK362730/
kid is now almost 4 and fine. would the kid have maed it without the progesterone? who the fuck knows.
but i dont see why you wouldnt want care as early as possible. |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 12:11 AM Author: Insane Fragrant Philosopher-king Weed Whacker if there’s a problem it’s better to end the pregnancy earlier rather than later (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796474) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 11:02 PM Author: Cerebral home I was scheduled for belly checks every 4 weeks once I hit 12 weeks, so scheduling was not an issue. The heartbeat often isn't even detectable before 10 weeks unless you do a transvaginal ultrasound, which many offices don't do as part of normal care. So there's nothing for the doctor to do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796347) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 11:28 PM Author: hairraiser misunderstood macaca what woman wouldnt want a transvaginal ultrasound? and what kind of shitty office wouldnt have a transvag machine? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796396) |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 12:00 AM Author: Cerebral home I had two different OB practices between 3 pregnancies. The second practice offered it, which I happily accepted b/c I always like having extra info and wanted confirmation I wasn't having twins (I was high risk for that). The first didn't and generally it wasn't necessary. I always got pretty sick first trimester, so that was usually a good indicator things were progressing as expected.
You may not agree with the practice of not seeing the doctor until 10 weeks, but it's not uncommon. His wife is having an issue, and I'm sure they will find room to see her quickly. |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 8:57 AM Author: hairraiser misunderstood macaca i absolutely know it's common. i'm saying it's for the benefit of the office, not the patients.
most prenatal care is totally unnecessary if you're having a healthy, normal pregnancy. the point of prenatal care is to be on top of shit and look out for abnormal shit. and there's no good reason NOT to be seen before 10 weeks, and there's good reason TO be seen at 7-8 weeks. |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:41 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood its the second one?
idk we didnt call for an appointment immediately. OBGYN is backed up for a bit.
he is one of the top guys in the region and is head of obgyn clinic at a prestigious medical school and he said it was fine to come in at 10 weeks, i didnt have any reason to doubt that. |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 12:04 AM Author: Insane Fragrant Philosopher-king Weed Whacker That’s weird, she should go in now and look for heartbeat. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796460) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 3:18 PM Author: Cerebral home She should check in w the doctor just to be safe, but it's probably normal. If she's having any pain (especially in her lower abdomen) she should get seen right away. Could be ectopic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795291) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 5:06 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Good point about ectopic. She’ll call tomorrow. Besides the spotting and a tiny bit of blood she isn’t experiencing the other symptoms like abdominal pain. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795493) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 3:47 PM Author: chestnut electric half-breed go in and get it checked out asap, but it could just be a subchorionic hematoma and harmless except to your short-term sex life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795339) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 7:57 PM Author: Big address been through three of those. last one stung because it was a boy and my youngest would have had a little brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47795895) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 9:32 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Sorry man. Didn't realize how common it was. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796158) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:34 PM Author: Cerebral home Much more common than you think unfortunately, but a lot of people don't talk about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796281) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:37 PM Author: hairraiser misunderstood macaca or they dont even know.
it's super common in the ortho jew world. if everyone is having 6-8 kids and having unprotected sex from 22-45, statistically a lot of them have miscarried at least once. |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 8:54 AM Author: Big address not everything revolves around your dumb jew bullshit you weird asshole (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796971) |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 8:58 AM Author: hairraiser misunderstood macaca poor rc? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796979) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 10:25 PM Author: crystalline temple sex with men doesn't carry these risks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796261) |
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Date: June 30th, 2024 11:35 PM Author: diverse canary theater Does the father know? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796408) |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 2:43 AM Author: Arousing Primrose Kitty Cat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47796690) |
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Date: July 1st, 2024 6:15 PM Author: charismatic bright corn cake police squad "spotting" sounds so gross. MODS! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47799312) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 3:50 PM Author: Cerebral home Update? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47806438) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 5:29 PM Author: Insane Fragrant Philosopher-king Weed Whacker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47806767) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:22 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood miscarriage.
the spotting turned into heavy bleeding and cramping since i made the thread. so any doubt quickly cleared up.
she first went to the docs two days ago and they did a blood test. the results showed very low progesterone and another hormone. she went to an appointment this morning and got an ultrasound, and they didn't see anything at all, including birth tissue, so everything already left in the past couple days.
all in all she is in okay spirits over it. we are grateful that it was quick and that it was so early. she was most concerned about seeing what she thought could look like a tiny fetus even if the size of a blueberry. but that didn't happen.
we'll try again soon. |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:26 PM Author: hairraiser misunderstood macaca better a miscarriage than a retarded baby! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807173) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:28 PM Author: self-centered blue partner public bath (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807185) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 11:40 PM Author: histrionic transparent area If only your mother had known. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807907) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:27 PM Author: Arousing Primrose Kitty Cat I'm sorry friend.
I tried preparing you in a post above. |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:28 PM Author: vengeful up-to-no-good cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807182) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:35 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Yea i was in denial until the heavy bleeding started (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807231) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:48 PM Author: Arousing Primrose Kitty Cat :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807273) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 8:12 PM Author: concupiscible abnormal trailer park organic girlfriend i'm sorry man
it's very common and all mean-spirited jokes aside I am sorry for you and her and the fetus. If this had to happen for some reason I'm "glad" it happened as early as it did. |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 11:39 PM Author: histrionic transparent area Sorry to hear this brother. Lord willing, you'll have a healthy baby when you try again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807902) |
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Date: July 5th, 2024 9:57 AM Author: Cerebral home Aw I’m so sorry to hear that. Sometimes it just doesn’t develop right and her body goes back to the drawing board. There’s so much that can go wrong it’s honestly amazing it ever goes right. Hopefully a one-off, but yeah probably at least get bloodwork during the next one so you know if the progesterone is an ongoing issue. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47811542) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:30 PM Author: Odious Pearl Parlor Dude I am really sorry to hear this. Pregnancy is fucked up. It me and my wife almost 3 years and then we decided to do IVF which worked immediately. They had my wife take progesterone tablets until week 12 and everything looks good so far at week 20. You should maybe consider IVF? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807201) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:34 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood Yea I have followed your story a bit. Glad to hear you guys got it done with IVF. We got it the first time around last time, and this was only her second cycle that resulted in conception the second time. so we are hoping it is an abberation.
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:38 PM Author: Odious Pearl Parlor So is your story "unexplained infertility" as well? We just never had an answer beyond my wife's slightly low normal AMH level.
Did your wife take progesterone once confirmed pregnant?
Pregnancy is just this insane lottery where people in horrible shape riddled with chronic health issues conceive without issues while others struggle throughout. |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:52 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood I guess so. I am not sure she got an official diagnosis for it. There was nothing the docs added besides, 'looks like its out. You can try again as soon as you want.'
No progesterone. We have been looking into that now. a pumo upthread mentioned it as a reason to get into the docs asap after a missed period as well. |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 11:18 PM Author: Unhinged new version I knew someone who had 4 miscarriages in a row. They have 3 kids now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807860) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:47 PM Author: Lake rehab How old was your wife when you were trying? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807268) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:49 PM Author: aphrodisiac house mood mid 30s (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807278) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 11:08 PM Author: Lake rehab Congrats on conceiving (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807838) |
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Date: July 3rd, 2024 7:49 PM Author: Lime stubborn brunch dysfunction Sorry brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5548085&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4295921",#47807276) |