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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:21 AM Author: submissive range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745159) |
Date: March 15th, 2026 11:29 AM Author: razzle grizzly newt Dad left when I was a toddler, Dont see/speak to him at all Mom I send money too but we dont talk much and dont have a meaningful relationship |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:43 AM Author: submissive range sorry friend. what happened with yer mum? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745196) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:54 PM Author: razzle grizzly newt Nothing, thats the sad part Had a normal childhood, we just don't talk or really see each other Im the only son and I have two sisters who pretty much take up all her time, theyre banshees and constantly cause her aggro with their irl problems and theyre decayign/falling apart in their mid 30s, one has no job and is a tax + other has a shitty job, both unmarried. Mom also is caring for my ailing grandma in her 90s atm overseas so that doesnt help
I just try to support her financially and reduce stress but I am sort of alienated since Ive mainly been surrounded by women mostly my whole life and kinda dont wana deal with the insanity of it
I never call her, I have nothing to talk about/report, its fucked idk. She always says she wants me to call her but its like wtf would I say even. My mom is still young (50s) Just dont really know how to have a relationship with my mom without just shitting out some kids and then making it about my new family?
Some guys call their mom on facetime and shit and laugh like hyenas and idk how they manage it, I just dotn have that level with her, everything is just so high stakes all the time , hard to explain, we never have normal convos about day to day stuff,.
Its either KIDS or MARRIAGE? or MONEY or ITS THE END OF THE WORLD RIGHT NOW WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT. Idk
No dad doesnt help me navigating all this shit either, going NC just seems easier, fucked up |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:42 AM Author: Heady state rofl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745190) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:43 AM Author: Claret kitchen genital piercing tommy what exactly is your relationship with your parents? are they alive? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745194) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:51 PM Author: Heady state i dont even know if they are alive and i dont care. i wish they had died 40 years ago (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745508) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:56 PM Author: Claret kitchen genital piercing how is this even possible. didnt you have some umc upbringing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745528) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:14 PM Author: Heady state yes but my parents were indian shit, i shld have realized sooner how furked up indians are. looking back jfc what shitty ppl, lack any empathy at all
i know one is det, hoaping the other is too, furk them |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: Claret kitchen genital piercing what specifically did they do to piss you off so much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745679) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:36 PM Author: razzle grizzly newt they made him indian (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745681) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 3:07 PM Author: Heady state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745777) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 3:08 PM Author: Heady state just constant negativity and shit, complete assholes. just imagine the most arrogant whiny manipulative pajeet with no ability to care abt anyone or anything (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745779) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:50 AM Author: curious salmon haunted graveyard ticket booth i have a great relationship with your mom
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:54 AM Author: underhanded self-centered cruise ship french chef i had a brief relationship with your dad at the bathhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745217) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:57 AM Author: curious salmon haunted graveyard ticket booth he did tell me about meeting a lawyer with a micropenis recently
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:29 PM Author: lilac really tough guy Nope (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745288) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:33 PM Author: submissive range sorry brother. care to expound? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745296) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:42 PM Author: lilac really tough guy Dad is a raging narcissist.
Should have gone no-contact 20 years ago. Not saying permanent estrangement would necessarily have been the ticket. Rather, some periods of NC - with the obvious implication that it could become permanent - would have done both of us a lot of good. |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:38 PM Author: Frum Friendly Grandma Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745310) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:57 PM Author: submissive range :/ expound brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745532) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:59 PM Author: Balding House-broken Mediation what does this actually mean for an adult
I could just not call them for years and they'd never call me imo and also idc
If I call them or text them they pick up
so basically it's like any relationship where the person "wants you to know" that they dgaf |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:02 PM Author: razzle grizzly newt cr this is insane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745552) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:04 PM Author: submissive range eye of the beholder i guess. but i was going for "not a decidedly antagonistic relationship." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745564) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:08 PM Author: Frum Friendly Grandma Why would you ever contact them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745571) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM Author: Balding House-broken Mediation because they'll literally be dead and I don't want to soil myself by making their extreme selfishness codified and ratified by forgetting and not remembering that cowgod ever existed just bc they would rather sit in a chair and stare at a wall than deal with my Loser shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745582) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:13 PM Author: Frum Friendly Grandma Seems kinda retarded (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745593) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM Author: Balding House-broken Mediation you don't know me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745673) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:50 PM Author: Frum Friendly Grandma I know you can make it on your own without pathetically calling patents that don't like you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745721) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:55 PM Author: Balding House-broken Mediation azns do it and they've had the same imperial succession for 2700 years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745736) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:20 PM Author: razzle grizzly newt I dont get this
Youre calling them so that they cant "get away" with forgetting about you ? or youre "saving" them from being total assholes by giving them the opportunity to not be assholes by calling them? |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:21 PM Author: Balding House-broken Mediation yes I am honoring them per the bible it doesn't take effort. then when i leave they're like "if only he knew how much he sucked" and idc. sephardim follow old testament. i also believe in eye for an eye but none of the jesus shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745968) |
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Date: March 16th, 2026 12:59 AM Author: Thriller mewling forum generalized bond this is actually tcr
Goyim think honoring parents is having to agree with them and having some emotional dynamic, the hebrew in the original translation is basically helping to serve them as they need and almost like a ketubah vow of food, shelter and clothing at all times
its helped my relationship with them not looking for some disney connection that wil never happen, just check in to make sure theyre good and see them as often as both parties can deal |
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Date: March 16th, 2026 10:43 AM Author: cowgod Yeah Im Sephardic so this tracks. And the Revenge you get on the “Toxic Narcissist” idiots who had sex aka parents who did a bad job means nothing when they’re Corpses.
Imagine if King David was like “my dad was a Narcissist.” He wouldn’t even be in the bible lol |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:00 PM Author: Olive tank No (dad), cordial but not close (mom) — but tons of cultural baggage to be there, provide, etc. Can’t go full estrangement like whitey (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745544) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:02 PM Author: Balding House-broken Mediation why no for dad was he like 'this kid is a Joke i dgaf' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745553) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:10 PM Author: Olive tank I used to internalize it but have received enough clarity with age to know that he was and is completely incapable and unprepared for being a father.
Having a shit dad is disorienting and often leaves you feeling rudderless, but imho it has made me more self-dependent and resolute than most. But I really did a lot of work on myself to get here. |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM Author: Balding House-broken Mediation did you go to Therapy haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745588) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:13 PM Author: Olive tank Not formally. I kinda self-treated though. Does that make it less valid, idc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745591) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM Author: Balding House-broken Mediation you sound Liberal af either way (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745671) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:15 PM Author: Heady state his dad died in the 9/11 attacks (he was one of the hijackers) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745598) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:03 PM Author: razzle grizzly newt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745557) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:06 PM Author: submissive range you mean you provide for mom? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745570) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM Author: Olive tank They are still married. I Venmo him a certain amount every month. Have bought him cars, etc. I do it thinking it will benefit my mom as well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745586) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:54 PM Author: soul-stirring bull headed set pistol they live literally next door and we're constantly wavering between fighting or getting along great. l'chaim! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49745733) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:59 PM Author: Turquoise Stead Fat Ankles Dad died a while ago and haven't spoken to mom in many years, same with my brother. Wouldn't say it's ideal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49746077) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:00 PM Author: razzle grizzly newt Why havent you spoken (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49746079) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:34 PM Author: Turquoise Stead Fat Ankles my mom just blames everything on others, nothing ever positive from her, like ever. had some tough shit happening in my life and she didn't bother to reach out. brother moved to an emerging market years ago and became unbearable, basically insulting everyone in the family to give him money for some start up ideas, while he never paid anything back and would buy and lose/break shit like expensive cameras, watches, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49746145) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:40 PM Author: Heady state ur caste? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49746160) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:03 PM Author: Pearl razzmatazz gas station mom died years ago pretty good relationship with my dad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49746082) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 6:06 PM Author: Frisky psychic home Yes every holiday our huge family gathers at their big rambling shabby chic lake house and we wear chunky sweaters and play games, cook huge meals, playfully razz each other, etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49746221) |
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Date: March 16th, 2026 12:38 AM Author: impressive school sweet tailpipe Closer to my dad than ever. We talk on the phone at least once a week and text now. It's been 18000000 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49747162) |
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Date: March 16th, 2026 10:44 AM Author: .,.....,.,.;,.,,,:,.,.,::,...,:,..;,.., better than most people ITT apparently (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49747809) |
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Date: March 16th, 2026 10:46 AM Author: Brother Peter Dimond (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#49747811) |