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Have you found that “chicks dig assholes” or is it just phenotype irl

Every example I can think of, the “asshole” is j...
Plum dilemma toaster
  08/15/26
I thought this thread was about eating ass
charcoal striped hyena
  08/15/26
same not flame
Dashing soggy wagecucks
  08/15/26
Do you dig assholes bro? With your tongue maybe?
charcoal striped hyena
  08/15/26
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big-titted adventurous plaza voyeur
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Swollen aphrodisiac office jewess
  08/15/26
100% same
gibberish (?)
  08/16/26
If a chick is into you their birdbrain doesn’t see it ...
Buff regret
  08/15/26
...
Plum dilemma toaster
  08/15/26
yeah my Jock buddies are always being Decisive but wtf does ...
Plum dilemma toaster
  08/15/26
xo thoroughly addressed and solved this problem years ago. t...
odious newt
  08/15/26
...
Plum dilemma toaster
  08/15/26
Everyone here will say phenotype but that’s what all s...
Slate Step-uncle's House Wrinkle
  08/15/26
i'm ready to learn
odious newt
  08/15/26
dare I say, based
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Cr
brass misanthropic trailer park
  08/15/26
imho none of this is mutually exclusive. also it's non-respo...
Plum dilemma toaster
  08/15/26
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Multi-colored citrine business firm
  08/15/26
do you ppl think it's 2014 or something? none of this is hap...
Duck-like station
  08/15/26
they dig guys with bottomless confidence, whom betas conside...
Passionate State Private Investor
  08/15/26
It is both at once. You can only pull off being an asshole i...
Electric learning disabled scourge upon the earth theatre
  08/15/26
(Guy who hasn’t met enough psychopaths, or else has a ...
Slate Step-uncle's House Wrinkle
  08/15/26
imo this answers the bulk of the issue. yes there are still...
Smoky stimulating crackhouse pozpig
  08/15/26
i think they're more into abs and pecs and shoulders ime
dull church
  08/15/26
I would never be interested in a nice (aka weak) guy, no mat...
brass misanthropic trailer park
  08/15/26
Chicks can easily out kick their coverage on dating apps wit...
vibrant garnet abode therapy
  08/15/26
iirc this is a reference to Console Gaming
Plum dilemma toaster
  08/15/26
Girls like assertive and confident men. Dorks are very bi...
Multi-colored citrine business firm
  08/15/26
I am having a hard time remembering any manifestation of the...
Plum dilemma toaster
  08/15/26
Bit of a chicken and egg thing where scholars may debate whe...
Multi-colored citrine business firm
  08/15/26
chicks dig OYT even as I deny my Essence to them. lol sluts.
Violent jap menage
  08/15/26
You're probably 5x more likely to get a girl if you meet her...
submissive location
  08/15/26
...
Kenneth Play
  08/16/26
I definitely know assholes that have punched way above their...
gibberish (?)
  08/16/26
they enjoy emotional and physical abuse. they are gratifi...
life is a hamburger
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Date: August 15th, 2026 8:56 AM
Author: Plum dilemma toaster

Every example I can think of, the “asshole” is just a Jock or Tall Guy with a 7”+ dick and the Nice Guy has a worse phenotype. Rarely is there a sharp distinction in their Personalities afaict.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069333)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:00 AM
Author: charcoal striped hyena

I thought this thread was about eating ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069336)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:01 AM
Author: Dashing soggy wagecucks

same not flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069337)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:12 AM
Author: charcoal striped hyena

Do you dig assholes bro? With your tongue maybe?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069349)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:11 AM
Author: big-titted adventurous plaza voyeur



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069348)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:23 PM
Author: Swollen aphrodisiac office jewess



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069646)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:05 PM
Author: gibberish (?)

100% same

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50071105)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: Buff regret

If a chick is into you their birdbrain doesn’t see it as “being an asshole”, they see it as “being decisive” or “knowing what he wants”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069388)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:34 AM
Author: Plum dilemma toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069510)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:35 AM
Author: Plum dilemma toaster

yeah my Jock buddies are always being Decisive but wtf does that mean in practice and why does it matter? like does a Nice Loser not know where to go for dinner or whatever and Asks the Woman and they go back and forth for hours?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069512)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:54 AM
Author: odious newt

xo thoroughly addressed and solved this problem years ago. the meta has moved on. do try to keep up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069537)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:57 AM
Author: Plum dilemma toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069542)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 12:08 PM
Author: Slate Step-uncle's House Wrinkle

Everyone here will say phenotype but that’s what all socially incapable and ugly losers who are addicted to screens say because it allows them to justify not trying to improve their social skills and instead they can just keep being screen addicted losers. Autists don’t get: 1) that girls register flirting as effort and balls, and guys who flirt clumsily or badly will still get more points than guys who are too scared and in their heads to try at all. 2) beyond purely spur of the moment, after 2 am and still at the bar pure hook up contexts every girl is primarily evaluating for resource extraction. So a guy who can credibly seem confident and self-assured will always help his cause immensely and way more than a guy who drops 5% of his bodyfat to get under 15% or who wears lifts to appear 1.5” taller. And 3) yes there is a subset of guys who can literally say nothing and/or completely botch any kind of social capability test and still fuck girls whose names they don’t bother to learn, but they are generally either very rare super elite 1/100k level phenotypes or they’re fucking way down relative to their phenotypes looksmatch or both. I guess I get why a balding 5’9” nerd would fantasize about easily fucking an endless parade of anonymous 6s, but I encourage you to dream a little bigger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069551)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 12:09 PM
Author: odious newt

i'm ready to learn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069555)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:23 PM
Author: hideous claret casino really tough guy

dare I say, based

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069645)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:16 PM
Author: brass misanthropic trailer park

Cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069791)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:39 PM
Author: Plum dilemma toaster

imho none of this is mutually exclusive. also it's non-responsive imho (jmo). I was just trying to understand who these "assholes" are. Guys who get laid nbd irl don't seem like bigger assholes than anyone else afaik

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069834)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: Multi-colored citrine business firm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069935)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 6:53 PM
Author: Duck-like station

do you ppl think it's 2014 or something? none of this is happening anymore. it's whether you give them resources or you increase their social media status

i have no idea what u people are talking about tbh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50070017)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:26 PM
Author: Passionate State Private Investor

they dig guys with bottomless confidence, whom betas consider assholes, and tbf they often are.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069650)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:31 PM
Author: Electric learning disabled scourge upon the earth theatre

It is both at once. You can only pull off being an asshole if you have a good phenotype, else youre referred to as an asshole/miserable/bitter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069660)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:52 PM
Author: Slate Step-uncle's House Wrinkle

(Guy who hasn’t met enough psychopaths, or else has a dim, incurious mind and never spent much time observing them and thinking about why they are effective)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069693)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 2:38 PM
Author: Smoky stimulating crackhouse pozpig

imo this answers the bulk of the issue. yes there are still fringe losers who are disagreeable and abrasive, and also many lawyers, who are both assholes and yet not attractive to women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069747)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:18 PM
Author: dull church

i think they're more into abs and pecs and shoulders ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069793)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:18 PM
Author: brass misanthropic trailer park

I would never be interested in a nice (aka weak) guy, no matter how attractive, successful, etc. Just not my thing.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069794)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:37 PM
Author: vibrant garnet abode therapy

Chicks can easily out kick their coverage on dating apps with dudes who want an easy lay. They interpret getting fucked and ghosted as the guy being an asshole or "playing games." That's why so many chicks have shit like "not here for hookups, tired of men playing games" etc in their profiles.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069939)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:44 PM
Author: Plum dilemma toaster

iirc this is a reference to Console Gaming

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069947)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:39 PM
Author: Multi-colored citrine business firm

Girls like assertive and confident men.

Dorks are very biased to classify some dudebro as an asshole because 1) Sour grapes and 2) They got bullied by someone and associate anyone similar with being an asshole.

Dorks will call a Shane Gillis good hearted dudebro an asshole because they can't distinguish between them and evil jocks, and they don't want to understand the difference because they hate them for getting pussy and have crafted a mental fortress that the reason they get zero pussy is because they're better humans.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069942)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:50 PM
Author: Plum dilemma toaster

I am having a hard time remembering any manifestation of the nice guy with a good phenotype getting screwed over after like hs. In hs there are Scumbags who have natural game and stuff and the Jock who doesn't have his head in the game can't close the deal iirc. In college idk it's a hard reset. irl is a harder reset. everything just gets pre-screened on phenotype.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069952)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 6:15 PM
Author: Multi-colored citrine business firm

Bit of a chicken and egg thing where scholars may debate whether bad phenotypes wind up as low condidence nice guys or whether low confidence nice guys are categorically bad phenotype. I subscribe to your school of thought that it starts with phenotype and their nature + nurture leads to this. Either way, of course you don't see high confidence losers, aside from PUA Mystery types faking it that have veered way out of their lane and are understandably mocked by all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069976)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:40 PM
Author: Violent jap menage

chicks dig OYT even as I deny my Essence to them. lol sluts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50069943)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:24 PM
Author: submissive location

You're probably 5x more likely to get a girl if you meet her at a party and tell her that her breath smells than if you become friends with her and after months of hanging out you write her a love letter.

I don't think its that chicks "love assholes" it is that they are very turned off by desperation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50070186)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:04 PM
Author: Kenneth Play (emotional girth)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50071102)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:06 PM
Author: gibberish (?)

I definitely know assholes that have punched way above their weight and simp otherwise handsome bros that ended up with pigs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50071109)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:07 PM
Author: life is a hamburger

they enjoy emotional and physical abuse.

they are gratified by rape fantasies, which constitute most of the plots in romance novels and 'womens lit'.

this is widely understood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=4593694#50071111)