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BIL keeps inviting me to his early workout club

Despite the fact I have told him numerous times I have no in...
Wang Hernandez
  10/04/24
Way to go wang
meds
  10/04/24
I know a prole who brags about these early morning "wor...
evan39
  10/04/24
My BIL is not a prole but he is extremely boring and can be ...
Wang Hernandez
  10/04/24
“nonequity partner” “not a prole” ...
potluck
  10/04/24
He’s a weird dude. He has tons of family money and co...
Wang Hernandez
  10/04/24
What sort of life is he supposed to have outside of workout ...
oli
  10/04/24
Personally I don’t want anything out of him really oth...
Wang Hernandez
  10/04/24
If you're not working the word "shatters" into eve...
sph
  10/04/24


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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:06 AM
Author: Wang Hernandez

Despite the fact I have told him numerous times I have no interest in waking up at 6 AM so I can work out with a bunch of strange dudes on public who I have never met before.

For context, my BIL is a nonequity partner at a V10 firm. He’s a super nice guy but has very little life beyond work and doing basic family stuff. He is painfully introverted and can’t handle social situations with more than 2 or 3 people. His only apparent interest is this workout club that he started in Covid where a bunch of dudes wake up early in the morning to workout but don’t talk to each other.

He’s invited me numerous times over the years. I have always politely declined until this last weekend he invited me again. This time I was frank. I said “hey man I’d love to get together but I am never doing this early workout morning thing.”

Now my wife is pissed because I was “rude” to her sister’s husband.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5606193&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309370",#48161697)



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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:07 AM
Author: meds

Way to go wang

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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:20 AM
Author: evan39

I know a prole who brags about these early morning "workout" routines. He also talks about Dave Ramsey and stupid wealth-building schemes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5606193&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309370",#48161716)



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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:22 AM
Author: Wang Hernandez

My BIL is not a prole but he is extremely boring and can be painfully awkward. He’s the type of guy who will immediately pick up a baby at a family gathering so he can focus on the child instead of exchanging pleasantries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5606193&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309370",#48161718)



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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:27 AM
Author: potluck

“nonequity partner”

“not a prole”

??

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5606193&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309370",#48161733)



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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:39 AM
Author: Wang Hernandez

He’s a weird dude. He has tons of family money and could take a much more chill job than being a service partner who bills 2500-3000 hours a year but he’s so utterly boring and socially awkward he can’t imagine spending his time doing anything else.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5606193&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309370",#48161749)



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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:25 AM
Author: oli

What sort of life is he supposed to have outside of workout and family stuff?

sounds like he is biglaw, there for his family, and meets with bros at 6am for workouts. what else do you want out of this guy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5606193&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309370",#48161724)



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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:36 AM
Author: Wang Hernandez

Personally I don’t want anything out of him really other than not to keep inviting me to something I have told him many times I have no interest in attending.

I am fine to get together with him a few times a year to have coffee or preferably a beer but of course he doesn’t drink.

It’s gotten to the point where he knows I’m not interested but invites me anyways so it looks like he’s trying but he’s just paying lip service to extending an invitation he knows I will not accept. That’s somewhat annoying.

Of course, it’s a separate point how cucked most XOERS are so as to think there should be nothing in a man’s life other than family and work. He should have no other social life or interests. lol losers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5606193&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309370",#48161746)



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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:25 AM
Author: sph

If you're not working the word "shatters" into every conversation you have with this guy, you suck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5606193&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309370",#48161727)