BIL keeps inviting me to his early workout club
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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:06 AM Author: Wang Hernandez
Despite the fact I have told him numerous times I have no interest in waking up at 6 AM so I can work out with a bunch of strange dudes on public who I have never met before.
For context, my BIL is a nonequity partner at a V10 firm. He’s a super nice guy but has very little life beyond work and doing basic family stuff. He is painfully introverted and can’t handle social situations with more than 2 or 3 people. His only apparent interest is this workout club that he started in Covid where a bunch of dudes wake up early in the morning to workout but don’t talk to each other.
He’s invited me numerous times over the years. I have always politely declined until this last weekend he invited me again. This time I was frank. I said “hey man I’d love to get together but I am never doing this early workout morning thing.”
Now my wife is pissed because I was “rude” to her sister’s husband.
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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:25 AM Author: oli
What sort of life is he supposed to have outside of workout and family stuff?
sounds like he is biglaw, there for his family, and meets with bros at 6am for workouts. what else do you want out of this guy.
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Date: October 4th, 2024 12:36 AM Author: Wang Hernandez
Personally I don’t want anything out of him really other than not to keep inviting me to something I have told him many times I have no interest in attending.
I am fine to get together with him a few times a year to have coffee or preferably a beer but of course he doesn’t drink.
It’s gotten to the point where he knows I’m not interested but invites me anyways so it looks like he’s trying but he’s just paying lip service to extending an invitation he knows I will not accept. That’s somewhat annoying.
Of course, it’s a separate point how cucked most XOERS are so as to think there should be nothing in a man’s life other than family and work. He should have no other social life or interests. lol losers.
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