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chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
how does it work with your jeggings?
azure hyperventilating newt queen of the night
  01/29/26
i was barred from my apartment for like two weeks and had to...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
i like the reward sticker on it. theres gotta be some hood h...
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
no flame when i went to the office in gaithersburg to get it...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
Lol ur dumber than benzo
brilliant incel alpha
  01/28/26
he'll be making 7 figures per annum next year. u?
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
probably making what benzo is making
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
Lol I haven't had a job in like ten years now u fucking lemm...
brilliant incel alpha
  01/28/26
neither has benzo!
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
u poast 24/7 so even if ur wealthy (you're not) your life se...
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
...
Comical cream corner
  01/28/26
I'm 5'2 bitch
brilliant incel alpha
  01/28/26
I'm Indian
hairless vibrant boltzmann
  01/28/26
...
black nofapping codepig garrison
  01/29/26
what did i miss?
Carmine provocative station
  01/28/26
...
poppy doctorate
  01/28/26
im indian and everything poasted is 100% factual
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
yeah what did you do and why are you wearing an ankle monito...
Underhanded Glittery Field
  01/28/26
this is old news. i got arrested for DV in 2021 when i was s...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
Let's circle back tomorrow with the photo.
poppy doctorate
  01/28/26
pay no attn OP is a gay and fake sociopath
Diverse very tactful police squad
  01/28/26
Why do you look like you weigh 300 lbs?
bistre electric personal credit line dingle berry
  01/28/26
i'm overweight, why is this a problem for you?
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
I always pictured you as a skinny drug addled faggot.
bistre electric personal credit line dingle berry
  01/28/26
i haven't weighed less than 270 lbs in well over a decade
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
tbf most of that is cum-weight
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
am i really that fat? you told me it wasn't that bad. /
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
sorry toots dudes will say whatever to get their dick wet
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
Wow, this is quite surprising news
Disrespectful coffee pot
  01/29/26
WHY TF WERE YOU WEARING THAT THING?
Sienna deranged abode generalized bond
  01/28/26
i punched my gf in the side of the head like 5-6 times and c...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
tbf you punch like a girl
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
Why aren't you on the Maryand Judicial Portal?
Sienna deranged abode generalized bond
  01/28/26
this is all flame
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
Gotcha
Sienna deranged abode generalized bond
  01/28/26
it';s not actually flame. i got it all expunged.
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
(it's flame)
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
18000000000000 fuck women
Beady-eyed gay fortuitous meteor principal's office
  01/29/26
...
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
You could be an xo legend if you request and post the bodyca...
boyish crusty orchestra pit
  01/28/26
i was just looking for it. i actually had (or have) it. my l...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
stop lying on the internet for attention
laughsome theater scourge upon the earth
  01/28/26
I need to get my mugshot of when I was arrested for DV in 20...
boyish crusty orchestra pit
  01/28/26
180. Did you really do it, or was it a false accusation? I u...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
lol at “super dismissive”
Disrespectful coffee pot
  01/29/26
she was just a bit dismissive at first, which made me mad bu...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/29/26
All conversations in this thread are attorney/client privile...
federal senate
  01/29/26
Nah, I was asleep in the guest room through the entirety of ...
boyish crusty orchestra pit
  01/29/26
thats insane man. i kinda wish that was the case with me, be...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/29/26
how much for a pair of your used socks?
Bat shit crazy national security agency home
  01/28/26
for u, free
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
TY, can i DM you my address or shall i just poast it here?
Bat shit crazy national security agency home
  01/28/26
Pls poast
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
Please send dirty socks here: 7301 Forest Ave Suite 300, Ric...
Bat shit crazy national security agency home
  01/28/26
...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/28/26
...
hairless vibrant boltzmann
  01/28/26
How long did you have to wear that monitor for?
Hyperactive Sickened Boistinker Legend
  01/29/26
Interesting shot. Now rate me as a poster.
Irradiated National
  01/29/26
Fucking things are way bigger than I realized
onyx international law enforcement agency laser beams
  01/29/26
it was really uncomfortable. i also had to be sure to charge...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/29/26
This might sound like a slight given the context, but it's n...
onyx international law enforcement agency laser beams
  01/29/26
all joking aside, it's surreal for me to think back to that ...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/29/26
I think it's because you've been so honest about it. Most p...
onyx international law enforcement agency laser beams
  01/29/26
yeah, people seem to be really embarrassed and shit when the...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/29/26
I think you’re doing all the right things, but you&rsq...
Disrespectful coffee pot
  01/29/26
i really doubt it had any real lasting effect. i lived about...
chestnut big roast beef
  01/29/26


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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:04 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

https://ibb.co/CpjLrtz0

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628941)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 2:14 PM
Author: azure hyperventilating newt queen of the night

how does it work with your jeggings?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49630703)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:05 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

i was barred from my apartment for like two weeks and had to live in a hotel. i couldn't even go to downtown silver spring bc the monitor could go off.

i tried an arbitration on zoom with this thing on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628942)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:07 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

i like the reward sticker on it. theres gotta be some hood hustle for collecting ankle monitors dindus rip off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628946)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:11 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

no flame when i went to the office in gaithersburg to get it cut off, the lady cut it off and the entire office broke out into applause LOL.

actually, she started the cut and then let me finish it, likee it was some sort of rite of passage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628957)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:09 PM
Author: brilliant incel alpha

Lol ur dumber than benzo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628950)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:10 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

he'll be making 7 figures per annum next year.

u?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628954)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:10 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

probably making what benzo is making

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628955)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:21 PM
Author: brilliant incel alpha

Lol I haven't had a job in like ten years now u fucking lemming

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628983)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:24 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

neither has benzo!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628997)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:29 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

u poast 24/7 so even if ur wealthy (you're not) your life seems pathetic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629016)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:31 PM
Author: Comical cream corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629026)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:49 PM
Author: brilliant incel alpha

I'm 5'2 bitch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629074)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 11:29 PM
Author: hairless vibrant boltzmann

I'm Indian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629294)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 8:40 AM
Author: black nofapping codepig garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629777)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:22 PM
Author: Carmine provocative station

what did i miss?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628987)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:23 PM
Author: poppy doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49628989)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:29 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

im indian and everything poasted is 100% factual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629019)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:25 PM
Author: Underhanded Glittery Field

yeah what did you do and why are you wearing an ankle monitor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629002)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:25 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

this is old news. i got arrested for DV in 2021 when i was spiraling. i can;t find it rn but i have a photo of myself standing in front of a zoom screen talking to a judge while wearing a jail jumpsuit, my then gf took the photo bc she was in the hearing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629003)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:03 PM
Author: poppy doctorate

Let's circle back tomorrow with the photo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629113)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:32 PM
Author: Diverse very tactful police squad

pay no attn

OP is a gay and fake sociopath

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629029)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:31 PM
Author: bistre electric personal credit line dingle berry

Why do you look like you weigh 300 lbs?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629027)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:33 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

i'm overweight, why is this a problem for you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629031)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:34 PM
Author: bistre electric personal credit line dingle berry

I always pictured you as a skinny drug addled faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629034)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:35 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

i haven't weighed less than 270 lbs in well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629036)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:38 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

tbf most of that is cum-weight

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629045)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:39 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

am i really that fat? you told me it wasn't that bad. /

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629050)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:40 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

sorry toots dudes will say whatever to get their dick wet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629054)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 8:32 AM
Author: Disrespectful coffee pot

Wow, this is quite surprising news

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629763)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:40 PM
Author: Sienna deranged abode generalized bond

WHY TF WERE YOU WEARING THAT THING?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629053)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:41 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

i punched my gf in the side of the head like 5-6 times and choked her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629057)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:42 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

tbf you punch like a girl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629063)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:53 PM
Author: Sienna deranged abode generalized bond

Why aren't you on the Maryand Judicial Portal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629080)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:53 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

this is all flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629084)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:55 PM
Author: Sienna deranged abode generalized bond

Gotcha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629086)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:10 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

it';s not actually flame. i got it all expunged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629128)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:10 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

(it's flame)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629129)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 1:58 PM
Author: Beady-eyed gay fortuitous meteor principal's office

18000000000000

fuck women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49630642)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:00 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629107)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 9:56 PM
Author: boyish crusty orchestra pit

You could be an xo legend if you request and post the bodycam footage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629091)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:12 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

i was just looking for it. i actually had (or have) it. my lawyer got the footage and sent it to me when we thought we were going to trial.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629131)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:16 PM
Author: laughsome theater scourge upon the earth

stop lying on the internet for attention

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629135)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:35 PM
Author: boyish crusty orchestra pit

I need to get my mugshot of when I was arrested for DV in 2014.

Problem is the libs in SF will only release mugshots to the criminal himself, and only in person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629171)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 11:39 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

180. Did you really do it, or was it a false accusation? I unfortunately did. She was being super dismissive of me and I was spiraling and that was it.

You know what’s funny? The fight that night started bc she was jealous of fucked black prostitutes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629310)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 8:33 AM
Author: Disrespectful coffee pot

lol at “super dismissive”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629766)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 10:08 AM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

she was just a bit dismissive at first, which made me mad but she went and lay down in bed and said TALK TO ME TOMORROW so i started pounding her face in and choking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629951)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 9:35 AM
Author: federal senate

All conversations in this thread are attorney/client privileged if there was any concern.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629875)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 10:52 AM
Author: boyish crusty orchestra pit

Nah, I was asleep in the guest room through the entirety of the events, until a team of six SFPD banged on the door, then jumped me and put me face down in the foyer when I opened it. Lol, crazy times.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49630025)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 2:30 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

thats insane man. i kinda wish that was the case with me, because i actually popped her in the mouth a bunch of times and choked her out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49630787)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:18 PM
Author: Bat shit crazy national security agency home

how much for a pair of your used socks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629138)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:21 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

for u, free

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629143)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:25 PM
Author: Bat shit crazy national security agency home

TY, can i DM you my address or shall i just poast it here?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629154)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 10:57 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

Pls poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629235)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 11:00 PM
Author: Bat shit crazy national security agency home

Please send dirty socks here: 7301 Forest Ave Suite 300, Richmond, VA 23226

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629240)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 11:32 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629300)



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Date: January 28th, 2026 11:57 PM
Author: hairless vibrant boltzmann



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629376)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 5:19 AM
Author: Hyperactive Sickened Boistinker Legend

How long did you have to wear that monitor for?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629615)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 5:22 AM
Author: Irradiated National

Interesting shot. Now rate me as a poster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629618)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 5:25 AM
Author: onyx international law enforcement agency laser beams

Fucking things are way bigger than I realized

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629619)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 6:59 AM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

it was really uncomfortable. i also had to be sure to charge it regularly. it had a battery life of 8-10 hours or whatever, and if the battery died it would set an alarm off and the cops would come get you. or so i was told. i did a number of client calls with my leg propped near a power outlet.

i'd say a really low point in my life was my then-gf and i (in violation of my probation, as i wasn't supposed to be within like 1000 feet of her) picking my kids up at my house (which i didn't live in anymore) while wearing the ankle bracelet and driving to hershey park (after i had confirmed with the probation people that hershey was in an acceptable radius and wouldn't get me arrested). we stopped by a hs friend's house who lives up there and i just thought to myself what the fuck is going on in my life rn.

but there were a lot of low points like this during this particular period of time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629668)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 9:29 AM
Author: onyx international law enforcement agency laser beams

This might sound like a slight given the context, but it's not: you're a man among men

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5828084&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309378#49629867)



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Date: January 29th, 2026 10:10 AM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

all joking aside, it's surreal for me to think back to that time in my life and all the insane stuff i did. thank god my kids were so young. the older one was 6-7 and won't remember much. his brother was 2-3 and won't remember any of it. i think i've fixed whatever damage i did.

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Date: January 29th, 2026 10:29 AM
Author: onyx international law enforcement agency laser beams

I think it's because you've been so honest about it. Most people try to run, lie, justify, etc., and it prevents them from making real, far-reaching change. Good job not being a bitch about it all

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Date: January 29th, 2026 10:41 AM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

yeah, people seem to be really embarrassed and shit when they do stuff like this, but i just kind of tried to own it and go "wow, i really did have a problem" and just do the best i can.

i'm fairly open about it, within reason, with people IRL because i think substance abuse among professionals is very widespread and there are stigmas, but people really should talk about the issues and try to fix them

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Date: January 29th, 2026 1:57 PM
Author: Disrespectful coffee pot

I think you’re doing all the right things, but you’re deluding yourself if you think there wasn’t any damage done. Even if it was just prolonged absences and Mommy crying all the time.

That stuff gets deep into their psyches. You’ve got to work at repair every day and be there when things go bad down the road for them.

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Date: January 29th, 2026 2:33 PM
Author: chestnut big roast beef

i really doubt it had any real lasting effect. i lived about a mile away and they were with me half the time (except for about a month when i was spinning out of control and i only saw them when i went to pick them up at the house for the day), and the entire time i was out of the house was about a year and a half. and unbelievably, my wife and i got along the entire time so there wasn't any fighting and shit going on in front of them.

there's zero chance the younger one is affected by it at all. highly doubt it for the older one too.

my childhood, however, left a lasting impact, but this was about 1/1000th of that.



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