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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath
  09/22/25
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Glittery hyperventilating rigor station
  09/23/25
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Glittery hyperventilating rigor station
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Glittery hyperventilating rigor station
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
laughsome locale double fault
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
laughsome locale double fault
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
Underhanded people who are hurt bawdyhouse
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
cracking dilemma
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
Deranged Pervert
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
laughsome locale double fault
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
lilac antidepressant drug quadroon
  09/23/25
wow
Chest-beating Awkward Piazza
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
Mint exciting theatre crotch
  09/23/25
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Glittery hyperventilating rigor station
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
razzmatazz orchid really tough guy
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
razzmatazz orchid really tough guy
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
laughsome locale double fault
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
thriller sneaky criminal
  09/23/25
How so?
Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
thriller sneaky criminal
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Metal telephone
  09/23/25
…?
Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
Gaped place of business
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
laughsome locale double fault
  09/23/25
Also this
Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol
  09/23/25
serious reply: dont even waste ur time on that shit buy a...
pearl round eye
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
lilac antidepressant drug quadroon
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol
  09/23/25
...
pearl round eye
  09/23/25
...
Chest-beating Awkward Piazza
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
Gaped place of business
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
histrionic godawful nursing home
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
Gaped place of business
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
beta domesticated temple prole
  09/23/25
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laughsome locale double fault
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
razzmatazz orchid really tough guy
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
talented national security agency legal warrant
  09/23/25
Imo Amp is a better use of ur time
pearl round eye
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
laughsome locale double fault
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
marvelous maroon stain friendly grandma
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
contagious jet-lagged brunch
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
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This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Glittery hyperventilating rigor station

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Glittery hyperventilating rigor station

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: Glittery hyperventilating rigor station

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: laughsome locale double fault

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: laughsome locale double fault

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Underhanded people who are hurt bawdyhouse

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: cracking dilemma

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Deranged Pervert

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: laughsome locale double fault

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: lilac antidepressant drug quadroon

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: Chest-beating Awkward Piazza

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Mint exciting theatre crotch

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Glittery hyperventilating rigor station

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: razzmatazz orchid really tough guy

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: razzmatazz orchid really tough guy

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: laughsome locale double fault

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: thriller sneaky criminal

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: thriller sneaky criminal

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Metal telephone

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: Gaped place of business

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: laughsome locale double fault

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: pearl round eye

serious reply: dont even waste ur time on that shit

buy a tenga flip and start autistically getting into a surrogate activity

if u really need it go to some 3rd world asian shithole and pound it out there

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: lilac antidepressant drug quadroon

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: Sienna Stirring Death Wish Pistol

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: pearl round eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: Chest-beating Awkward Piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: Gaped place of business

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: histrionic godawful nursing home

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: Gaped place of business

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: beta domesticated temple prole

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: laughsome locale double fault



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: razzmatazz orchid really tough guy

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: talented national security agency legal warrant

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: pearl round eye

Imo Amp is a better use of ur time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: laughsome locale double fault

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: marvelous maroon stain friendly grandma

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: contagious jet-lagged brunch

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: Ultramarine Flatulent Public Bath

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: passionate point headpube

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: passionate point headpube



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: passionate point headpube



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49587194)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: Mud

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5309546#49607174)