I recently tried meeting some girls from seeking and pursuing the sugar baby route. I had no problem finding college students or recent grads, ie not professionals. I spoke and even met a few of them for a meet & greet date.

I could not bring myself to actually bang them for money. I'm not religious or anything, but it just doesnt feel right. While i feel fear of the consequences of getting involved with someone like this, i also think its morally wrong.

I'm fairly blackpilled about my prospects of finding love at my age, and the idea that romantic love can last more than a short time. I pursued sugar baby as a potential solution but cant bring myself to do it. The future feels helpless and im retarded and gay, or possibly just too low T.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47321958)

1. try to just date the girl normally and not make it transactional. you can buy her nice things she wants instead of paying cash. this is not too different from a normal relationship

2. stop being a fag

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47322539)

Did you make any effort to get them to come home without paying or were they demanding payment up front to come home?

Did you pay for the meet and greet?

Have you considered not being a turbofag?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47701991)

That's because it isn't right. Get your friends to set you up, try other ways of meeting people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47323324)

-pick up the ones who are vapid and hot and trashy and degenerate and just treat them as the prostitutes they are. You are not harming or corrupting them in any way. They are not being traumatized by fucking you. Regularly cycle through them as your dick commands.

-find one of the nice, sweet ones who doesn't want to be on the site but is there out of desperation. Date her normally and exclusively like a typical relationship and help her with rent. Keep doing meet and greets until you find a girl like this who actually likes and is attracted to you so that you don't have to feel bad about paying someone to do something they wouldn't otherwise do or otherwise contributing to the corruption of a nice person. Basically just treat it as a way to land 5-10 years younger and 2 points hotter than your dating norm. The only downside is where it eventually goes. Maybe your read was wrong and she didn't actually like you, or maybe the opposite happens and she wants to keep you forever. The only way this ultimately has a happy ending is if you vetted her at the start to determine that she had not done so much whoring prior to you that you would be unable to take her seriously for a real relationship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47323466)

Were you under the impression that they weren't

or at the very least that they expected to be treated as if they weren't?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47323487)

Like looking down the line into your 50s, you have no one to share your life with and your mind has adapted to exclusively paying people for affection.

This seems almost unbearably depressing far beyond any moral hang ups about paying for sex.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47325870)

You get married and think about the other persons wealth or financial prospects. It’s a consideration for virtually everyone. Do you prefer to live alone? Try buying a house on one salary or keeping up with rent on one salary.

You can only have a certain number of kids, limited by $. Otherwise you’d see far more people with 4 and 5 kids

Want to get divorced? Better think about what you stand to win/lose from that before you make a move

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47325916)

Also, at his age you could argue that the train for getting a nice, stable, normal relationship has largely passed anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47325925)

Surely getting an escort is not the same as a dating app like tinder.

Guy in his late 30s can find a nice girl still.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47326060)

either way, there's no money exchanged which was my point: a distinction which you don't seem to think matters. with the one night stand, both people are choosing to spend this time with the other person without the taint of financial motive.

I think there's something to that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5480177&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310443",#47329324)