lol, mba chick calendared a zoom meeting to dump me
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:52 PM Author: crawly police squad international law enforcement agency
See below 'She was happier when we just went hiking or had dinner, drinks (her), etc. Something about hanging out and doing me stuff made her thinking about a future with me seem distasteful'
Ie, she's just not that into him.
Not a big deal, at least he's back in the game pursuing biological women. Find someone dorkier that's a better fit. (Fizzkidd, we're all looking at you)
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310481",#48156735) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:27 PM Author: crawly police squad international law enforcement agency
Definitely possible that she's not fully over her ex.
Could also be a situation where she felt relieved by lex opening up on the first date- it made her feel like he was her peer, and made her feel less dysfunctional to be post-divorce and thinking about fleeing the area, etc. She enjoyed doing activities with him that SHE likes (ie, drinks, chatting, looking to the future and planning shrew trips with the honeymoon period rush of excitement about dating) and got caught up in those and enjoying feeling physical affection from someone new. Then reality caught up to her as she learned more activities that he enjoys and the rush of meeting someone new started to fade slightly, she realized that she just wasn't that into him specifically.
Shit like this happens all the time.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310481",#48156855)
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:31 AM Author: Bearded Histrionic Brethren
cr
if you spend any amount of time reading about daily life in basically any society or culture anywhere at any point in time they were always obsessed with sex and ribaldry and wanting to fuck and suck
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310481",#48158335)
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 8:16 PM Author: Maroon dilemma wrinkle
Women embody whatever “age” they live in and you can’t get around that with an MBA shrew of all types ffs
The time you long for she’d also be a virgin. That ship sailed lol.
You need to fuck asap. Women pair bond with whomever has sex with them. It’s a biological fact you idiot liberal artist.
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 5:45 PM Author: Wine soggy location associate
"i think it's ruinous to accelerate physical intimacy before it's appropriate"
(guy accelerating emotional intimacy before it's appropriate)
you're a healthy red blooded man and fucked this broad. you don't have to engage in modern degeneracy but it has always been true the physical and emotional intimacy are correlated. that doesn't mean you have to play by modern standards of fucking and sucking, but you also shouldn't be trauma dumping before you've even held hands.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310481",#48160515) |
Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM Author: Sinister stain
Lol at talking about your spirituality and feelings to a woman instead of raping her
Don’t act like you’re surprised by this. You know what you did wrong
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:43 PM Author: boyish umber puppy
via text:
"Hi Lex. Hope that your Wednesday is going well.
In being genuine to myself & transparent with you, I've thought about the dates we had, and while I have enjoyed getting to know you, I also feel I'm uninterested to pursue this connection further.
I appreciate the generosity of your time & genuinely wish you well. I hope that we both find what we're looking for out there."
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:22 PM Author: electric sexy bbw candlestick maker
lex, actual relationship advice (notwithstanding that this woman sounds forgettable): do not schedule intellectual activities like “reading buddhist texts,” especially early. women, even intellectual ones, do not want tasks or challenges or homework. they want to be hugged and patted on the ass and for someone to be there with them when they’re sad, and fucked. their desire for intellect, when it exists, is more or less aesthetic preference, so that she can justify surrendering herself to you, and so that your conversations can settle on a compatible level of depth. she may tell herself she wants a “headier” relationship but this is just the unconscious delusion that makes the surrender possible, and a romantic relationship founded on “headiness” isn’t sustainable anyways. you are taking the delusion at face value and participating in it, as is perhaps your nature as someone used to forging friendships through intellectual activity as it is. you have to look past the delusion, and resist your own nerdy tendencies.
the foundation of opposite sex relationships besides fucking is in the mundane. it is about taking pleasure in daily nothings such that mere presence and mere existence become a little more ascendant, it is not about forming ascendant intellectual bonds through which to raise mere existence up to their own level (that is for same sex relationships – peers embarking on a great productive mission, soldiers heading off to fight great wars).
do not reach for the ascendant first. do not manufacture connection out of intellectual effort or “shared ideas.” nor do you necessarily have to go on trips or whatever. just be affectionate and cheerful and sexy and casually smart and some kind of intellectual connection will emerge through experience, or as much of one as can exist and is actually desirable in a romantic relationship.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310481",#48157642) |
Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:18 AM Author: boyish umber puppy
while i'm being self-indulgent (i'm on a streak, i'll just own it), i think what i liked about her was her image of herself. she presented herself as someone spiritually dead trying to make a more meaningful life after career advancement started to plateau and increasing the dragon's horde wasn't satisfying. i didn't pick a buddhist text randomly. i have my own philosophical views and they are far from undeveloped, but she made a point of choosing that as a religion and complained that she never actually got around to reading the heart sutra, and communicating that this was who she wanted to be in her imagining of her new life. i liked that. i actually really liked that. she wanted to have a creative life as well, but didn't really know how to approach it besides taking (what i'm guessing were overpriced) painting classes.
so i wrote a story in my head about broken people complementing each other's brokenness in an interesting way. in the end, i liked my story. i took the idea of dating as seeking a connection at face. i'm an idiot, then. yet i still don't want to kill whatever bit of whimsy or sincerity led me here, even if just in this weeklong fling.
so then what do i want? what's realistic to expect? i certainly don't want to daddy around some young girl for the rest of my 30's, and i'm not jaded enough to take the rapepill. just... chill and let something work out once i can meet someone who is actually more compatible with my disposition -- more mundanely, someone that's more bohemian or nerdy (whatever that means for a 30-something) and less shrewy, and accept that any depth to those similarities in personality is just that, superficial at first and perhaps even long-term? fuck. this was all easier when i was young and drunk.
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:29 AM Author: salmon fanboi ratface
lol painting class.
people should learn something before they try to be "creative."
typical wine shrew bs.
painting? can she even DRAW? (she can't)
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:11 AM Author: Wine soggy location associate
you have to remember that most women are empty vessels that will conform to whatever is around them that they are attracted to. this is why most women don't have hobbies beyond consumption but will adopt all of her boyfriends hobbies. it's the same way with opinions and everything else. this is why she is *sincerely* a bizshrew. because women have the capacity to sincerely get into things that they perceive as important and valuable while men realize it's only a means to an end. this is why women will get upset over inconsequential bullshit. to them it's important.
however, you have to realize that these extremely real and sincere feelings are based only on emotions. women do not have principles in the way men do. this is why they can love you one day and live, laugh, love the next.
you shouldn't feel stupid that you bought the idea of this person and your story. because it probably was real at the time. read and re-read jcm's longer post itt. you can trust a woman to be seriously deeply interested in you so long as they are emotionally connected. early in the relationship, especially when women are older, this is very fleeting. get used to be confused how a woman can be "really super into you" and then not the next day. this is how they are wired. this is why we are supposed to pair bond and commit to an unbreakable legal and spiritual union in our youth. do you think all the severe consequences of dishonoring a marriage would have existed if that type of social, legal and spiritual pressure was unnecessary? now go look at which gender typically presses a no-fault divorce and which gender will try to keep it together because they made a vow.
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:23 AM Author: Frozen giraffe
I will be autistic about this for your benefit:
Rationalists, who I don't agree with in general but who have stumbled upon something here, say that there are two basic kind of thinkers: wordcels and shape rotators.
You are a wordcel to the core. This mindset ensures that your thoughts and feelings mirror LLM output: it is trapped entirely in the world of words, in a way that bears only a superficial relationship to the world of shapes.
This does not do well with women, because they are overwhelmingly in the 'wordcel' category themselves. But their words are built on a bed of shapes, and as the story is pulled over it, the jagged edges of those shapes first stretch and then rip those words to shreds. Women call this 'getting the ick'.
Here, your MBA woman wrote a story while she was enchanted with Height, Handsome and Brain, and then was promptly disenchanted with you on account of your sexual performance, financial situation or your 'let's ponder Oriental religious texts together' idea.
Here, you continue to ponder words like 'bohemian', 'nerdy', etc. Do not ponder an imaginary woman. Instead, when you meet another person, ponder their shape (not just physical), and evaluate in this order (kind of a 'napkin map', no doubt there is more):
(1) Can you trust her?
(2) Do you want to fuck her, and does she want to fuck you?
(3) What does she want?
Hope this helps.
There are also a couple of ick factors about you that I would not post publicly; I will go into these with you when we next meet.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310481",#48158096) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:26 AM Author: Wine soggy location associate
i call this "masculine brain" and "feminine brain."
lex definitely has a feminine brain. this isn't implying he is "feminine" at all, only that he has a more feminine way of thinking, which isn't necessarily bad. what he needs is a woman who is feminine but has a "masculine brain."
these type of women often tend to be extremely online, asian, autistic, into masculine hobbies, etc. hmmmm...
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310481",#48158101) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 4:36 PM Author: violent ruddy faggotry state
jfc bro
This is never going to happen. You are not going to meet some "bohemian" or "nerdy" chick who is single in her 30s unless she has severe issues that would make her completely undateable for a LTR. Your ONLY chance of having a viable relationship with someone like that is chadding out and completely killing off your feminine side so that you can attract a younger girl who meets your criteria to dad around.
Right now you are caught between targeting a non-existent demographic, and another demographic that might satisfy you but won't buy what you are currently selling.
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:39 AM Author: Wine soggy location associate
"wow, this bizshrew has a deep, oceanic soul! she is really thoughtful, caring, intelligent, and seriously spiritual. i've opened up to her about all my vulnerabilities and insecurities, and now that we've been physically intimidate i can tell that something really solid has formed."
"Hi Lex. Hope that your Wednesday is going well..."
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:32 AM Author: Sinister stain
What you really need is some male friends who you can share this stuff with. I can't help you there, it's tough, I think we all wish we had more close male friends who we felt comfortable enough around to share our thoughts on stuff like spirituality with
You're never going to be able to share that part of you with women. That's actually just a hard rule and not even a generalization. That's just the way the world works. Women aren't like that. Women are for sex, and...I'm actually not sure what else, but other guys seem to keep them around for stuff other than sex, so maybe someone else can chime in on this
The good news is you live a university life so it should actually be somewhat easier for you to make male friends who are smart and sophisticated enough for you to actually be able to discuss stuff like spirituality and meaning with them. If not, we're always here for you on the internet to engage in subthread wastelands with you about it
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:51 AM Author: Sinister stain
Btw you can probably still keep things going with her if you really want to, as long as the sex was good
The only thing that matters is the sex. If you gave her the best sex of her life she would listen to you babble about Buddhist shit all day
You don’t have to tell us the details. Hopefully you know how to tell if a woman is really enjoying sex
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