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31 YO loser, just marry current gf?
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:02 PM Author: henna bateful ticket booth 31 YO loser as title states, been with 7 women in my life, just two of whom it was more than 1-2 times or not full intercourse. Current GF is great but wondering if I should bite the bullet here. She has been with by my count probably 15 guys, 30 YO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136046) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 11:47 PM Author: Marvelous Plum Dog Poop Meetinghouse 16 after this morning, champ. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136341) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:04 PM Author: maize up-to-no-good hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138481) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 4:53 PM Author: Dead cerise den So what's your count? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138444) |
Date: September 26th, 2024 10:03 PM Author: Mint nibblets resort its more an issue of whether you both want kids or not and you think shell be a good mom. if you havent or cant have that conversation then lmao. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136051) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:08 PM Author: Beta liquid oxygen not full intercourse tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136069) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:22 AM Author: blue tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137023) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:52 AM Author: Racy blathering fat ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137110) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 11:19 AM Author: Bearded Kitty Cat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137175) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 9:21 PM Author: Rebellious vermilion range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48139180) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:10 PM Author: tantric bespoke indian lodge doctorate you really should never have tallied these numbers up bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136074) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:14 PM Author: ungodly location (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138507) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 9:07 PM Author: henna bateful ticket booth It's hard not to. Don't have the heart to just ask and have the conversation, either. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48139138) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:12 PM Author: vibrant messiness JM doesn't do pumos, does he? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136078) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:13 PM Author: sick address goal in life Correct I think it's against his honor code (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136082) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:28 PM Author: henna bateful ticket booth this is not JM flame. i have to imagine many other men are in this position, just statistically speaking. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136127) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:29 PM Author: sick address goal in life That said, how Tall are you and the missus? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136130) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:30 PM Author: henna bateful ticket booth i'm 5'9. she's 5'6'. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136134) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 9:57 AM Author: provocative theatre Go for it, sounds like your kids have a shot at being non-midgets. As a fellow 5'9mo, I have to ask: how the HELL did you land a woman?? |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:37 PM Author: Mint nibblets resort it is probably flame bc this is xo but a lot of men do find themselves there so it would be a close cut jm flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136159) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:31 PM Author: Cracking self-centered property you can do better (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136137) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:31 PM Author: yellow electric clown What do you want out of life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136138) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:35 PM Author: gold heady piazza really tough guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136152) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:52 PM Author: henna bateful ticket booth idk. she's great and all but most of my relationships previously were less than a couple months, never included routine interaction. so i feel like i dont have enough perspective to know if GF is good partner and match or not to marry.
i guess, sure, a lot of this is driven by watching tv and movies and reading xo flame and wishing for a shot at at least a fraction of the action. obviously that's not going to happen for me. but long term for sure want wife and kids and normal family. we havent seriously broached the topic of what we want long long term but i know she wants kids and seems decent minded enough to be a mother, just unsure if i'd be happy in this arrangement. |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 11:11 PM Author: tantric bespoke indian lodge doctorate ahhhhh, love (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136257) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 12:00 PM Author: Irradiated useless brakes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137306) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 9:17 PM Author: insane mauve death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48139174) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 11:45 PM Author: Mint nibblets resort just slide and let do faggot. youre too old to be dating anyways. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136333) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 11:50 PM Author: deep mind-boggling spot therapy perhaps the reason this is the only one that's lasted a while and ur doing shit you didn't do in previous relationships is because you... and hear me out here because this is a bit complicated ... *are* a good match? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136345) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 9:51 AM Author: henna bateful ticket booth i can't tell if it's because we are a good match or if she's 30 YO and trying to lock something in already.
that's what i mean by lacking perspective... i dont even know what having a 'good' GF entails outside of what i've gleaned from tiktok relationship videos from zoomers. |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 4:45 PM Author: Brilliant Elite Box Office never included routine interaction tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138417) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:01 PM Author: henna bateful ticket booth By this I mean hanging out more than a couple times a week. Current GF and I will crash at each other's places and see each other multiple times a week. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138462) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 10:38 PM Author: splenetic dull institution settling at 31 tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136162) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 11:28 PM Author: Saffron Patrolman For whatever it's worth OP, getting "a fraction of the action" would not be as easy as breaking up with your girlfriend. You would have to rebuild yourself into a totally different person. Significant chance you fail and ultimately settle in mid to late 30s for a worse woman than what you have now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136285) |
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Date: September 26th, 2024 11:51 PM Author: deep mind-boggling spot therapy this is 100% the likely outcome here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136348) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:23 AM Author: blue tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137029) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 9:54 AM Author: henna bateful ticket booth it's less about getting 'action' and more about making sure that i'm not committing for life to a woman who isn't a good match and who's just desperately phoning it in at 30 YO after mixed dating experiences before me.
seems NCR to marry someone who's not really into you and then have kids and be stuck together forever. grew up with parents who were like this but stayed together 'for the kids' and it's not ideal for the kids (perhaps why i am a 31 YO loser now). |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:01 AM Author: provocative theatre You're a loser because you're 5'9. Having a woman who us attracted to you longterm is a Chad privilege. Take what you got and fucking charge forward with it. |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 12:09 AM Author: odious gaped love of her life foreskin is she mentally stable, good with money, honest, hardworking and fun to fuck? then yes (after fucking 8 whores). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136387) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 12:11 AM Author: filthy hell that's like 21 in law years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136390) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 9:59 AM Author: Lemon people who are hurt I was in a similar position at your age. I married the girl but regret it a bit because she’s not that into me. We have 3 kids and a life now so it’s hard to just walk away. I wouldn’t trade my kids for anything but the marriage itself is just lukewarm at best. We’re likely headed for divorce in our mid 40s. That outcome may still be better than being single and alone in my mid 30s though. You have to decide where you are (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136976) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:02 AM Author: henna bateful ticket booth the 'growing into each other' thing didnt pan out?
felt very lonely in late 20s before it worked out with her. dont want to be lonely again in 30s but if it's a matter of just kicking that can down the road for another 10 years after divorce/losing half my money, this doesnt seem like a great idea. |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:41 AM Author: Lemon people who are hurt Do you make significantly more money than her and have more assets? You could get a prenup to protect yourself. You could also leave in search of a better girl, it’s just that your options aren’t likely going to improve unless you expect to be much more desirable in the future. Will you have significantly more wealth in a few years? Even then, you’re losing youth and time.
If you like this girl, it’s probably worth trying to see if marriage will work now. This is especially true if you want children. Being divorced but having kids in your 40s is only a bad outcome if you also get fleeced in a divorce. Prenups can help prevent that. |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:01 AM Author: Smoky Autistic Parlour Tattoo Most dudes end up marrying like the 2nd or 3rd chick they ever dick and the first one who gives them consistent sex. Men are easy.... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136980) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:03 AM Author: Beta liquid oxygen Twist: the consistent sex ends as soon as they get married (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48136986) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:54 AM Author: nighttime base Double Twist: because the man loses interest (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137116) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:32 AM Author: pink razzmatazz house travel guidebook races of everyone involved? whats your hairline like? nw? give us some color here, are you BIG |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 11:07 AM Author: henna bateful ticket booth white but i am professionally very proud of my 1/4th hispanic heritage ;)
full head of hair. NW around 350k.
i am not big in any meaningful sense, no. |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:47 AM Author: Sable comical wagecucks Yes. Propose in a month. Have kids. Push life forward. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137096) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 10:55 AM Author: nighttime base If it makes you feel better OP, you will regret any option you choose here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137120) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 12:13 PM Author: Irradiated useless brakes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137336) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:16 PM Author: ungodly location (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138513) |
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Date: September 28th, 2024 8:09 PM Author: yellow electric clown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48141486) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 11:08 AM Author: Supple school cafeteria get your money up and get more pussy before you settle down with a double digit whore (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137151) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 11:36 AM Author: Adulterous Soul-stirring Psychic Even in ideal circumstances I'm not seeing how op could ever pull a 9yo (?) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137227) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:01 PM Author: Supple school cafeteria Muhammad did it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138472) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 11:12 AM Author: Supple school cafeteria 1) you're stock will only improve this decade, hit the gym, get in shape, get your money up and then ditch your gf when someone you actually like comes along
2) or just resign yourself to the fact that you're settling for used goods and live with the nagging feeling that you're not enough the rest of your life |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 12:06 PM Author: Saffron Patrolman That's great advice if OP is some sort of latent Chad who's never tapped into his own Chadliness, like a coiled spring ready to pop. That.... does not sound like OP. But who knows, maybe that's him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137318) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 12:20 PM Author: henna bateful ticket booth i'm just hoping to have a meaningful relationship/marriage/family life with someone who's not settling for me, as happy to be with me as i am with her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48137349) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 4:43 PM Author: Lemon people who are hurt Most girls you wind up with like your gf will make you feel like that because YOU don’t think you’re a great catch. To be fair, you probably aren’t that special but if you marry down a bit in looks and class you might find a girl ho is extremely grateful for you and happy with you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138412) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 4:51 PM Author: chocolate hot hairy legs TWIST: based on your poastings, she's probably as happy to be with you as you are with her, so you should forge ahead if that is your criteria. I'm sure she can match your ambivalence. ----------------------
Date: September 26th, 2024 10:52 PM Author: ............,.,.,.,.......,,.,.,
so i feel like i dont have enough perspective to know if GF is good partner and match or not to marry....just unsure if i'd be happy in this arrangement.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2#48136222 |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 4:59 PM Author: Brilliant Elite Box Office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138457) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:02 PM Author: henna bateful ticket booth I guess you're right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138477) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:02 PM Author: Supple school cafeteria this of course is assuming he's not azn and short (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138476) |
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Date: September 29th, 2024 1:33 PM Author: deep mind-boggling spot therapy How to live life like a sociopath tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48143266) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:00 PM Author: Brilliant Elite Box Office (Mark Corrigan) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138459) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 5:12 PM Author: gold heady piazza really tough guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48138504) |
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Date: September 27th, 2024 9:19 PM Author: insane mauve death wish Bro, do NOT get married at all unless you're crazy for the person, and even then I wouldn't encourage it, unless you really need to have kids (which is 180, but probably not for everyone). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48139175) |
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Date: September 28th, 2024 8:09 PM Author: yellow electric clown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48141487) |
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Date: September 28th, 2024 8:10 PM Author: splenetic dull institution you need to be born again before you marry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5602026&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486",#48141494) |