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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:35 AM Author: brindle razzle step-uncle's house
Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back. So many men have retreated from intimacy, hiding behind firewalls, filters and curated personas, dabbling and scrolling. We miss you.
By Rachel Drucker
June 20, 2025
Troy and I were having dinner at Mama Delia, one of the quieter spots. The sidewalk patio held five tables: three two-tops, including ours, and a pair pulled together for a group of eight women. At those tables, Troy was the only man.
The scene was beautiful — low lights, shared plates, shoulders angled in. The kind of evening people wait for all winter. Still, I found myself watching the crowd as it moved past us: women walking in pairs or alone, dressed with care. At table after table at the nearby restaurants, there was a noticeable absence of men — at least of men seated in what looked like dates.
Troy and I have known each other for almost 20 years. We met at Playboy, of all places, back when we were both learning how desire gets packaged, sold and sometimes misunderstood. We stayed close friends, bonded not just by our opinions, but by the effort it takes to stay in someone’s life.
That night, we made the effort. Still, what I saw unfolding around us felt like something else entirely: a collective shift I couldn’t unsee.
It started to become clear the previous April, when a man who had been pursuing me canceled a dinner at the last minute. There was a scheduling mix-up with his son’s game. I understood. I’m a hockey mom; I get it. Still, I went. I wore what I would have worn anyway. I took the table. I ordered well. And I watched the room.
Only two tables nearby seemed to hold actual dates. The rest were groups of women, or women alone, each one occupying her space with quiet confidence. No shrinking. No waiting. No apologizing.
That night marked something. Not a heartbreak, but an unveiling. A sense that what I’d been experiencing wasn’t just personal misalignment. It was something broader. Cultural. A slow vanishing of presence.
I spent over a decade behind the curtain of digital desire. As the custodian of records for Playboy and its affiliated hardcore properties, including sites like Spice TV, I was responsible for some of the most infringed-upon adult content in the world. I worked closely with copyright attorneys and marketing teams to understand exactly what it took to get a man to pay for content he could easily find for free.
We knew what worked. We knew how to frame a face, a gesture, a moment of implication — just enough to ignite fantasy and open a wallet. I came to understand, in exact terms, what cues tempt the average 18-to-36-year-old cis heterosexual man. What drew him in. What kept him coming back. It wasn’t intimacy. It wasn’t mutuality. It was access to simulation — clean, fast and frictionless.
In that world, there’s no need for conversation. No effort. No curiosity. No reciprocity. No one’s feelings to consider, no vulnerability to navigate. Just a closed loop of consumption.
What struck me most wasn’t the extremity of the content; it was the emotional vacancy behind it. The drift. The way many men had quietly withdrawn from intimacy and vulnerability. Not with violence or resistance, but with indifference.
They weren’t sitting across from someone on a Saturday night, trying to connect. They were scrolling. Dabbling. Disappearing behind firewalls, filters and curated personas. And while they disappeared, women continued to gather. To tend. To notice who wasn’t arriving — and to show up anyway.
I’m 54. I’ve been dating since the mid-80s, been married, been a mother, gotten divorced, had many relationships long and short. I remember when part of heterosexual male culture involved showing up with a woman to signal something — status, success, desirability. Women were once signifiers of value, even to other men. It wasn’t always healthy, but it meant that men had to show up and put in some effort.
That dynamic has quietly collapsed. We have moved into an era where many men no longer seek women to impress other men or to connect across difference. They perform elsewhere. Alone. They’ve filtered us out.
I recently experienced a flicker of possibility. With James. We met on Raya, the dating app. There was something mutual from the start — wordplay, emotional precision, a tone that felt attuned. It was brief, but it caught light. I remember saying to him, “Even fleeting connections matter, when they’re mutual and lit from the inside.” I meant it.
There was just enough spark to wonder what might unfold. Enough curiosity to imagine a doorway. But he didn’t step through it. Not with a plan. Not with presence. He hovered — flirting, retreating, offering warmth but no direction.
Sexual tension and a spark aren’t reason enough to sit still and hope there’s substance behind the shimmer. So I named what I felt. I texted him clearly, with care, not simply to declare attraction but to extend a real invitation to explore what was possible. I didn’t chase. I invited, leaving the door open. If he ever wanted to cross the threshold — not just to take, but to meet — I was willing. I wanted. I still do.
He never replied. He still follows my Instagram stories — one of those small gestures of passive engagement that so many of us now mistake for closeness. It looks like interest. It feels like silence.
There are thousands of Jameses. I have known dozens. The arc varies, but the undertow is familiar.
What I won’t entertain is directionless orbiting. That thing so many men now seem to mistake for connection: the perpetual maybe. The emoji check-ins. The casual “seeing where it goes” without ever going anywhere. We call it a situationship. But mostly, it’s avoidance. An abdication of ownership — of feeling, of behavior, of sex that isn’t a means to an end, but is communion.
There was a time, not so long ago, when even a one-night stand might end with tangled limbs and a shared breakfast. When the act of staying the night didn’t announce a relationship, just a willingness to be human for a few more hours. Now, even that kind of unscripted contact feels rare. We’ve built so many boundaries that we’ve walled off the very moments that make connection memorable. And frankly, morning sex is often the best sex. Sometimes you even get a side of eggs before you disappear from their bed and their life forever.
This idea that vulnerability is a threat instead of an invitation has created a culture of hesitation, of men circling intimacy but never entering it. And the result is thousands of tiny silos. Everyone performing closeness, but no one making a move that binds. Isolation. Loneliness. A hunger for contact that has nowhere to land.
Maybe we’re between paradigms, mourning what’s fallen, not yet fluent in what comes next. The infrastructures of intimacy — slowness, curiosity, accountability — have been eroded by haste, convenience and a kind of sanctioned emotional retreat.
It’s not about blaming men. It’s about noticing the imbalance. About grieving what’s not meeting us. And about refusing to dress it up as personal failure when it’s actually a collective reality.
So here’s what I’ll say: You are missed. Not just by me, but by the world you once helped shape.
We remember you. The version of you that lingered at the table. That laughed from the chest. That asked questions and waited for the answers. That touched without taking. That listened — really listened — when a woman spoke.
You are not gone, but your presence is thinning. In restaurants, in friendships, in the slow rituals of romantic emergence.
You’ve retreated — not into malice, but into something softer and harder all at once: Avoidance. Exhaustion. Disrepair.
Maybe no one taught you how to stay. Maybe you tried once, and it hurt. Maybe the world told you your role was to provide, to perform, to protect — and never to feel.
But here’s what’s real: We never needed you to be perfect. We needed you to be with us. Not above. Not muted. Not masked. Just with.
And you can still come back. Not by becoming someone else, but by remembering what connection feels like when it’s honest and slow. When it’s earned and messy and sacred.
We’re still here, those of us who are willing to cocreate something true. We are not impossible to please. We’re not asking for performances.
We are asking for presence. For courage. For breath and eye contact and the ability to say, “I’m here. I don’t know how to do this perfectly, but I want to try.”
Come back. Not with flowers or fireworks, but with willingness. With your whole, beautiful, imperfect heart.
We’re still here. And we haven’t stopped hoping.
As for me, I’ll keep showing up. Not because I’m waiting. Because I know what it feels like when someone finally arrives.
Rachel Drucker is an intellectual property professional in Chicago.
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:55 AM Author: Contagious international law enforcement agency It is simply Jewish terror. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037110) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:59 AM Author: Umber home degenerate I'm guessing this is also her. If not, LJL at the "Rachel Druckers" of the world.
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And you can still come back. Not by becoming someone else, but by remembering what connection feels like when it’s honest and slow. When it’s earned and messy and sacred." ====
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:00 AM Author: Contagious international law enforcement agency she is a simple Jewish terrorist who no doubt shrieks ‘antisemite!’ as soon as someone crosses her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037121) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:57 AM Author: vigorous telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037247) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:58 AM Author: Titillating pisswyrm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037254) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:19 PM Author: laughsome walnut den volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038033) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:19 PM Author: laughsome walnut den volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038035) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:08 AM Author: Soul-stirring goyim gaping iirc these savage harpy women with zero consistency in vision or desire burnt us all out maybe she should invest in a time machine? |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:16 AM Author: mischievous bawdyhouse feces cr.
but her premise is that the normal, sane people -- the women -- are patiently waiting for the return of men (who deserted normalcy). women had nothing to do with the estrangement, mind you. that's 100% on the men. the women are normal, we're not. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:34 AM Author: Rebellious mahogany elastic band faggotry "Men Tire of Women's Bullshit; Women Most Affected" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037058) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:39 AM Author: Histrionic Claret Sanctuary Dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037066) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:40 AM Author: mischievous bawdyhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037070) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:52 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037235) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:46 AM Author: Domesticated Charismatic Weed Whacker Deer Antler (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037379) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:11 AM Author: Big doctorate "speaking as a Jewish smut peddler" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037014) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:29 AM Author: Mentally impaired sweet tailpipe set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037178) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:52 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037236) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:58 AM Author: buck-toothed station gunner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037253) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:30 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle french gas station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037361) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:41 AM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037375) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:19 PM Author: laughsome walnut den volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038036) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:21 PM Author: jet-lagged point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038510) |
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Date: June 24th, 2025 2:18 PM Author: Histrionic Claret Sanctuary Dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49046276) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:18 AM Author: glittery jap I recently experienced a flicker of possibility. With James. We met on Raya, the dating app. There was something mutual from the start — wordplay, emotional precision, a tone that felt attuned. It was brief, but it caught light. I remember saying to him, “Even fleeting connections matter, when they’re mutual and lit from the inside.” I meant it.
Sexual tension and a spark aren’t reason enough to sit still and hope there’s substance behind the shimmer. So I named what I felt. I texted him clearly, with care, not simply to declare attraction but to extend a real invitation to explore what was possible. I didn’t chase. I invited, leaving the door open. If he ever wanted to cross the threshold — not just to take, but to meet — I was willing. I wanted. I still do.
He never replied.
***
Imagine getting a "BUT WHAT ARE WE AND WHERE IS THIS GOING?" text from a 54 year old woman. James dodged a bullet. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:21 AM Author: Useless Sneaky Criminal Headpube wants children: someday (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037033) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:28 AM Author: glittery jap Looking for one man to prove he's not like all the rest! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037046) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:42 AM Author: Histrionic Claret Sanctuary Dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037075) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:07 AM Author: Contagious international law enforcement agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037135) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:21 PM Author: laughsome walnut den volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038045) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:34 AM Author: Bronze lascivious juggernaut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037057) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:10 AM Author: bossy son of senegal ticket booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037140) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:10 AM Author: supple locale I thought Raya was some kind of exclusive app for celebs and beautiful people, how is this 54yo on it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037294) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:30 AM Author: Mildly autistic drab boltzmann Isn’t JJC on it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037362) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:46 PM Author: thriller fishy brethren You’re thinking of THE LEAGUE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037468) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:31 AM Author: vibrant fear-inspiring crackhouse they let any woman on it, the "standards" are for men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037364) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:38 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness Law degree opens many doors (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037374) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:43 AM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison "Raya was created by Daniel Gendelman in 2014 and went live in February 2015.[3] Gendelman had the idea for the app while studying in Israel.[3]" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037378) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:50 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness I never know which ones of these are evan parodies and which ones are real anymore (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037389) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:59 AM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison its stuff like this that makes it impossible to completely dismiss were in a dim and the runners are fucking with us (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037404) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:57 PM Author: supple locale (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037485) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:22 PM Author: laughsome walnut den volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038046) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:41 AM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037376) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:21 PM Author: laughsome walnut den volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038044) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 8:46 PM Author: pale apoplectic principal's office main people "Where are we on this?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038390) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:20 PM Author: Diverse tantric candlestick maker heaven I still do, James (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038504) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:22 AM Author: hairraiser theater rigpig "I’m 54. I’ve been dating since the mid-80s, been married, been a mother, gotten divorced, had many relationships long and short"
haha yeah, anyways gotta go. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:28 AM Author: Rebellious mahogany elastic band faggotry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037043) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:32 AM Author: buck-toothed station gunner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037053) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:42 AM Author: Histrionic Claret Sanctuary Dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037077) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:46 AM Author: mischievous bawdyhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037091) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:49 AM Author: vivacious factory reset button (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037100) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:22 AM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037343) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:49 AM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison dating and love "experts" are always people like this. isn't a person with a lifetime of relationship failures the last person anyone should listen to? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037385) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:52 AM Author: Disgusting aqua menage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037395) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:16 PM Author: Mentally impaired sweet tailpipe set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037546) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:19 PM Author: arousing becky state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038032) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:19 PM Author: laughsome walnut den volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038037) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2025 2:23 AM Author: tripping indian lodge toilet seat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49039265) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:44 AM Author: vivacious factory reset button "Even fleeting connections matter" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037082) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:45 AM Author: vivacious factory reset button "when even a one-night stand might end with tangled limbs and a shared breakfast. When the act of staying the night didn’t announce a relationship, just a willingness to be human for a few more hours"
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:51 AM Author: Contagious international law enforcement agency Who wants to get involved with a quintessential Jewish horror like this?! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037104) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:56 AM Author: vivacious factory reset button Probably good hit it and quit it material (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037111) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:02 AM Author: Contagious international law enforcement agency No, her internal and external hideousness would taint you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037129) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:27 AM Author: bossy son of senegal ticket booth Jfc delete ur acct bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037174) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:20 PM Author: vivacious factory reset button You guys are underestimating most dorks out there. She's clearly getting undeserved attention from men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037559) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:31 PM Author: Mentally impaired sweet tailpipe set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037582) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:58 AM Author: vigorous telephone She’s 54! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037256) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:22 PM Author: Diverse tantric candlestick maker heaven (James) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038511) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:52 AM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman We met at Playboy, of all places, back when we were both learning how desire gets packaged, sold and sometimes misunderstood.
"how desire gets packaged, sold and sometimes misunderstood" tp |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:02 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness Halford: "Heh." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037273) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:27 AM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037350) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 6:18 PM Author: arousing becky state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038029) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:53 AM Author: Magenta Shrine National Security Agency https://x.com/AniseNot/status/1936269430423445551 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037239) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:16 AM Author: buck-toothed station gunner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037315) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:54 AM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman I came to understand, in exact terms, what cues tempt the average 18-to-36-year-old cis heterosexual man.
[...]
What struck me most wasn’t the extremity of the content; it was the emotional vacancy behind it. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:05 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness Yeah God forbid this guy wants to jerk off and go to bed vs listening to her not shut the fuck up all night (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037285) |
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Date: June 24th, 2025 2:44 PM Author: ebony boyish dragon Even fleeting connections matter, when they’re mutual and lit from the inside. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49046324) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:55 AM Author: Bateful Community Account Water Buffalo “Rachel Drucker is an intellectual property professional in Chicago.”
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:06 AM Author: Bronze lascivious juggernaut If you would like to contact someone at Loyola about intellectual property issues... Health Sciences Campus (Stritch School of Medicine; Marcella Niehoff School of Nursing): Please email Rachel Drucker, Tech Transfer and MTA Paralegal, rbeyler@luc.edu, 708-216-9391. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:55 AM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman tough to overstate how bleak this is - I’m 54. I’ve been dating since the mid-80s, been married, been a mother, gotten divorced, had many relationships long and short. I remember when part of heterosexual male culture involved showing up with a woman to signal something — status, success, desirability. Women were once signifiers of value, even to other men. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:58 AM Author: Bateful Community Account Water Buffalo It’s all men’s fault. Zero acknowledgement of women’s culpability for this state of affairs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037252) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:08 AM Author: mischievous bawdyhouse feces cr. women oscillate between 0% agency and 100% agency, depending on the topic that women are discussing. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:18 AM Author: vigorous telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037329) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:51 AM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison women versus accountability has a record somilar to the globetrotters (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037394) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:55 AM Author: mischievous bawdyhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037401) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:02 PM Author: brindle razzle step-uncle's house Lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037406) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:07 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037411) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 2:31 PM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman wow (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037678) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 2:45 PM Author: mischievous bawdyhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037705) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 4:19 PM Author: Histrionic Claret Sanctuary Dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037834) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2025 11:34 AM Author: Bateful Community Account Water Buffalo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49039843) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:29 AM Author: supple locale She's so close but so far (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037357) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:58 AM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman wtf she's on Raya? do we have any bros on there is it any good. lol at including at instagram handle in your "application" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037251) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:00 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness She was bragging (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037263) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:21 AM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman cr there are tons of brags throughout. like about how knowledgeable she is about what her target demographic of men want because *checks notes* she did IP enforcement for pornos (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037338) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:30 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness She Learned what men want (hint: it's shallow and vapid). Also she wants men to not be what they are, what she knows them to be. She wants them to be somebody else. She knows men want to blow their load in a hot young thing and go to bed. She wants them to get deeply invested in entertaining large groups of middle-aged women. There's a disconnect between her personal research and her deep desires. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037360) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:52 AM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037398) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 2:36 PM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037683) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 2:46 PM Author: High-end national I stopped at “She” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037710) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 4:20 PM Author: Histrionic Claret Sanctuary Dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037836) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:22 PM Author: vigorous telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038778) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:00 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness 90% of men are romantically invisible to women, even middle aged women who already have given birth. So they don't want any old guys to come back into their lives. She's missing high status men only. There are tons of ugly broke losers who would hang out with her. She should go looking in the bargain bin. But I'm sure she has impossibly high standards. According to many repeatable studies women with advanced degrees refuse to date down the status ladder.
I also think that in the age of Tinder older dudes with money can date chicks in their 20s almost forever. And move on to chicks in their 30s once they hit 70 in most cases. So there are 50 year old guys showing up and delivering belly laughs, but just not to you. I used to hang out with Nathan Fillion and he went out with a different chick every night of the week. He was a machine. You really think a good looking rich single guy with stratospheric social status would be swiping on women his own age? Are you crazy? |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:09 AM Author: Bronze lascivious juggernaut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037292) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:58 AM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison i feel bad foe these women because they were sold a lie. women don't decide what truth is from logic or their own moral framework, they do it via consensus. they are uniquely susceptible to indoctrination through mass media faux consensus. such that even a 54 year old jewess will not question the conventional wisdom but just wonder openly why their math isn't adding up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037403) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:09 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness 54, divorced single mother.
You should have found a dude a long time ago and not be 'dating.' It's not rocket science.
The math IS mathing. You'd think these Jewesses with advanced degrees would be smart enough to look at the data. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:28 PM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison but she hasn't. stop treating women like men. this only seems obvious to you because you have a man brain. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037439) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:43 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness What in the hell is her woman logic telling her? Is it all just internal birdbrain monologue? Sugar sugar carbs? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037464) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:58 PM Author: thriller fishy brethren pPpPpPpPPPPppPppPpppppppPppppPppBRAAAAAAAPPPPppPpPpPpPppppp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037486) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:58 PM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison shes simply repeating the liberal consensus on gender, relationships, etc. which is exactly why shes being printed in the NYT. it doesn't matter if her positions are near-objectively falsifiable. they are true because thats the consensus from her POV. the fact shes likely objectively "smart" (e.g. writes well, probably scores high on standardized tests) just shows that no amount of cognitive horsepower can overcome this.
this is hard for men to accept because we assume any sufficiently smart person would correct their thinking when its provably flawed. note that women have a hard time accepting when a man believes something outside their perceived consensus, thus every intelligent trump supporter *must* be a bigot of some sort. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:04 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness This is fascinating and I consider you the foremost expert on the female longhouse. That being said I find it all hard to accept and process. I was told every woman was a beautiful soul capable of individuality and free thinking. I can't undo my upbringing. I can hardly grasp these concepts because they're so foreign. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037499) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:19 PM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison everything is a spectrum. someone women are more man-brained than the average man. some men are histrionic emotional women.
your reluctance to accept this only because it "feels" wrong and conflicts with your consensus is a window into the female mind. amplify that by 100 and you can get a window into how objectively smart women succumb to longhouse thinking.
also im not shitting on women. this type of thinking is necessary for social cohesion and the consensus usually is correct in a healthy society. masculine stubborn independent thinking is exactly why almost only men become nsam/consuela types that disregard consensus entirely and trust *only* they internal rational framework. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:22 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness Cr all solid points.
I am drawn to masculine brained women imo. Just be feminine in the bedroom and the kitchen rest of the time I'd rather have a brainy, logical first mate on the journey of life. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:30 PM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison that usually comes at the expense of things that draw men to women: empathy, compassion, intuition, etc. while being with a female autist will save you from the excesses of birdbrainedness, you also miss out on what make women women.
different strokes for different folks, im not saying your preference is wrong. only that most men want a woman that will rub their head and comfort them rather than being a man focused entirely on the practical. while the drawbacks of female emotion-based thinking are frustrating and sometimes incomprehensible, most of us dont actually want a man with a pussy. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:32 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness Well even the logical autistic ones are prone to bitch ass pussy-haver behavior ime. There's no bio bitch who ever 100% escapes their nature. A ho will always be a ho.
But yeah in general I don't care for an overly doting ho. More of a cat person than a golden retriever. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:36 PM Author: beady-eyed bespoke garrison cr. im the same way then. i have wound up dating near-exclusively women in STEM that are logical and smart enough that i can r3spect them but still are women and thus have birdbrain moments from time to time. i dont think i could tolerate a complete yirly girl basic bitch type. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037599) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 2:30 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness I've had a few and they just kind of sit there and look at you day after day waiting for you to do something. It doesn't work out in the end. Also basic chicks have always dinged me for not being a Disney Adult like them or equivalent. The whole why do you care about what you care about. Why do you not like the things I like as much as I do. Whereas smart gf never questions why you like heady art films for example. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037673) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 8:31 PM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman I've seen a few girly asian women married to autist genius men (both asian and white men), and it seems OK. The ones I know just seem to accept that like, the man is very smart and particular, and they don't need to talk about his nuclear physics or whatever.
I don't think I've seen it work like that with any white women - they seem to be the smarter STEM type if married to an autist man. |
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Date: June 22nd, 2025 1:15 AM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49039190) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 2:39 PM Author: misanthropic misunderstood skinny woman you're doing good work itt, agreed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037689) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:08 PM Author: glittery jap The looney tunes theme on repeat. There's XO scholarship on this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037514) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 1:12 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness I'm forced by my upbringing to give chicks the benefit of the doubt. I view each of them as a special snowflake. Surely they can't all be dumdums. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037532) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:07 AM Author: Magenta Shrine National Security Agency Comments are off I assume (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037288) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:29 AM Author: Mildly autistic drab boltzmann So basically our choice is between some gross kike slag like this or some quirk chungus gook like Fizzkidd tp. Whee. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037356) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:56 PM Author: Black ungodly pervert (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037483) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 9:22 PM Author: jet-lagged point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038512) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:04 PM Author: elite brass giraffe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038682) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 10:29 PM Author: Histrionic Claret Sanctuary Dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49038798) |
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Date: June 24th, 2025 4:13 PM Author: Mentally impaired sweet tailpipe set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49046640) |
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Date: June 24th, 2025 5:30 PM Author: pale apoplectic principal's office main people gross kike slag tp quirk chungus gook tp |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 11:38 AM Author: marvelous coldplay fan Here’s the situation, women in their Teens and 20’s only want men who are 6’5 and up. That’s it. And not only that they want these men to have money and status to take them on boats.
Then when a man hits his 40’s and is a millionaire, women will settle for 6’2-6’4 guys who were always boxed out of the dating market because of their height. These men were caged up and they’re not going to settle for some 40 year old woman because he’s bitter and wants his 20 year old now.
This is the market women created. And below that height? Lmao you can’t even pay women anymore. You used to be able to be some 5’11 good looking guy and go to a strip club and make an outside arrangement with a 7. Now you can’t even do that bc strippers and pros realize they can make more on onlyfans selling their shit to some dude in India for $100 a photo. |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:48 PM Author: Titillating pisswyrm She’s only got like 20 years left on this earth wtf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037471) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 12:54 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness Women can't stand living one day without Chad let alone 20 years. They deserve those belly laughs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037480) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 2:41 PM Author: Domesticated Charismatic Weed Whacker Deer Antler Lots of single guys at the bowling alley, just not at the fancy spots where the author hangs out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037695) |
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Date: June 21st, 2025 3:48 PM Author: appetizing outnumbered twinkling uncleanness Guys without Pedigree are invisible to striver shrews. These women all look down on anyone without a degree from a Prestigious Institution. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49037792) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2025 11:59 AM Author: sexy trip windowlicker Bowling alleys have been closing left and right. Putnam even wrote a book about declining participation in social institutions that used bowling as an example ("Bowling Alone"). The author has a point. Though viewing the issue as a gender relations problem is wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49039890) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2025 5:44 PM Author: cobalt abnormal liquid oxygen ratface NYUUG is the perfect example of an ASIAN VIRGIN who makes trillions of threads complaining about women! definitely! cumskin males can bump these trillions of REPETITIVE NYUUG threads complaining about women to PWN his ass! yeah! DEFINITELY no way NYUUG could bump cumskin male threads complaining about women though! IMPOSSIBLE!
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5739320&forum_id=2#49030229 |
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Date: June 23rd, 2025 11:08 PM Author: cobalt abnormal liquid oxygen ratface (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741162&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310486#49044492) |