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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:41 PM Author: sinister national
Date: March 4th, 2026 11:11 AM
Author: UhOh
Ljl
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:10 PM Author: nighttime amethyst step-uncle's house sound barrier
nigger this is how this "shit works" in reality:
1) you will eventually get caught, realize how selfish you stupid you were being, and spend a significant amount of time and energy repairing your marriage, although a scar will always remain. this is the best case scenario where your wife takes you back after a huge betrayal, and you will regret it the rest of your life. this is the zurich outcome.
2) you will eventually get caught, stick with the subordinate chick, and blow up your marriage. eventually things will fade with the subordinate too. if you stick with the subordinate will eventually have the exact same thing you have with your wife now except child support and a kid who suffers all the consequences of children of divorce and has to live knowing his dad is a POS who abandoned his mother while she was pregnant with him. this is the second best scenario.
3) you blow up your marriage and things don't work out with the subordinate. now you're millhouse's dad trying to find a new partner on dating apps. except you've got the scarlet letter of "CHEATED ON HIS WIFE WHILE PREGNANT", which eliminates you from contention with all quality women. if you're lucky you will wind up with some chick way worse than your wife and secretly regret blowing up your marriage and reminiscing about the good old days.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310690#49714627) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:19 PM Author: magical orange abode dysfunction
fwiw, my situation didn't fit neatly into either 1 or 2 above, it was a weird amalgamation of craziness and substance abuse.
i got caught but didn't back out - i went forward and proclaimed that i was in love and had to be with this other woman, etc. but then i got sober and realized that i was still in love with GARY (who has been continuing to be intimate with gunner) in addition to the other girl (things never "faded" with her). it was awful because i was still really in love with the other girl but i had to dump her because i knew i had to get up in GARY's guts again.
it was just a really weird situation and honestly when i look back on it, it seems like a fever dream. i'm honestly amazed that i was doing all that stuff.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310690#49714640) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:28 PM Author: nighttime amethyst step-uncle's house sound barrier
this is situation #1. almost every time there is a transition period where the guy equivocates between wife and mistress.
things "faded" with trash pussy because she's BPD insane. you never fall out of love with BPD types, but you eventually realize that they're too unstable. your ankle monitor was a symbol of things fading with her.
you are fortunate that gary was so forgiving and you didn't have to beg and plead (too much i assume) to get her back. but this is a unique twist because you've allowed her to "get revenge" in perpetuity by letting me be her bull, which also satisfies your cuck fetish.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310690#49714660) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 3:33 PM Author: mischievous burgundy hell
Yeah, you're definitely right about this. Divorce never has any negative effects on kids. And when you do file for divorce, I bet your current wife will be completely chill about the fact that you are leaving her for a younger woman that you were fucking while she was pregnant. No chance that she causes drama or tries to make your life hell. And if she does try to fuck you over in the divorce, the judge will definitely side with you, because you are a very sympathetic figure.
Also, I'm sure the married side chick who was sleeping with a married guy while his wife is pregnant has upstanding moral character. There's no risk whatsoever that she will turn out to be a selfish cunt once the infatuation wears off. There's also no chance that she will get bored with you and started fucking some other dude behind your back.
So, all in all this sounds like a fantastic idea. Nothing could possibly go wrong. You should absolutely 100% divorce your wife for this side chick.
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:22 PM Author: magical orange abode dysfunction
op, here is something you should think about: your subordinate is willing to blow up a young family. my wife (gary, who keeps sleeping with gunner) said this to me when i told her i was leaving her, and a few of my friends pointed it out. one of the first things gary said (in addition to calling the other girl "a fucking dumpster whore") was "please step back and consider that you're blowing your life up for some woman who's willing to take a guy away from two young kids"
the other woman did wind up being really self-centered and selfish, which was something i grew to dislike about her. and she left behind her own 13 yo son in florida to come live with me. oh, and she also got knocked up when she was like 18 and she had a son who was like 20, and he was severely autistic and barely verbal. she'd abandoned him to his dad by the time he was like 5. at the time i thought this was all just fine, but WOMEN do not do any shit like this, and any woman who is willing to do it potentially has serious personality issues.
this is something you will not see through the fog of love, but you'll realize it later.
here is my advice to you, but i know you won't take it bc i wouldn't have: break things off with the subordinate at least for now. be straight with her: you have a young child and a wife, and at the same time you are in love with her. you need to sort this out. come clean to your wife. maybe you should move out of your house for a few months at least. be alone. go to therapy with your wife. revisit this in several months. you may be in a different headspace.
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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:45 PM Author: magical orange abode dysfunction
let me just put this out there for you. when i sobered up and started to realize that i still loved my wife, my kids were over at my apartment one day and we were out at the playground and my older son, then 7 years old, met this little girl around his age. she was telling him which apt she lived in, and he blurted out "i don't live here. my parents are separated, and i'm just visiting my dad." i wanted to die at that moment.
so picture your kid in a few years telling a friend that they're "going to visit my dad" or whatever and consider how you will feel about that.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310690#49714709) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 5:05 PM Author: maroon beta roommate
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6mo ago
Norm had a beautiful way with words
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Date: March 4th, 2026 2:39 PM Author: Rusted state digit ratio
Crazy that you can still whip up a 100 post thread out of thin air with flame like this
And people say xo is dead
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:14 PM Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Address
"it's bog standard "dude cheats with coworker.""
THAT'S PART OF WHAT MAKES IT FUNNY, MAN.
the fact is that your personality is directly incompatible with being able to run flame so it's hard for you to have a calibrated flame radar. and that's fine, it takes a village of poasters etc., but i would bet my life's savings that for all of your volume you have never once executed long running flame anywhere on the internet. you are fundamentally incapable of separating "this is some good flame" with people legitimately thinking something is impossible because they're incels or whatever.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310690#49715246) |
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Date: March 4th, 2026 4:42 PM Author: nighttime amethyst step-uncle's house sound barrier
i've run multiple successful flames. some of which are still ongoing. many poasters cite details from my flames as accepted truth, including you.
you're right that i think you and others are apt to call this flame because it's about sex. and that's because every fucking time there's something like this you run it to call it flame. so far, i've always been right when the truth comes out.
but why are you so emotional about it? it's unknowable and we both conceded that it's impossible to know for sure. it's because you WANT it to be flame, and you're emotionally tethered to a conclusion you've jumped to.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310690#49715342) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 9:07 AM Author: nighttime amethyst step-uncle's house sound barrier
nigger reread our flow of poasts itt. i made my case why i believe it's probably not flame without saying anything about how it's obviously jealous incels seething. you launched into a personal attack about how i just don't "get it" and how i suck at flame.
https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&mc=209&forum_id=2#49715246
you're emotional about this, not me. you just edited a paragraph into your last poast while i was replying, typical ysffm shit. so don't try flipping this around with "actually it is you who is mad!"
ive never even considered you one of the naysayers popping into every thread calling flame. your reaction here is out of character imo.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310690#49716907) |
Date: March 4th, 2026 11:09 PM Author: flushed free-loading sanctuary kitty
You’re fucking retarded. But on the off chance your life is at all salvageable, listen carefully.
1. You have fired a shot across her bow. It’s very possible that your wife will respond by straightening out the frigid bitchiness. But, simultaneously, she knows you’re cheating and will lash out (or continue to lash out) a bit to try and make you stop.
2. If she’s going to reform and you’re going to stay, then it is crucial that you take your affair to the grave. All evidence deleted. You should really change jobs. And actually devote yourself to being a good husband and father, which is what you are on this earth to do, and are fundamentally broken if you cannot understand when you look at your sleeping infant in the home you built and are currently hellbent on wrecking.
3. If you’re going to leave anyway, go and get a vasectomy immediately. Enjoy what you can for a couple of years with a young, hot, affair partner cum girlfriend. But it’s going to end badly and you’ll spend the ensuing decades trading down on woman after woman.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310690#49716399) |
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Date: March 5th, 2026 7:21 AM Author: Offensive stage messiness
You are a Loser larping as a Scumbag.
That's the difference. If you were scum you'd know how to handle this.
Stick with your wife and never burden her with the truth and never leave your clique again
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Date: March 11th, 2026 10:25 AM
Author: .,.....,.,.;,.,,,:,.,.,::,...,:,..;,..,
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Date: March 5th, 2026 2:52 PM Author: Charismatic azn blood rage
He explained in a prior thread that his dad basically did this exact thing to his mom. So he is just repeating the pattern and telling himself the same story that his dad told himself.
If anything, he probably married his current wife because she subconsciously reminds him of his mother through the experience he had as a small child. The lizard part of his brain attracted him to his wife and the lack of his father being in his life is what is pushing him to do exactly what his father did.
He actually can break the cycle, but would rather delude himself.
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Date: March 11th, 2026 10:14 AM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,...,.,,.,,.....,.,..,.,,...,.,.,,...,.
lol cr
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Date: March 11th, 2026 2:57 PM
Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,...
We should call it "CSLG syndrome."
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Date: March 14th, 2026 3:26 AM Author: Rage Problems
Update - subordinate separated from her husband. Sounds like it was pretty amicable. Her husband apparently told her that she should watch her back with me, that I can be mean and might come after her.
I’ve similarly concluded my marriage is over. We are half separated now. Still living together but in some month long cooling off period suggested by therapist where i don’t need to pretend to check in anymore etc. That’s been relieving but also makes me feel guilty to keep wife in suspense wondering what my next move is. Need to just cleanly separate and move toward something more sustainable.
Meanwhile subordinate and I are basically a couple. After the marriage stuff is solved, the next step will be to figure how out the work stuff. One of us is going to need a new job to derisk the inevitable moment when people find out. I think it’s already going to be suspicious that we are both separating from spouses at same time, not that we will highlight that but stuff like that always comes out eventually.
I actually feel really relieved for admitting that. It’s been a bit of agony the last months being so conflicted and trying to pretend at home to keep things manageable.
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Date: March 14th, 2026 9:13 AM Author: biggest creator of Israel support on xo ((zurich is stained))
there's a 90% chance of that, but it is what it is. the writing was on the wall when he made this thread. i knew it, he knew it.
the biggest concern needs to be the child. my wife told me when we split up that i had to prioritize the kids. i said "oh yes, yeah of course" and proceeded to drink myself into a coma and get into weird sex shit with this woman with a ruined pussy, beat her up, go to jail, etc. while pretty much ignoring them. thank god i got sober.
but anyway, op, please listen to me and prioritize your kid. you are in control of that, and it needs to be your #1 priority. and you aren't in control of your wife's behavior but get along with her as much as you can. if you poast here that your kid calls your gf "my favorite mom" or whatever nonsense CSLG was here saying, i'm gonna find you and kill you. also, imagine bragging about that on an internet forum. wtf is wrong with that dude. "hai guise i'm scarring my kids for life haha how do you liek this content?"
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