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27year old never dated or kissed; how to get gf and be happy?

It's hard to hang out with people now because its weird when...
Laughsome Demanding Resort
  12/21/12
In a similar situation I would go balls to wall workaholi...
Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit
  12/21/12
I like hanging out with ppl but they all start talking about...
Laughsome Demanding Resort
  12/21/12
I dunno. It's a lot easier to live life this way if you're a...
Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit
  12/21/12
Stop equating women with happiness.
Filthy Bateful Site
  12/21/12
Ok how do I be happy? I actually am pretty happy cause my j...
Laughsome Demanding Resort
  12/21/12
I recommend a prostitute so you see sex as a commodity like ...
Filthy Bateful Site
  12/21/12
Protip: teach english in china, get chinese girl friend...se...
bat-shit-crazy stag film
  12/21/12
terrible advice 99% of chinese women are beyond worthless
stimulating ruby water buffalo
  12/21/12
Compared to modern, western sewer skunks?
Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit
  12/21/12
non anglo-saxon white women tend to pwn the fuck out of asia...
stimulating ruby water buffalo
  12/21/12
they're not worthless in the "no communication required...
bat-shit-crazy stag film
  12/21/12
"no communication required but will still fuck you dep...
stimulating ruby water buffalo
  12/21/12
Can they at least be counted on to be faithful? Or is it lik...
Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit
  12/21/12
absolutely not. post marital infidelity is rampant. young...
stimulating ruby water buffalo
  12/21/12
They can't even be trusted to be faithful with the older bus...
Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit
  12/21/12
of course not. it's a business transaction at that point. do...
stimulating ruby water buffalo
  12/21/12
Well, on the one hand, if a woman is marrying you only for y...
Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit
  12/21/12
it's not really possible to answer, because "cheating&q...
stimulating ruby water buffalo
  12/21/12
yeah but OP is virgin, popping dat cherry has gotta give him...
bat-shit-crazy stag film
  12/21/12
just do squats breh
stimulating ruby water buffalo
  12/21/12
I have almost reached the point where I have stopped getting...
Laughsome Demanding Resort
  12/21/12
Obviously not an expert here, but I think crushes are really...
Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit
  12/21/12
Gf won't make you happy for more than a few months.
cowardly shaky tank stage
  12/21/12
you don't have a gf because you secretly don't want to. if s...
comical area
  12/21/12
This may be correct. What long term investments are you tal...
Laughsome Demanding Resort
  12/21/12
A long term investment would be picturing yourself at 95 yea...
comical area
  12/21/12
This sounds like hell. (not OP)
cyan rambunctious jew
  12/21/12
where do you see yourself far off into the future?
comical area
  12/21/12
Dead
cyan rambunctious jew
  12/21/12
Titcr
Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit
  12/21/12
I am also in this position. I wonder if a relationship would...
dashing nighttime plaza
  12/21/12
stfu doobs
Peach casino
  12/21/12
impossible at this point. Have you considered killself?
Vigorous house travel guidebook
  12/21/12
update?
zesty
  01/27/26


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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:10 AM
Author: Laughsome Demanding Resort

It's hard to hang out with people now because its weird when I am single and never talk about dating or girls

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290080)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:13 AM
Author: Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit

In a similar situation

I would go balls to wall workaholic, then avoid work functions if possible. Generally speaking, coworkers won't pry too closely.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290091)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:15 AM
Author: Laughsome Demanding Resort

I like hanging out with ppl but they all start talking about their kids and getting married and vacations. It's embarrassing when I am like the fifth wheel of two couples where the doods are my friends



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290094)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:18 AM
Author: Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit

I dunno. It's a lot easier to live life this way if you're a hermit, or you only have a few friends who are also misfits. How awkward is it at this point?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290110)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:16 AM
Author: Filthy Bateful Site

Stop equating women with happiness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290101)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:17 AM
Author: Laughsome Demanding Resort

Ok how do I be happy? I actually am pretty happy cause my job is awesome, but I eat lonely sometimes and want someone to like me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290104)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:21 AM
Author: Filthy Bateful Site

I recommend a prostitute so you see sex as a commodity like everything else, it will help deconstruct your notion of how it's the greatest thing ever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290127)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:16 AM
Author: bat-shit-crazy stag film

Protip: teach english in china, get chinese girl friend...self-esteem boost

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290102)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:30 AM
Author: stimulating ruby water buffalo

terrible advice

99% of chinese women are beyond worthless

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290161)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:31 AM
Author: Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit

Compared to modern, western sewer skunks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290166)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:44 AM
Author: stimulating ruby water buffalo

non anglo-saxon white women tend to pwn the fuck out of asian women bro.

also im strictly talking about mainland chinese women here. korean and japanese women, or even HK or taiwanese women, are much better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290235)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM
Author: bat-shit-crazy stag film

they're not worthless in the "no communication required but will still fuck you dept"...plus im sort of into the whole acting like they don't like noises they make

too bad i don't want half-breed babies...too bad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290172)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:43 AM
Author: stimulating ruby water buffalo

"no communication required but will still fuck you dept"

so you basically use them as a human fleshlight. i don't see how that helps your self-esteem, it certainly wouldn't help mine.

they are worthless because communism represses and distorts sexuality, and as a result, very few chinese women have mannerisms that can be considered "sexy" or compatible with western sensibilities.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290227)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:46 AM
Author: Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit

Can they at least be counted on to be faithful? Or is it like here where if you leave her alone for more than 5 mins you run the risk of being cucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290241)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:52 AM
Author: stimulating ruby water buffalo

absolutely not.

post marital infidelity is rampant. younger unmarried women will straight up try to get with high status married men. Apparently, Chinese MBA program are notorious are enrolling older successful business men and young good looking women.

if a chinese person has an opportunity to "move up", be this in career, or relationship or whatever, you can count on that he/she will take it. these people have no morals.

also, i think staying faithful when you have options is mostly a function of self control and also courage, both of which the chinese lack dearly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290271)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:54 AM
Author: Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit

They can't even be trusted to be faithful with the older business doods tho?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290281)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:58 AM
Author: stimulating ruby water buffalo

of course not. it's a business transaction at that point. do you expect faithfulness from trading partners?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290299)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:01 AM
Author: Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit

Well, on the one hand, if a woman is marrying you only for your money, I would imagine she doesn't care much for you and will be inclined to cheat. On the other hand, I would think she wouldn't want to risk being cut off from the dude's wealth. But how that plays out would depend perhaps on what the marriage laws are like in China, and I know nothing about that. I can't imagine they've gotten as bad as they are here in the U.S. though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290312)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:32 AM
Author: stimulating ruby water buffalo

it's not really possible to answer, because "cheating" implies that two people are fully invested into each other at some point, and this simply does not happen in these gold digger relationships.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290440)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:50 AM
Author: bat-shit-crazy stag film

yeah but OP is virgin, popping dat cherry has gotta give him some kinda boost

just trying to help the bro through the dark times...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290263)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 1:01 AM
Author: stimulating ruby water buffalo

just do squats breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290311)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:18 AM
Author: Laughsome Demanding Resort

I have almost reached the point where I have stopped getting crushes on people. What to do then? I'll never like someone in that way again

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290115)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:26 AM
Author: Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit

Obviously not an expert here, but I think crushes are really only something young people experience. I think the idea is that you start dating and then hopefully something more develops; and if it doesn't, you move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290141)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:27 AM
Author: cowardly shaky tank stage

Gf won't make you happy for more than a few months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290146)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:27 AM
Author: comical area

you don't have a gf because you secretly don't want to. if someone called you right now, you'd be annoyed instead of catering to needy people. It's a self serving bias, which you can defeat with a lot of hard work. To start things off, I've found that dedicating a percentage of my time to relationships is a fruitful endeavor.

For example, instead of seeking short term gains excessively (being a lone, eating, videogames, neglecting health), seek long term gains. This usually means incurring an upfront cost in the present, maybe continually accruing losses for a while, then seeing the fruits of your investment pay off. Think of moments as opportunity costs. Spending an extra minute with that weird girl in your daily routine could blossom into a vicious cycle of reciprocity. For example, she may not be gf material, but she can introduce you to different circles, same with that weird guy you avoid for whatever reason.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290148)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:28 AM
Author: Laughsome Demanding Resort

This may be correct. What long term investments are you talking about? I am pretty introverted so like being alone a lot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290154)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:29 AM
Author: comical area

A long term investment would be picturing yourself at 95 years old, lying next to a sweet old lady who just made you tea or hot chocolate or whatever. Neglecting the now can have serious repercussions in the future.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290157)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:31 AM
Author: cyan rambunctious jew

This sounds like hell. (not OP)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290167)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:32 AM
Author: comical area

where do you see yourself far off into the future?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290170)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM
Author: cyan rambunctious jew

Dead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290173)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 12:33 AM
Author: Curious Canary Coldplay Fan Pit

Titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290174)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:16 AM
Author: dashing nighttime plaza

I am also in this position. I wonder if a relationship would actually make me happy. I have a feeling it wouldnt, in the long run at least

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290629)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:39 AM
Author: Peach casino

stfu doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290714)



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Date: December 21st, 2012 2:39 AM
Author: Vigorous house travel guidebook

impossible at this point. Have you considered killself?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#22290715)



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Date: January 27th, 2026 9:44 AM
Author: zesty

update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2143017&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310751#49622965)