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Update on the subordinate I slept with
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Date: October 13th, 2025 11:47 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale I got a call from HR. I was a bit unnerved but not really, seemed inconceivable there’d be an issue, I still get along great with her and we haven’t missed a beat. Only strange thing is we never talk about it, instead seemed to have channeled the whole thing into actual work - late night phone calls and slacks about this or that email or thing we want to accomplish.
Anyway, turns out she asked HR about relocating to my city and they wanted to know how I feel about that. They said she’s clearly extremely engaged at work and I’m done an amazing job with the team. Wanted to laugh |
Date: October 14th, 2025 12:06 AM Author: Sticky Stimulating Stead Feces Hope it works out The company I've been employed at for years was revealed as having an extremely spotty record wrt its female employees and women's issues in the workplace so I'm probably going to be quitting and finding a lower tech position |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:28 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale What (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49347732) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:00 PM Author: Heady narrow-minded rigor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357984) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:46 PM Author: Bright School Mad Cow Disease (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49358227) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:08 AM Author: racy godawful office corn cake promising shtick plz keep it going
hopefully we can get some work holiday party action this december |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:32 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale All too real. The dynamics are complex but I feel alive again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49347735) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:40 AM Author: swashbuckling telephone liquid oxygen someone who makes you feel this alive should have a nickname. you should call her your "alive girl". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49347746) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:48 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale Bezos wasn’t her boss though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49347750) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:39 PM Author: mahogany cerebral friendly grandma (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357821) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:42 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale Today she invited me to her office locations Christmas party. I told her I wouldn’t be able to swing it and she got pouty about it. I’m going to another office where her female rival works. I told her I plan to swing by her location soon though and she said “ooo things I like to hear.” I also told her we’re going to be particularly busy the next couple months with a project and she’s like “is it weird that really excites me?” This should be an interesting ride. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49349904) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:40 AM Author: racy godawful office corn cake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49350307) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:41 AM Author: Soul-stirring ladyboy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49350311) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 6:57 PM Author: insanely creepy skinny woman trailer park (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49349183) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:27 PM Author: Tan Big Half-breed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49360539) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:46 AM Author: Vibrant Cream Turdskin as we get closer to the megaposter stuff, your subordinate figures to be more interesting if she's like your younger sister or something along those lines. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49349906) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 1:58 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale Maybe I can throw in some creep shots after the holiday party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49349973) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:42 AM Author: Soul-stirring ladyboy this could be schtick of the year if you follow through (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49350312) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:41 PM Author: racy godawful office corn cake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357831) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:58 PM Author: curious useless black woman useless brakes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357979) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:52 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale She slacked me today to say she “threw me under the bus with HR”. Then she wrote “actually it was compliance but I thought it would be fun to say HR.” Later she called me from the gym with her sister, topic turned to my weekend plans. I told her my wife has a school reunion. She asked how many years. I had no idea, so we worked it back from her age (wife is 29). She said wow lucky man, forgot she was that young. She then slacked me at like 10pm to confirm her next travel plans to my city. Well, at least life is interesting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357329) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:01 AM Author: At-the-ready Red Therapy women r the devil (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357331) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 6:50 AM Author: free-loading foreskin You are going to be fired for this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357369) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 7:20 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale Is it frowned upon? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357376) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 6:04 PM Author: free-loading foreskin You will be told that you had a duty to report any relationship involving a conflict of interest, which would include a romantic relationship with a subordinate whose pay and tasks you control, so that the company could evaluate how to handle that (e.g., changing the reporting structure). You will technically be fired for not reporting, as opposed to there being per se something inappropriate about a romantic relationship. (Of course there is something per se inappropriate in these circumstances but the company will rely on the technical aspect of not reporting a conflict). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49360426) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:21 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale I don’t think so. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361374) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:43 PM Author: mahogany cerebral friendly grandma get her pregnant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357838) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 2:04 PM Author: adulterous dog poop (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49359988) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:24 PM Author: Diverse Forum Describe the sex. Any ass play? Hairy bush? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357915) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:52 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale I was very drunk. She sucked my cock to get me hard. Then she crawled on top of me. She said I was going too fast and we should slow down, almost in a bossy way, turned me on. Then she got really romantic, wanting to make it some special moment, and kept saying my name over and over as she kind of built a cocoon around us with her long golden blonde hair, staring into my eyes and saying my name over and over until I came in her. Then I immediately left, had to get home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357967) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:54 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale Also, she was on her period but I didn’t realize it because I was drunk so I had blood all over me when I got home. On my shirt especially. Got some on our sheets because I fingered her and then my finger was scrawling blood all over. Fortunately wife was pissed so wasn’t home and when I woke up had time to cover it all up and shower. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357971) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:59 PM Author: curious useless black woman useless brakes complete twist from your other post (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49357982) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:19 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale There are layers to this thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49358018) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:02 PM Author: razzle-dazzle twisted death wish party of the first part "wife was pissed so wasn’t home"
Is this meant to parse as your wife staying out all night drunk? |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale I didn’t get home until mid morning. Yes this was hard to explain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49358295) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:24 PM Author: Glassy supple space international law enforcement agency You got blood on your sheets at home? You don’t wash your hands when you get home??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49360536) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:05 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale I had been drinking for like 18 plus hours straight at that point. I wasn’t thinking straight, just saw no one was home and plopped into bed. Woke up and saw blood. Thank god wife wasn’t actually waiting for me at home or she’d have noticed it for sure. My shirt especially had blood all over it. Had to wash everything and flip the pillows and suggest we wash the next morning. Then snuck it in laundry without her noticing the huge blood stains (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49362575) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:18 AM Author: abnormal native headpube Club Mandingo fan? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361199) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:08 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale I think we left the club at 5am, went to her hotel, was there a few hours, stumbled home with phone dead. I made up a story about falling asleep on a park bench. This led to a bunch of stuff about how I have an out of control alcohol problem to do that but I thought it preferable all things considered. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49362583) |
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Date: October 21st, 2025 8:08 PM Author: Diverse Forum did you tongue her asshole? did she tongue yours? answer the question (and poast pics) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49364976) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:08 PM Author: chocolate vigorous idiot parlor Can someone link the original post? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49358083) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:23 PM Author: razzle-dazzle twisted death wish party of the first part https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5782887&mc=66&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49358184) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:31 PM Author: laughsome silver reading party Not a fan of this tbh
The fact the relationship has to be mediated through work is really really gay and depressing, talking about "projects" and her little quip about compliance is really deflating imo its insane we alloweed women into the workforce this is a giant retarded scam
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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale The whole thing does feel very unnatural (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49358292) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:32 AM Author: glittery dilemma regret TITCR. Never do this. Specifically, someone you actually have to engage in real work with. A secretary or paralegal whose biggest concern is where they went to lunch that day is different, but not someone you’re actually “on projects” with. Could not imagine doing it, flipping between flirting and digging into the status of Project Blue with some chick, would blow my brains out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49359175) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 1:41 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale I wish I hadn’t. I actually regret the 5 hours of rapid fire drunk texting that broke the dam open yesterday the most. We were doing so well just putting it away and stupidly just pulled at the string. Now it’s something more and harder to shove back in. Really dumb move on my end. Now I don’t even know what talking with her looks like or if she starts randomly sending me late night texts that I have to try to hide. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49359944) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: glittery dilemma regret There’s great wisdom in the idea that (setting aside the immorality of it) if you’re gonna fuck someone who’s not your wife you do it with the random conference slut at the bar in Austin and call it a day. Fucking your coworker, nanny, neighbor, sister in law, etc., anyone who is routinely in your life, is inviting trouble. My earnest advice to you would be to try to cauterize the wound, don’t ever do it again, and try to get her to see it’s beneficial to move on too. By the way even if she doesn’t blow up your marriage she will perpetually have you by the balls at work so you better get ready to unequivocally support every retarded idea she ever has until she quits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49360176) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:12 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale Yeah it’s obviously good advice but people actually in your life are for obvious reasons the most likely source of affairs. Coworkers more than anything because you’re constantly working together and can develop a rapport that spills over when you move it to another context like after work drinks. And yeah the wound was cauterizing until we randomly picked at it over the weekend two weeks later. Now it’s harder because she seems to prefer it in open now. She sent me a message today that I ignored. The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back. Messy stuff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49360600) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:57 PM Author: free-loading foreskin "The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back."
6 months later: She has put in about 20/mins per day of work over the past half year, when it comes time she is performance managed, the story is "Rage Problems is just sabotaging me because I refused to continue the brief affair that he coercively forced me into" |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:11 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale I think there’s a lot more likely scenarios. A coworker noticing something, or one of our spouses finding evidence, etc. Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants. All probably more likely than a very ambitious employee who makes work a priority suddenly becoming bad at her job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361144) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 7:10 AM Author: free-loading foreskin "Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants."
Yes, probably more likely. Same result for you. "Rage Problems denied me the compensation adjustment I merited because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." "Rage Problems is giving favorable treatment in work assignments to a co-worker because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." If she's a very ambitious, intelligent lawyer, she's going to realize that you handed her the ability to coast at her job, shielded from any criticism, then leave with a 24 month severance package offered by HR to shut her up. This will be a "resignation" to avoid any career stigma to her, then she'll just move onto the next role with a couple hundred grand in her pocket. I work in this area, this is how these stories play out. Seems you are betting on "spurned female lawyer logically accepts affair was a bad idea, will not use it to her advantage, and fastidiously refocuses herself in a business-like way on company goals", good luck buddy
At this point your best move may actually be to bang her again, ensuring you have many messages making explicitly clear the whole thing is/was consensual, otherwise she's possibly going to say you raped her in that hotel room |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:55 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale There are already a ton, including one that said “you should be more careful, women are a bit crazy these days,” but I panic deleted them to make sure I didn’t have anything on my phone. She is not quiet about her support of me at work, including post hookup. Her suddenly claiming that seems the least likely scenario. I honestly think it’s very unlikely she will ever try to leverage it for anything too. It’s more that if I came out it would be a logistical mess. There would be no easy solution to have her report to anyone but me without demoting her or it coming across like a demotion. We would have to just say it was a one time thing and everyone is over it and hope that is the end of it. I think that is plausible now if I can get it back into the box, but if we continue down this path one or both of us will catch real feelings and it will be hard to have a real working relationship when that falls apart or one of us wants more or wants to break it off. That’s why I need to stop being a dumbass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361324) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM Author: boyish orchestra pit fortuitous meteor back into the box tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361333) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:17 AM Author: Azure Comical Mother “one of our spouses finding evidence”
Wait this chick is married? |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:49 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale Yes, and recently (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361313) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 9:18 PM Author: glittery dilemma regret Since we’re just anonymous pals on the internet and I don’t have to be tactful: I think that’s a retarded after the fact justification. You need to stop thinking with your dick before your life gets blown up. Not saying this to be malicious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49360722) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:58 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale I don’t think I was thinking with my dick when we texted. There’s no chance of a hookup anytime soon, likely won’t see her for a month or two at least. That was more just tension release and curiosity on how we each felt about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361327) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 11:57 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale I just texted with her for like 5 hours straight. We talked about everything. I am now on written record saying a ton of shit to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49358908) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 4:17 AM Author: Irradiated stage such as? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361160) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:18 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale I believe I said I want to kiss you at one point. She said I should behave myself. Then she asked me to describe in detail what I want to do to her. Fortunately for didn’t go down that path. No sexting. Just lots of emotional talk. Felt like a date. She asked a lot of stuff to get to know my backstory more. Our opinions on things. I don’t even know how we texted so long. I didn’t have it in me to reread the whole thing. I tried to delete them one by one but it was hundreds and hundreds of messages, just panic deleted the whole conversation because I was out and about with my wife the next day and I was worried she’d somehow notice it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361370) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:31 AM Author: Irradiated stage yikes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361388) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:54 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale Yup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361418) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:39 AM Author: Thriller Tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373622) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:25 PM Author: poppy nursing home stock car Your age and hers?
Your total comp and hers? |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale 43, think she’s 32 I am at over 500k all in plus equity She is at around 175 |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:58 AM Author: henna marketing idea scourge upon the earth this could potentially go very wrong for you.
i think you described elsewhere, but how often do you have sex with your wife? you might want to focus on shoring that up (if there's an issue) there and gently disengage from this situation
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Date: October 20th, 2025 10:20 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale I’m aware. I was in such a funk that I think I just went blind to potential consequences and wanted to feel something again. Have only had sex with wife like twice in last 7-8 months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361472) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 11:01 AM Author: curious useless black woman useless brakes suicide at 35 is seeming more and more like the CR option for me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361572) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: Walnut ratface locale (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49362222) |
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Date: October 21st, 2025 9:22 PM Author: Heady narrow-minded rigor Juan Veinte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49365133) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:51 AM Author: Electric voyeur (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373638) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:14 AM Author: Soggy base boistinker “Slacks” is a tell that you don’t have a real job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49361193) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:07 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale Update - things are relatively stable. We reverted to a week of mostly just work-related messages. But we seem to continue to find excuses to talk well into the evening. I’m surprised how flirty she sounds when I know her husband is nearby. One time I heard the sounds of cooking and she mentioned it was her husband. I immediately said I’ll talk to her later, and she was like “yeah talk tomorrow” and then dropped to a lower tone “or later”. Our instagram seems to have also taken on a life of its own to signal what we may be doing that makes it clear we’re not around our spouses. If she sees I’m at a bar late she’ll start messaging me. Last night I was drunk when she did that and I said “I want you” and she kind of skirted by it, but kept peppering me with questions. What a strange thing I’ve gotten myself into it, never seen anything like it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373575) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:10 AM Author: Heady narrow-minded rigor “never seen anything like it”
And yet it would be impossible to be more cliched. This will end badly if you keep at it. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:20 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale 1 It’s hard to “stop” because what is the “it” I am stopping? If I suddenly went cold and kept it strictly professional then our whole work dynamic would change and she might feel like I’m punishing her, doesn’t seem like a great idea. The actually inappropriate conversation is pretty minimal without knowing subtext.
2 I don’t really want it to go away. Life has been kind of depressing lately, feels like a nice spark. And I’ve already had the risk, doesn’t seem to compound just by keeping whatever emotional entanglement we have going on alive for at least a while longer. Probably more risk trying to wind it down to be honest. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:23 AM Author: Heady narrow-minded rigor lol, I’m sure it’ll be different for you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373610) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:25 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale I realize there’s lots of risk. What I should have done is not fucked her to begin with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373614) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:12 PM Author: dull impressive university old irish cottage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373965) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:41 AM Author: Thriller Tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373625) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:14 AM Author: Shimmering background story SHE IS GOING TO DESTROY HER OWN MARRIAGE AND TELL HER HUSBAND ALL YOUR INFO AND HE IS GOING TO TELL YOUR WIFE IF YOU'RE LUCKY AND MURDER YOU IF YOU ARE NOT I SINCERELY HOPE THIS FUCKING HELPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373590) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:21 AM Author: Walnut ratface locale Why would she do that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373609) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:50 AM Author: henna marketing idea scourge upon the earth lol brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373637) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:56 AM Author: Shimmering background story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49373655) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:39 PM Author: curious useless black woman useless brakes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49374063) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 2:18 PM Author: Heady narrow-minded rigor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49374152) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:03 PM Author: UhOh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49385437) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:54 PM Author: grandfathers (No Future) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49386393) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:42 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... Yeah, women aren't like that. Trust me. I know these things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49386350) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:40 PM Author: curious useless black woman useless brakes O fortuitous disgruntled lover! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49374067) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:49 AM Author: Thriller Tank Most boring flame in years. The most explicit You've gotten is one sexcapade with blood. So hurry up and just go on a bender Destroying what's left of your marriage now. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 3:37 PM Author: abnormal native headpube (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49374338) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:08 AM Author: Rage Problems We chatted for a few hours last night from like 11-1am. She said she thinks I’ll be the first one to sour on whatever it is we are doing. I said yeah what’s weird to me is how fluently we move between work mode and whatever it is mode sometimes within sentences. I guess this is why they tell people not to do this kind of stuff. She said too late. I guess we’ll find out if we can handle it. I said happy to be on the journey with you. The whole conversation basically just served to tell each other in a round about way that we’re emotionally entangled. Then we wished each other a good sleep and promptly slacked at 7am about work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49384388) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:23 AM Author: Nippon Professional Baseball You’re so fucked, I really hope this is flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49384421) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:29 AM Author: Salivary Stoned (xoentlaw@gmail.com) Normally mostly, cr. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49384435) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 8:37 PM Author: Rage Problems Why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49386184) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 11:19 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) this sounds like a potential disaster. be careful. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49384570) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 5:23 PM Author: A Werewolf Dick is Not Dispositive OP, you should really take note if Zurich thinks it’s a bad idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49385660) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:11 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) i was going to say he sounds exactly like me in late 2020, falling in love with another woman, etc.
as we all know, it led to my life unraveling. i got lucky and my wife took me back. i'd imagine that is a rarity. |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 8:37 PM Author: Rage Problems How is it any more a potential disaster than before? I already fucked her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49386185) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:13 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) you are falling in love with this chick.
you need to be sure you can control that and turn it off when you need to. i wasn't able to, and i left my wife/family and my whole life blew up (i went to jail and the psych ward before drying out). i luckily got everything back, but most women would have written me off. |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 8:54 AM Author: Rage Problems Did you actually leave for her, or it just fucked you up and you spiraled? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49387331) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:17 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) i left for her. i was bad off with booze at the time (oddly enough i quit doing coke around that time) and just went totally out of control.
i sobered up about a year later (after going to jail for DV, and the cops taking me to the psych ward a couple months after). once i got sober i realized what i'd done and that i actually still loved my wife. long story short, i un-fucked the situation, but this was a 1 in 1000 odds kinda outcome. |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:19 PM Author: cock of michael obama why did your wife take you back? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49388495) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:27 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) who knows (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49388520) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:13 PM Author: Rage Problems Seeing lots of parallels. I’m also a hard boozer and do coke from time to time. You’re right I’m catching feelings for this chick and vice versa. I can’t remember the last time we didn’t check in early morning and late at night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49391010) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:19 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) my booze and drug addiction (with a lot of dabbling in prostitutes) led my wife to pretty much give up on me beacuse i was of no help and even when i was home and not traveling for work, i wasn't present. so she was emotionally detached. that led me to look for an actual emotional connection and then BAM life spiral. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49391037) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:30 PM Author: Rage Problems My wife is also fed up with me and it’s tough being around her. Also made me search around for a connection. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49391092) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:01 PM Author: Juan Eighty "whatever it is we are doing"
lol @ this level of self-denial
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:03 PM Author: Respect your Elders (1799 SOL away from student loan freedom (thanks gator)) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49385438) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:58 PM Author: Mr. Shalom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49386411) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:15 PM Author: A Werewolf Dick is Not Dispositive Pro tip: when a woman tells you that she will handle things with less emotion than you LMFAO UR ALL GONNA DIE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49387830) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:31 PM Author: state your IQ before I engage you further Hey retard you gave a woman -- A WOMAN -- total control over blowing up ur life. There are approximately a halford number of reasons why she will blow it all up. Exciting part is you never know when it will be! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49387869) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:36 PM Author: Emotionally + Physically Abusive Ex-Husband (oppose bitchbois) Great pics (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49387889) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:28 PM Author: A Werewolf Dick is Not Dispositive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49388083) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:45 PM Author: QueenLaBEEFah absolutely devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49388141) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:53 PM Author: Long TERF War for PeterBoi Poon ( ) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49388156) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:39 PM Author: Leftism is a mental disease rare EPAH CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49391117) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 6:16 PM Author: Rage Problems Today, she said “[if you ever visit my city] I am your woman”. We were making fun of some corporate bullshit. Had switched to text. First message of the day was at like 7am after talking the night before until midnight. We were on the phone for like two hours today. Our messaging is becoming a distraction from actual work. But on a few important calls we hit it hard together, ganged up on some losers. I am in it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49388849) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 6:24 PM Author: Mr. Shalom You're in a relationship with another man's wife. You're having an affair. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49388879) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:39 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) this. your wife would possibly be more upset about this than any physical contact.
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:49 PM Author: Mr. Shalom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49389110) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 9:12 PM Author: WordcelWorth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49389261) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:40 PM Author: A Werewolf Dick is Not Dispositive She probably feels like such a bad bitch - ur doomed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310844#49389078) |