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My wife hates that I get chores done while I WFH

She comes home and everything is done which means she wasn&r...
Sadistic university preventive strike
  01/15/25
Find this rly hard to believe tbh.
carmine supple police squad
  01/15/25
(unmarried man)
bossy fragrant crackhouse
  01/15/25
Wrong on both counts
carmine supple police squad
  01/15/25
My apologies! Let me correct myself: (lying woman)
bossy fragrant crackhouse
  01/15/25
women ALWAYS lie about this and ALWAYS claim to be the excep...
tripping menage
  01/15/25
Women don't view their compulsive complaining and general di...
bossy fragrant crackhouse
  01/15/25
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tripping menage
  01/15/25
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Sienna resort keepsake machete
  01/17/25
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ultramarine frisky heaven
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Mustard spot
  08/07/25
correction: liberal women. Liberalism is a mental disease an...
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  01/15/25
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tripping menage
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unhinged piazza tank
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Sadistic university preventive strike
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talented sandwich roommate
  01/17/25
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ultramarine frisky heaven
  08/02/25
(married woman)
sepia plaza love of her life
  01/15/25
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Ivory hospital pisswyrm
  01/15/25
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Sadistic university preventive strike
  01/16/25
you don't have a wife and literally spend 20+ hours a day ra...
Arousing Hot Gaming Laptop
  01/15/25
wait...wait.... I thought *I* was the retarded jewish ped...
Mustard spot
  08/07/25
anyone who doesn’t worship god emperor Trump, actually...
Sadistic university preventive strike
  08/07/25
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tripping menage
  01/15/25
Now imagine how mad she'd be if you didn't do them
Scarlet soul-stirring lodge
  01/15/25
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light thriller old irish cottage
  01/23/25
you should teach her to get chores done as she goes, like pu...
mewling learning disabled kitty
  01/15/25
180. Its 18000 seeing them short circuit in real time trying...
Deranged Internal Respiration
  01/15/25
This guy gets it
Sadistic university preventive strike
  08/02/25
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crimson base
  01/15/25
I also WFH and get chores done while my wife is at her offic...
copper mental disorder
  01/15/25
lmao its too cynical to believe but i want it to be true
mewling learning disabled kitty
  01/15/25
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Deranged Internal Respiration
  01/15/25
...
tripping menage
  01/15/25
It truly upsets the natural order of things
Misanthropic cowardly cuck institution
  01/15/25
Women don't want help with chores. They don't even want the...
bossy fragrant crackhouse
  01/15/25
i encourage you to do a long substack post on this topic. y...
tripping menage
  01/15/25
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tripping menage
  01/15/25
spot fucking on
Sadistic university preventive strike
  01/15/25
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Deranged Internal Respiration
  01/15/25
if youre married these days women expect you to be hiring h...
mewling learning disabled kitty
  01/15/25
The food never tastes as good or is as healthy as if you coo...
copper mental disorder
  01/15/25
jfc, marriage sounds miserable
snowy community account
  01/15/25
It is
unhinged piazza tank
  01/16/25
This
unhinged piazza tank
  01/16/25
hooooooooooooly shiiiiiiiiiiittttt
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at-the-ready meetinghouse son of senegal
  01/17/25
Whoa
Bearded Lemon Native
  01/17/25
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Dull Racy Dopamine Parlor
  01/23/25
explains women managers too
Glassy brunch famous landscape painting
  01/23/25
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ultramarine frisky heaven
  08/02/25
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Bearded Lemon Native
  01/17/25
My wife gets MAF because whenever she wants to "clean t...
crawly abode sex offender
  01/15/25
“Email me, brotha”
stirring flesh den
  08/07/25
how do you guys live like this.
motley talking forum
  01/15/25
Wait until the new update installs and she finds new things ...
Turquoise Stead Brethren
  01/16/25
Wow
spruce stage pervert
  01/16/25
She's mad that you're doing chores at home because it's a si...
Glittery Fiercely-loyal Shrine Turdskin
  01/17/25
Top thread. Op should monikerize
bronze address coffee pot
  01/17/25
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Sadistic university preventive strike
  01/17/25
180
bronze address coffee pot
  01/17/25
op is a retarded jewish pedophile and there is a near 0% cha...
Arousing Hot Gaming Laptop
  01/17/25
yeah he's a poster on autoadmit.com we fucking get it
Ivory hospital pisswyrm
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Sadistic university preventive strike
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Deranged Internal Respiration
  01/17/25
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Ivory hospital pisswyrm
  01/17/25
When the wife was not working, her story was that it is hard...
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  01/17/25
DESCRIBE said explosion
bateful trust fund
  01/17/25
"My mother basically said I was a bad housekeeper and I...
Multi-colored amethyst background story
  01/17/25
And her mother would be 100% correct
Bearded Lemon Native
  01/17/25
She's a great mother to our three boys and in particular is ...
Multi-colored amethyst background story
  01/17/25
So she can do part of the job but not the other parts. What...
Bearded Lemon Native
  01/17/25
Her mother is basically the opposite which is a large part o...
Multi-colored amethyst background story
  01/17/25
nice. great set up
Bearded Lemon Native
  01/17/25
There is no win here. Ultimately it's her issues with her mo...
bateful trust fund
  01/20/25
i asked chatgpt for book recommendations on this specific to...
tripping menage
  01/17/25
My wife is a disgusting slob and any caring whatsoever about...
at-the-ready meetinghouse son of senegal
  01/17/25
Women are 180 The house is spotless when I WFH. When my w...
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  01/17/25
Nagging: Domestic Abuse: Exploring the Psychology of Nagging...
tripping menage
  01/17/25
"A detailed analysis of nagging as a form of relational...
bateful trust fund
  01/20/25
I don't think women, especially SAHMs, are ever going to rec...
bronze address coffee pot
  01/23/25
unloading a dishwasher is a pain imo. but otherwise cr. als...
mewling learning disabled kitty
  01/23/25
Even breaking out a pumice stone to get some hard water stai...
light thriller old irish cottage
  01/23/25
Today she came home from shopping and got MAF to find me lay...
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  08/02/25
she’s still not talking to me
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bronze address coffee pot
  08/28/25
think about this thread now & again, hate women
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  12/15/25
She's currently rage texting her sisters/friends who are all...
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  12/15/25
The thing is she can’t come out and say it because she...
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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:12 PM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike

She comes home and everything is done which means she wasn’t home when they weren’t done thus negating her ability to complain about them not being done. This makes her MAF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555516)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:25 PM
Author: carmine supple police squad

Find this rly hard to believe tbh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555533)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:26 PM
Author: bossy fragrant crackhouse

(unmarried man)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555538)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:32 PM
Author: carmine supple police squad

Wrong on both counts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555549)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:59 PM
Author: bossy fragrant crackhouse

My apologies! Let me correct myself:

(lying woman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555641)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:01 PM
Author: tripping menage

women ALWAYS lie about this and ALWAYS claim to be the exception

it's very strange and annoying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555646)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:08 PM
Author: bossy fragrant crackhouse

Women don't view their compulsive complaining and general dissatisfaction with everything as pathological, and with the social trend towards "woman always right", why should they. They're told every day that they should be miserable and the cause of their misery lies entirely outside of themselves

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555654)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:08 PM
Author: tripping menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555658)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:51 AM
Author: Sienna resort keepsake machete



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560445)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:50 PM
Author: ultramarine frisky heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49151380)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:05 PM
Author: Mustard spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49164514)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 6:37 PM
Author: snowy community account

correction: liberal women. Liberalism is a mental disease and women have it times ten.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48556060)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: tripping menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555558)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:39 PM
Author: unhinged piazza tank



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555574)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:23 PM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555876)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: talented sandwich roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560301)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:50 PM
Author: ultramarine frisky heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49151379)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: sepia plaza love of her life

(married woman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555556)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:37 PM
Author: Ivory hospital pisswyrm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555564)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 10:51 AM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48557527)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: Arousing Hot Gaming Laptop

you don't have a wife and literally spend 20+ hours a day raging about donald trump on the internet you mentally retarded jewish pedophile. you are jewishly lying yet again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555664)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:06 PM
Author: Mustard spot

wait...wait....

I thought *I* was the retarded jewish pedophile?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49164516)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:10 PM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike

anyone who doesn’t worship god emperor Trump, actually

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49164524)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: tripping menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555559)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:41 PM
Author: Scarlet soul-stirring lodge

Now imagine how mad she'd be if you didn't do them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555582)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 11:03 AM
Author: light thriller old irish cottage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48581104)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:01 PM
Author: mewling learning disabled kitty

you should teach her to get chores done as she goes, like putting garbage in the trash can or rinsing dishes off before putting them in the dishwasher. shed probably go ballistic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555645)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: Deranged Internal Respiration

180. Its 18000 seeing them short circuit in real time trying to chase the high of complaining > realizing they're fresh out of smack. I hate women so much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555665)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike

This guy gets it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49151378)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: crimson base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555667)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:16 PM
Author: copper mental disorder

I also WFH and get chores done while my wife is at her office job. She absolutely hates coming home to see the snow cleared, grocery shopping done and dinner prepared with dishes already put away. She gets even more furious when the laundry is done. I understand that level of productivity is hard for her to process because she needs to watch me do chores and berate me while I do them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555671)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:17 PM
Author: mewling learning disabled kitty

lmao its too cynical to believe but i want it to be true

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555678)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:17 PM
Author: Deranged Internal Respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555679)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:18 PM
Author: tripping menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555683)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:22 PM
Author: Misanthropic cowardly cuck institution

It truly upsets the natural order of things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555694)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:47 PM
Author: bossy fragrant crackhouse

Women don't want help with chores. They don't even want the chores to be done exactly the way they want them done. What they want is to micromanage their husbands and spread misery.

Doing the chores perfectly while she's away is so aggravating to women because if exposes the lie that it was ever about the chores at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555778)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:49 PM
Author: tripping menage

i encourage you to do a long substack post on this topic. you are an expert

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555785)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:07 PM
Author: tripping menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555832)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:24 PM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike

spot fucking on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555879)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: Deranged Internal Respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555933)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:45 PM
Author: mewling learning disabled kitty

if youre married these days women expect you to be hiring housecleaners and landscapers and ubereats drivers 24/7 for this reason.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555935)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: copper mental disorder

The food never tastes as good or is as healthy as if you cook for yourself at home. Cleaning and other work around the house is the same. I only hire out work too complex or time consuming to do it myself like a large plumbing project. I’d also never get up on my roof for any reason so I have contractors handle that. I’m happy to do most things and my wife still resents me and berates me for how it’s done.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48555945)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 6:40 PM
Author: snowy community account

jfc, marriage sounds miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48556065)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:59 PM
Author: unhinged piazza tank

It is

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48559257)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:56 PM
Author: unhinged piazza tank

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48559252)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:57 PM
Author: Peach parlour toilet seat

hooooooooooooly shiiiiiiiiiiittttt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48559255)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:30 AM
Author: at-the-ready meetinghouse son of senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560179)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:40 AM
Author: Bearded Lemon Native

Whoa

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560426)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 10:08 AM
Author: Dull Racy Dopamine Parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48580966)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Glassy brunch famous landscape painting

explains women managers too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48580979)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:51 PM
Author: ultramarine frisky heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49151381)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:39 AM
Author: Bearded Lemon Native



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560423)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 8:44 PM
Author: crawly abode sex offender

My wife gets MAF because whenever she wants to "clean together" and I'm like - nope. Email me what you want cleaned and I will just clean it all myself.

They really just want to direct you around like you're there intern.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48556325)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:08 PM
Author: stirring flesh den

“Email me, brotha”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49164520)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 8:51 PM
Author: motley talking forum

how do you guys live like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48556340)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 11:36 AM
Author: Turquoise Stead Brethren

Wait until the new update installs and she finds new things to be mad about anyway

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48557618)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 11:28 PM
Author: spruce stage pervert

Wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48559474)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 4:36 AM
Author: Glittery Fiercely-loyal Shrine Turdskin

She's mad that you're doing chores at home because it's a sign that you're not making as much money as you theoretically could be making if you have time to do that shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48559725)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 6:56 AM
Author: bronze address coffee pot

Top thread. Op should monikerize

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48559808)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 7:53 AM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48559832)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:38 AM
Author: bronze address coffee pot

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560032)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:43 AM
Author: Arousing Hot Gaming Laptop

op is a retarded jewish pedophile and there is a near 0% chance he actually has a wife. he just makes these threads out of some sense of obligation to promote jewish agitprop and degeneracy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560039)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:50 AM
Author: Ivory hospital pisswyrm

yeah he's a poster on autoadmit.com we fucking get it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560051)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:51 AM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560054)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: Deranged Internal Respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560121)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:50 AM
Author: Ivory hospital pisswyrm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560050)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:43 AM
Author: Multi-colored amethyst background story

When the wife was not working, her story was that it is hard to get all the daily chores done.

When I switched to WFH and she started going in to do an essentially email job, I started doing most of the daily chores. As soon as she leaves for work, I write up a list of chores, put on a podcast, set my phone timer for 45 minutes, and rip through as many chores as fast as possible. If needed I do that again for 30 minutes late in the afternoon.

Her mother came to visit and complimented my wife by saying that our house is now so much cleaner and organized. Her mother didn't realize that I was the one doing nearly all the chores. The wife spent a month fuming, pouting, and saying "I'm not angry" before letting the whole thing explode.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560241)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:00 AM
Author: bateful trust fund

DESCRIBE said explosion

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560304)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:30 AM
Author: Multi-colored amethyst background story

"My mother basically said I was a bad housekeeper and I know you are thinking the same thing even if you don't say it! Which also means that I am a bad mother, in my mother's eyes!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560402)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:38 AM
Author: Bearded Lemon Native

And her mother would be 100% correct

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560418)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:41 AM
Author: Multi-colored amethyst background story

She's a great mother to our three boys and in particular is a great boys mother. She knows when to let them be rowdy and she can get them to focus when they need to. But her organizational and housekeeping skills are abysmal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560427)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:42 AM
Author: Bearded Lemon Native

So she can do part of the job but not the other parts. What do you think her mother would think of that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560430)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:45 AM
Author: Multi-colored amethyst background story

Her mother is basically the opposite which is a large part of the problem. Her mother was a pro level housekeeper and all around organized thing-doer but could not nurture let alone tolerate the true personalities of her children. So her mother and my wife are still running a low-grade resentment contest between them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560436)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 1:24 PM
Author: Bearded Lemon Native

nice. great set up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560717)



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Date: January 20th, 2025 6:08 AM
Author: bateful trust fund

There is no win here. Ultimately it's her issues with her mother. Just remember that your wife has the emotional maturity of a 12 year old and you will profit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48567872)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: tripping menage

i asked chatgpt for book recommendations on this specific topic. everything it offered was total garbage

any of you bozos have more longer form Scholarship to suggest?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560252)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:58 AM
Author: at-the-ready meetinghouse son of senegal

My wife is a disgusting slob and any caring whatsoever about “chores” getting done at all (let alone “correctly”) falls to me. I’ve mostly stopped caring at this point.

Not sure whether this is better or worse than a wife/situation like the one described in the OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560294)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:36 AM
Author: charismatic chapel mexican

Women are 180

The house is spotless when I WFH. When my wife does there are plates left in the sink, empty soda cans on her desk, unmade bed, etc.

It sucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560411)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:58 AM
Author: tripping menage

Nagging: Domestic Abuse: Exploring the Psychology of Nagging and Relational Aggression (Redpilled Progressive)

Inside, you'll find:

An in-depth look at Chris Rock's observation on women's dislike of men resting.

A detailed analysis of nagging as a form of relational aggression.

A dissection of the 'mean girls' phenomenon in the context of nagging women.

An exploration of how women use state police, social services, and other institutions against men.

A discussion on animus possession and how women project their negativity onto men.

A critique of female supremacy and how it fits into nagging behavior.

An examination of how children are used as tools to extort money.

A thorough look at the influence of feminism and gender ideology on nagging behavior.

https://www.amazon.com/Nagging-Psychology-Relational-Aggression-Progressive-ebook/dp/B0DGW4F2X2

looks interesting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48560455)



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Date: January 20th, 2025 6:09 AM
Author: bateful trust fund

"A detailed analysis of nagging as a form of relational aggression."

/thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48567873)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 9:38 AM
Author: bronze address coffee pot

I don't think women, especially SAHMs, are ever going to recover from this.

Each individual task takes somewhere between 30 seconds and 4 minutes.

unloading the dishwasher: 3 min tops

folding laundry: 4 min

cleaning a toilet bowl: 30 seconds

there are some more major time consuming tasks like vacuuming the house but no one expects this done daily.

lol at all of those houses with heaping piles of clean laundry that you are supposed to rummage through and some magnet indicators on the dishwasher that its clean or dirty jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48580898)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 9:41 AM
Author: mewling learning disabled kitty

unloading a dishwasher is a pain imo. but otherwise cr. also i havent folded laundry in years. i either hang it up or if its a tshirt or jeans or whatever i just put the clean clothes in a small pile. if its sheets and bedding stuff you just do the bed, which admittedly is also a pita. towels i guess you fold if theres a ton of them but otherwise put on the rack.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48580913)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 11:05 AM
Author: light thriller old irish cottage

Even breaking out a pumice stone to get some hard water stains out of the toilet barely takes much time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#48581108)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike

Today she came home from shopping and got MAF to find me laying on the couch watching 2024 college football highlights. She was like “Aren’t you going to mow the lawn?” “Already done,” I told her. “What about installing [our son]’s ceiling fan?” “I did that too,” I replied. “Great. Can you fix the dishwasher?” “I already did.” Her face turned bright red with rage. Now she’s not speaking to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49151377)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:54 PM
Author: Cordovan Flickering Theatre Telephone



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49151382)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 11:56 AM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike

she’s still not talking to me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49164492)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:38 PM
Author: unhinged piazza tank



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49511370)



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Date: August 28th, 2025 2:53 PM
Author: bronze address coffee pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49219581)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 12:51 PM
Author: Deranged Internal Respiration

think about this thread now & again, hate women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49511242)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 12:58 PM
Author: stimulating voyeur

She's currently rage texting her sisters/friends who are all telling her what an abusive narcissistic asshole you are for doing this, and also telling her that the way you did everything wrong, and how they can't believe that you would so smugly do it while she was out and act like that's OK.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49511268)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:03 PM
Author: Sadistic university preventive strike

The thing is she can’t come out and say it because she knows she’ll sound like a bitch. but I know. and she knows I know. and that’s enough for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49511281)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:11 PM
Author: Deranged Internal Respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310893",#49511302)