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lol, mba chick calendared a zoom meeting to dump me
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:30 PM Author: tim heidegger (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156650) |
Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:30 PM Author: maine is 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156653) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:30 PM Author: ai (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156657) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:31 PM Author: lex She did wait until almost EoD. True to form until the end. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156662) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:32 PM Author: tim heidegger sorry brother. can we get some deets tho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156666) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:32 PM Author: cock of michael obama (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156667) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:39 PM Author: lex Get this: where I moved too fast was wanting to hang out and read Buddhist stuff with her in a comfy and cuddly manner. She had already been dropping hints about shrewdly fine dining and travel shit she might want to do together, but the heart sutra did me in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156692) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:40 PM Author: meds I have 1 friend in life who is married with children. he advised me that it is never cr to discuss religion with women, especially not if you want to learn about hers. you projected your soul onto her and wanted her to enlighten you. this is the most powerful form of spiritual development, but women want a man that is already Developed. luv mig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156697) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:42 PM Author: lex Fuck you mig. Also thanks love you bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156701) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:43 PM Author: meds crrr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156702) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:20 PM Author: fka (derpy STEM dysgenic) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156813) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:43 PM Author: him (🧐) im so confused by this. she broke up with you because you wanted to hang out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156704) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:45 PM Author: maine is 180 (she just wasn't that into him) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156706) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:48 PM Author: him (🧐) thats what i thought until i read the "had already dropped hints about doing travel stuff together" part and why im confused (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156712) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:52 PM Author: maine is 180 See below 'She was happier when we just went hiking or had dinner, drinks (her), etc. Something about hanging out and doing me stuff made her thinking about a future with me seem distasteful'
Ie, she's just not that into him.
Not a big deal, at least he's back in the game pursuing biological women. Find someone dorkier that's a better fit. (Fizzkidd, we're all looking at you) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:53 PM Author: meds this also evidences that he was not into her. women just end it early because men will sex whatever (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156739) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:54 PM Author: lex No, I was into her to be clear. I think. I’m not devastated, just bummed, nevertheless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156741) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:56 PM Author: meds You were not. Men are just very good at tricking themselves into thinking they are because it leads to sex. Look at it plainly. There is no way you are legitimately interested in an MBA business shrew. You deny sexual motives, but they control you nonetheless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156744) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:06 PM Author: lex I don’t think you have a very good reading on my psychology here, brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156766) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:18 PM Author: meds i dont think you have a good reading on your psychology (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156803) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:22 PM Author: homosexual dissector CR. Women are so highly attuned to the spiritual realm of long-term monogamy formation that they simply can't abide superficial engagements like men blinded by sex
*becomes one of genghis khan's 300k concubines* |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:23 PM Author: meds that's right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156831) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:27 PM Author: homosexual dissector (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156852) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:28 PM Author: lex I want to go home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156859) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:29 PM Author: meds cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156863) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM Author: homosexual dissector I'm gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156869) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM Author: lab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156874) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:32 PM Author: lab 180000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156879) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:16 PM Author: gtt (gunneratttt) ive had this happen before.
hint: women are 180 |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:50 PM Author: lex Probably. Ah well. I learned some lessons about patience and enjoyed the ride, at least. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156726) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:48 PM Author: lex Think I leaned into the intellectual shtick too hard and scared her off (revealing that this is something I find interesting and nice in a relationship). She was happier when we just went hiking or had dinner, drinks (her), etc. Something about hanging out and doing me stuff made her thinking about a future with me seem distasteful. Note: over sharing and sex did not. This is a very idiosyncratic outcome, I think. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156715) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:49 PM Author: him (🧐) she's not over her ex
sucks but nothing u can do about it. at least u got some post-rehab experience points |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:08 PM Author: lex This might be right Ty man |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:17 PM Author: gtt (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156795) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:27 PM Author: maine is 180 Definitely possible that she's not fully over her ex.
Could also be a situation where she felt relieved by lex opening up on the first date- it made her feel like he was her peer, and made her feel less dysfunctional to be post-divorce and thinking about fleeing the area, etc. She enjoyed doing activities with him that SHE likes (ie, drinks, chatting, looking to the future and planning shrew trips with the honeymoon period rush of excitement about dating) and got caught up in those and enjoying feeling physical affection from someone new. Then reality caught up to her as she learned more activities that he enjoys and the rush of meeting someone new started to fade slightly, she realized that she just wasn't that into him specifically.
Shit like this happens all the time.
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:07 PM Author: gtt (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157397) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:50 PM Author: meds birdbrains (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156724) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:49 PM Author: meds she wants a travel buddy, lex wants an intellect (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156722) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:36 PM Author: lex i used to be more aggressive and abrasive in general. now the only realm where i still am is narrowly intellectual and academic worlds, which are also the only places i'm actually competent. maybe aesthetic/artsy, if that's a separate realm. i'm so fucked trying to date app chicks and act normal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157517) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:40 PM Author: tim heidegger raep them friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157528) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:51 PM Author: meds are you athletic at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157561) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:53 PM Author: lex i go out on trails a lot and still lift some. i'm not small. haven't played any sports since high school, though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157571) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:54 PM Author: meds women love nature (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157574) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:57 PM Author: lex per this thread, only because you might rape them in nature (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157588) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:57 PM Author: meds they love danger its insane one chick was willing to go to a forest preserve with me after like 1 date i could easily have killed her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157591) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:45 PM Author: hank_scorpio wait what? you were trying to cuddle and read read buddhist shit? did you even fuck this bitch? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156707) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:48 PM Author: tim heidegger cq (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156717) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:49 PM Author: lex Yeah. It was a great but weird week and a half. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156719) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:51 PM Author: tim heidegger pls describe pussy and bewbs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156731) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:08 PM Author: tim heidegger (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156771) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:49 PM Author: Darnell He needed to get aggressive way earlier. every other guy is trying to rape her. So if he's not, does he even like her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156721) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:52 PM Author: lex I still don’t think that’s the issue here. I got more aggressive as time went on and it did not seem to be a problem. Fuck do i know, though. Not rushing into sex was my preference and I don’t regret acting on it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156736) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:57 PM Author: hank_scorpio you should, relationships do not develop out of a shared interest in faggotry, you bone and decide that was fun then ride that for a couple weeks and if things click that's cool (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156745) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:59 PM Author: meds titcr. leave faggotry to your dealings with men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156750) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:01 PM Author: hank_scorpio no need for faggotry, just help bros out judiciously (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156754) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:01 PM Author: meds no faggotry is great (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156755) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:07 PM Author: lex I’m not going to be successful pursuing relationships that way. Can’t fake it forever. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156768) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:10 PM Author: hank_scorpio that's exactly the point, you aren't faking it, you are just fucking and hanging out and seeing if you get along, the defining feature of the relationship is the fucking, that just is the case (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156773) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:11 PM Author: lex I don’t want to hang out and fuck women I don’t care about. That WOULD be faking it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156775) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:13 PM Author: hank_scorpio you seem to severely misunderstand my point, that is the method by which one comes to know a woman, not asking faggy questions, honesty only happens with intimacy, this is an immutable fact about human nature (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156778) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:16 PM Author: lex I understand your argument just fine. I think you’re wrong. I complain about contemporary degeneracy constantly on here. It should be clear I don’t think your position would be at all tenable in a sane age. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156790) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:19 PM Author: hank_scorpio it always was, you've been fed lies by people who write things down, there never was a moral society (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156804) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:22 PM Author: lex This is nsam-level retarded and wrong (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156822) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:23 PM Author: hank_scorpio no, it is self evidently the case (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156835) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 8:16 PM Author: Karlstack (Retired) Women embody whatever “age” they live in and you can’t get around that with an MBA shrew of all types ffs
The time you long for she’d also be a virgin. That ship sailed lol.
You need to fuck asap. Women pair bond with whomever has sex with them. It’s a biological fact you idiot liberal artist. |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:19 PM Author: meds he is in denial about the nature of relationships with the opposite sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156807) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:15 PM Author: tim heidegger blah blah blah, describe her coochie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156784) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:17 PM Author: lex I have some decency in terms of how much I overshare here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156793) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:38 PM Author: alek He got Laid tho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157521) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:50 PM Author: lex that might not be a small thing in terms of confidence, actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157556) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:18 PM Author: gtt (gunneratttt) Welcome to modern dating, my friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156802) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 9:11 PM Author: sad cuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157155) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:29 PM Author: lab it's been waiting for you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157475) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:47 PM Author: lab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156711) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:24 PM Author: meds this is your megachurch girl moment. harness it for its full potential (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156838) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM Author: rapemaxxing self-help eBook Lol at talking about your spirituality and feelings to a woman instead of raping her
Don’t act like you’re surprised by this. You know what you did wrong |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM Author: maine is 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156875) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:32 PM Author: homosexual dissector (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156877) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:33 PM Author: rapemaxxing self-help eBook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156883) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:34 PM Author: one-letter moniker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157505) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:33 PM Author: '"'"'"''" "Yeah so listen I've got a hard stop in 15 so let's just sharpen our pencils and get down to it." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48156885) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:30 PM Author: lex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157483) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:38 PM Author: ;;;..........;.;.;.;.;.;.;.,,;.;.,,,;.;. What was the exact wording? How did she tell you this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157519) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:40 PM Author: tim heidegger (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157529) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:43 PM Author: lex via text:
"Hi Lex. Hope that your Wednesday is going well.
In being genuine to myself & transparent with you, I've thought about the dates we had, and while I have enjoyed getting to know you, I also feel I'm uninterested to pursue this connection further.
I appreciate the generosity of your time & genuinely wish you well. I hope that we both find what we're looking for out there." |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:44 PM Author: ;;;..........;.;.;.;.;.;.;.,,;.;.,,,;.;. Wow, zero emotion, like a layoff email (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157541) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:46 PM Author: lex in case you all thought i was running schtick about the basic conceit of MBA texter girl, it was 100% not flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157549) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:45 PM Author: tim heidegger barf. consider yourself lucky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157542) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:45 PM Author: ;;;..........;.;.;.;.;.;.;.,,;.;.,,,;.;. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157543) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:12 PM Author: gtt (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157622) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:24 AM Author: Trump is the Lib Killer (TDNW) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157814) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:51 PM Author: meds i like the part where she makes it all about her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157563) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:54 PM Author: ;;;..........;.;.;.;.;.;.;.,,;.;.,,,;.;. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157575) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:08 PM Author: Lynn Conway Holy fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157614) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:10 PM Author: meds this is standard women thinking. ive gotten this text several times. i get more embarrassed for them than me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157618) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:15 PM Author: lex i even gave myself a chance to love her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157631) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:09 PM Author: gtt (gunneratttt) jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157615) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:10 PM Author: Dickey Simpkins Please reply “thanks” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157617) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:12 PM Author: gtt (gunneratttt) thank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157623) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:21 PM Author: maine is 180 either you dodged a huge bullet or this woman was not nearly as into you as you thought she was... or both. 😬 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157640) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:47 PM Author: rapemaxxing self-help eBook Ok this is either shtick or I’m retiring (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157694) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:47 PM Author: meds See you tomorrow (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157695) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:48 PM Author: Lynn Conway It is not schtick. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157696) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:50 PM Author: lex if anything, i've been holding back because the full reality would seem like flaem (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157703) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:22 AM Author: rapemaxxing self-help eBook You did fuck her though? Was it good? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157743) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:11 PM Author: oic (🦆) I want to acknowledge the presence of Greg who will be observing this call today. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157619) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:11 PM Author: meds (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157621) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:16 PM Author: rickpanama (1) should have known you were getting term’d when your access to her panties was cut off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157632) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:22 PM Author: ataraxic lex, actual relationship advice (notwithstanding that this woman sounds forgettable): do not schedule intellectual activities like “reading buddhist texts,” especially early. women, even intellectual ones, do not want tasks or challenges or homework. they want to be hugged and patted on the ass and for someone to be there with them when they’re sad, and fucked. their desire for intellect, when it exists, is more or less aesthetic preference, so that she can justify surrendering herself to you, and so that your conversations can settle on a compatible level of depth. she may tell herself she wants a “headier” relationship but this is just the unconscious delusion that makes the surrender possible, and a romantic relationship founded on “headiness” isn’t sustainable anyways. you are taking the delusion at face value and participating in it, as is perhaps your nature as someone used to forging friendships through intellectual activity as it is. you have to look past the delusion, and resist your own nerdy tendencies.
the foundation of opposite sex relationships besides fucking is in the mundane. it is about taking pleasure in daily nothings such that mere presence and mere existence become a little more ascendant, it is not about forming ascendant intellectual bonds through which to raise mere existence up to their own level (that is for same sex relationships – peers embarking on a great productive mission, soldiers heading off to fight great wars).
do not reach for the ascendant first. do not manufacture connection out of intellectual effort or “shared ideas.” nor do you necessarily have to go on trips or whatever. just be affectionate and cheerful and sexy and casually smart and some kind of intellectual connection will emerge through experience, or as much of one as can exist and is actually desirable in a romantic relationship. |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:29 PM Author: Lynn Conway (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157654) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:52 PM Author: lex "you are taking the delusion at face value and participating in it, as is perhaps your nature as someone used to forging friendships through intellectual activity as it is. you have to look past the delusion, and resist your own nerdy tendencies." harsh but fair. in retrospect, yeah. i wanted to extend the principle of charity, but i was either wrong from the start here or at least took it too far, taking her completely at face when she described what sorts of things she said she wanted in a relationship. if you're right more generally, that is depressing. this is innocence's end for me, in a sense. i hope you're not. |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:41 AM Author: ataraxic when you find the right romantic relationship, you will see that this is not necessarily depressing. it will be one that seems boring from the outside and different from what you might have envisioned but it will feel right precisely for that reason, because your pleasure will reside merely in being within it, not forging things out of it. it will be the background to your life's efforts, not their object, and that is right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157760) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:34 AM Author: posting in histrionic thread If you think this is a loss of innocence, you have no idea of what kind of innocence you can lose with women (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157824) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:23 AM Author: rapemaxxing self-help eBook Cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157744) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:31 AM Author: tim heidegger sex has to be the foundation. coexisting harmoniously/synergistically is the next level up, and the realistic ceiling. transcendent and mutually enlightening intellectual/spiritual/etc bonding can happen, but it's incredibly rare, and impractical to actively seek. sorry lex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157752) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:11 AM Author: rapemaxxing self-help eBook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157793) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:37 AM Author: the cathedral of light dating an mba shrew over 30 from hinge is gayer than doing poppers and getting sodomized by dozens of faggots with full blown aids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157758) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:03 AM Author: maine is 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157783) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:52 AM Author: lab tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157831) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:46 AM (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157764) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:18 AM Author: lex while i'm being self-indulgent (i'm on a streak, i'll just own it), i think what i liked about her was her image of herself. she presented herself as someone spiritually dead trying to make a more meaningful life after career advancement started to plateau and increasing the dragon's horde wasn't satisfying. i didn't pick a buddhist text randomly. i have my own philosophical views and they are far from undeveloped, but she made a point of choosing that as a religion and complained that she never actually got around to reading the heart sutra, and communicating that this was who she wanted to be in her imagining of her new life. i liked that. i actually really liked that. she wanted to have a creative life as well, but didn't really know how to approach it besides taking (what i'm guessing were overpriced) painting classes. so i wrote a story in my head about broken people complementing each other's brokenness in an interesting way. in the end, i liked my story. i took the idea of dating as seeking a connection at face. i'm an idiot, then. yet i still don't want to kill whatever bit of whimsy or sincerity led me here, even if just in this weeklong fling. so then what do i want? what's realistic to expect? i certainly don't want to daddy around some young girl for the rest of my 30's, and i'm not jaded enough to take the rapepill. just... chill and let something work out once i can meet someone who is actually more compatible with my disposition -- more mundanely, someone that's more bohemian or nerdy (whatever that means for a 30-something) and less shrewy, and accept that any depth to those similarities in personality is just that, superficial at first and perhaps even long-term? fuck. this was all easier when i was young and drunk. |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:21 AM Author: Gay Grandpa Your overthinking it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157809) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:23 AM Author: lex can't help it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157812) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:29 AM Author: the cathedral of light lol painting class.
people should learn something before they try to be "creative."
typical wine shrew bs.
painting? can she even DRAW? (she can't) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:31 AM Author: lex she couldn't even frame a landscape shot well with her iphone on a hike. painting was not her strong suit, to put it lightly. but i'm a shitty poet and trying to get better, and i took her at her word that she wanted to develop something. but yeah in retrospect, lol at painting class as a first impulse. |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:48 AM Author: Ax https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6VOiw7kdeA&t=33s (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157830) |
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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:30 AM Author: evan39 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310895",#48157818) |