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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:37 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio Years of unresolved issues coming to a head. We're going to give it one last shot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130185) |
Date: September 11th, 2026 3:38 PM Author: Cheese-eating sandwich just go to therapy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130189) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio We've been in therapy for 6 months (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130197) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: Cheese-eating sandwich what does that cost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130210) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio $300/session + a marriage because I don't think it's helping at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130214) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: Cheese-eating sandwich is parking free at least? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130226) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio MFH (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130233) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:47 PM Author: Cheese-eating sandwich can you street park or do you need to do a garage? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130237) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:49 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio We don't drive to therapy. We can walk/cab/subway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130240) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:49 PM Author: Cheese-eating sandwich subwaying to therapy tp? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130242) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio Not bad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130243) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:52 PM Author: Cheese-eating sandwich do you have to get a babysitter for the kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130253) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:54 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio Wtf is this line of questions (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130257) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:55 PM Author: Cheese-eating sandwich just trying to help. where are the kids while you are at therapy? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130259) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:03 PM Author: Rickys' Cat you sound super AI, poaster. State your composition before we engage you further (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135172) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:27 PM Author: chocolate infuriating university lol u deserve everything u get for agreeing to mossaderapy u spineless fag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130335) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:26 PM Author: indigo depressive background story tiNtcr!!!
Marriage counselors are just the HR department for the modern misandry industry. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:21 PM Author: coral misunderstood kitty cat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130466) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 2:12 PM Author: Goy Debord (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135255) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:38 PM Author: talented karate abode how fat is she (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130191) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio She is 5'4"/120lbs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130195) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: Heady Partner You need to suck it up and fuck her more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130194) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:40 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio We fuck like 3x/month. You're probably right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130201) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: Heady Partner Try it. Eventually you'll like it and your ballz will feel better too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130207) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:24 PM Author: maniacal floppy dragon national security agency happy wife = lay the pipe. it's not complicated (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130328) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: bearded native love of her life Jesus Christ, you’re only 38? You’re young, brother. You have your whole life in front of you. Don’t waste the opportunities presented. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130196) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: Cheese-eating sandwich dont be a dick man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130199) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: bearded native love of her life I’d give up a lot to be 38 again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130211) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio Taking advice on what you would do if you were 38 again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130247) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio Young attractive women love divorced 38 years olds (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130203) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:07 PM Author: Bateful Milk School Cafeteria in eastern europe it's a plus, yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130699) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:40 PM Author: violet hell Blow that Nigga head smoove off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130200) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: self-centered space nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130206) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: Laughsome flickering address wrinkle marriage is a giant mistake and should be outright banned for loser clique members (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130209) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: electric roommate *all of humanity (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130216) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio I should have been gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130245) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: beady-eyed drab church building Crazy how we’re all still 38 but turning 42 in a few months. Age is flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130212) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio I turn 40 next year FMA (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130217) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: beady-eyed drab church building Congrats. Gorgeous age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130222) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio 30s have been gay af tbh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130228) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:51 PM Author: Excitant Lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130249) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: Motley buff giraffe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130231) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:58 PM Author: supple base feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130263) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:21 PM Author: Saffron racy tanning salon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130465) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: trip bearded gas station describe problems (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130218) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio You could boil it down to communication. We don't get along. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130225) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:54 PM Author: Vibrant Area how did you not realize this before marriage? or she changed a lot? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130256) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:01 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio Seems like she suppressed her disagreeable side until after marriage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130272) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:05 PM Author: Heady Partner She just wants more dicking down. Get back in there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130280) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:10 PM Author: Laughsome flickering address wrinkle women aren't like that. trust me, i know these things (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130291) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:15 PM Author: disrespectful digit ratio You are a redpill/incel guy? Running 2014 schtick? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130302) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:29 PM Author: Laughsome flickering address wrinkle big talk from someone with a failing marriage 🤣 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130343) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:56 PM Author: Titillating Market (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130401) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:12 PM Author: 180 Painfully Honest Stag Film Being this age is so weird. You see people experiencing the exact same thing you did. But when it happened to you it came out of nowhere. After your inevitable divorce, you'll see the same pattern you're experiencing happen to tons of other guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130714) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:55 PM Author: Insane Mischievous Bawdyhouse Tattoo Many such cases. If you don’t have kids, just gonna say divorce is 180. If she sucks now she is only going to suck worse in the future. If you can still exit and find a less awful 🐦🧠 (I know, I know), consider it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130260) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:48 PM Author: Just your average poaster I'm sure it's great on the other side. Lots of guilt and regret at this point. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135220) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:23 PM Author: Excitant Lay Tension is good you’re just not fucking her and then you’re trying to close tension loops with talking and “communicating”
All gay, be seen less and go talk to other women irl so she can sense it on you
Women can only love you in your absence get away from her and maybe start cheating a bit to strengthen your relationship dynamic
Also I would say she’s very likely already cheating or has her backup monkey branch on deck so you need to be the one creating the push pull dynamic as you’re deep into hers just solely by going to Jewish therapy daycare horseshit
Women can only experience power dynamics through abuse and control mechanisms, you are in a cycle that she has created and now she has no interest since you can no longer polarize her feminine retardation by being outside of the insane retard birdbrain abuse mechanism
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:29 PM Author: twinkling factory reset button sweet tailpipe He needs to be dicking her down and using her like a whore (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130348) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:03 PM Author: Just your average poaster We fucked twice this weekend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135079) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:02 PM Author: Just your average poaster She's 100% not cheating and I highly doubt she has a backup monkey branch on deck but thx for the toxicity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135078) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 7:47 PM Author: Ricky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135986) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:13 PM Author: a New York Times analysis of Reddit posts Incredible poast/moniker synergy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135184) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:04 PM Author: Razzmatazz place of business I’m in a happy marriage with a 40 year old woman. Give me your issues and I will advise (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130277) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:47 PM Author: bright indecent jewess im gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130388) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:03 PM Author: Razzmatazz place of business Me too brother — did you miss where I said I was married to a 40 yr old woman? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130422) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:07 PM Author: amethyst temple dingle berry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130431) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:29 PM Author: coral misunderstood kitty cat 1. I dislike the overuse of this trope, but it's fitting here and I can't believe no one has said it yet: poast/moniker synergy
2. Kids? How long have you been married?
3. Do you want to save the marriage?
4. To what extent are the issues your fault? Hers? Both?
5. My only advice is that people almost never meaningfully change. If anything, they just become more of who they already are. So, you can accept whatever is going on and work within the confines of that reality. Or, you can hit the bricks. Just don't expect her to start "communicating" better or whatever. LJL at that. One caveat is that having young kids is stressful, and people get back to more of a baseline once they're a little older. (Is that applicable to you?) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:06 PM Author: Just your average poaster No kids yet thankfully. Married a couple years. I want to save it some days and ready to burn it down and rebuild others. We are equally at fault here - I should have been more proactive about things, she withheld a lot to get the ring.
Your advice echoes advice from my closest friends: either pick her and the relationship as it is now or get out. |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:29 PM Author: ;::;:;;::;;;;;:::: no kids? RNR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135194) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:42 PM Author: Just your average poaster RNR? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135214) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:53 PM Author: a New York Times analysis of Reddit posts run, n——, run (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135224) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 2:09 PM Author: Nazca Redlines First, thank God that you don't (yet) have kids with her.
Anyway, what exactly is the problem? Is it something that can reasonably be solved or that you can deal with? If not, count yourself as lucky you're finding out now and not something that you're stewing on at 3 am while changing your baby's diaper. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:08 PM Author: Bateful Milk School Cafeteria lesbians have the highest divorce rates. women can't stand women either (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130703) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:16 PM Author: Excitant Lay She’s out there getting FFFFFFFFFffffFFFfffFffffffffffuuuuuuuuuuccked right now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50130726) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 11:50 PM Author: Slate Concupiscible Deer Antler give yourself a chance to love her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50131226) |
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Date: September 12th, 2026 4:11 PM Author: ,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,,..,.,.,.,.,..,.,, (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50132151) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:11 PM Author: Brussels Sprout (Apropos of the Wet Snow) dying would be less painful than what you will live to tell about (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135098) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:29 PM Author: CDC Director Joseph A. Ladapo perimenopause is disastrous, and it's accelerating because of birdbrains consuming online content about how they should all leave their husbands (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2\u0026mark_id=5310918#50135128) |