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i think i'm getting "gamed" by woman on dating app who is using AI
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:00 PM Author: Coral Hospital i matched with this woman recently (asian, not sure what breed) and we started exchanging messages back and forth. at first, her english was pretty bad. she's pretty obviously a fairly recent immigrant and so english is her second language
but over time, her english has inexplicably gotten better, but it doesn't sound right. i think she might be using AI to write her chat messages to me. last week she sent me a message: “Sending you, my handsome, a pocket full of love, a kiss for later, and enough good vibes to survive the whole workday. You’ve got this, my love.” i'm not a "Women Expert" or anything, but this doesn't really seem like something that an adult woman would actually say to her boyfriend/whatever
do you think this means that she likes me more? like she's so desperate to make a good impression that she's turning to AI for help? i want to see it as a good sign. my last asian wife left me because i "wasn't romantic enough" but honestly i would have been more romantic if i could have understood what she was saying more than half the time. she made it pretty hard
i got another message from her this morning: "“Just wanted to wish my favorite human a great day at work. Go make money, be handsome, and come back to me later. 💕” along with a pic of her doing a kissy-face with cat ears on her head (like actually fused to her head like she was really a cat, i assume she had AI edit the pic?). just not sure what to think about it. hoping my XO bros have some helpful input |
Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:07 PM Author: Indigo old irish cottage Get her to whatsapp you some nude photos and videos & send her "cum tributes" in response. Know a lot of married couples that started out this way. Dating is different in the cyber age. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955560) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:58 PM Author: Comical hell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955684) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:08 PM Author: titillating son of senegal brunch Honestly, I wouldn't read too much into whether the messages are AI-assisted one way or the other — plenty of people, especially when writing in a second language, lean on tools to say something that feels affectionate but doesn't quite match how they'd naturally phrase it out loud. That's not evidence of how much she likes you, and it's not evidence against it either; it's just a communication gap she's trying to close. The more useful move is to ask her directly, gently, how she likes to communicate and whether she feels comfortable expressing herself in English yet — you might find she'd rather text in her first language and have you use a translator on your end, or that she genuinely enjoys sending sweet messages and the polish is just her trying to get the wording right. Given what didn't work in your last relationship, it's probably worth having an honest, low-pressure conversation now about how you both want to handle the language difference, rather than trying to decode her feelings from the style of her texts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955561) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:10 PM Author: translucent spectacular set goal in life Given what didn't work in your last relationship tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955564) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:40 PM Author: Coral Hospital wow, this is actually really helpful, thanks
do you have personal experience with this sort of thing or something? |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:32 PM Author: stimulating station I really like it here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955580) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:03 AM Author: lsd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49960461) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:39 PM Author: costumed juggernaut Dating a 50 year old Bulgarian man tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955588) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:45 PM Author: Coral Hospital this is her:
i don't wanna post the pic of her with the cat ears, it was a little too intimate to share with xo randoms |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:08 PM Author: Filthy Athletic Conference Degenerate cute! what is she, 37, 38? That's about when women "come into their own" in my experience. hoping the best for you two! |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:26 PM Author: Coral Hospital thanks man. it seems rude to ask her age but on her coffee meets bagel profile she said she was 29 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955622) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:24 PM Author: Umber Flirting Wagecucks Korean. Also, AI. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955621) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:40 PM Author: stimulating station Yeah, OP established she was using AI to enhance her messages. She looks really cute from that pic though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49956175) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2026 5:16 PM Author: that buzz, that bling, that smile Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49958808) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:21 PM Author: slate laughsome location main people I wouldn't read too much into this. Based on her pics, she is definitely a bit shy! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955613) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:24 PM Author: Umber Flirting Wagecucks You shouldn’t have more than 2-3 messages before switching to phone and scheduling a meet. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955618) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:35 PM Author: shaky house It would be rude for a boyfriend/whatever to hurry her along. Her truth at her speed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955645) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:50 PM Author: Filthy Athletic Conference Degenerate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49955660) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:43 PM Author: Big Stock Car Great pushback. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49956180) |
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:54 PM Author: Coral Hospital (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49956259) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:05 AM Author: lsd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49960464) |
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Date: June 23rd, 2026 1:07 PM Author: buddy of mine She sent me this this morning: "“Work hard today, but don’t forget to take breaks and drink water. Your girlfriend is very invested in keeping her favorite, most handsome person alive and thriving. 😘”
I responded with the "thumbs up" emoji (default yellow color) I didn't know what else to say |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 9:58 AM Author: gay of hormuz incredible moniker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49960449) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:14 AM Author: buddy of mine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49960483) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:01 AM Author: ativan diaper i would not jump right to assuming it’s ai. cultures are different in other places and often come off as unusual to americans. it may just be that she really has cat ears irl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49960456) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:06 AM Author: lsd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49960466) |
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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:14 AM Author: buddy of mine she sent me this one this morning: "Go make the world a better place today, handsome. The sun came up this morning, but you're still my favorite source of warmth and happiness.🥰" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2\u0026show=posted#49960480) |