Not flame, back in Massachusetts I once let a half filipino guy named Jeremy Bonilla suck my limp dick out of pity (I literally could not get hard with him touching me). Years later, I was in an incel Discord server and I mentioned him without last name. Suddenly, everyone went 'JEREMY? JEREMY BONILLA? JEREMY BONILLA SUCKED A TRANNY?'
It turned out he was some kind of a hero in the incel community for having raped a woman at some point. I destroyed his rep forever. Crazy coincidence.