You hear about all these teachers getting arrested for fucking their students but probably 95% never get caught. I was in this situation a few times and each time the women would get right up to the edge of breaking the law but left it up to me as the male to "make the move". Then I felt guilty and like I was responsible. Now looking back I couldn't actually consent to kissing and mutual hand stuff from a 40 year old divorced woman with bony cold hands who wore a bath robe and had wine breath at 2 pm when i was sent to her house to fix her computer for my HS work study job and she showed me nude pics of alanis morrisette and asked if i was "excited' by them when I was a 6' tall 17 year old who scored a kickoff return TD in a varsity football game. I felt guilty and perverted for years u til I realized I was the victim. She'd come to our track meets and cheer me on and I went back to her house a few times to get victimized. She was a predator