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I married a top – but now he wants to be a bottom

I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. ...
Lime legend
  05/14/24
Pipe dream.
Stimulating bronze filthpig piazza
  05/14/24
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  05/15/24
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Disgusting floppy market really tough guy
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'married'
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  05/15/24
Mods.
Balding Olive Stage Sandwich
  05/14/24
Time to man up, doobs
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  05/14/24
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Lime legend
  05/15/24
totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout.
Cracking Corner
  05/15/24
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Angry Coffee Pot
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  05/29/24
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  05/15/24
Summon UES jew
Lime legend
  05/15/24
top burnout tp
Mischievous out-of-control ticket booth cuckoldry
  05/15/24
How do you address it? I'm a top btw
Lime legend
  05/15/24
Prep
Mischievous out-of-control ticket booth cuckoldry
  05/15/24
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electric step-uncle's house regret
  05/15/24
Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence
Indigo Whorehouse Cuckold
  05/15/24
Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can ge...
Lime legend
  05/15/24
does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my...
Cracking Corner
  05/15/24
this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw
Angry Coffee Pot
  05/15/24
my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental heal...
Cracking Corner
  05/15/24
Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn'...
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ebony well-lubricated stock car multi-billionaire
  05/15/24
honey i can't, my top burnout.
Cracking Corner
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  05/29/24
"in pursuit of a pipe dream " can someone exp...
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  05/15/24
The grody old top will NEVER be a twink bottom
Lime legend
  05/29/24
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  05/15/24
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Lime legend
  05/29/24
this didn't get enough lulz, deserves to be a yuge meme.
Cracking Corner
  05/29/24


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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:17 PM
Author: Lime legend

I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. We have always been in an open relationship: we met at a sex party. When we met I was always a bottom and he a top. Over time, however, he has become obsessed with bottoming. He never penetrates me, even in a group, and has starting expressing jealousy about the tops that I attract. I feel he is throwing our life away in pursuit of a pipe dream and I long to get back the dominant top that I married – a role he is suited for physically. He has been looking at escort websites, which I find depressingly inevitable. How can I wake him up to reality?

Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence and it can lead to a shift in a person’s power exchange preferences, usually temporarily. This is less likely to happen when partners switch, exchanging roles from time to time, but clearly that is not for you. It might be wise to relax about this and try to tolerate – even support – his period of exploration. In fact, dominance and submission are not so different; just polarised aspects of the same erotic style. So some tops frequently fantasise about bottoming but are not prepared to practise it – and vice versa. The top usually does most of the work: initiates, arranges the scene, toys and so on, so your husband may want a break from the responsibility. I can understand your disappointment and fear of losing your preferred sexual style, but people and relationships change and evolve over time so it would be best to talk patiently and lovingly with your husband – without reproaching or blaming him – about what he is feeling and the reasons for this change. You need to understand each other. Gently express your sadness about the potential loss you are facing. Then do your best to show that you love and support him.

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:21 PM
Author: Stimulating bronze filthpig piazza

Pipe dream.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:38 AM
Author: Brindle splenetic brethren address

ran here

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:28 PM
Author: Disgusting floppy market really tough guy



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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM
Author: talented organic girlfriend

'married'

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 PM
Author: Frum personal credit line halford

(bigot who doesn’t respect gay open marriages with 20+ year age gaps)

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM
Author: Balding Olive Stage Sandwich

Mods.

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:22 PM
Author: Sienna Razzmatazz Temple

Time to man up, doobs

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 AM
Author: Lime legend



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:41 AM
Author: Cracking Corner

totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM
Author: Angry Coffee Pot



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:03 PM
Author: Indecent doobsian giraffe native



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 AM
Author: Laughsome locus faggot firefighter

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:14 AM
Author: Lime legend

Summon UES jew

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:31 AM
Author: Mischievous out-of-control ticket booth cuckoldry

top burnout tp

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:37 AM
Author: Lime legend

How do you address it? I'm a top btw

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:39 AM
Author: Mischievous out-of-control ticket booth cuckoldry

Prep

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:15 PM
Author: electric step-uncle's house regret



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: Indigo Whorehouse Cuckold

Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663757)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: Lime legend

Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can get a conversation started

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:27 PM
Author: Cracking Corner

does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my wife.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM
Author: Angry Coffee Pot

this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:33 PM
Author: Cracking Corner

my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental health issues until one day his health teacher talked about top burnout. realizing that he didn't *always* have to top was such a huge relief. there's so much social pressure on boys to dominate each other. toxic masculinity! ever since he started bottoming he's more relaxed and we're seeing a dramatic improvement in his grades.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663863)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:36 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sanctuary Volcanic Crater

Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn't very understanding

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663869)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:06 PM
Author: ebony well-lubricated stock car multi-billionaire



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:50 PM
Author: Cracking Corner

honey i can't, my top burnout.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665876)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 PM
Author: narrow-minded exciting institution private investor



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:05 PM
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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:07 PM
Author: naked twinkling uncleanness space

"in pursuit of a pipe dream "

can someone explain

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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:09 PM
Author: Lime legend

The grody old top will NEVER be a twink bottom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47700990)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:13 PM
Author: Lime legend



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:03 PM
Author: Lime legend



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:07 PM
Author: Cracking Corner

this didn't get enough lulz, deserves to be a yuge meme.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47700987)