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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:14 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Comp gonna scratch 7 figures - vs my 150k government job.
Quit and stay at home dad? |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 11:49 AM Author: tan internet-worthy filthpig abode I would. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46131689) |
Date: March 31st, 2023 11:15 PM Author: french pozpig isn't that extremely emasculating for you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126845) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:16 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Should I give a shit? I dont. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126849) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:17 PM Author: french pozpig most men like retaining dignity but if you don't more power to you, might as well do nothing with your life and ride on her success (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126857) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:33 PM Author: vermilion faggot firefighter lol at this. if i could do this i would in a second. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126955) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:47 AM Author: Beta blue idea he suggested gaping cr, he should wagecuck much harder so as to retain his “dignity” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127626) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:51 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Exactly. I am lolyer and could lateral out of public interest and make more. Why? We dont need the money, my wife loves her job and I dont like to wagecuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127635) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:10 AM Author: Big sadistic university party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127791) |
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Date: April 15th, 2023 7:17 PM Author: twinkling wagecucks juggernaut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46190211) |
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Date: July 28th, 2023 3:17 PM Author: jet razzle-dazzle gay wizard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46601677) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:28 PM Author: Stirring embarrassed to the bone mental disorder school A real man is secure enough in himself to know he brings more to the table than just money do it doesn't matte whether the woman makes more. Do you think women care how much money a 6'4 jacked handsome firefighter has? Of course not. Only ugly manlets use money to make themselves attractive to women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126922) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:48 PM Author: Sooty diverse bbw stage in California women specifically seek to marry firefighters for pension $$$$ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127028) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:53 AM Author: bright excitant old irish cottage In NY and CA that jacked firefighter makes $150K+ and works 8 days a month. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127900) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 3:05 PM Author: violent frum blood rage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128627) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:09 PM Author: kink-friendly nofapping indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46130111) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:16 PM Author: fantasy-prone scourge upon the earth Time for full on dick in pussy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126848) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:16 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin unnnngghhhhhhh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126852) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:50 AM Author: slippery godawful turdskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127631) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:59 AM Author: fantasy-prone scourge upon the earth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127934) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:16 PM Author: Jade greedy den psychic do not sahd whatever you do. trust me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126853) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:17 PM Author: charcoal outnumbered background story fortuitous meteor 180, congrats. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126860) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:19 PM Author: racy police squad Hope she's ready for the traditional new female partner bukkake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126870) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:25 PM Author: razzmatazz olive feces How old are the kids? Who usually takes care of them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126899) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:53 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Elementary school, nanny (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127049) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:57 PM Author: razzmatazz olive feces You’re living like a god. Enjoy it and make sure your wife has great life insurance (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127065) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:59 PM Author: confused judgmental pervert mad-dog skullcap cr then kill wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46129620) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:25 PM Author: french pozpig OP wants to be WFH Dad and is already trying to have an indoor pool installed.
LMAO, what a pathetic "man" |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:54 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Yeah, what a bitch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127052) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:25 PM Author: onyx federal crackhouse crotch No you should not give a shit at all. That is 180. You hit the lottery. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126904) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:35 PM Author: ultramarine heaven 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126964) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:35 PM Author: Jet-lagged theater gunner how many kids do you have? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126968) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:54 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin 3 little boogers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127051) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:36 PM Author: vermilion faggot firefighter do you enjoy your job at all? if so, then stay around. if not and you can occupy your time in a productive manner (ie, not sit around drunk) then quit. congrats! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46126971) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:53 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Im an HYS lawyer in a public interest job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127046) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:08 AM Author: vermilion faggot firefighter nonresponsive, although i suspect your job is tolerable. do you LIKE it, like do you enjoy doing what you do and you'd do it even if you had to take less money?
i am a partner at a large firm and some mornings i do not wan tto get out of bed. for that reason i am figuring out my exit from firms. (i was in biglaw and generally did like it, but even there i would have quit if i could have.) so if you were in my circumstances, i'd tell you 100% SAHD.
i think the question really is are you "wagecucking". i am, but if you're liking what you do, i would say you aren't. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:12 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin I dont like working, the government sucks, but people ITT are correct that at least having a job is worth something and its a bit of a leap to go purely SAHD. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127796) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:23 AM Author: vermilion faggot firefighter here is what i would do. quit your job. take a few months off to be SAHD and just chill out. then find something you really WANT to do that could also be a job. start down the path of doing that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127822) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 5:16 PM Author: Jet-lagged theater gunner I would go SAHD if she were to finance everything like a man would. if she’s gonna be a primitive resource collector and use you as cheap labor but you can’t be a full chad dad then fuck that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128954) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:49 PM Author: insecure tanning salon shes cheating on u regularly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127032) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:50 PM Author: rebellious idiot marketing idea sounds like it's a win win for him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127040) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:37 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin I doubt it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127614) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:40 AM Author: slippery godawful turdskin cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127616) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:53 PM Author: Marvelous space SAHD sounds awful. I like WFH but with my wife as a SAHM. Actually having to do all the childcare is killself territory, esp if kids are young. My impression is most dudes would hate it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127050) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:56 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin My kids are all in elementary school - it would mostly be manage the house (we have a historic old home) and then after school, coach soccer, shuttle the kids, do homework, dinner and put them down. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127060) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:58 PM Author: Marvelous space Pathetic if you don’t have a job at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127069) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:58 PM Author: razzmatazz olive feces You should be doing a lot of that anyway since you have a chill job. It’s 180 to be loved and adored by your kids especially if your wife is always working. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127072) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:00 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin I do. I cook most of the dinners, do most of the driving and take care of night shit. My wife is rarely home before the kids are in bed while I am off at 5 at the latest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127081) |
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Date: March 31st, 2023 11:58 PM Author: yapping spectacular orchestra pit corn cake does she resemble kim wexler in behavior and looks? plz describe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127070) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:01 AM Author: metal hissy fit you need to have a consultation NOW with the nastiest divorce lawyer in your county. understand how to build your record so that in 3-4 years when you drop the papers you will be set.
just kidding. congrats. enjoy it. and congrats to her. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:05 AM Author: Hyperventilating ruddy keepsake machete Jk but you should talk to divorce lawyer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127104) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:06 AM Author: yapping spectacular orchestra pit corn cake 180 moniker holy shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127107) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:45 AM Author: histrionic market ape (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127622) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:48 AM Author: Ruby mischievous mad cow disease toaster Location? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127627) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:55 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Major market east coast suburb (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127647) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:49 AM Author: histrionic market ape This thread is depressing.
OP is fucked no matter what. No realistic way out of this.
I just hope OP is really a.female and is switching genders to avoid drawing too much attention to herself as a fempoaster. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:52 AM Author: Beta blue idea he suggested gaping Are either of you jewish? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127637) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:54 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin No, straight wasp. She has a religion too which is why all the divorce chatter is laughable. Not happening. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127644) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:58 AM Author: histrionic market ape Mormon?
There are literally no other straight up wasps left in the US. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:00 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin In that range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127656) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:06 AM Author: histrionic market ape MFCR.
If Mormon that actually changes my whole analysis.
Ypure in good shape if so. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:53 AM Author: bateful brass gas station death wish You would need to fuck the shit out of her daily. Like zero communication, 100% dick in pussy, every single time you saw her. This is the ONLY way this will work. This is legal advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127641) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:56 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Well, she travels 25-40%. And when not traveling I am usually crashed when she gets home. Mostly see her weekends and some evenings. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127649) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:01 AM Author: bateful brass gas station death wish Yeah then quit. She won't respect your 125 gig anyway. Better to not have two masters. Never EVER speak to this woman again. Solely fuck. Source: the only person on this board who understands women. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 3:04 PM Author: bateful brass gas station death wish Another *only* cr goes ignored on favor of utter tripe and ignorance. Steez? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128623) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:56 AM Author: lascivious cheese-eating international law enforcement agency 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127648) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:59 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin My only mistake was becoming a lawyer. All the talk of being emasculated or whatever by not working doesnt apply to this broken profession. I am doing society a favor by taking one more lawyer out of the market. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127655) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:04 AM Author: lascivious cheese-eating international law enforcement agency Cr. If we could live on my wife's salary or I had the ability to make money doing something else I'd quit law in a heartbeat. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127661) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:51 AM Author: 180 rambunctious office jewess “That’s the secret, Cap. I’m always emasculated.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127891) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 1:35 PM Author: lascivious cheese-eating international law enforcement agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128374) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:19 PM Author: Chrome beady-eyed shrine azn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46130192) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 8:57 AM Author: histrionic market ape OK OP.
I figured out your best way out of this conundrum.
You need to get into real estate. Specifically, start by using your wife's money to buy the cheapest small property within 30 minutes of where you live.
Contract the renovation yourself learning as much as possible.
Flip.
You may lose money, but who gives a shit. This is just to learn.
Do it again until you're good at it.
Then start renting them out.
Use.ypur wife's money to build a nice little real estate empire.
Get your contractors license while your at it. Do some contracting work on the side so you can keep your subs happy.
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:01 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin We own 8 properties and rent. Two are local and maintenance falls on me for those - part of the tradeoff with my 30-hr a week job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127658) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:05 AM Author: histrionic market ape Great. Will be much easier to get wife on board.
Do the same thing, but just with a renovation of whatever property you have that's next vacant.
Sell the non-local ones and 1031 into something close by. You're new job is real estate. You want something you can manage.
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I have a bad feeling this kind of long term goal oriented behavior is going to be anathema to someone who works in. Government. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 9:03 AM Author: Ebony fat ankles friendly grandma thats some king shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127659) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:12 AM Author: vermilion faggot firefighter this thread is a very good illustration of the mental illness on display on this boart. the place collectively goes on and on about how wagecucking and working for someone else is for suckers, etc. then OP points out that he's in a position where he might be able to quit his job, and at least half the poasts are from faggots calling him a faggot for even considering not having a job.
there are so many loser faggot haters here. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:17 AM Author: Mind-boggling Dark Masturbator Business Firm Working sucks. Having a woman be your master also sucks.
Life sucks. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:22 AM Author: vermilion faggot firefighter see, this poast is a good example of what i said.
this guy HIT THE LOTTERY, which someone pointed out above, and here you are going "yeah, i mean i guess you don't have to work but this also sucks."
fuck out of here with that. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 10:36 AM Author: Azure appetizing station electric furnace He can divorcepwn his wife, she ain’t his master (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127843) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 11:25 AM Author: Vigorous Dead French Chef hell yeah (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46127989) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 11:51 AM Author: ivory philosopher-king liquid oxygen i like the real estate idea. your wife is probably a battle axe and it sounds like she works all the time. but overall this is better than your wife *not* making partner. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128079) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 12:11 PM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin For a while, she’s made it clear she considers my job more of a hobby/inconvenience than anything that contributes. If I stayed at it, I would to deal with basically taking all the family tasks anyway, I would never get her to prioritize my job over hers or the family stuff, and I dont think it earns me much respect anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128128) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 11:20 AM Author: ivory philosopher-king liquid oxygen that doesn't sound like a healthy attitude from your wife. i guess if you're looking for our permission to SAHD, ok. i would honestly review the divorce laws in such a situation just to build a record, just in case. no one ever expects things to fail. can you coach kids sports? or get involved in something that involves masculine leadership (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46131604) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 1:39 PM Author: Fishy laughsome nursing home Nice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128388) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 2:18 PM Author: Motley Twinkling Uncleanness Famous Landscape Painting now is a perfect opportunity to life frugally before the kids get truly expensive. you could consider rolling back to part-time or maybe if nothing else is feasible, you become an SAHD for 4-5 years. maybe you can find something full-time remote.
that way you can fire the nanny and the kids get a better childhood with someone around during the early developmental stages. once they are approaching high school and will be bratty and have social demands, you guys can settle somewhere cheaper with a nice $$$ situation from your wife grinding partnership for years.
what you don't want to do is continue toiling something like 40 hours a week at a go-nowhere job while she's making seven figures. in addition to the fact that this scenario often drives a wedge into marriages IME, it will handcuff you to her salary once the kids are older and expensive private schools, college, housing, etc all starts to blow you out. you will be able to afford it but she'll have to continue working.
stack cash for as long as it works, then both get out and move somewhere you like but cheaper and easier. you keep practicing so you can have some semblance of a career and she will be able to get something lucrative but not to scale with what she was doing. then you can both have a more chill and balanced lifestyle as your kids become more independent. and the money will be all good. if she has some trajectory after paying back in or whatever needs to happen and you're not getting wrecked by lifestyle creep wherever you are, you could put away several million easily and be very comfortable for the next phase. |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 7:57 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin She fucking loves her job. Lives for it. She isnt leaving and we arent moving unless she gets canned which isnt likely.
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Date: April 1st, 2023 3:11 PM Author: fragrant infuriating property roast beef Will you have your own money or will it strictly be her money? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128640) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 3:20 PM Author: rusted boiling water corner What is the outlook on her comp as a first year partner vs next and in 5, 10 years?
Partners now can make like legit rich incomes of $4-6 million *average* at the top 30 shops. |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 5:13 PM Author: vermilion faggot firefighter (guy who calls law firms "shops") (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128943) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 7:54 AM Author: Slimy green sanctuary foreskin Without too many details, she is in a firm/practice area that caps much lower. Probably in the 1-2 range for the foreseeable future. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46131206) |
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Date: April 2nd, 2023 6:01 PM Author: vermilion faggot firefighter your wife's deal is a basket full of 180s. i was a partner at BAKER AND HOSTETLER in dc and not flame i was in my fifth year as a partner and i made 350k. i wish i were kidding but i am not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46133248) |
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Date: July 28th, 2023 5:13 PM Author: impressive sickened halford church Thank you for your honesty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46602176) |
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Date: April 1st, 2023 4:52 PM Author: grizzly address deer antler Go into politics (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46128879) |
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Date: July 28th, 2023 5:12 PM Author: glittery degenerate spot Update: he's divorcing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5316776&forum_id=2#46602171) |