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Rant: Dating the “nice guy” will suck the life out of you.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1kitqq8/ra...
cowgod
  05/10/25
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cowgod
  05/12/25
That was profoundly retarded. Thank you
fulano
  05/12/25
Aren’t you a Woman or something
cowgod
  05/12/25
Why are you so offensive to people on here
fulano
  05/12/25
Is Woman an insult?
cowgod
  05/12/25
What is a Woman but a disgrace to God? Go read genesis champ
fulano
  05/12/25
Just calling a spade a spade, champ
cowgod
  05/12/25
now you are calling me a nigger? seek help. I am in ONE cliq...
fulano
  05/12/25
You're a Scumloser a la Shamwow Vince imho
cowgod (retired)
  05/12/25
Now I'm a jewish negroid woman? Can you see how you look ins...
fulano
  05/12/25
Ever hear of Ethiopian Jews you toxic queer? Just kidding. L...
Lawrence, of Arabia
  05/12/25
Much like "being nice," being a woman on Reddit is...
disco fries
  05/12/25
Whatever you do is also performative. You should be on ozemp...
cowgod
  05/12/25
No doctor would prescribe it to me.
disco fries
  05/12/25
You're supposed to go to a medical doctor, not a Juris Docto...
cowgod (retired)
  05/12/25
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Oh, you travel?
  05/12/25
Literally any of them would at your weight unless you have s...
cowgod
  05/12/25
Spend 5 minutes there and you’ll quickly see why Trump...
Dickey Simpkins
  05/12/25
wtf would 1910s legislators say if they could see us today? ...
cowgod
  05/12/25
Ya, my ex husband was super nice, very generous and outgoing...
Long Red Poon Tie Covering Your Wang
  05/12/25
sophism so they have an excuse of hooking up with the f-boy ...
\"''"\'""\''\"\''"\'
  05/12/25
skimming that just shows why for 99.99% of human history eve...
AZNgirl putting Dad on Indian Air Force Jet
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butt cheeks
  05/12/25
So I know I'm engaged to Brian and he has a steady job and l...
evan39
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\"''"\'""\''\"\''"\'
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AZNgirl putting Dad on Indian Air Force Jet
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Paralegal Mohammad
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butt cheeks
  05/12/25
JFC
Long Red Poon Tie Covering Your Wang
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evan39
  05/12/25
muxcode • 3d ago It's true, but also the term "...
michael doodikoff
  05/12/25
Triette • 3d ago My nice guy ex was just that. No un...
michael doodikoff
  05/12/25
lol, she’s FUMING mad that he got married
Dickey Simpkins
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stock market
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Trump Tariffs Can Do No Wrong
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\"''"\'""\''\"\''"\'
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ceci n'est pas un avocat
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Long Red Poon Tie Covering Your Wang
  05/12/25
See also: https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=34721...
stock market
  05/12/25
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Peter Brady
  05/12/25
GaymoSexual • 3d ago I used to be an admin for a dat...
michael doodikoff
  05/12/25
Alive_Way8189 • 2d ago My ex fiance was a nice guy...
michael doodikoff
  05/12/25
StaticCloud • 2d ago "Nice" men end up psy...
michael doodikoff
  05/12/25
Tbf this is the “twoXchromosomes ” subreddit
stock market
  05/12/25
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butt cheeks
  05/12/25
lmao @ what they tell themselves
butt cheeks
  05/12/25
beingleigh • 1d ago Ya, my ex husband was super nice...
Diamond Dallas Trump
  05/12/25
He leads with empathy everyday, he tells coworkers not to us...
AZNgirl putting Dad on Indian Air Force Jet
  05/12/25


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Date: May 10th, 2025 9:04 PM
Author: cowgod ( )

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1kitqq8/rant_dating_the_nice_guy_will_suck_the_life_out/

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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:27 AM
Author: cowgod ( )



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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:31 AM
Author: fulano

That was profoundly retarded. Thank you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923271)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:32 AM
Author: cowgod ( )

Aren’t you a Woman or something

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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:33 AM
Author: fulano

Why are you so offensive to people on here

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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:42 AM
Author: cowgod ( )

Is Woman an insult?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923283)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:18 AM
Author: fulano

What is a Woman but a disgrace to God? Go read genesis champ

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923330)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:03 PM
Author: cowgod ( )

Just calling a spade a spade, champ

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924098)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:09 PM
Author: fulano

now you are calling me a nigger? seek help. I am in ONE clique - LOSER - and that is where I will remain for eternity

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924114)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:11 PM
Author: cowgod (retired) (🧐)

You're a Scumloser a la Shamwow Vince imho

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924123)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:13 PM
Author: fulano

Now I'm a jewish negroid woman? Can you see how you look insane

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924129)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:57 PM
Author: Lawrence, of Arabia (SSPX Masterman- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم )

Ever hear of Ethiopian Jews you toxic queer? Just kidding. Love you bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924312)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:39 AM
Author: disco fries (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage)

Much like "being nice," being a woman on Reddit is performative.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923278)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:43 AM
Author: cowgod ( )

Whatever you do is also performative. You should be on ozempic imho btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923285)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:44 AM
Author: disco fries (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage)

No doctor would prescribe it to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923287)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:56 AM
Author: cowgod (retired) (🧐)

You're supposed to go to a medical doctor, not a Juris Doctor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923294)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:45 AM
Author: Oh, you travel? ( )



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:10 AM
Author: cowgod ( )

Literally any of them would at your weight unless you have some ruinous disease that means side effects would kill you or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923316)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:49 AM
Author: Dickey Simpkins

Spend 5 minutes there and you’ll quickly see why Trump had huge success with male voters, many of whom had previously voted liberal for years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923290)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:11 AM
Author: cowgod ( )

wtf would 1910s legislators say if they could see us today? They probably thought things would just stay The Same no matter what in the future imo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923319)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:55 PM
Author: Long Red Poon Tie Covering Your Wang

Ya, my ex husband was super nice, very generous and outgoing but I realized over time it was alllll for show. He’d buy rounds and rounds of drinks, would give expensive gifts, would bring good wine over to friends places etc. It was always for an audience in order to get praise.

My partner now is very thoughtful, is generous but in a quieter way, he’s helpful without being overbearing, on a number of occasions he’s gently (and not so gently) explained how a friend or coworker was being misogynistic/racist/homophobic/transphobic in a way that he actually helped them open their minds more. He is genuinely sweet to all servers, store workers etc. He leads with empathy everyday. He’s truly my soft place to land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924304)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:13 AM
Author: \"''"\'""\''\"\''"\'

sophism so they have an excuse of hooking up with the f-boy and yet wonder why they keep getting used as a cum rag

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923324)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:17 AM
Author: AZNgirl putting Dad on Indian Air Force Jet

skimming that just shows why for 99.99% of human history every civ on earth restrained women from having any opinions or thoughts

birdshits still dont get it, u actually have to get rid of dating altogether in its current form, at most it can be a semi arranged marriage thing where friends or better yet parents/family set ppl up and they are expected to stay together and get married

giving women any sense of "agency" is just a clownshow, they cannot handle it, they need to be told what to do and have sustained deep social pressure to not become whores

"conturds" in the west still dont admit this though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923327)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:42 PM
Author: butt cheeks (✅🍑)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:30 AM
Author: evan39

So I know I'm engaged to Brian and he has a steady job and like supports us and pays for my Lexus but I'm totally at a point where I'm like bored with him like where's the excitement I know I'm not supposed to like quote unquote bad boys but Chad is really sweet and like really cares and has a naughty side that I never get with Brian did you know Stacey hooked up with Chad too he's such a player anyways I think I might have made a mistake with Brian but he's so thoughtful and even sent me flowers on my birthday did you know I blew Chad in his truck we almost got caught but like I was saying Brian is a great guy I totally get that and he pays my credit cards and flew us to Hawaii and paid for my student loans and pays for the condo but I still feel like I need some adventure in my life and Brian just isn't that person I mean don't get me wrong I hope Brian finds that perfect woman but I can honestly say that I'm not that person did you know Chad has a huge tattoo on his arm that has like a cross and the name of his baby you know the one that died and Chad still takes care of his ex but he's not hooking up with her or anything like that because Chad respects me and would never violate the boundaries of our relationship and yeah I know he was like in jail and has some skeletons in his closet but who doesn't right anyway I know Brian still thinks we're going to get married but I'm just not ready for that hold on Chad is texting me I think he's coming over did Brian leave for work yet Chad can't come over until Brian leaves.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48923352)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:32 AM
Author: \"''"\'""\''\"\''"\'



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:34 AM
Author: AZNgirl putting Dad on Indian Air Force Jet



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Date: May 12th, 2025 8:34 AM
Author: business dad (gunneratttt)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:07 PM
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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:10 PM
Author: Paralegal Mohammad



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:44 PM
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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:46 PM
Author: Long Red Poon Tie Covering Your Wang

JFC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924268)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 12:53 PM
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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:33 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

muxcode

3d ago

It's true, but also the term "nice guy" is fast going the way of "incel". Becoming a sort of a meme for a particular kind of guy.

Incel now only means men who take out their anger over being single by blaming women, rather than just someone who is socially or circumstantially unlucky in ever finding a relationship.

Nice guy, going from being a guy who treats women well, into a meme for being a guy with entitlement for how he treats women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924208)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:34 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Triette

3d ago

My nice guy ex was just that. No underlying layers, nothing below the surface, just….nice. No passions, no ambitions, no hobbies other than camping. He wore (and still does) flip flops a T-shirt and cargo pants, had milk crates for a bedside table, etc. Yes he was nice but my god was he boring, a wet blanket if you will. We broke up and he met a girl a week later who is also just nice they got married and their life looks so f’ing boring.

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LogicalStomach

2d ago

He sounds shallow, passive, and not very bright.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924213)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:44 PM
Author: Dickey Simpkins

lol, she’s FUMING mad that he got married

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924252)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:45 PM
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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:46 PM
Author: Trump Tariffs Can Do No Wrong (TDNW)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:52 PM
Author: \"''"\'""\''\"\''"\'



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:52 PM
Author: ceci n'est pas un avocat



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:54 PM
Author: Long Red Poon Tie Covering Your Wang



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:59 PM
Author: stock market

See also: https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3472136&mc=99&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924318)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 2:05 PM
Author: Peter Brady



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:35 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

GaymoSexual

3d ago

I used to be an admin for a dating website. the term nice guy in your profile would put you in a queue to review your profile. From my experience. Nice Guys are either scammers, bots, or misogynists.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924215)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:35 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

Alive_Way8189

2d ago

My ex fiance was a nice guy. He even had the audacity to rant to me early in our relationship about how he never had any luck in relationships because nice guys finish last. We were actively dating when he said this to me. The whole time we were together, on paper he was perfect but something was always off. Ultimately he never prioritized me or us, it was always his idea of what people wanted, or this imaginary ideal relationship that he was always going for. When I finally left him my stress and anxiety immediately decreased so much. Every time I talked to him, it was like he sucked all the energy and joy from my soul. I was his emotional regulation.

TLDR: nice guys suck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924216)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:37 PM
Author: michael doodikoff

StaticCloud

2d ago

"Nice" men end up psychologically abusing you or calling you a fuckhole. Or rape you. Yeah there's a reason why dating isn't that interesting to me anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924222)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:44 PM
Author: stock market

Tbf this is the “twoXchromosomes ” subreddit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924254)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:45 PM
Author: butt cheeks (✅🍑)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 1:45 PM
Author: butt cheeks (✅🍑)

lmao @ what they tell themselves

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924259)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 2:00 PM
Author: Diamond Dallas Trump

beingleigh

1d ago

Ya, my ex husband was super nice, very generous and outgoing but I realized over time it was alllll for show. He’d buy rounds and rounds of drinks, would give expensive gifts, would bring good wine over to friends places etc. It was always for an audience in order to get praise.

My partner now is very thoughtful, is generous but in a quieter way, he’s helpful without being overbearing, on a number of occasions he’s gently (and not so gently) explained how a friend or coworker was being misogynistic/racist/homophobic/transphobic in a way that he actually helped them open their minds more. He is genuinely sweet to all servers, store workers etc. He leads with empathy everyday. He’s truly my soft place to land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924321)



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Date: May 12th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: AZNgirl putting Dad on Indian Air Force Jet

He leads with empathy everyday, he tells coworkers not to use the "nigga" word tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5723413&forum_id=2#48924342)