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The Everyday Of Keeping House From Turning Into A Shithole Is So Exhausting

it's so easy to let the house become a complete shithole, an...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
Translation: "I'm a filthy inbred jewish dumbass living...
Trip lodge trump supporter
  01/20/26
poor rc? translation: i stress out and drive myself craz...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/20/26
This is why you need a housekeeper you have sex with
mahogany titillating circlehead dysfunction
  01/19/26
it's horrible enough having our redneck nanny around for 6 h...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
you need to upgrade- au pair style
mahogany titillating circlehead dysfunction
  01/19/26
our house isn't big enough. it's 2800 SF, but only 4 bedroom...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
don't you live in are country? why is your home so small?
Crystalline laughsome sanctuary
  01/19/26
that's the typical house around where our are country shul i...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
they don't clean your house though
Federal Dog Poop Water Buffalo
  01/19/26
eventually you just stop trying and accept you'll do a gut r...
Low-t goal in life clown
  01/19/26
your kids will be able to do it soon enough
zombie-like forum
  01/19/26
doesnt seem on the horizon. they absolutely trash their play...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
How old are they? You can get them involved by making cleani...
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  01/19/26
recently 5 and 3. we do stickers/treats for cleaning up, but...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
Your 5 year old puts away toys at school so they can put awa...
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  01/19/26
amen
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cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
wah wah wah u pedo faggot
misanthropic pit knife
  01/19/26
we must imagine sisyphus happy
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  01/19/26
:(
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  01/19/26
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chrome galvanic dopamine space
  01/20/26
Just give yourself breaks, order takeout sometimes so you do...
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  01/19/26
tbf, we have plenty of breaks -- my parents watch them a ton...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
Yeah we just gave up and have been living in absolute squalo...
Bonkers greedy sex offender
  01/19/26
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chrome galvanic dopamine space
  01/20/26
Some people are giving you shit, but it is true. A lot of li...
Khaki mischievous trailer park
  01/19/26
exactly. now imagine some other random shit comes up, furthe...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
I don't know your whole story, but if your wife also works t...
Khaki mischievous trailer park
  01/19/26
yes, we both work. both wfh which makes the grind much bette...
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  01/19/26
You're in a great situation. Just try to focus on how lucky ...
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  01/19/26
that's the scary think -- we're in a better position than mo...
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  01/20/26
Why do you hate it so much? Is it making it impossible to fi...
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  01/20/26
*poasting
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/20/26
You can drop your squalor off at my place. I don't mind
Fuchsia Box Office Shitlib
  01/19/26
"slavery" theyre youre kids u faggot
misanthropic pit knife
  01/19/26
i have robots that clean almost everything every day robo...
Pea-brained lay becky
  01/19/26
a robot cant do 95% of the shit i identified in the OP
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/19/26
stop bitching like a fucking woman to a support group u fuck...
misanthropic pit knife
  01/19/26
thats life man, u either do it or raise ur kids to think bei...
Pea-brained lay becky
  01/19/26
Do air purifiers help with dust? I am in a never-ending batt...
Appetizing gas station
  01/20/26
im gonna be honest i have no clue i have the best hvac fi...
Pea-brained lay becky
  01/20/26
where does all this fucking dust come from? i dont have pets...
Appetizing gas station
  01/20/26
Human skin cells, apparently.
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/20/26
dare i say ... TP?
Startling boyish shrine
  01/19/26
You could probably afford to pay a house manager 60-70K per ...
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  01/19/26
rofl no. this is 3-4 different employees (maid, nanny, chef,...
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  01/20/26
It's not that hard for one person to pick up and drop off yo...
Godawful Heady National Security Agency
  01/22/26
that's normal stuff lol I thought this would be about actual...
Doobsian contagious den boiling water
  01/19/26
Millennial wives do like 25% of housework imo
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  01/20/26
as i said above, add in random repairs and other random shit...
cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage
  01/20/26
Don't jews like living in filth anyway?
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  01/20/26
absolutely. i refuse to. i cant stand it.
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  01/20/26
I don’t follow. Aren’t you Jewish? Why don&rsquo...
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  01/20/26
I used to try and rely on wife... now just pay consuela to s...
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  01/20/26
monasticism is the way
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  01/20/26
You should get rid of the nanny. It’s fucking disgrace...
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  01/20/26
wife makes too much to quit her job. the "cleaning&q...
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Date: January 19th, 2026 4:35 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

it's so easy to let the house become a complete shithole, and it's exhausting to keep up with it.

just seems like a never ending hamster wheel to prevent the house from going to hell, and wastes so much precious time at the end of the workday.

it's all little stuff but it all adds up. loading and unloading dishwasher, cleaning the shit that doesnt go in the dishwasher, wiping down the kitchen countertops, sweeping/vacuuming under where the kids eat, opening delivery boxes and putting shit away, breaking down the boxes and taking them to the garbage, taking the garbage out on trash days etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601767)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 3:19 AM
Author: Trip lodge trump supporter

Translation: "I'm a filthy inbred jewish dumbass living in a pigsty hovel"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602987)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 4:31 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

poor rc?

translation: i stress out and drive myself crazy to make sure i dont live in a pigsty hovel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49604276)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 4:52 PM
Author: mahogany titillating circlehead dysfunction

This is why you need a housekeeper you have sex with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601817)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 4:55 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

it's horrible enough having our redneck nanny around for 6 hrs a day. cant imagine having live-in help.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601826)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 4:56 PM
Author: mahogany titillating circlehead dysfunction

you need to upgrade- au pair style

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601827)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:02 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

our house isn't big enough. it's 2800 SF, but only 4 bedrooms, and the baby is already in the 3rd car garage which is our gym. there's nowhere to put an au pair.

and then i cant walk around in my boxers, i cant just speak racist all the time, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601842)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:04 PM
Author: Crystalline laughsome sanctuary

don't you live in are country? why is your home so small?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601850)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

that's the typical house around where our are country shul is. it's actually on the bigger side

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601852)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:03 PM
Author: Federal Dog Poop Water Buffalo

they don't clean your house though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601848)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:00 PM
Author: Low-t goal in life clown

eventually you just stop trying and accept you'll do a gut reno at some point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601838)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:00 PM
Author: zombie-like forum

your kids will be able to do it soon enough

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601839)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:03 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

doesnt seem on the horizon. they absolutely trash their play area and i have to yell at them to clean it up. they eventually do it after tons of fighting and pushback and stalling and dicking around. it'd be easier to just do it ourselves, but that doesnt teach them. i dont see them being neat on their own anytime oson.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601847)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:44 PM
Author: Godawful Heady National Security Agency

How old are they? You can get them involved by making cleaning up their toys fun and like a game. Or help them make a chore list and give them some kind of modest allowance or treat to incentivize cleanliness. Don't give in to your own laziness and allow them to be messy and lazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602564)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:47 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

recently 5 and 3. we do stickers/treats for cleaning up, but they still take forever and fight it.

i'm stubborn and don't give in. it's a struggle.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602570)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:49 PM
Author: Godawful Heady National Security Agency

Your 5 year old puts away toys at school so they can put away toys at home too. Give your kids some discipline now or they'll be absolutely out of control when they're older.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602582)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:03 PM
Author: Federal Dog Poop Water Buffalo

amen

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601846)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 6:32 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602054)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 5:11 PM
Author: misanthropic pit knife

wah wah wah u pedo faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49601863)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:35 PM
Author: Ivory Tripping Faggot Firefighter

we must imagine sisyphus happy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602535)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:41 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602553)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:23 AM
Author: chrome galvanic dopamine space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603073)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:47 PM
Author: Godawful Heady National Security Agency

Just give yourself breaks, order takeout sometimes so you don't have to clean up so much, get a housekeeper every few weeks. It's not so bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602574)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:53 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

tbf, we have plenty of breaks -- my parents watch them a ton. we're extremely lucky in that respect. and it's STILL a fucking grind. i dont know how 2 income families who dont have the help we do even survive.

a housekeeper coming every other week doesnt deal with the daily grind.

takeout? rofl there's no kosher restaurants here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602596)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:48 PM
Author: Bonkers greedy sex offender

Yeah we just gave up and have been living in absolute squalor for the past 6 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602578)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:12 AM
Author: chrome galvanic dopamine space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603063)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:52 PM
Author: Khaki mischievous trailer park

Some people are giving you shit, but it is true. A lot of life is really just low level maintenance to keep things running in some way shape or form. Easy to go crazy when you look at the full picture:

--Need to get 7+ hours of sleep to have energy for the day

--Need to go to a gym to do exercise to stay physically fit (because your job is sitting in front of a screen all day)

--Need to eat healthy food and possibly even track what you eat to stop from getting a gut

--Need to cook your meals (to stay healthy and manage spending) which means you have to clean dishes and all that bullshit

--Need to clean up around the house so it doesn't get out of hand

--Need to clean up after your kids

--Oh wow would you look at that its 10pm. Better get to sleep so you can do it all over again tomorrow!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602593)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 9:56 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

exactly. now imagine some other random shit comes up, further wasting your time. plus we have a baby.

wife and i have decided not to sacrifice on any of those things -- we both want to be healthy and well rested, and not live in squalor. it's exhausting.

wife feels like she barely has any quality time with the kids, and the evenings with them are just us engaged in slavery to feed them and get them ready for bed and in bed and to clean up their toys.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602603)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:03 PM
Author: Khaki mischievous trailer park

I don't know your whole story, but if your wife also works then it is truly a grind. To your earlier point, no clue how two income households make it work with minimal outside help. I do think some people are just "built" to have kids and big families to some extent.

The plus side is that once the kids hit a certain age, it will chill out. Lots of ultra concentrated effort for a relatively short time that reaps big benefits for everyone over the long haul. Obviously that doesn't make it less unpleasant when you're stacking the dishwasher for the 9,000th time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602626)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:07 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

yes, we both work. both wfh which makes the grind much better. plus we have a home gym. so easier to eat healthy lunches and work out.

and as mentioned above, we have lots of family help. it's still an insane grind.

im hoping it chills out soon. the baby stuff is obviously making things worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602638)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:49 PM
Author: Godawful Heady National Security Agency

You're in a great situation. Just try to focus on how lucky you are to be able to WFH and not commute to an office on top of all the other stuff you're responsible for.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602710)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:46 AM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

that's the scary think -- we're in a better position than most, and it's still an exhausting hamster wheel just to remain healthy, well rested and not have the house go to shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603093)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:17 AM
Author: Deep big genital piercing home

Why do you hate it so much? Is it making it impossible to find time for Gaming?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603064)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:46 AM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

*poasting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603094)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: Fuchsia Box Office Shitlib

You can drop your squalor off at my place. I don't mind

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602633)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:07 PM
Author: misanthropic pit knife

"slavery"

theyre youre kids u faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602639)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:00 PM
Author: Pea-brained lay becky

i have robots that clean almost everything every day

robot vacuum, robot window washer, robot toilet cleaner, air purifiers for dust, robot lawn mower, robot shower cleaner, then its just a few things to do everyday and the maid does the rest once a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602613)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:02 PM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

a robot cant do 95% of the shit i identified in the OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602620)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:07 PM
Author: misanthropic pit knife

stop bitching like a fucking woman to a support group u fucking pedo faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602642)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:10 PM
Author: Pea-brained lay becky

thats life man, u either do it or raise ur kids to think being a pig is normal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602648)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 8:35 AM
Author: Appetizing gas station

Do air purifiers help with dust? I am in a never-ending battle and as soon as I vacuum it’s dusty again the next day. I even have the most expensive HVAC filters too. Which purifiers do you recommend?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603146)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 8:54 AM
Author: Pea-brained lay becky

im gonna be honest i have no clue

i have the best hvac filters, i also have a purifier installed in the hvac system, and a purifier on each floor

i still have to dust once a week, no pets

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603164)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 9:33 AM
Author: Appetizing gas station

where does all this fucking dust come from? i dont have pets either! i dont wear shoes in the house, the windows havent even been opened...what the fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603221)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 9:38 AM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

Human skin cells, apparently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603226)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:02 PM
Author: Startling boyish shrine

dare i say ... TP?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602623)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:52 PM
Author: Godawful Heady National Security Agency

You could probably afford to pay a house manager 60-70K per year to take over all those repetitive tasks like cleaning, grocery shopping, organizing your house, cooking, dropping off and picking up your kids, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602718)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:48 AM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

rofl no. this is 3-4 different employees (maid, nanny, chef, house manager). no one person is gonna do all that shit properly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603095)



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Date: January 22nd, 2026 12:24 PM
Author: Godawful Heady National Security Agency

It's not that hard for one person to pick up and drop off your kids at school/daycare, grocery shop, cook, and clean up. That's a full day of work. You could just order out or use another meal prep service if you don't trust the person's cooking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49608709)



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Date: January 19th, 2026 10:52 PM
Author: Doobsian contagious den boiling water

that's normal stuff lol I thought this would be about actual repairs does your wife not do anything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602719)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:19 AM
Author: Deep big genital piercing home

Millennial wives do like 25% of housework imo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603065)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:49 AM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

as i said above, add in random repairs and other random shit that inevitably comes up to the regular stuff.

wife does a ton too. works full time plus is constantly nursing our 6 month old baby, plus has her own hamster wheel of feeding the kids dinner, policing the dinner, making kid's lunch for school the next day, getting kids in pajamas and teeth brushed and to bed, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603099)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 12:45 AM
Author: Bright supple tank

Don't jews like living in filth anyway?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49602909)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:50 AM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

absolutely. i refuse to. i cant stand it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603100)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 4:19 PM
Author: Bright supple tank

I don’t follow. Aren’t you Jewish? Why don’t you enjoy a filthy hovel?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49604230)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 3:54 AM
Author: High-end obsidian wagecucks fanboi

I used to try and rely on wife... now just pay consuela to show up at least once a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603000)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:23 AM
Author: Jade confused site

monasticism is the way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603072)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:32 AM
Author: Orange psychic resort

You should get rid of the nanny. It’s fucking disgraceful that you have some stranger raising your kids. Get housecleaning help instead. At one point we had someone coming every day for half a day to clean. Then backed off to 3 days per week, now once a week. It’s money well spent and you’re not outsourcing your most important jerb

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603083)



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Date: January 20th, 2026 7:52 AM
Author: cracking big-titted roast beef theater stage

wife makes too much to quit her job.

the "cleaning" that housekeepers do isnt the day to day household help that we need help with. we have a good maid who cleans the bathrooms. bathrooms dont need to be cleaned every day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824017&forum_id=2#49603103)