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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
honey-headed crackhouse
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
provocative mint site
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Histrionic Main People Mood
  06/28/25
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Ebony duck-like boltzmann
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
underhanded immigrant
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
orange university
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
Adventurous Rusted Public Bath Electric Furnace
  06/28/25
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diverse idiot
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
Territorial slate library
  06/28/25
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Deep sexy fanboi kitchen
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
navy laser beams theater stage
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
Ebony duck-like boltzmann
  06/28/25
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cracking school cafeteria
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
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white stimulating locale sex offender
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appetizing hominid volcanic crater
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useless garrison national security agency
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
provocative mint site
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
metal knife meetinghouse
  06/28/25
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diverse idiot
  06/28/25
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useless garrison national security agency
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
metal knife meetinghouse
  06/28/25
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seedy fiercely-loyal halford
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Thriller puppy menage
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
glittery lettuce plaza
  06/28/25
nobody cares
diverse idiot
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
swollen spot pistol
  06/28/25
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Deep sexy fanboi kitchen
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
up-to-no-good multi-colored nursing home son of senegal
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
swollen spot pistol
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
offensive codepig
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
appetizing hominid volcanic crater
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
glittery lettuce plaza
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
Deep sexy fanboi kitchen
  06/28/25
a jew
glittery lettuce plaza
  06/28/25
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diverse idiot
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
plum pocket flask
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: honey-headed crackhouse

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: provocative mint site

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Histrionic Main People Mood

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: Ebony duck-like boltzmann



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: underhanded immigrant

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: orange university

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Adventurous Rusted Public Bath Electric Furnace

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: diverse idiot



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: Territorial slate library

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: Deep sexy fanboi kitchen



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: navy laser beams theater stage

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: Ebony duck-like boltzmann

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: cracking school cafeteria



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: glittery lettuce plaza

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: white stimulating locale sex offender



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: appetizing hominid volcanic crater



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: useless garrison national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: provocative mint site

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: metal knife meetinghouse

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: diverse idiot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: useless garrison national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: metal knife meetinghouse

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: seedy fiercely-loyal halford



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Thriller puppy menage

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: glittery lettuce plaza

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: diverse idiot

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: swollen spot pistol

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: Deep sexy fanboi kitchen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: up-to-no-good multi-colored nursing home son of senegal

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: swollen spot pistol

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: offensive codepig

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: appetizing hominid volcanic crater

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: glittery lettuce plaza

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: Deep sexy fanboi kitchen

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: glittery lettuce plaza

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: diverse idiot



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: plum pocket flask

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2#49056402)