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Please tell me the how much harder it is with kid #2

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bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
How close in age
flesh cracking tattoo
  06/23/25
a little under 2 years. current one is 1.
bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
Start pulling back on the amount of attention kid #1 gets no...
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
just put her in her pen and ignore her?
bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
Basically.
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
ur fucked. Toddler + infant is the most difficult combo. It ...
racy lodge
  06/24/25
Depends on how neurotic and/or retarded you and/or wife are....
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
this is a forum full of lawyers everyone here is at least on...
Slate market idea he suggested
  06/23/25
FALSE. I am neither neurotic nor retarded. (Same for wif...
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
sorry brother but your writing itt smacks of "retarded&...
Slate market idea he suggested
  06/23/25
That's my autism. I am EXTREMLY autistic.
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
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talented thirsty old irish cottage spot
  06/23/25
wife is neither neurotic nor retarded. i definitely am both.
bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
If you're neurotic, everything will always suck for you no m...
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
lmao thanks. honestly.
bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
YOU'RE FREE
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
...
talented thirsty old irish cottage spot
  06/23/25
wow
Gaped locale jap
  06/23/25
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Copper galvanic patrolman crackhouse
  06/24/25
Step up is wildly overstated ime
exhilarant submissive principal's office
  06/23/25
totally depends on the kid/age gap. 0 to 1 was a life change...
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
How old is your first? I'd suggest waiting till he or she i...
cobalt bipolar hissy fit university
  06/23/25
TERRIBLE ADVICE. Close in age the better.
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
...
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
I know whereof I speak. I'm sure twins, even Irish twins, a...
cobalt bipolar hissy fit university
  06/23/25
extremely oriental poast
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
Sounds like you're a neurotic faggot and you rationalize you...
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
So what, you're assuming OP has perfect genes? I'm sure he'...
cobalt bipolar hissy fit university
  06/23/25
Point is that all of these little details when raising kids ...
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
This is just pronatalist wishful thinking. Lots of little t...
cobalt bipolar hissy fit university
  06/23/25
It's a type of control falacy. Parents tend to assume th...
Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office
  06/23/25
This is a total lie, based on no evidence, spread by people ...
cobalt bipolar hissy fit university
  06/23/25
This was not true at all in my experience
Insane school electric furnace
  06/24/25
rofl terrible advice
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
see above. a little under 2 years apart. my wife should have...
bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
2 is better than 1 once the younger is past something like 3...
Contagious field
  06/23/25
(Psychopath)
Sooty orchestra pit
  06/23/25
Immeasurably harder. You’ll be shell shocked.
Electric mischievous forum mood
  06/23/25
Play zone defense, not man to man
exciting factory reset button
  06/23/25
proles keep saying zone defense, esp with 3, and i dont even...
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
Instead you should be playing box and 1. (Guess who's who.)
cobalt bipolar hissy fit university
  06/23/25
I guess the point is don't have daddy focus on 1 kid while m...
exciting factory reset button
  06/23/25
this would seem to be about giving both kids attention from ...
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
its the difference between man v cover 3.
Contagious field
  06/23/25
once again, ur playing offense much more than defense. feedi...
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
Got damn man, your aspergers is off the charts
exciting factory reset button
  06/23/25
yes, but can we also agree that the zone defense thing is du...
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
...
Contagious field
  06/23/25
man to man meaning ie dad tends to the boy, mom focuses on t...
Contagious field
  06/23/25
ur poast doesnt account for how people say you can play man ...
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
jfc, kys. now.
Contagious field
  06/23/25
done
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
Much harder than going from zero to one. I laugh whenever pa...
Heady center
  06/23/25
can you expound as to the first sentence? also, what should...
bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
rofl 1 kid is a million times worse than a dog
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
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Pea-brained lascivious mad cow disease
  06/23/25
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Clear sinister national security agency toilet seat
  06/23/25
1 kid is a vacation
Vengeful trip heaven karate
  06/24/25
I have two 19 months apart. The new baby will be significant...
Clear sinister national security agency toilet seat
  06/23/25
how do u deal with kid 1's jealousy?
bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
She just got super attached to her mother, because in her mi...
Clear sinister national security agency toilet seat
  06/23/25
Our oldest was 2, had zero attachment issues and was basical...
Insane school electric furnace
  06/24/25
"man to man coverage" the millennial faggot told h...
Onyx abode famous landscape painting
  06/23/25
...
filthy dilemma
  06/23/25
Okay i lol’d
Copper galvanic patrolman crackhouse
  06/24/25
0 to 1 was a much bigger change than 1 to 2, but probably ha...
talented thirsty old irish cottage spot
  06/23/25
It shouldn't be that much harder given that (i) You shou...
Vigorous boltzmann whorehouse
  06/23/25
1-3 kids is easy. 4 and up is very difficult at times.
magenta point
  06/23/25
just a reminder that if you take any advice from xo seriousl...
Slate market idea he suggested
  06/23/25
i've made major life decisions based on the bort and they've...
bearded circlehead
  06/23/25
so did nyuug
Slate market idea he suggested
  06/23/25
Your free time is done here, but it’s 180. Knock her ...
Sooty orchestra pit
  06/23/25
after you rape your first one, the rest come easily
Comical windowlicker
  06/24/25
Have 2 kids about 2 years apart and the oldest is preschool ...
Insane school electric furnace
  06/24/25
We have 1 and a dog and it is hard but manageable. A second...
Dark Gaming Laptop
  06/24/25


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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:31 PM
Author: bearded circlehead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043896)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:33 PM
Author: flesh cracking tattoo

How close in age

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043899)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:43 PM
Author: bearded circlehead

a little under 2 years. current one is 1.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043926)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:45 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

Start pulling back on the amount of attention kid #1 gets now.

Multiple kids is easy AF if the kids learn to entertain themselves.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043943)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: bearded circlehead

just put her in her pen and ignore her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043949)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:48 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

Basically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043956)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:32 AM
Author: racy lodge

ur fucked. Toddler + infant is the most difficult combo. It is exponentially harder with there never being a free set of hands.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49045693)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:35 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

Depends on how neurotic and/or retarded you and/or wife are.

If neither of you is neurotic or retarded, it's not materially harder than 1 kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043902)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:38 PM
Author: Slate market idea he suggested

this is a forum full of lawyers everyone here is at least one of those things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043914)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:39 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

FALSE.

I am neither neurotic nor retarded. (Same for wife).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043915)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:01 PM
Author: Slate market idea he suggested

sorry brother but your writing itt smacks of "retarded"--it just has that classic "self-assured retard" quality to it. on the plus side that means you're the happy kind of retard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043989)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:02 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

That's my autism. I am EXTREMLY autistic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043996)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:27 PM
Author: talented thirsty old irish cottage spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044095)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:43 PM
Author: bearded circlehead

wife is neither neurotic nor retarded. i definitely am both.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043930)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:44 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

If you're neurotic, everything will always suck for you no matter what. So just roll with it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043935)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:45 PM
Author: bearded circlehead

lmao thanks. honestly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043942)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:47 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

YOU'RE FREE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043953)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:27 PM
Author: talented thirsty old irish cottage spot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044097)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:45 PM
Author: Gaped locale jap

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043944)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:47 AM
Author: Copper galvanic patrolman crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49045731)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: exhilarant submissive principal's office

Step up is wildly overstated ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043905)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:37 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

totally depends on the kid/age gap. 0 to 1 was a life changer, and 1 to 2 was easy. #1 was a difficult baby and #2 was an easy baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043907)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:43 PM
Author: cobalt bipolar hissy fit university

How old is your first? I'd suggest waiting till he or she is 4 years or older. You're setting up your two oldest to have a bad relationship if Mom is having to take care of a newborn when your 2-3-year-old is still wanting lots of attention. I've seen this happen in a couple of families.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043925)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:44 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

TERRIBLE ADVICE.

Close in age the better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043934)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: filthy dilemma



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043945)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: cobalt bipolar hissy fit university

I know whereof I speak. I'm sure twins, even Irish twins, are fine, but the 2-3-year age gap is rough, because the oldest is still at that age that they want Mom's undivided love, but they're old enough to remember when they did have it, so they feel they're being screwed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043948)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:47 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

extremely oriental poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043951)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:51 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

Sounds like you're a neurotic faggot and you rationalize your genetically-determined shitty personality by blaming your parents for not giving your enough attention.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043960)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: cobalt bipolar hissy fit university

So what, you're assuming OP has perfect genes? I'm sure he's a nice guy but let's be real.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043971)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

Point is that all of these little details when raising kids do not end up mattering. What matters is: (1) Genetics, (2) exposure to toxins, and (3) avoiding real hardcore abuse.

The only other "environmental" factor that really matters is the shared environment (eg. culture kid is raised in).

Everything other than that that parents can control is meaningless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043978)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:04 PM
Author: cobalt bipolar hissy fit university

This is just pronatalist wishful thinking. Lots of little things, including birth order, affect life outcomes. Higher birth order is associated with slightly lower IQ; a male child who has more older brothers is more likely to be homosexual. And you're ignoring how genetics and environment can interact; by your own argument, a baby genetically predisposed to be highly neurotic is more likely to be traumatized by non-abusive but adverse environmental factors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044003)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:04 PM
Author: Free-loading internet-worthy friendly grandma box office

It's a type of control falacy.

Parents tend to assume that because they have a lot of control over the minutiae of their kids day-to-day lives, the minutiae actually has a material impact on the kids development. It doesnt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044004)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:13 PM
Author: cobalt bipolar hissy fit university

This is a total lie, based on no evidence, spread by people who just want women to pop out more babies to prop up the welfare state.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044032)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:41 AM
Author: Insane school electric furnace

This was not true at all in my experience

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49045715)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

rofl terrible advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043946)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: bearded circlehead

see above. a little under 2 years apart. my wife should have some help. her mother. at least one live in nanny. maybe another nanny during the day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043947)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:04 PM
Author: Contagious field

2 is better than 1 once the younger is past something like 3-4 because they will play with each other, esp if they are boy/boy or girl/girl. everything is easier after the initial years with 2 because the sibling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044000)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:32 PM
Author: Sooty orchestra pit

(Psychopath)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044280)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:44 PM
Author: Electric mischievous forum mood

Immeasurably harder. You’ll be shell shocked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043936)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:49 PM
Author: exciting factory reset button

Play zone defense, not man to man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043957)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:51 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

proles keep saying zone defense, esp with 3, and i dont even know wtf this means. maybe im too aspie. i feel like it's just something proles say to be cute.

you're playing much more offense with kids than you are playing defense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043961)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: cobalt bipolar hissy fit university

Instead you should be playing box and 1. (Guess who's who.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043966)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: exciting factory reset button

I guess the point is don't have daddy focus on 1 kid while mommy focus on the other. Switch it up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043970)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:55 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

this would seem to be about giving both kids attention from both parents, and it's not clear how that applies to 3 kids.

and this doesnt seem to cover the defense aspect.

but maybe im just being aspie.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043975)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:00 PM
Author: Contagious field

its the difference between man v cover 3.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043983)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:02 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

once again, ur playing offense much more than defense. feeding them getting them dressed, getting teeth brushed, getting them loaded up and into the car, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043992)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:04 PM
Author: exciting factory reset button

Got damn man, your aspergers is off the charts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044002)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:05 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

yes, but can we also agree that the zone defense thing is dumb

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044011)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:06 PM
Author: Contagious field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044014)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:06 PM
Author: Contagious field

man to man meaning ie dad tends to the boy, mom focuses on the girl more. playing zone means both parents zone cover all the kids. this isnt that hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044013)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:10 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

ur poast doesnt account for how people say you can play man to man with 2 but you need to play zone defense with 3. it also doesnt account for 2/3 of the same gender.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044022)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:10 PM
Author: Contagious field

jfc, kys. now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044024)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:14 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

done

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044035)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: Heady center

Much harder than going from zero to one. I laugh whenever parents of only children complain; it’s about the same as a high-maintenance dog.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043969)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:59 PM
Author: bearded circlehead

can you expound as to the first sentence?

also, what should i do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043980)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:01 PM
Author: filthy dilemma

rofl 1 kid is a million times worse than a dog

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49043988)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:54 PM
Author: Pea-brained lascivious mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044164)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 10:00 PM
Author: Clear sinister national security agency toilet seat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044344)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:31 AM
Author: Vengeful trip heaven karate

1 kid is a vacation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49045689)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:25 PM
Author: Clear sinister national security agency toilet seat

I have two 19 months apart. The new baby will be significantly easier, but the challenge comes from dealing with jealousy/attachment issues from the older kid and learning how to manage both at the same time. You’ll also be in uncharted territory with the oldest and figuring out potty training sleep regression and general brattiness you haven’t experienced before. Just remember that it’s all just phases and the kid will move onto the next thing in 30-60 days usually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044085)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:29 PM
Author: bearded circlehead

how do u deal with kid 1's jealousy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044101)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:50 PM
Author: Clear sinister national security agency toilet seat

She just got super attached to her mother, because in her mind the little one usurped all the attention. For us it never manifested in any negative behavior towards her sister but it wore on my wife’s patience and it’s never any fun to feel rejected by your kid. You kinda just have to talk them through it and be firm whenever the tantrums get past a certain level. As with most things half the battle is staying on the same page with your wife and just accepting the kid preferred her attention until they grow out of it. You’re getting a double whammy of the terrible twos, which are annoying to begin with plus managing the changes to the household. Just don’t let the kid run the show and be patient

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044151)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:38 AM
Author: Insane school electric furnace

Our oldest was 2, had zero attachment issues and was basically just obsessed with the baby/thought of herself as a second mom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49045708)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:28 PM
Author: Onyx abode famous landscape painting

"man to man coverage" the millennial faggot told his wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044099)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:39 PM
Author: filthy dilemma



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044124)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 12:22 PM
Author: Copper galvanic patrolman crackhouse

Okay i lol’d

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49045846)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:39 PM
Author: talented thirsty old irish cottage spot

0 to 1 was a much bigger change than 1 to 2, but probably had to do w the fact wife became a SAHM between 1 and 2.

We’re at 3 now and wife keeps pining for #4.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044123)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:50 PM
Author: Vigorous boltzmann whorehouse

It shouldn't be that much harder given that

(i) You should already know what you're doing

and

(ii) your life is already kid-centric. your saturday is going to be spent at the aquarium instead of the music festival - you might as well take 2 kids instead of 1

--as someone with a bunch of kids i can say definitively that 3-4 gap is A LOT easier than 1-2. sure they might play a bit more together but its a constant struggle for resources so the "playing" is constantly interupted by punching

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044149)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:59 PM
Author: magenta point

1-3 kids is easy. 4 and up is very difficult at times.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044177)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:05 PM
Author: Slate market idea he suggested

just a reminder that if you take any advice from xo seriously your kids will end up retarded, evil, jewish, bald, and worst of all -- heterosexual. whatever people here are telling you: do the opposite and your kids will turn into little von neumanns. it's Scientifically Proven.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044188)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:08 PM
Author: bearded circlehead

i've made major life decisions based on the bort and they've all been great.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044201)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:11 PM
Author: Slate market idea he suggested

so did nyuug

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044211)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:33 PM
Author: Sooty orchestra pit

Your free time is done here, but it’s 180. Knock her up again asap.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044284)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 1:33 AM
Author: Comical windowlicker

after you rape your first one, the rest come easily

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49044756)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:37 AM
Author: Insane school electric furnace

Have 2 kids about 2 years apart and the oldest is preschool aged. Going from 0 to 1 was still the bigger adjustment. The second one isn’t quite as bad because I think you’re generally less neurotic about everything so the newborn stage is overall less stressful. The first year sucked, but then it generally gets better. I think it’s a lot harder on the dad because you basically need to be a lot more

Involved with everything while mom is taking care of the baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49045704)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 12:06 PM
Author: Dark Gaming Laptop

We have 1 and a dog and it is hard but manageable. A second would be the point at which it is probably not very manageable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2#49045795)