I’ve been meaning to write down my thoughts on this subject, but have never found the time. Despite how late it is, I want to put these ideas in words to see if anyone else also notices this trend. Looking at family friends and cousins who are Gen X, I noticed there were more marriages between Vietnamese males and Vietnamese females than in the younger generations (Millennial). These couples met in college or graduate/professional schools and married upon graduation. Growing up, their close friends were also other Vietnamese of the same age and they tended to bond over the fact that they had come from Vietnam or were part of the same community. There was an expectation that you would marry another Vietnamese and these bonds lasted due to similar upbring and culture. There does not seem to be a feeling of missing out by dating in your community. There were of course as in any culture, different social groups depending on socioeconomic status and you would have Vietnamese Americans who were engineers/doctors/etc marry one another and Vietnamese Americans with more blue collared jobs or who were entrepreneurs with less assured salaries marry one another. And of course there would always be the beautiful Vietnamese American women (who today still look good in their late 40s early 50s), generally the girl next door type, that would have a bunch of suitors, but they only considered Vietnamese men.

Somewhere along the line, this all changed. When I went to school, yes I had much more Asian friends than I did non-Asian friends, but now it wasn’t primarily just other Vietnamese American students like I would probably have if I were early Gen X, but a mix of Chinese, Korean, Filipino, and Indian. Similarly the beautiful (and not so beautiful) Vietnamese American women after Gen X considered more types of guys beyond those in the Vietnamese American community if they considered Vietnamese American guys at all. I remember growing up attending weddings, the first being in 1984. From 1984 to 1997, with all the weddings from extended family and friends, all were between Vietnamese Americans. With each year after, there began to be more Vietnamese female Non-Vietnamese Male (white males) marriages coming up. The younger millennial female cousins and nieces of the Gen X generation no longer felt any connection to Vietnamese American men. In fact some took pride in dating outside of their race. Now lamenting about WMAF is not a new topic in community, but at least for Vietnamese Americans, this sudden change occurred not in decades, but rather in only a few years- not gradually but like a snowball effect. I don’t see the girl next door type anymore. For better or worse, the community is modernized/americanized. That brief period of time with gen X going through the motions in America, but still maintaining their identity is gone, and there are times I wish I had been born maybe 5 to 10 years earlier. The other Gen X Asian American communities obviously had high numbers of interracial dating and marriage, but for the Vietnamese American community, it was rare if not unheard of. I do not think there is a way to get back to that time. It was something born out of still being a new group in America and navigating the social maze of American life but as Vietnamese. I look at some of these older Vietnamese guys with their wives and think wow, he married a woman way out of his league. But then I realize maybe this is just conditioning from growing up as a Vietnamese American male in the US. Maybe I assume any attractive Vietnamese American female automatically would never consider an average Vietnamese American male. Not sure if it this will continue to get worse, but I just don’t see the conditions allowing it to get any better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43748939)

that would make a great moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43762463)

unfortunately the (((media))) has done a number on the asian american male community by convincing our birdbrains to worship white cock to their own peril.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43748955)

What do you think of anglos and anglo culture? Would you want to live in a US where anglos were still dominant?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43750654)

what is gen x anyway

yes NOWAG is real, its lolzy that dorky as hell viet doods in fuking vietnam are dating/marrying chics who wld easily be considered 8s or 9s in the US, i see this all the fuking time on IG, its crazy

menawhile nowag viet guys in the US are fuking wanking to gay porn

idiots shld all move to vietnam

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43748984)

Your point also rests on the assumption that WMAF relationships always or at least usually involve the white male being socioeconomically better off than the Asian female. The memes of Asian women dating total dorks because they're white is indicative of how untrue that assumption is to make.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43750469)

- smart

- financially secure if not outright wealthy

- don't drink much

- not violent

- family is important

Birdshits:

- can vary from total retards to savants. difficult to tell.

- never have money because they goy it away

- drunks

- violent. often have guns at home.

- steps out for cigs

choice is pretty clear

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43749722)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43749734)

the only concern is that by 2019 there were so many foreigners there that maybe the rep of non-viets got ruined, i dont know how it is now with covid either but its still furking better than US shit

i knew a bunch of asian american and westernized asians and they all got laid there except one or two totally incel guys who didnt even try, SAD clearly tries so i 100% think he'd get a nice girl there esp if he copped some Kpop outfits

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43749781)

most of the girls i got with i didnt meet from bars

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43749808)

but its definitely the most potential i was there over 2 years and now i look back on it like damn that was paradise

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43750365)

there's also some upscale bars and clubs with tons of hawt girls, many are sorta high priced escorts probably for rich viet men but some normal girls also go to these places

tinder and bumble are pretty good there too and there's ome viet dating app i forget name now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43750392)

I don't think normal women will go to bars with escorts...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43750426)

there's always some place like that, im trying to go to cambodia next, i expect it to be all whores too but who knows, and i think burma in the future has potential

asia is growing so fast these places change completely in just 2-3 years u never know, grow some balls u dumb bitch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43750440)

but seriously fuck u, u are such a clown pussy bitch saying shit like i need a viet american chick, jfc u are a midget chink doctor just go to asia and find a bitch instead of staying in TTT USA, u probably have this anti commie bullshit like most viet kieus u dumb bitch furk u

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43750546)

Where I grew up most of my life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43751109)

vietnam has grown fast and has huge middle class, when i first went in like 2007 it wasnt pussy heaven, i maybe was just there at the perfect time and now its whatever

anyway, u are such an incel thinking there's some virgin girls out there, ljl at that, all women are fuking god damn whores, u need to accept that and just gtfo of amerikkka

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43750354)

It's also not much different than your Catholic or Orthodox or Lutheran parents wanting you to marry another Catholic or Orthodox or Lutheran to continue your faith and customs through your children.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43751606)

Look, it's harsh, but they just have to go back - for their own good. If what they want is Vietnamese culture and to get to be around and marry other Vietnamese, then they need to go to....Vietnam

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43751645)

The first is a practical one: your American dentist money will set you up for great success in Vietnam. Just go over there. It won't feel as much like home as the viet enclaves from the 80s/90s, but you can probably get something close if you find an English speaking educated chick (be careful they aren't too pozzed by the modern west though)

The second point, more for other readers since you already know, is why you're in this spot in the first place. Obviously jews hate seeing any sort of civilized people succeed, especially Christians, so they use things like race mixing propaganda to undermine them. Here they get to kill 2 birds with 1 stone (or 2 birdshits as it may be), by further lowering the white birthrate and destroying Vietnamese heritage. And unfortunately people are naive or weak enough to go along with it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5003012&forum_id=2#43752603)