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I (35f) am disgusted by my husband (37m)

to keep it short, we have 3 kids, the youngest is 6 months. ...
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what, getting angry at you?
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No, not being obese
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these people have voting rights
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Trust Me. I Know These Things.
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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:03 PM
Author: Maize Stage Chad

to keep it short, we have 3 kids, the youngest is 6 months. I was slightly overweight when my husband and I met when I was 26, and have steadily gained a few pounds every year since then. My husband is the same, slightly overweight and has steadily gained.

Over the last several months I have been trying really hard to lose weight and get healthy. I’m now below what I weighed when I met my husband and look pretty good.

Ever since this change, my husband seems happier, we have sex more, and he is generally nicer and more romantic with me.

This makes me literally hate him. I can’t stand behind around him and try so hard to pretend everything is ok. He says nice things to me or does nice things and I have to leave the room to go cry.

All of this is because I’ve lost weight. I’m so so devastated that he’s treating me so differently. I feel like he never really loved me.

My feelings for him have been the same no matter what hjs weight was. Idk, I just don’t know how to get over this or if I ever can?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46883546)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:06 PM
Author: galvanic violent tank round eye

Women are 180

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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:12 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac spruce goyim



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:16 PM
Author: Titillating cuckold halford



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:16 PM
Author: Floppy turdskin



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:16 PM
Author: Thriller Base



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:17 PM
Author: Adventurous abode



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:34 PM
Author: Soul-stirring bespoke stead



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:51 PM
Author: Bateful Unholy Address Azn



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:55 PM
Author: out-of-control box office



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Date: October 4th, 2023 2:16 PM
Author: contagious wine principal's office



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Date: October 4th, 2023 2:19 PM
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Date: October 4th, 2023 2:37 PM
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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:05 PM
Author: Passionate scarlet institution hissy fit

OFS!

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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:07 PM
Author: Boyish milky ticket booth trust fund



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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:40 PM
Author: Lemon garrison sandwich

women are my favorite guy

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:04 PM
Author: Thriller Base



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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:54 PM
Author: histrionic locus ladyboy

Indeed, they are.

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Date: October 4th, 2023 5:50 PM
Author: infuriating aromatic newt



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Date: October 4th, 2023 8:21 PM
Author: Passionate scarlet institution hissy fit



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Date: October 5th, 2023 9:32 AM
Author: clear stirring idea he suggested knife



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Date: October 5th, 2023 10:33 AM
Author: slippery hall



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:33 PM
Author: Provocative azure gunner deer antler

lmao

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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:41 PM
Author: Grizzly dragon friendly grandma

Wish my wife would try this

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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:44 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac spruce goyim

what, getting angry at you?

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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:47 PM
Author: Grizzly dragon friendly grandma

No, not being obese

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:02 PM
Author: Supple Site

Get control of your house jfc pathetic

that stuff is why your kids are all autistic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46884574)



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Date: October 5th, 2023 8:07 PM
Author: arousing pozpig crackhouse

Cheat on her. Worked for me

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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:51 PM
Author: Irradiated narrow-minded ape

Women need Christianity. Without it, they are perpetually miserable, as evidenced here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46883757)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:56 PM
Author: well-lubricated home bbw



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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:58 PM
Author: slate sex offender

now imagine he lost his job for a month or two

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Date: October 4th, 2023 1:59 PM
Author: Odious area water buffalo



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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:07 PM
Author: spectacular parlor rigpig

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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:28 PM
Author: Irradiated narrow-minded ape

This is probably true.

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:06 PM
Author: Bateful Unholy Address Azn



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Date: October 4th, 2023 5:46 PM
Author: Cream Faggotry

He's probably subtly started abusing her. She just doesn't realize the full extent yet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885135)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 6:09 PM
Author: spectacular parlor rigpig

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Date: October 5th, 2023 11:04 AM
Author: big national hominid



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Date: October 4th, 2023 2:41 PM
Author: brilliant marvelous preventive strike native

it's all so tiresome

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Date: October 4th, 2023 2:42 PM
Author: Titillating cuckold halford

these people have voting rights

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:06 PM
Author: naked swollen plaza scourge upon the earth

these "people" have voting rights

fixed

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Date: October 4th, 2023 2:55 PM
Author: Idiotic wonderful kitchen selfie

Would this ever happen if the husband was tall with a huge cock?

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Date: October 4th, 2023 2:58 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac spruce goyim

This is a good point. She breezes past this, but for the first time in their relationship she is skinny and he is fat. This might be so simple as her suddenly thinking- consciously or not- that she could do better

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46884145)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:03 PM
Author: Idiotic wonderful kitchen selfie

She’s probably already met a guy at work who is taller and more well endowed. She’ll be sucking and fucking him before the ink is dry on their separation papers.

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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:11 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac spruce goyim

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:36 PM
Author: Bateful Unholy Address Azn



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Date: October 5th, 2023 10:27 AM
Author: clear stirring idea he suggested knife

"She’ll be sucking and fucking him"

Let's go into more detail about this...

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Date: October 4th, 2023 2:58 PM
Author: Dun Brunch Reading Party

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Date: October 4th, 2023 3:06 PM
Author: Fishy indecent center



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Date: October 4th, 2023 5:50 PM
Author: infuriating aromatic newt



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Date: October 4th, 2023 8:24 PM
Author: Turquoise kitty cat resort



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Date: October 4th, 2023 8:54 PM
Author: Orange vigorous therapy giraffe



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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:15 PM
Author: naked swollen plaza scourge upon the earth

The machinations they go through to avoid acknowledging that thin people are more attractive than fat people, or that it's ok to be more attracted to a person when they become more physically attractive, are staggering

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Adventurous-Try1728

17 hr. ago

Talk to him. This genuinely might not be about your weight unless he has said so. This could very well be because YOU seem happier with yourself and are more open sexually. Talk to him about how you are feeling.

I will say this - my husband is overweight. When he loses weight I am more attracted to him not because of the weight loss but because he is happier, he has more energy and a zest for life. The weight is the catalyst for the other changes because he is less tired. Just a thought.

If this really is about the weight loss, that is messed up. But I know my husband is happier when I am happier (and vice versa).

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Famous-Afternoon-664 replied to Adventurous-Try1728 17 hr. ago

This!! When I lost some weight I was way more confident and my husband said seeing me happier and confident in my own body was a huge turn on for him.

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I like this bc it might not be your physical Appearance but rather the momentum of positive growth that’s caused the shift

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Are you certain you know this is the reason? If you’re feeling better, taking care of yourself, you might be happier. Less down, fewer arguments, more confidence. If he got with you while you were heavier, then it’s unfair to assume losing weight is why he still loves you 3 kids later. Which means you need to communicate with him and find out the truth. Not the assumption.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46884653)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:17 PM
Author: brilliant marvelous preventive strike native

lol

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:32 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac spruce goyim

lmfao

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:33 PM
Author: galvanic violent tank round eye

"my husband said seeing me happier and confident in my own body was a huge turn on for him"

genius

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:46 PM
Author: talented nursing home wagecucks

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Date: October 5th, 2023 11:04 AM
Author: Fishy indecent center



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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:41 PM
Author: Maize Stage Chad

I know it’s been said but women are 180

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Date: October 4th, 2023 4:45 PM
Author: talented nursing home wagecucks

Why would losing weight make anyone more confident?

It's not related to attractiveness, is it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46884807)



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Date: October 5th, 2023 9:29 AM
Author: sickened shivering national security agency



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Date: October 5th, 2023 11:05 AM
Author: Fishy indecent center

I said this the other day but if we could harness the energy society uses to justify any given course of action by a woman, we’d live in colonies on Mars in racial harmony

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Date: October 4th, 2023 5:48 PM
Author: Provocative azure gunner deer antler

"My husband became more attracted to me when I became more attractive. I'm mad!"

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Date: October 4th, 2023 5:49 PM
Author: galvanic violent tank round eye

Women are so 180

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Date: October 4th, 2023 6:32 PM
Author: Soul-stirring bespoke stead

Lol

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Date: October 4th, 2023 9:24 PM
Author: unhinged fat ankles black woman



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Date: October 4th, 2023 5:51 PM
Author: misanthropic ultramarine orchestra pit doctorate

This story is so ridiculous that I'm shocked people here think it's real.

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Date: October 4th, 2023 6:07 PM
Author: Tan self-absorbed library dopamine

I meant to poast this earlier but I was getting too many annoying work emails. This may be a new JM level Reddit flame artist announcing his triumphant debut on the scene. We should keep an eye on this moniker. If it’s flame it’s transcendent.

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Date: October 4th, 2023 6:15 PM
Author: spectacular parlor rigpig

I have seen this scenario play out several times IRL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885331)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 6:17 PM
Author: aquamarine lodge

it's utterly 100% credible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885342)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 8:20 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac spruce goyim



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885825)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 6:21 PM
Author: brilliant marvelous preventive strike native

this story is a mundane completely unremarkable everyday occurrence in the current year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885362)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 9:16 PM
Author: Tan self-absorbed library dopamine

The reason this story doesn’t ring true is that it conflates/confuses (brilliantly) a birdbrain mentality of nagging a beta husband with a birdbrain mentality when she decides she can do better than the husband and setting up her justification for leaving. But the latter doesn’t/would never take the form of “omigerd he’s being affectionate now and that just proves he’s shallow and I should leave him to strike a blow on behalf of feminism” because it’s much easier and cleaner for her to think “he did [random thing birdbrain picks to blow out of proportion, eg got her a mediocre anniversary/bday/Xmas present, texts with his friends about football too much on the weekends, stays at work past 6 sometimes, sat on the couch a drank a beer after doing yard work for three hours] and I’m not going to take it anymore!” The other common version would be her saying “I lost weight and he can’t because he doesn’t respect me, himself, our kids, my parents enough and he’ll be dead in 10 years anyway and this is also why he isn’t more successful at work.”

It takes a truly diabolical mind to have the birdbrain invented problem be “he’s finally giving me the affection that I wanted and praising my hard work and I hate him for it because he’s shallow and won’t love me again when I gain it all back.” Like I’m sure it has been said or thought by plenty of birdbrains in this context but taking it to this extreme and leaving him because of it is the flame tell because it casts the husband as having failed a social justice principle in order to meet her unmet need and in reality women who get married and have kids and get fat and then get skinny and cheat have to cast him as *worse* than she realized and *unsupportive* of her specifically to maintain the notion that they are justified in betraying him. They don’t actually value their husband’s feminist consciousness over his ability to continue serving as a reliable beta provider because that conflicts with their fundamental cavewoman programming. They have to cast him as a weak failure to break him off and go chase Chad caveman’s dick.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46886004)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 9:24 PM
Author: Maize Stage Chad

what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46886034)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 9:51 PM
Author: brilliant marvelous preventive strike native

No it’s actually just true and this kind of thing happens all the time

This is why we so frequently remind each other how 180 women are

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46886208)



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Date: October 5th, 2023 9:30 AM
Author: sickened shivering national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46887312)



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Date: October 5th, 2023 8:04 PM
Author: sapphire location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46890623)



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Date: October 5th, 2023 1:18 PM
Author: galvanic violent tank round eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46888407)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 6:33 PM
Author: Titillating cuckold halford

didnt know we still had female poasters here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885416)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 7:17 PM
Author: Maize Stage Chad

ikr women aren’t like that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885610)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 8:50 PM
Author: naked swollen plaza scourge upon the earth

Trust Me. I Know These Things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885930)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 6:58 PM
Author: confused impertinent roast beef party of the first part

I'm sure that if he treated her the same, shoe would have been fine with that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885545)



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Date: October 4th, 2023 8:52 PM
Author: Orange vigorous therapy giraffe

tldr;

this is the fate of all slutty women. enjoy!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46885935)



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Date: October 5th, 2023 11:03 AM
Author: fluffy anal house

sad. Never question yourself, right?

Could it be that she lost weight and feels better about herself and that's the part that's attractive? her extra energy/spark and better attitude / mental state? No, that can't be it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46887738)



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Date: October 5th, 2023 6:39 PM
Author: talented nursing home wagecucks

Could it be that fat people are less attractive?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46890179)



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Date: October 5th, 2023 6:46 PM
Author: Orange vigorous therapy giraffe

thats misogynist and toxic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5419138&forum_id=2#46890230)