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Need advice: how to fix insecurity with hot gf
| ............,.,.,.,.......,,.,., | 11/22/25 |
| kenneth play | 11/23/25 |
| ............,.,.,.,.......,,.,., | 11/23/25 |
| .,.,.,.;;';'.,.'.,,...,;',,,.;';...,.';,;' | 11/23/25 |
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Date: November 22nd, 2025 11:53 PM Author: ............,.,.,.,.......,,.,., Full context- I was fat, acne-faced dork through high school and undergrad. Lost virginity year after college through a fluke. No relationships etc.
Around 24-25, got hooked into looksmaxxing subculture and it was a 180 life development. Learned to eat well, lift, etc. Became a physical, albeit not spiritual/social, Chad. (Which is consistent with my parents, who before becoming fat in middle aged, were considered very attractive, and people even today say they were beautiful/hot when I show them pictures with me as a kid.)
Since then dated a bit, hooked up with a few girls, etc. Recently met an actual hot girl on apps. Hot, smart, good personality, not mentally ill lib, wants family/kids, etc. Seriously see future with this girl.
But just can't get over how she's been hot her whole life. Dated in HS, lost virginity in HS, she went to top UG where she was probably one of the hottest girls on campus. I don't think she ever had a 'party' phase, but she's been in relationships most of her life since HS. I obviously haven't been, even after I glowed up.
Is it weird I can't get over this? I just know she's dated real, lifelong Chads before. Had sex orders of magnitude more times than I have. I'm a fake poseur, a beneficiary of autistic looksmaxxing instagram/reddit content. Just feel like there's no way she can truly be into me without thinking of the good times she has had.
This is the only hangup I have. Otherwise seriously want to marry her. |
Date: November 23rd, 2025 12:01 AM Author: kenneth play sounds like you realize everything is flame. and also sounds like you've made it, those are huge achievements despite having low confidence, which is honestly hard to do. bagging a top tier woman like that, nice. if she gives you anything to feel self-conscious about, or makes you feel insecure on purpose, that's one thing. but it sounds like you just need to do some positive thinking and convince yourself that you're the best thing that ever happened to this girl and she's lucky to have you. some guys can just be high confidence with nothing to back it up. many of us on the board are probably a little bit too analytical and pick ourselves apart (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5801270&forum_id=2#49453215) |
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Date: November 23rd, 2025 12:15 AM Author: ............,.,.,.,.......,,.,., i mean, idk if i am the best thing that has happened to her. she seriously is for me.
i guess what really sticks in my craw are small things. like we were out during halloween and we saw a funny couples costume, and i said it reminded me of how a cousin of mine dressed up as a deer and her bf as a hunter, and they posed for pics wit her having been 'hunted'. she told me she had done a couples costume like that in college. i have never done a couples costume with anyone. nor ever had a valentine, NYE kiss, etc. all things she's from what i can tell consistently had. |
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Date: November 23rd, 2025 12:01 AM Author: .,.,.,.;;';'.,.'.,,...,;',,,.;';...,.';,;' This has real “while you were fucking your chadly boyfriend in your bedroom, sister, I was surreptitiously listening to your moans through the wall and masturbating the whole time,” vibes to it. If that was the subtext and authorial tone you were going for, grats. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5801270&forum_id=2#49453217) |