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i can't stop thinking about the gym guy...can someone tell me what to do?

pls...tyia help me out
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Do you know if he’s a homo
heady dull garrison
  07/26/21
no we stare into each other's eyes when we work out toget...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Join us pedude http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?threa...
bisexual generalized bond
  07/26/21
pound that boihole
cracking multi-billionaire school
  07/26/21
how do i make it happen, cap'n? we're texting more, which...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Man between you, evan, and holdup, we have some of the most ...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
It's almost entirely a function of fear of rejection. Pedude...
bisexual generalized bond
  07/26/21
LOLLL 6'2 255 and i lift HEAVY i've got a covid gut, i...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
How heavy we talkin', bro? Just for thread purposes.
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
bench 315 and deadlift about that too...got huge legs but ye...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
I've got a covid gut too, brother, just wanted to guage if y...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
i've been doing cardio for at minimum 30 minutes before i li...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
i kinda did a while ago (or asked him for coffee) and he agr...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Mig might be right that it's fear of failure, but try again ...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
This guy is not interested in pedude hate to say it Pedud...
bisexual generalized bond
  07/26/21
A lot of guys, like chicks, enjoy being pursued.
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
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Vigorous indian lodge
  07/26/21
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adventurous dilemma national security agency
  07/27/21
why do you say that? what about the staring part? we've been...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
That's all it is for him. Your over commitment is evidence o...
bisexual generalized bond
  07/26/21
what is all it is for him? this is all just some kind of fuc...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
youve obsessed over this guy for years? lol
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
yes wrote him a love letter years ago (obviously did not ...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Gym eye candy Like the hot girl at church who I like less...
bisexual generalized bond
  07/26/21
he is more than gym eye candy for me i want to build a re...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
You have no basis for thinking you'd be suited for a relatio...
bisexual generalized bond
  07/26/21
i feel intense chemistry for him. intense, unbelievable chem...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Lol
bisexual generalized bond
  07/26/21
what?
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
You're straight as fuck lusting after a dude like this, I'll...
bisexual generalized bond
  07/26/21
HAHA
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
quit laughing at me. don't knock a guy while he's down
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
well wtf does he do then? suggest something else. do you dri...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
he drinks, but i'm a recovering alcoholic i kinda wish i ...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Ah rough. Yeah going to sweetgreen or something together for...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
given your neuroticism, you should prob suggest beers or dri...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
i'm going to try to touch him next time we work out...and st...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
stop staring and do more engaging. you have a lot of thought...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
i tense up when i'm around him. i get butterflies just looki...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Only gay thing you're doing here as far as i can tell brothe...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
what am i supposed to do? tell him my true feelings? i can't...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
No but find SOMETHING he might want to do one-on-one and see...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
he plays a sport that i've never played before...it'd be too...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
lemme guess. that sport requires hand-eye coordination and y...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
it does require that. i do have hand-eye coordination. i pla...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
do you fear the consequences of rejection? like youd confirm...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
i desperately fear rejection in this case it also would s...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
yeah it sounds like youd rather not know, like a light at th...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
i need to read this every day you are *EXACTLY* correct! ...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
i understand, bro. we end up displacing our feelings in diff...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/27/21
scholarship yeah, i mean there's not much i can disagree ...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
ok given your acknowledgment of this, do you think you need ...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/27/21
I’m not sure honestly, man I know I can’t go ...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
yeah i gotcha. prob will default to the latter. we'll be her...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/27/21
4 years?! Jfc
adventurous dilemma national security agency
  07/27/21
It sounds worse than it is For most of this time I’...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
Actually asking him to show you how to play seems like a goo...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
whats his race/height/weight/build? why do you want a rel...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
white/6'0/not sure/very muscular i could stare into his e...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
i thought one of the advantages to being gay is you can be m...
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
i am almost certainly way into my head about this guy i'v...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Do you jog? That might be an activity that borders on a date...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
gd pt
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
lol that sounds rapey the way you put it...
Vigorous indian lodge
  07/26/21
I can’t believe someone in their own words would paint...
claret shrine
  07/26/21
don't knock a guy when he's down, brother i'm hurting the...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Then be a man and address them directly, knowing there is a ...
claret shrine
  07/26/21
the prospect of doing what you describe terrifies me. i p...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
Your “far less direct approach” seems like it on...
claret shrine
  07/26/21
"As things currently stand you do not seem mentally cap...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
That’s probably correct but I didn’t say this so...
claret shrine
  07/27/21
well you can see it thorugh text because i'm talking about i...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
i just want to kiss him mainly...sure i'd fuck him too, but ...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
...
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  07/26/21
This thread is so fuckin gay
heady dull garrison
  07/26/21
...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
you seem dumb
nubile fragrant liquid oxygen candlestick maker
  07/26/21
thanks, brother why do you say that?
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
men are not breedable
nubile fragrant liquid oxygen candlestick maker
  07/26/21
this one is
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&fo...
nubile fragrant liquid oxygen candlestick maker
  07/26/21
What the FUCK is going on ITT
Ivory Fanboi Rehab
  07/26/21
an autistic gay asking the GREATBORT for relationship advice
Abusive citrine stage
  07/26/21
I’m 99% sure your flame but I’ll play along ...
Ivory Fanboi Rehab
  07/26/21
100% not flame i don't get off on posting flame threads.....
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
Then shoot your shot.
Ivory Fanboi Rehab
  07/27/21
yea if he's not into me though i'm probably switching gym...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
Don’t be such a fag man. Getting rejected is nbd. Hone...
Ivory Fanboi Rehab
  07/27/21
Hurts like hell man
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
gay being gay
exhilarant boltzmann university
  07/26/21
I'm straight and I've definitely started gayer r-threads, tb...
Fluffy nighttime wagecucks
  07/26/21
Same
Ivory Fanboi Rehab
  07/27/21
Give up your homosexual inclinations and follow Christ
Spectacular awkward national
  07/27/21
Too late
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
It's never too late.
Spectacular awkward national
  07/27/21
Also what is wrong with being gay? I don’t think anyth...
Abusive citrine stage
  07/27/21
IMO there's nothing particularly 'worse' with being an activ...
Spectacular awkward national
  07/27/21
...
heady dull garrison
  07/27/21
you didn't answer the question of "what is wrong with b...
bisexual generalized bond
  07/27/21
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nubile fragrant liquid oxygen candlestick maker
  07/27/21
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  07/27/21
Do the most prestigious act a homosexual can do- Repent.
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Date: July 26th, 2021 10:48 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

pls...tyia

help me out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847196)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 10:49 PM
Author: heady dull garrison

Do you know if he’s a homo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847204)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 10:50 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

no

we stare into each other's eyes when we work out together, even when we're not talking

why would we do that if we're not into each other?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847212)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 10:50 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

Join us pedude

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4884993&forum_id=2#42836220

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847210)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 10:51 PM
Author: cracking multi-billionaire school

pound that boihole

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847213)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:00 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

how do i make it happen, cap'n?

we're texting more, which is good...i don't know how to seal the deal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847261)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:06 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

Man between you, evan, and holdup, we have some of the most autistic gays on the internet (adjusted per capita). Just ask if he wants to get happy hour after a workout one saturday and let do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847280)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:07 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

It's almost entirely a function of fear of rejection. Pedude is a fat gay bro and is insecure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847286)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:08 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

LOLLL

6'2 255 and i lift HEAVY

i've got a covid gut, i'll not deny that. i'm not "fat"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847288)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:09 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

How heavy we talkin', bro? Just for thread purposes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847294)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:10 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

bench 315 and deadlift about that too...got huge legs but yes, i developed a covid gut during quarantine like everybody fucking else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847296)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:12 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

I've got a covid gut too, brother, just wanted to guage if you're a cardio bunny or actual lifter. Nice bench.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847303)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:14 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i've been doing cardio for at minimum 30 minutes before i lift these days...this guy i'm into told me to start doing that

i try to get my heartrate up to about 140bpm for 30-45 min depending on how i'm feeling

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847314)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:11 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i kinda did a while ago (or asked him for coffee) and he agreed

then we started texting more and i asked him again and he's like "i don't drink coffee"

who the hell knows man? i thought maybe he was turned off by something i said, but we still are talking and stuff at the gym/through text

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847298)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:13 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

Mig might be right that it's fear of failure, but try again man. He might actually just not like coffee. Worst case you're a little embarassed for a couple of days.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847308)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:14 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

This guy is not interested in pedude hate to say it

Pedude should ignore him and see what happens (nothing)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847315)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:15 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

A lot of guys, like chicks, enjoy being pursued.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847319)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:24 PM
Author: Vigorous indian lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847370)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:39 AM
Author: adventurous dilemma national security agency



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847948)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:16 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

why do you say that? what about the staring part? we've been staring at each other for years at the gym

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847324)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:17 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

That's all it is for him. Your over commitment is evidence of you're subconscious recognition that he is not interested

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847329)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:17 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

what is all it is for him? this is all just some kind of fucked up game he's been playing with me?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847335)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:19 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

youve obsessed over this guy for years? lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847343)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:20 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

yes

wrote him a love letter years ago (obviously did not send)

i've seen many hot guys with great bodies over the years. he has something no other guy has. i don't know what it is, i can't put it into words. i'm hooked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847350)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:20 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

Gym eye candy

Like the hot girl at church who I like less every time i talk to her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847349)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:21 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

he is more than gym eye candy for me

i want to build a relationship with him, not just fuck him

and if he keeps looking at me, that means i'm gym eye candy for him. right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847358)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:26 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

You have no basis for thinking you'd be suited for a relationship together

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847386)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:30 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i feel intense chemistry for him. intense, unbelievable chemistry i've never felt for anyone else in my life. there's obviously something here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847406)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:31 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847412)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:33 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847420)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:34 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

You're straight as fuck lusting after a dude like this, I'll give you that. When I've been at my lowest lusting after another person it was a chick and that felt super gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847439)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:33 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

HAHA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847421)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:33 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

quit laughing at me. don't knock a guy while he's down

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847430)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:14 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

well wtf does he do then? suggest something else. do you drink?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847312)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:15 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

he drinks, but i'm a recovering alcoholic

i kinda wish i still drank just for that reason alone...it'd be the perfect opportunity to make a move on him when we're both drunk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847318)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:16 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

Ah rough. Yeah going to sweetgreen or something together for brolunch isn't exactly sexy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847327)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:18 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

given your neuroticism, you should prob suggest beers or drinks. youd be way too analytical and self-conscious sober and would convince yourself to not say or do anything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847336)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:19 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i'm going to try to touch him next time we work out...and stare more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847340)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:20 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

stop staring and do more engaging. you have a lot of thoughts/opinions (from your poasts here)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847352)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:21 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i tense up when i'm around him. i get butterflies just looking at him.

ugh. i'm so fucking gay, i know

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847364)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:22 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

Only gay thing you're doing here as far as i can tell brother is not being more direct

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847365)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:23 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

what am i supposed to do? tell him my true feelings? i can't fucking do that...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847368)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:24 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

No but find SOMETHING he might want to do one-on-one and see if he's down. If not, move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847376)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:29 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

he plays a sport that i've never played before...it'd be too weird to ask him to show me how to play lol

i'll think of something

the jogging idea might work actually...gotta think about it more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847401)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:34 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

lemme guess. that sport requires hand-eye coordination and you have none

how certain are you that he's gay? %

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847437)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:37 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

it does require that. i do have hand-eye coordination. i played a sport that required a ton of it

he does not seem gay at all. but the eye staring that we've each done over the years gives it away. i actually had an inkling 4 years ago that he was into me...he was walking out of the gym, i was on the stairmaster (this was back when i was incredibly jacked as shit), and our eyes locked as he was leaving for a good 5 seconds

i should have made my move promptly thereafter but, of course, i did not. it's been 4 years of this torture/nonsense and finally i've reached my breaking point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847456)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:43 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

do you fear the consequences of rejection? like youd confirm an uncomfortable reality youre not ready to face? i.e., hes not gay or interested, would have to avoid each other at gym, etc?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847494)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:45 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i desperately fear rejection in this case

it also would sting even more so because it would mean i would have read all the signs incorrectly these past 4 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847504)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:55 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

yeah it sounds like youd rather not know, like a light at the end of the tunnel youd rather not extinguish. keeping that hope alive obviously outweighs your belief in anything real happening. living with no hope isnt living at all, and you care more about preserving that than exploring the actual possibilities, esp after 4 years of flickering and anticipation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847546)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:57 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i need to read this every day

you are *EXACTLY* correct! i am terrified of extinguishing the hope, because i fear that if he is truly not into me, what do i have left? i have nothing, man. my life is utter trash these days. it's a wonder i haven't eaten a bullet yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847555)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:07 AM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

i understand, bro. we end up displacing our feelings in different ways but theyre prob symptomatic of other issues. maybe this situation isnt as much about this stud but you're projecting other things onto the one beacon of hope in your life you see regularly. and you think if only he holds you in his arms and kisses you, things would feel right in the world and you'd be happy. most likely, hes not the panacea you imagine but youve gotten into this mental feedback loop and routine you cant shake

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847598)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:09 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

scholarship

yeah, i mean there's not much i can disagree with here. he is basically like a drug to me right now. a total panacea

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847604)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:15 AM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

ok given your acknowledgment of this, do you think you need a push from the bort to shoot your shot or are you better off not knowing and holding out hope? everything including your own mental health and stability considered

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847623)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:44 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

I’m not sure honestly, man

I know I can’t go on like this though…

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847961)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:54 AM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

yeah i gotcha. prob will default to the latter. we'll be here for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42848006)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:41 AM
Author: adventurous dilemma national security agency

4 years?! Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847955)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:46 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

It sounds worse than it is

For most of this time I’ve simply denied my feelings for him, which is my modus operandi

When the gyms were shut down in my area, however, that’s when the feelings came rushing to the surface

Now everyday since is a new kind of torture

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847969)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:35 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

Actually asking him to show you how to play seems like a good date idea down the line, if things do work out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847442)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:24 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

whats his race/height/weight/build?

why do you want a relationship with him? he seems more conscientious and intelligent than your typical gym goer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847374)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:27 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

white/6'0/not sure/very muscular

i could stare into his eyes all night long. like i just want to hold him all night long in my arms. we don't even have to have sex. i think he's hot and i'm obviously sexually attracted to him, but i don't look at him and think of sex, i just think of how much i want to be near him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847389)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:32 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

i thought one of the advantages to being gay is you can be more bold and its more acceptable and shit. like not hafta deal with the emotions and insecurities of the female mind

Maybe youre way too in your head about this guy and he can sense that energy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847416)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:35 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i am almost certainly way into my head about this guy

i've put him on this ridiculous pedestal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847441)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:19 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

Do you jog? That might be an activity that borders on a date and might lead to something, esp. if he's into cardio, as you said above.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847341)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:19 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

gd pt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847346)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:24 PM
Author: Vigorous indian lodge

lol that sounds rapey the way you put it...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847373)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:25 PM
Author: claret shrine

I can’t believe someone in their own words would paint a picture of themselves this negatively

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847380)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:28 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

don't knock a guy when he's down, brother

i'm hurting these days. don't know what to do with this guy. wish i could ignore these feelings i have for him, but i can't

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847393)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:36 PM
Author: claret shrine

Then be a man and address them directly, knowing there is a substantial risk he won’t feel as you do.

Don’t pull this weird rapey shit of start touching him without saying anything.

You just say something like so I’ve been coming here a long time and am interested in you and was wondering if you wanted to get coffee/go jogging sometime. And no pressure if you can’t make it but I figured I would ask. Something like that will get the ball moving so you have a resolution one way or the other

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847446)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:40 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

the prospect of doing what you describe terrifies me.

i prefer the far less direct approach. but, then again, that approach hasn't yielded ideal results. i'm a pussy, yes i know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847478)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:45 PM
Author: claret shrine

Your “far less direct approach” seems like it only makes your mental health worse, which will eventually become noticeable (if it isn’t already) and turn him off even assuming he ever had any interest to begin with.

For your own good you need to be more direct but you also need to be prepared for the substantial possibility the feeling is not mutual. As things currently stand you do not seem mentally capable of handling that possibility so that’s probably the most important thing you need to do ASAP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847505)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:47 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

"As things currently stand you do not seem mentally capable of handling that possibility"

probably cr

my life is such utter dogshit these days

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847511)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:05 AM
Author: claret shrine

That’s probably correct but I didn’t say this so you could have another pity party.

It is so you can realize that as long as this remains the case, in fact you wouldn’t deserve to be with him anyway. It is essential for you to have the frame of it not mattering too much if it works out or doesn’t when dating, especially at the beginning, and truly believe it. If you don’t have this mindset then desperation will emanate and anyone worthwhile will detect it and be turned off.

And if I can clearly sense it through mere text, I have a feeling it is detectable IRL. What you really need is to fix your mind before you focus on things like dating

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847590)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:07 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

well you can see it thorugh text because i'm talking about it more openly on here

i doubt he can tell when i text him. i've learned to hide things well over the years

but yes, i need to get my mind right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847600)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:31 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

i just want to kiss him mainly...sure i'd fuck him too, but i mostly just want to kiss him for our first time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847410)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:15 PM
Author: low-t appetizing lay striped hyena



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847322)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:20 PM
Author: heady dull garrison

This thread is so fuckin gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847348)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:23 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847366)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:44 PM
Author: nubile fragrant liquid oxygen candlestick maker

you seem dumb

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847500)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:45 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

thanks, brother

why do you say that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847506)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:47 PM
Author: nubile fragrant liquid oxygen candlestick maker

men are not breedable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847512)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:47 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

this one is

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847516)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:50 PM
Author: nubile fragrant liquid oxygen candlestick maker

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847500

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847531)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:50 PM
Author: Ivory Fanboi Rehab

What the FUCK is going on ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847530)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:51 PM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

an autistic gay asking the GREATBORT for relationship advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847535)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:58 PM
Author: Ivory Fanboi Rehab

I’m 99% sure your flame but I’ll play along

1 I’m pretty sure this scenario would never happen with irl gays which is why this is flame

2 as a straight bro you I’d advise you that you jusf have to go for it. who cares if he says no? Us straight bros get rejected all the time. It’s Nbd. Shoot your shot faggit

3 the only potential downside is that you cannot engage this fantasy anymore because you find out he’s either not gay or not interested. But tbh after some intial weirdness you can just get that back anyway because he’ll decide it’s flattering and you’ll decide he’s still into you and just repressing either his true sexuality or his interest

4 just shoot your shot man it’s always worth it. Fuck it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847563)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:00 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

100% not flame

i don't get off on posting flame threads...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847570)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:01 AM
Author: Ivory Fanboi Rehab

Then shoot your shot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847575)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:04 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

yea

if he's not into me though i'm probably switching gyms

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847587)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:05 AM
Author: Ivory Fanboi Rehab

Don’t be such a fag man. Getting rejected is nbd. Honestly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847591)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:20 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

Hurts like hell man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847878)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:56 PM
Author: exhilarant boltzmann university

gay being gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847551)



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Date: July 26th, 2021 11:57 PM
Author: Fluffy nighttime wagecucks

I'm straight and I've definitely started gayer r-threads, tbf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847557)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:03 AM
Author: Ivory Fanboi Rehab

Same

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847582)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:21 AM
Author: Spectacular awkward national

Give up your homosexual inclinations and follow Christ

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847881)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:34 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

Too late

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847934)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:48 AM
Author: Spectacular awkward national

It's never too late.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847979)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:48 AM
Author: Abusive citrine stage

Also what is wrong with being gay? I don’t think anything

There is a strong argument that the typical gay lifestyle is hedonistic and unfulfilling, but male on male attraction itself is not necessarily a part of that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42847977)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 1:57 AM
Author: Spectacular awkward national

IMO there's nothing particularly 'worse' with being an active homosexual than it is to wholeheartedly engage in any other sin. E.g. gluttony seemingly gets a free pass these days despite a huge chunk of America being fat fucks.

We all fall short and deserve hell.

Not sure how to process this concept with those that desire fag "marriage" though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42848016)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:01 PM
Author: heady dull garrison



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42849796)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:02 PM
Author: bisexual generalized bond

you didn't answer the question of "what is wrong with being gay"

We can save some time i guess:

you: it's a sin

me: what's a sin

you: something God doesnt want us to do

me: how do you know

you: its in this book

me: who wrote the book?

you: God

me: no, some jews

you: God told the jews what to write

me: how do you know

you: it says so in the book

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42849803)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:07 PM
Author: nubile fragrant liquid oxygen candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42849854)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:09 PM
Author: Bipolar twisted feces lodge

(S Biles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42849868)



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Date: July 27th, 2021 12:19 PM
Author: Bright out-of-control associate boiling water

Do the most prestigious act a homosexual can do- Repent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4886328&forum_id=2#42849955)