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cousin choosing t100 undergrad ($100k overall debt) over cheap state school

He got a small scholarship from the school but will easily e...
Brindle Dilemma
  08/03/21
Why can't you be brutally honest? He's about to ruin his lif...
arousing naked windowlicker
  08/03/21
I did to a degree. I know he hates standardized tests so I t...
Brindle Dilemma
  08/03/21
lol at going into UG debt if he wants to go to LS.
Fluffy Lavender Athletic Conference
  08/03/21
Not familiar with subsidized loans here, would the UG loans ...
arousing naked windowlicker
  08/03/21
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razzmatazz business firm
  08/03/21
I made that point too. I explained to him that for law schoo...
Brindle Dilemma
  08/03/21
In 4 years he’ll get mad at you for not talking him ou...
hairraiser garnet pit
  08/03/21
At this point it's too late. He's going in a few weeks. But ...
Brindle Dilemma
  08/03/21
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disgusting ultramarine space
  08/03/21
you have to be brutally honest with him. i have a similar s...
lascivious jet-lagged codepig
  08/03/21
Taking out 100k for a poli sci degree at a "t100" ...
arousing naked windowlicker
  08/03/21
substance abuse ----> Flying J parking lot
Cream market
  08/03/21
they always double down. better to be kinda fucked than ful...
lascivious jet-lagged codepig
  08/03/21
Exactly what I'm doing. Mitigate further damage. My wife is ...
Brindle Dilemma
  08/03/21
i know it will create friction, but it's temporary. he will...
lascivious jet-lagged codepig
  08/04/21
T100? i remember when people talked about T25 or whatever bu...
swollen glassy hospital mad-dog skullcap
  08/03/21
Stretched all the way out, gaping you might say
180 home trust fund
  08/03/21
My San Jose-area cousin is going to Syracuse for some reason
Adulterous doobsian casino
  08/03/21
oh god oh.
lascivious jet-lagged codepig
  08/03/21
I think it's because he loves basketball. He's somehow like ...
Adulterous doobsian casino
  08/03/21
is he gonna try to walk on?
Coiffed twinkling halford toaster
  08/04/21
lmao, I hope not
Adulterous doobsian casino
  08/04/21
the athletics at Bay Area HS's is such a pathetic joke. the ...
Appetizing Hot Mad Cow Disease Laser Beams
  08/04/21
similar situation but in reverse. They're young kids who wan...
Brindle Dilemma
  08/03/21
or do a semester in washington and a year abroad. nearly hal...
Coiffed twinkling halford toaster
  08/04/21
Does this kid hate his parents?
poppy french tank garrison
  08/04/21
I know it's cheap, But its rutgers
Blue plaza
  08/03/21
Aren’t like all good state schools in the T100 lmao
floppy crackhouse lettuce
  08/03/21
...
floppy crackhouse lettuce
  08/04/21
Good state schools like Berkeley, UCLA and Michigan are all ...
razzle partner
  08/05/21
National ranking stops mattering *way* before 100.
Bateful Skinny Woman Site
  08/04/21
after T30 it declines quickly. schools like UC Santa Barbara...
Coiffed twinkling halford toaster
  08/04/21
These things aren't perfect, but 30 is a pretty good cutoff ...
Bateful Skinny Woman Site
  08/05/21
introduce him to xo. we'll do the rest.
hyperventilating galvanic university jap
  08/05/21


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Date: August 3rd, 2021 11:51 AM
Author: Brindle Dilemma

He got a small scholarship from the school but will easily end up with over $150k in debt. The state school is similarly ranked. He said he wants to try a new city and wants to be a poli sci shithead and go to law school, lol. I told him to go to the state school and study something more practical (stem, business). He got mad at me and said that he always looked up to me and that I'm just sour about life. Part of the problem is that I can't be brutally honest with him. He got a 1280 SAT after like 300 trillion tries and a couple of years of courses. He's not going to be competitive for an elite law school. He'll be heavily indebted after going to some shitbag law school.

America imbues these kids with such ridiculous idealism and there's no way to fight it. He's actually very conservative too, so this isn't someone going on some shitlib international public interest law crusade.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889403)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: arousing naked windowlicker

Why can't you be brutally honest? He's about to ruin his life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889430)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:16 PM
Author: Brindle Dilemma

I did to a degree. I know he hates standardized tests so I told him the LSAT is brutal compared to the SAT and that law schools only care about your score and that they're a whole lot less "wholistic" than undergrads when it comes to admissions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889567)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: Fluffy Lavender Athletic Conference

lol at going into UG debt if he wants to go to LS.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889446)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 11:59 AM
Author: arousing naked windowlicker

Not familiar with subsidized loans here, would the UG loans start accruing interest when he starts 1L?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889453)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:01 PM
Author: razzmatazz business firm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889467)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:06 PM
Author: Brindle Dilemma

I made that point too. I explained to him that for law school his undergrad and what he studied wouldn't matter much at all anyway. Might as well go cheap and study something practical and if you still want to go to law school, you won't be in debt and you'll have alternatives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889510)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 11:59 AM
Author: hairraiser garnet pit

In 4 years he’ll get mad at you for not talking him out of it. They never learn and the fact he’s comparing himself to you now, before accomplishing anything, means he’ll always be resentful that you’re smarter than him and went through easier admissions cycles. I have family members and family friends like this (was first of them to go to college in the US) and they all refused to listen to my advice about debt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889457)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:04 PM
Author: Brindle Dilemma

At this point it's too late. He's going in a few weeks. But I tried. Even got the wife involved (she agreed with me). The sad thing is that his mom is an example of following a great practical path (state school to nursing to hospital admin). I got pissed off at my siblings who were giving him the "follow your dreams!" bullshit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889492)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:00 PM
Author: disgusting ultramarine space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889463)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:00 PM
Author: lascivious jet-lagged codepig

you have to be brutally honest with him. i have a similar situation but i hit her both before and after her ivy ug with a similar set of realities. she wasn't trying to hear it before she started at the ivy. she graduated and my wife and i did an intervention, had her come over, and hit her with some real nigga truth. she remembered what i told her 4 years ago and NOW is responsive. so maybe you chill the lake for 4 years, but it's worth having credibility at the tail end when they come to their senses.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889464)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:05 PM
Author: arousing naked windowlicker

Taking out 100k for a poli sci degree at a "t100" (probably ranked around/below meh state schools like Michigan State) is still a terrible decision. where do you even go after that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889501)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:08 PM
Author: Cream market

substance abuse ----> Flying J parking lot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889518)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:08 PM
Author: lascivious jet-lagged codepig

they always double down. better to be kinda fucked than fully fucked.

they answer to school didn't take is always "moar skool". this generation has an extreme bimodal distribution. it's either MOAR SKOOL ALL DA TIME or fuck skool. i think the latter will own the future tbh. and by that i mean live the more fulfilling life. you can always opt out. gen xers and millennials ate the MOAR SKOOL MYTH whole. better to at least try to tell the younger generation so at least they are on notice and can mitigate loss.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889522)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:13 PM
Author: Brindle Dilemma

Exactly what I'm doing. Mitigate further damage. My wife is convinced he'll get it soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889551)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 12:12 AM
Author: lascivious jet-lagged codepig

i know it will create friction, but it's temporary. he will thank you years later.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42893547)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:00 PM
Author: swollen glassy hospital mad-dog skullcap

T100? i remember when people talked about T25 or whatever but has it gotten that stretched out lol?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889465)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:15 PM
Author: 180 home trust fund

Stretched all the way out, gaping you might say

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889560)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:02 PM
Author: Adulterous doobsian casino

My San Jose-area cousin is going to Syracuse for some reason

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889478)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:09 PM
Author: lascivious jet-lagged codepig

oh god oh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889524)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:15 PM
Author: Adulterous doobsian casino

I think it's because he loves basketball. He's somehow like 6'5" despite my uncle being 5'9" (cucked?), and probably dominated all the asian/jewish kids at his UMC suburban CA high school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889556)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 4:59 PM
Author: Coiffed twinkling halford toaster

is he gonna try to walk on?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42897129)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 5:27 PM
Author: Adulterous doobsian casino

lmao, I hope not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42897292)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 5:20 PM
Author: Appetizing Hot Mad Cow Disease Laser Beams

the athletics at Bay Area HS's is such a pathetic joke. the gene pool of the ... current mix of students ... is laughable. literally only one NorCal HS is in the Top 25 of the HS football rankings. i consider this to be largely the fault of pathetic nothing people like Tommy Turdskin

edit: it's far more balanced in basketball, but basketball is just a mercenary sport. HS football is the truer test of the manhood of the overall student body

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42897260)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:12 PM
Author: Brindle Dilemma

similar situation but in reverse. They're young kids who want to experience someplace new and the schools are adept at feeding the urge. I told him it's a lot cheaper to visit a new city every few months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889539)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 4:59 PM
Author: Coiffed twinkling halford toaster

or do a semester in washington and a year abroad. nearly half your college will be spent away from campus

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42897133)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 5:02 PM
Author: poppy french tank garrison

Does this kid hate his parents?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42897154)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:12 PM
Author: Blue plaza

I know it's cheap, But its rutgers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889542)



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Date: August 3rd, 2021 12:13 PM
Author: floppy crackhouse lettuce

Aren’t like all good state schools in the T100 lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42889549)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 4:41 PM
Author: floppy crackhouse lettuce



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42897011)



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Date: August 5th, 2021 4:36 PM
Author: razzle partner

Good state schools like Berkeley, UCLA and Michigan are all top 25

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42902927)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 4:57 PM
Author: Bateful Skinny Woman Site

National ranking stops mattering *way* before 100.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42897121)



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Date: August 4th, 2021 5:01 PM
Author: Coiffed twinkling halford toaster

after T30 it declines quickly. schools like UC Santa Barbara, Penn State and Tulane. Certainly after T50 it's LULZy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42897147)



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Date: August 5th, 2021 4:29 PM
Author: Bateful Skinny Woman Site

These things aren't perfect, but 30 is a pretty good cutoff for national status.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42902886)



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Date: August 5th, 2021 4:32 PM
Author: hyperventilating galvanic university jap

introduce him to xo. we'll do the rest.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4891984&forum_id=2#42902905)