The shitlib establishment could have facilitated a true depopulation event by letting covid run rampant culling the old and sick.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43353421)

First Comes Love. Then Comes Sterilization.

Inside America's Baby Bust. Meet the young women who never want to have kids.

Suzy Weiss

Oct 25

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Playground at night in New York City. (Education Images/Universal Images Group via Getty Images)

Rachel Diamond looks like most of the moms at the Park Slope café where we meet. She’s wearing a green t-shirt under a black corduroy jumper, sensible shoes and carries a smart, leather bag. She sips a four dollar iced chai. Except the 31-year-old isn’t a mom. And she never will be. “You know,” Diamond says cheerily, “I never expected to be the poster child of sterilization.”

On the aspiring actor’s TikTok, one finds short funny videos about Diamond’s job working the register at a cafe near Union Square and updates on her rescue pitbull, Rue, who has anemia. Mixed in are the clips extolling her child-free life. They have titles like “Sterilization Attempt #3” and “Being Childfree: We DO Know What We’re Missing.” It’s been five months since she had her fallopian tubes cut — not tied — and she has 64,000 followers.

Growing up near Hershey, Penn., Diamond always assumed she’d have a family of her own. Then came college at Arcadia University; her political awakening, away from her conservative roots, and towards progressivism; and a therapist who she found online a few months after graduation who made her realize that being spanked as a child was deeply traumatic, and that it made her fear authority figures like her father. She decided that she never wanted to be one herself. Never ever ever.

“Looking back, I never pretended that my American Girl dolls were children, they were always my sisters,” she says. “There were little things showing that I wasn’t preparing myself for motherhood. I think for me, it’s as innate as saying, ‘I’ve always wanted to be a mom.’”

Diamond is hardly an outlier. Americans are making fewer babies than we’ve made since we started keeping track in the 1930s. And some women, like Diamond, are not just putting off pregnancy but eliminating the possibility of it altogether.

Last year, the number of deaths exceeded that of births in 25 states — up from five the year before. The marriage rate is also at an all-time low, at 6.5 marriages per 1,000 people. Millennials are the first generation where a majority are unmarried (about 56%). They are also more likely to live with their own parents, according to Pew, than previous generations were in their twenties and thirties.

They also aren’t having sex. The number of young men (ages 18 to 30) who admit they have had no sex in the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Cities like New York, where young, secular Americans flock to to build their lives, are increasingly childless. In San Francisco, there are more dogs than children.

A dog sits in a stroller. (Getty Images)

It used to be that people wanted to make babies. Women, especially, but also men. That was a healthy young person’s default position, and our existence depended on it. We wanted to do other things, of course, and the great post-feminist challenge was how to have it all — the proper work-life balance, the career and the baby, the supportive husband and the adventurous life.

But now, for an increasing number, the question isn’t how to have it all. It’s: why do it at all?

This psychological reversal didn’t just happen. It took place inside the hurricane of spiritual, cultural and environmental forces swirling around us. But the message from this young cohort is clear: Life is already exhausting enough. And the world is broken and burning. Who would want to bring new, innocent life into a criminally unequal society situated on a planet with catastrophically rising sea levels?

The Rapture — sorry, the end — is upon us, and this is no time for onesies. So says The New Yorker and NPR and AOC. According to a new poll, 39% of Gen Zers are hesitant to procreate for fear of the climate apocalypse. A nationally representative study of adults in Michigan found that over a quarter of adults there are child-free by choice. And new research by the Institute of Family Studies found that the desire to have a child among adults decreased by 17% since the onset of the pandemic.

“I think it's morally wrong to bring a child into the world,” said Isabel, 28, a self proclaimed anti-natalist who lives in southwestern Texas and did not want her last name in print. “No matter how good someone has it, they will suffer.”

Texas’s new, highly restrictive abortion law has led her to take action sooner instead of later. “I was going to wait until I was thirty to get the procedure done,” Isabel said, “but, with the Heartbeat Bill in place, I can't take the risk of getting pregnant and not being able to abort.”

Last week, she was approved for The Operation — aka laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy. (Many surgeons won’t sterilize young, childless women because studies indicate high rates of regret, so it can take time to lock one down.) During the procedure, which she hopes will take place in the next few months depending on Covid and the hospital’s capacity to perform elective surgeries, Isabel’s surgeon will make three incisions: two near her abdomen and one just above her belly button. This will allow the surgeon to insert cameras and then remove her fallopian tubes.

Isabel is planning a “sterilization celebration” at a local sushi joint. There will be lots of booze, a smattering of friends, and her brother and his husband, who are also child-free. “I don't want to work my life away,” says Isabel, who hopes to retire in her fifties or earlier.

Darlene Nickell, 31, in Denver, Colo., had her tubes removed eight months ago. “My generation is very aware of the ways that our parents traumatized us,” she tells me. “My mom smoked a lot of weed and did her own thing, and my dad was away a lot for work.” She says her parents’ marriage improved after they became empty nesters.

She first set out to get sterilized at the age of 21 and was told by her doctor that she needed written consent from her male partner or to have already had two kids. Meantime, her childless male friend from high school had successfully gotten his vasectomy a year before. “That felt like an attack on me.”

Darlene, who was surprised that her obstetrician agreed to sterilize her when she brought it up at her yearly check up, is the self-proclaimed black sheep of her family — though she says her two younger sisters, one in her twenties and one in her teens, are likely to follow her lead. The 23-year-old is exploring sterilization herself; the other is “feeling inspired” by the child-free life.

The child-free find each other on social media, mostly on Reddit. There’s r/childfree and r/antinatalism and r/fencesitters — as in, “I’m on the fence about this whole kids thing.” You can also find doctors who will sterilize you, and how-to guides with tips and frequently asked questions like “Can you trust a fence-sitter boyfriend who doesn’t want a vasectomy?”

Rachel Diamond’s live-in boyfriend, Cameron Gilkes, 33, introduced her to Reddit and her new family of people dead set against creating families. “I asked to get a vasectomy at 24 and 26,” says Cameron, who was hopeful for any type of male contraceptive, one injectable called Vasalgel has been stuck in trials for years, before Rachel got sterilized. “We’d been trying for a long time,” she says.

They met on eHarmony seven years ago and “came out” to each other on their second date. The script from the movie they saw that night, “Interstellar,” sits on a stuffed bookshelf next to “The Feminine Mystique,” “Screenwriting for Dummies,” and “The Peter Pan Chronicles” in the two-bedroom apartment they share with a third roommate who they met through a friend.

The space is well-kept, if cramped with accessories and toys for their “special-needs” pitbull. (“She’s scared of other dogs,” Diamond explained. “She’s never been socialized because she was bred for fighting, and she is so much f-ing work.”) Star Wars action figures are lined up atop a shoe rack and just beneath a Bluetooth-enabled lightsaber, custom made to be as close to movie-realness as possible. On the fridge are magnets from The Strand, one of a Baby Yoda peeking out of a spaceship, and a few from the Brooklyn Public Library, including one declaring “Knowledge is Power.”

Child-freedom — and Diamond and Gilkes are child-free, not anti-natalist, in that they don’t think it’s necessarily wrong for other people to procreate — comes with its own lingo. “Brant” means “breeder rant” (as in, the annoying things people with kids tell people without kids about how great life is with kids). “Mombie” is a haggard mom-zombie, lost to the land of breast milk and binkies. “THINKER” is an acronym standing for “Two Healthy Incomes No Kids Early Retirement.” “Bingo-ing” refers to the questions the child-free get asked by the child-full: “What if your kid cures cancer? What if you regret it? Who will take care of you when you’re older?”⁠

The dating apps have taken note. On Hinge for example, under the “My Vitals” section, there’s also “Vices,” like if you take drugs, and “Virtues,” for religious and political affiliations, you can tick off whether you want children, if you don’t want them, or if you’re “open” to it. If you’re child-free, you can eliminate future breeders from your feed using a premium plan starting at $29.99 per month.

The child-free have many reasons for not wanting babies: fear of pregnancy, fear of authority, fear of preeclampsia (a pregnancy disorder that can lead to undesirable outcomes for the mother and baby), fear of postpartum depression. And, in Diamond and Gilkes’ case, racism.

Diamond is white. Gilkes is black. And they say they worry about what life would be like for a biracial baby in today’s America. “I wouldn’t be able to say ‘I understand’ if they came home from school and had been bullied for their hair or their skin color,” Diamond said.

Gilkes said, “I had a girlfriend break up with me because she didn’t want to deal with the racism that came with dating a black guy, and said if we had kids she wouldn’t know how to do black girl hair.” (That prompted Diamond to roll her eyes. “I mean, there are salons and professionals for that.”)

I asked them if they ever thought about their own personal legacy — the people they would leave behind. “The whole legacy thing makes me laugh,” Rachel said. “It’s like, ‘Who do you think you are?’ Do you want your kid to be a founding father? That would make them a colonizer.”

Sophia — a 19-year old communications student who goes to a small school in British Columbia, and declined to give her last name for privacy reasons — was just approved for sterilization by her doctor in Canada. She told me she has a great relationship with her parents who are “super chill” about her decision to be child-free, despite the fact that they’re both religious Christians. She has one sister who she says is pro-kid, or at least not anti, and though Sophia doesn't believe in God anymore — she’s left behind the church she grew up in and its “toxic culture” — she describes herself as “vaguely spiritual.”

She says taking the pill or using another non-permanent birth control would amount to kicking the can down the road since she knows she doesn’t want kids ever. “I’m going to do this invasive thing once, rest for a few days, and never think about it again.”

The teen, who has a roommate named Emily and a part-time job at a grocery store, doesn’t have a clear picture of her life besides travelling, and maybe moving to the coast, away from the “semi-desert grasslands” where she lives now. In high school she visited Ecuador and Kenya on humanitarian trips, and has dreams to hit every continent.

She was surprised that the doctor, who will sterilize her in the coming months, didn’t ask about her sexual history. If she did she would have found out that it amounts to little more than flirting and a few dates.

“I’m a virgin, and I was worried that she would send me off to have sex before she agreed to do it,” Sophia says. She acknowledged that she may come down with a case of baby fever in her twenties, but that that’s just another risk that she’s accepting. “There’s no point regretting what you can’t change,” she says. If she were to eventually find a partner who wanted kids? “That would just be a dealbreaker for me.” She doesn't remember one moment that turned her off permanently to parenthood, but she never really liked being around other kids when she was one, and hated babysitting when she got older. “I found it draining.”

Chelsea, a 25 year-old in Sacramento, told me kids “kind of gross her out.” She’s weighing the risks of going under the knife, like infection or mood swings brought on by anesthesia, but says regret isn’t one of them. “What’s there to regret?” writes another Redditor, “That I’ll be too happy? Too free?”

According to Clay Routledge, an existential psychologist at North Dakota State University who has studied young people’s attitudes toward the future, there is a growing school of thought among twenty-somethings that humans are the problem. It’s not just that we’ve built factories and polluted the oceans and launched tons of garbage into space. It’s that there’s something about us — our psychology, our chromosomal wiring — that makes it impossible for us to make things better.

Close-up of white plastic bag with yellow smiley slowly drifting under surface of water with school of tropical fish. (Andrey Nekrasov/Barcroft Media via Getty Images)

“They’re saying that the future isn’t a good investment,” Routledge says. “And if there’s no future, why would you be anything but hedonistic? Why would you donate to charities? Why would you try to make the world better or care about human progress?” He adds that this generation has a sense that “humans were a mistake.”

Sophie Lewis, a British feminist scholar, calls the institution of the family a “microfactory of debtors” and argues that it generally “sucks.” In her book, “Full Surrogacy Now: Feminism Against Family,” Lewis describes pregnancy as “something to be struggled in and against.” She dreams of a post-parent world, one in which the old notion of the family is replaced with a “classless commune on the basis of the best available care for all.”

She might well get it, unless the current fever breaks.

“I used to think all kids are bad, and I had a period in middle school where I was ultra liberal, and I thought everyone should stop having kids,” says 19-year-old Sophia in British Columbia. “I chalk it up to emotional immaturity. As I got older, I realized that there was more to this, and I didn’t have to be super uptight in my beliefs.”

I ask what she hopes her childless life will look like. What countries will she visit? Where will she live? What will she do with all of her free time, and what does she hope her career will be? “It’s kind of hard to ask someone who is nineteen and hasn’t finished college what they want their life to look like,” she tells me, a little annoyed.

Suzy Weiss’s last feature for us was about the explosion in American homeschooling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43341640)

the 19 yo getting sterilized is sad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43341672)

The problem with a 19 year old getting sterilized is that at that age you have no idea who you are. You're completely malleable. Also if you're not planning on having kids you still don't need to get permanent surgery.

19 year old girls are completely irrational, effervescent people who have no sense of self and whose opinions blow in the wind. "All my life I have known I didn't want to be a mom and I've always hated kids. Plus, life sucks anyway why make more people." Yeah, in 6 months your entire outlook on life is going to flip upside down. There is no "All my life I have believed in X" when you have zero life experiences.

What the article doesn't mention is how they are doing this to be fashionable. It's something to drop at a party to gain some credibility in the progressive movement. It's posturing with a certain crowd. It's a card you play to gain approval. And from whom? The worst, most sick and fucked up people.

Women are so easily brainwashed that you could take the same chick and drop her in rural Arkansas and in a few years she'd become a Christian tradwife. You really can completely rewire a woman's brain because they're not capable of rational thought. Unfortunately libs are the ones best at doing the rewiring. But no doubt as surely as lesbians don't exist, these women will all live with horrible regret and guilt later in life when they hit 30+ and don't have the looks and realize that hedonism for most women dries up pretty early in their life cycle and then they're just a creepy cat lady for the rest of time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43342127)

In addition to the numerous overtly corrosive aspects of this behavior being heavily promoted, there are a myriad of smaller order effects that are less obvious but equally if not more damaging when it comes to population control.

Think of the amount of times a woke man or woman has gone on a date with someone who checks the box in so many ways but then breaks it off because something that offends woke orthodoxy was inadvertently uttered at the dinner table. This couple ceases to be together, their household that may otherwise have been formed - either through careful planning after a long courtship or a shotgun wedding after an unexpected pregnancy - ebbs away and crumbles to dust in the wind.

Another one is the effort that someone must expend in ordinary discourse to tiptoe around and not offend an increasing multitude of smaller and smaller groups of various types of minorities. Language gets restricted, changed, flourish is lost, oration on the scale of the past dies and is replaced by a sterile and restrictive common argot which itself stultifies future generations and makes them increasingly exhausted and servile. Socializing becomes more difficult and exhausting, creativity and humor go unexpressed. People stop living and deriving lighthearted joy from the gentle absurdities of existence.

These are but only two examples of the pervasive and deleterious effects of this behavior that is thoroughly corrupt and is designed to gradually erode humanity, civil society and shackle the entire multitude in mental and social bondage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43341820)

Thatcher said that in the Soviet Union, the biggest political threat to the régime came from the scientific community, because in order for the Soviets to achieve space travel and other advanced feats, they needed people who had been trained to think independently. And once you know how to think, you can apply it universally.

I think the reason libs are so desperately concerned with orthodoxy and why they go ballistic over minor slights to their belief system, like canceling Dave Chapelle of all people, after expressing a well thought out and genuine and nuanced point of view, is that they are terrified if a little bit of truth gets through to people, the entire house of cards will come crumbling down.

If enough people in the public sphere reach a tipping point, where most people realize that there are only two genders, from such a small kernel of truth you can easily derive one by one the fact that their entire belief system is a lie. Not one ray of truth can penetrate into mainstream acceptance. They can't afford to lose a minor point because it's all built on a foundation of bullshit but if they can achieve a totalitarian control over the narrative they have a chance to force enough people into the machine and put the blinders on for good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43342180)

!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43342185)

A foundation of quicksand; nothing new under the sun...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43342186)

A perfect example of a brainwashed Communist society is when the North Koreans had to imprison and torture Otto Warmbier over a propaganda sign he took down.

I read I think it was Michael Malice talking about how everyone is a prisoner of the régime, even the rulers. It's like why can't North Korea just be reasonable and let the one American guy go and not cause an international relations crisis. Well the truth is, in a society that brainwashed you can't just "let it go" because everyone has been conditioned from birth to rat on each other and that the way you survive is to be the one who escalates the extreme overreaction to a small slight.

No one in their society has the capacity for tolerance, reflection, or foresight in the face of the smallest slight. Because again, the house of cards will topple if even one small ray of truth breaks through.

And you're definitely seeing this with libs now where if you say you don't agree that "2 Spirits" should be a federally recognized gender identity then you are an enemy of the régime. Once you go down the rabbit hole of brainwashing and cult status, you have to go all in. This is why they are fighting a war on normalcy, and why a girl can get raped in a school bathroom by a tranny and the school board is saying we have no record of that.

Not one ray of truth can get through. This is a fundamental of any cult. You have to take the smallest thing and blow it up times a million until people are coming at you with pitchforks because you didn't clap Stalin's speech long enough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43352474)

Even black intellectuals are against this shit. At least 1!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43352609)

So what does the left really stand for? The only issues I can really see the left being for long term is they want open boarders and mass immigration because they think they can turn Texas blue and then they'll all be in power forever and we'll have a one party state.

The other core tenet they have is just to grow the government forever. It's already massive and it's past the point where anyone could unwind it all. Imo they just want to grow it to the point where it can never be turned around and even the GOP buys into this and half of everyone will have a fake government job.

This all is to solidify a generational aristocracy. We will simply drift long term into a 19th century European state with no upward mobility. Freedom will just be a memory.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43352831)

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951566&forum_id=2#43345865

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43352854)

I’m reminded of Edward Abbey’s observation:

“Growth for the sake of growth is the ideology of a cancer cell.”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43352860)

People in this country have absolutely no idea how people used to live before big brother was in every aspect of their lives. It turns out, they mostly lived quite well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43353168)

They don’t want their subjects to realize that extended family, community, and religion are FAR better safety nets, much more reliable havens in a heartless world (to borrow an expression from Christopher Lasch), than the all-powerful State.

Family, community, and traditional (ie pre-liberation theology) religion all have a stake in people becoming happy and productive; the bureaucratic Borg has a stake in people being miserable and dependent - the Misery Industrial Complex.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43353185)

I grew up on a street where no one knew each other and everyone kept to themselves in a beautiful neighborhood where people could have easily gotten to know each other. But aristocrats always keep to themselves and vet their social life by class and political beliefs etc. My dad had a rich friend and when we went to visit we had to sit at separate tables and the rich children had their own table and they would talk about the fantastical vacations they were going on, and we weren't allowed to talk to them.

Fast forward my whole family thinks I'm insane for living in a red state but I know all my neighbors and people come up to me every single day and say, "Do you know why we like you? Do you know why we treat you so good?" and I say no why and they say "Because we can tell that you're a good person and that's all that matters to us."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43353363)

Most of all, I’m glad to hear that you’re doing well, my brother in poasting. It just goes to show that, as Saint Francis would say, one steadfast candle really DOES make a difference.

The devil doesn’t want us to learn the secret, namely, that the light has already won; it’s just a matter of who’s going to be in attendance at the victory banquet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43353406)

🐢🀝🐢

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43353428)

See u in Valhalla

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43353452)

Cosmic Bootcamp Lives Matter!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43353437)

!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43341837)

please collect and publish your poasts from over the years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43341838)

https://jaffememo.com/

PROPOSED MEASURES TO REDUCE FERTILITY, BY UNIVERSALITY OR SELECTIVITY OF IMPACT IN THE U.S.

Social Constraints:

Restructure family:

a) Postpone or avoid marriage

b) Alter image of ideal family size

Compulsory education of children

Encourage increased homosexuality

Educate for family limitation

Fertility control agents in water supply

Encourage women to work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43344156)

Always

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4951004&forum_id=2#43344208)