What I’m SHOCKED about and women are usually defensive about is the following scenario which I find happens in 4/5 of relationships.

Female meets a guy. They both catch feelings for each other. They start seeing each other more often moving towards exclusivity. The guy is the FIRST one to assume in his mind that maybe we’re not exclusive but it would be inappropriate for me to hook up with someone else right now.

Then right before the talk about exclusivity, the guy can’t go out that night or the female is out by herself with her friends and she hooks up with an old flame or a new Chad. Instead of saying “hmmm I have something great going and maybe I should keep my legs closed for a weekend” it’s as if their impulsive bird brains can’t resist. Then defend it by saying “well we were technically still single!”

Then the original guy officially dates this chick. Then it comes out that she hooked up with the other guy. Then there’s resentment and the relationship is built on a horrible foundation that ends up long term crumbling the eventual marriage.

Very often the guy, when he’s 35 and can still go on tinder and pull 22 year old tail, will say “fuck it, my wife didn’t want me originally anyway.”

Instead of the chick just focusing on her guy from the beginning, making him feel like an alpha fuck, and literally cut out ONE night of sex with someone else.

This scenario has happened to a TON of people I know. Never see it played out in movies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4980725&forum_id=2#43573153)

1. HS crush/boyfriend that they may or may not have had sex with.

2. One or two college boyfriends that they most likely had sex with.

3. Post-college BF they definitely had sex with.

Most women aged 24-27 have had sex with 3-5 guys in their entire lives. These are college educated women who value themselves and their pussies and realize you can't give it away for free. The whores (+10 partners by mid 20s) are either high-T sex addicts or have shitty self esteem and give their pussies away freely as a way to seek validation. Either way, you should know if your girl's a whore or not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4980725&forum_id=2#43573219)

And many of these LTR's lead to rebound flings, too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4980725&forum_id=2#43574153)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4980725&forum_id=2#43573943)

In the small city I live in, it might approach more like 50%, although age is a huge dividing line. There was a huge shift in values that made the younger, app-raised generation drastically more slutty. The crowd old enough to be hesitant about online dating is much more chaste.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4980725&forum_id=2#43575355)

this gets mentioned only in humorous ways, like mean girls, or "cat fights", or women being bitchy to work colleagues. the truth is much more grim. women are the most back-biting, duplicitous, mean spirited people on earth when it comes to dealing with their own gender. the vast majority of women are incapable of actual friendships with other women, unless there is some imbalance that makes one feel superior and doesn't have to be on her toes.

big example of this: almost no bro would EVER try to fuck your girlfriend. anyone that did would be a huge piece of shit, and banished from the friend group. meanwhile, your girlfriends best friend would probably fuck you just for the drama. often they'll just be flirty in order to create tension.

when men disagree they'll sometimes try to break each other's bodies. women will try to destroy each other's lives. and usually do it with a smile.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4980725&forum_id=2#43575629)

most women have a couple of "real" friends that they keep around. of course, there must be some imbalance. either that friend is in a LTR (no threat), or there is a difference in attractiveness, career, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4980725&forum_id=2#43575693)