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How many people here are in your 30s and still trying to get married/have kids?

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Beautiful Boy
  08/05/22
Nah. 40s and hopeless.
~~(> ' ' )>
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DR. THUNDER
  08/05/22
40s and hopeless tp
research boner
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what debt?
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Beautiful Boy
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lugenpresse
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fempo
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lol
GayPumo
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shapeshifting kike
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buddy's
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turbo gook
  08/05/22
Modern women are so vile & selfish that I stopped even b...
DR. THUNDER
  08/05/22
Gross. Why flirt with these women. It sounds like you're afr...
JamesBaldwin
  08/05/22
no kidding they’re paid to be nice. I’m just lau...
DR. THUNDER
  08/05/22
Unblinkingly
Wilbur Mercer
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Rampart
  08/05/22
lol
DR. THUNDER
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Kikechipper
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pro gamer
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bowlcut autist
  08/06/22
It creates good vibes and will make you seem chill and welco...
Doggy Suicide
  08/05/22
Exactly. I’m back on NODRINK but these bartenders will...
DR. THUNDER
  08/05/22
is there a differnce between being friendly and flirting? an...
JamesBaldwin
  08/05/22
with a hot chick you might slightly tease about something oc...
DR. THUNDER
  08/05/22
Gotcha. I figured. I'm friendly but I don't like giving them...
JamesBaldwin
  08/05/22
I will say that alcohol plays into it. If I'm sober at a bar...
DR. THUNDER
  08/05/22
Plurality of NYC career shrews are like this
boyfriend-grade penis
  08/05/22
tp
research boner
  08/05/22
I'm that age and actively trying for kids with my wife.
Jordan Shanks
  08/05/22
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Strap Skunt
  08/05/22
Lmao I have 5
Johnsmeyer
  08/05/22
Nobody asked you FAGGOT
Dr. Michael Greger
  08/05/22
What do you mean by “still”? Vast majority of s...
Doggy Suicide
  08/05/22
XO mental Illness on display ITT
Johnsmeyer
  08/05/22
Would like the wife with no kids. Finding a woman who act...
,.,.,.,.,........,,,.,.,.,.,
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Height
  08/05/22
I this really true? How old are you/the women you're conside...
fempo
  08/05/22
I set my range 30-45, women in their 20's are exhausting. A...
,.,.,.,.,........,,,.,.,.,.,
  08/05/22
Very interesting, are you on the shitcoasts or in are countr...
fempo
  08/05/22
i'm gay
Dr. Michael Greger
  08/05/22
40s, and if I can find a young woman, I'd like to do it, but...
.,.,..;.;..,;,..,.,;.,
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Late 30s and same
Lionel Tiger
  08/05/22
cr. maybe we'll make it? grateful to this board for the per...
.,.,..;.;..,;,..,.,;.,
  08/06/22
One thing for people to remember is this: life isn’t a...
Height
  08/05/22
This is some seriously illuminating and frightening shit.
Jordan Shanks
  08/05/22
I wonder what message board he was looking for when he stumb...
The Boundaries of Human Degradation
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holdupholdupwhat
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Jordan Shanks
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pro gamer
  08/06/22
Wow, you sure have a lot of insight into what God wants. Min...
Pumonymous
  08/05/22
I've grown a lot through having kids. I've developed a lot m...
Memph Bleek
  08/05/22
Kids are a gift from God, and I agree with you. But it&rsquo...
Height
  08/05/22
"Many secular people have them as a distraction and foc...
.........,,;,;,;,,,............,,;,;;,.;.
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Great thread
turbo gook
  08/05/22
I'm 35 and have 5 kids and have been married for 12 years?
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Are you me?
Johnsmeyer
  08/05/22
Yes?
;..;.;;;.;;.;.;.;;;.;;;.;.;;;....;.
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only know (closely) two couples trying. both have not been s...
lex
  08/05/22
here for a 100+ thread
A Banh Mi Nation
  08/06/22
thread has already run its course. OP and its variants have ...
Dr. Michael Greger
  08/06/22
Fair
Height
  08/06/22
given up
...,,,.,,,,,,,..,,.,.,,.....,,.,.,,..
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32, open to it but it's not going to happen.
,...,.,.,.;,.;,.;.,..,.;..,.,,.,;,.,.;,.,
  08/06/22
Why not?
Gay Grandpa
  08/06/22
Have never even been in a relationship, comically inept at t...
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i went bald in my 20s, but look at me now! still bald
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Sup Charles
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36 and newly married. Kids are on the horizon.
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30s. My 9.5 wife was 30 when we met. IN NYC. She is a Uni...
Summa
  08/06/22
What is your longstanding obsession with tall blondes?
.,.,.,.,.,,.,..,
  08/06/22
and you're happy and faithful?
.,.,..;.;..,;,..,.,;.,
  08/06/22
Having sex with 450 people is indicative of extreme personal...
Now see here
  08/06/22
Sup
Just your average poaster
  08/06/22


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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:19 PM
Author: Beautiful Boy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970351)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:25 PM
Author: ~~(> ' ' )>

Nah. 40s and hopeless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970376)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:26 PM
Author: DR. THUNDER (It's like adopting a 40 year old child)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970379)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:40 PM
Author: research boner

40s and hopeless tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970447)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:01 PM
Author: what debt? (Dork Enlightenment)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970518)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:18 PM
Author: Beautiful Boy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970598)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: lugenpresse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970775)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:41 PM
Author: fempo (fempo@usa.com)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970916)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:06 AM
Author: ,...,.,.,.;,.;,.;.,..,.;..,.,,.,;,.,.;,.,




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971586)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:26 PM
Author: GayPumo

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970385)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:39 PM
Author: shapeshifting kike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970441)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: buddy's



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970695)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:38 PM
Author: turbo gook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970893)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:30 PM
Author: DR. THUNDER (It's like adopting a 40 year old child)

Modern women are so vile & selfish that I stopped even bothering with them. If a hot bartender or woman wants to chit chat I can’t help but go into semi-flirtatious mode, it’s the male DNA. But I don’t actively seek out relationships.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970401)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:36 PM
Author: JamesBaldwin (1799 SOL away from student loan freedom (thanks gator))

Gross. Why flirt with these women. It sounds like you're afraid of rejection a little bit. Those women are paid to be nice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970433)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:38 PM
Author: DR. THUNDER (It's like adopting a 40 year old child)

no kidding they’re paid to be nice. I’m just laughing how it’s autonomous to respond somewhat flirtatiously to a hot woman’s flirtations even when you know they’re skanks & it’s their job. you telling me you ignore bantering with a hot woman & sit stonefaced like an autist?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970685)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:48 PM
Author: Wilbur Mercer (Krugerrand)

Unblinkingly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970727)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:51 PM
Author: .,.,..;.;..,;,..,.,;.,



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970738)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:15 PM
Author: Rampart ( )



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970821)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:22 PM
Author: DR. THUNDER (It's like adopting a 40 year old child)

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970839)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:04 AM
Author: Kikechipper (Hegemon)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971474)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:13 AM
Author: pro gamer



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971496)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 3:30 AM
Author: bowlcut autist



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971680)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: Doggy Suicide

It creates good vibes and will make you seem chill and welcoming to others at the bar. Also if you become a regular the bar can be your cheers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970696)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:19 PM
Author: DR. THUNDER (It's like adopting a 40 year old child)

Exactly. I’m back on NODRINK but these bartenders will cut my bill in half when I get to know them. And they turn my bill upside down so my friends don’t see the difference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970832)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:29 PM
Author: JamesBaldwin (1799 SOL away from student loan freedom (thanks gator))

is there a differnce between being friendly and flirting? and do you guys chat up guy bartenders as well?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970859)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:35 PM
Author: DR. THUNDER (It's like adopting a 40 year old child)

with a hot chick you might slightly tease about something occasionally, you kind of automatically go to a paul newman-type somewhat devious glint in the eye and wry smile. hard to explain. it just happens.

with guy bartenders it's different. it's like you're hanging with one of your bros watching sports.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970878)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:11 PM
Author: JamesBaldwin (1799 SOL away from student loan freedom (thanks gator))

Gotcha. I figured. I'm friendly but I don't like giving them extra attention beyond the banter I'd have with a male bartender

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971037)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:30 PM
Author: DR. THUNDER (It's like adopting a 40 year old child)

I will say that alcohol plays into it. If I'm sober at a bar I'm more matter-of-fact. I'll still play around a little bit, but probably not as much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971126)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:49 PM
Author: boyfriend-grade penis

Plurality of NYC career shrews are like this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970475)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 8:49 PM
Author: research boner

tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970478)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:39 PM
Author: Jordan Shanks

I'm that age and actively trying for kids with my wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970688)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:40 PM
Author: Strap Skunt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970692)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:42 PM
Author: Johnsmeyer

Lmao I have 5

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970699)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:01 PM
Author: Dr. Michael Greger (MPC frauds = out!)

Nobody asked you FAGGOT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970778)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:42 PM
Author: Doggy Suicide

What do you mean by “still”? Vast majority of successful men don’t start having kids until their 30s.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970702)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:58 PM
Author: Johnsmeyer

XO mental Illness on display ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970766)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:43 PM
Author: ,.,.,.,.,........,,,.,.,.,., ( )


Would like the wife with no kids.

Finding a woman who actively doesn't want kids is nearly impossible, it's actually a massive imbalance because 85% of women have a kid by the time they're infertile but only like 75% of men. But it's worse than that because a lot of the childless women are stepmoms-- the guy effectively destroyed two women because one isn't single and the other has primary custody of her ex husband's kid. The competition for barren women is even more insanely impossible than the regular dating market, they can demand a helicopter and probably get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970704)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:54 PM
Author: Height ( )



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970755)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:44 PM
Author: fempo (fempo@usa.com)

I this really true? How old are you/the women you're considering?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970930)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:01 PM
Author: ,.,.,.,.,........,,,.,.,.,., ( )


I set my range 30-45, women in their 20's are exhausting. And yeah everybody has a baby or wants a baby. Even if their kids are grown and out of the house it doesn't really help, by the time the youngest is out of the house their oldest has a kid and now it's all about their grandkids. It's absolutely brutal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970994)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:33 PM
Author: fempo (fempo@usa.com)

Very interesting, are you on the shitcoasts or in are country?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971140)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:50 PM
Author: Dr. Michael Greger (MPC frauds = out!)

i'm gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970736)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 9:52 PM
Author: .,.,..;.;..,;,..,.,;.,

40s, and if I can find a young woman, I'd like to do it, but I understand it's unlikely

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970746)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:26 PM
Author: Lionel Tiger (kinky prey animal)

Late 30s and same

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970851)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 11:59 AM
Author: .,.,..;.;..,;,..,.,;.,

cr. maybe we'll make it? grateful to this board for the perspectives on such things, in any event

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972530)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:01 PM
Author: Height ( )

One thing for people to remember is this: life isn’t about procreating and being married etc. Having a family and kids are great, but it’s really not why we are here. Atheists will say it’s the only reason we are here because “muh evolution,” but in reality God put us here to seek him, love him, love others and learn to love and serve others. The results of those good things are all we can take with us to the next life. Having kids is great but you are not your kids and they do not always help us in that role. Many secular people have them as a distraction and focus, and end up raising kids with the wrong values or ignoring the true reason we are here. Certainly this is not a good outcome either, for anyone. God wants to bless us with families but he also wants us to learn to love. And sometimes single people haven’t learned enough, or haven’t sought God enough, and God is wanting them to seek him first. And then there is the foundation for a healthy relationship and family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970780)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:05 PM
Author: Jordan Shanks

This is some seriously illuminating and frightening shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970789)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:30 PM
Author: The Boundaries of Human Degradation

I wonder what message board he was looking for when he stumbled onto this place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970863)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:42 PM
Author: holdupholdupwhat (π“€π“‚ΊπŸ‘©πŸ»‍🎀)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970923)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 5:50 AM
Author: Jordan Shanks



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971808)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: pro gamer



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972315)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:38 PM
Author: Pumonymous

Wow, you sure have a lot of insight into what God wants. Mind sharing your secrets?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970889)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:43 PM
Author: Memph Bleek

I've grown a lot through having kids. I've developed a lot morally, become way more patient and less selfish. So I think kids can bring you closer to God

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970924)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:25 PM
Author: Height ( )

Kids are a gift from God, and I agree with you. But it’s not always the case.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971093)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:36 AM
Author: .........,,;,;,;,,,............,,;,;;,.;.


"Many secular people have them as a distraction and focus, and end up raising kids with the wrong values or ignoring the true reason we are here."

Totally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971626)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 10:38 PM
Author: turbo gook

Great thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44970892)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:12 PM
Author: .....,.,.,..,,..,,.,.,..,,.,.,.,..,..,.,.,.,.,.,..


I'm 35 and have 5 kids and have been married for 12 years?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971041)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:21 PM
Author: Johnsmeyer

Are you me?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971074)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:06 AM
Author: ;..;.;;;.;;.;.;.;;;.;;;.;.;;;....;.


Yes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971476)



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Date: August 5th, 2022 11:22 PM
Author: lex

only know (closely) two couples trying. both have not been successful. tragedy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971077)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:14 AM
Author: A Banh Mi Nation

here for a 100+ thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971499)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:52 AM
Author: Dr. Michael Greger (MPC frauds = out!)

thread has already run its course. OP and its variants have been made a billion times and by now everyone is just used to the fact that 95% of posters are chronically depressed and want to drag you down with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971569)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 7:18 AM
Author: Height ( )

Fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971886)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 1:14 AM
Author: ...,,,.,,,,,,,..,,.,.,,.....,,.,.,,..


given up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971500)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:07 AM
Author: ,...,.,.,.;,.;,.;.,..,.;..,.,,.,;,.,.;,.,


32, open to it but it's not going to happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971587)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:08 AM
Author: Gay Grandpa

Why not?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971589)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:42 AM
Author: ,...,.,.,.;,.;,.;.,..,.;..,.,,.,;,.,.;,.,


Have never even been in a relationship, comically inept at trying to pick up chicks (and most of them are horrible). Also I’m bald.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971638)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 3:06 AM
Author: ...,,,.,,,,,,,..,,.,.,,.....,,.,.,,..


i went bald in my 20s, but look at me now! still bald

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971662)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 10:59 AM
Author: ...;.;;.....

Sup Charles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972322)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 2:36 AM
Author: .........,,;,;,;,,,............,,;,;;,.;.


36 and newly married. Kids are on the horizon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971628)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 5:48 AM
Author: Summa

30s. My 9.5 wife was 30 when we met. IN NYC.

She is a Unicorn. Blonde. Tall. Fit. And mid western. Extremely funny. Like a super fun barbie. Head turner just with her energy, let alone her looks. Very down to earth. Mades 120K as an ICU nurse. Believes in me. Loves me. annoys me. and loves me harder.

I slept with...honestly I lost count before I met her. conservative estimate is between 450-500 partners.

Our first child, daughter, is due in August.

Real talk. "Success" is a never ending treadmill. The more women you sleep with, the hotter the women you sleep with, and the objectively more value you see in yourself -- all this makes you think you deserve more, and better.

This is the same game you guys are playing when you're a 37yr old lawyer trying to bag that 23yr old stunner.

The lucky ones who have their shit together will do so. But if your head is not on right, that jump from a 6 to a 7, or an 8 to a 9 will becomes more and more addicting, very warped. You're going to demand more. "She's a 9 but she is not funny." "She's a 10 but is boring." Or the more likely the case, "she's a 6 but I want hotter."

Go for it. "Trying for more" is how we advance our species. Just don't lose sight of the big picture. ***Achieving more than what you ever thought you can get = YOU WON.***

If you cannot satiate your desire for MORE WHORE, know that eventually, at the tail end of the female bell curve, you are making your mate decisions on marginal and trivial issues.

If you fail to realize that last point, you won't be able to pair up successfully.

Did I need to date and fuck so many girls in order to find my wife?

If I say "yes", then the "amazing woman" you see me with might seem impossible to get for you.

If i say "no", then it belies the objective hierarchy of the "sexual marketplace."

But surely, if we both look at our partner and think about where we've been, what it took to find "her", and if an indescribable awe jolts through our bodies each time we look at "her" --- then we are the same.

Whatever increased sensitivity, gained through experience, to "price" women in the sexual marketplace and to see differences in "objective value" has no bearing on anyone's life except mine.

But if we take one look at "her" sleeping, making dinner, carrying your child, laying on the couch, etc., if that stokes a feeling of gratitude , joy, and incredulity for your relationship -- then we are one and the same, friend.

I don't know how many women, how much money, how Chad you have to be to get that feeling.

I just know its fucking incredibly difficult and you must keep trying.

Spolier: and if you are one of the lucky ones to find her....you still keep trying for her, and with her - until you are no longer present on this Earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44971806)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,.,,.,..,

What is your longstanding obsession with tall blondes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972597)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: .,.,..;.;..,;,..,.,;.,

and you're happy and faithful?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972603)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 12:58 PM
Author: Now see here

Having sex with 450 people is indicative of extreme personality disorder and mental illness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972797)



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Date: August 6th, 2022 12:14 PM
Author: Just your average poaster

Sup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5167853&forum_id=2#44972589)