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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:10 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Not interested in destructive shit. Either I or her bull fucks my wife plenty and no issues there.
Just had new flooring in kitchen. I paid for it. Wife hates it that I drag the chair a little when pulling up to the table. She put pads on the chair legs but that does not solve the problem to her satisfaction. Apparently some minor scuffing of the floor is visible to her hawk eyes. She screams every time I sit down. Screams that I’m not using the chair right and that I’m supposed to pick it up and place it where I want it rather that slide it back to sit in it then slide it up to the table.
Anyway, I lost it and told her it’s my house so I can sit how I want and I will never change the way I sit down to eat. Wife went berserk and I left the room. Has she lost her mind? Thank. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:16 PM Author: Milky cerebral goal in life field Do you and your wife otherwise contribute equally to house shit?
Like if you pay all the bills and she watches the kids, then its a dick move of you to pull the "i paid for it" card.
If you both have equal spending and you paid for it out of some "fun" discretionary spending amount that you own, then I think you can use it how you pleas.e |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:17 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness She does all the house stuff. I just pay for it all. But I live there too, after all. It’s my home and I shouldn’t be yelled at and shouted at semi-hysterically about how to maneuver a chair at the dinner table. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978374) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 8:55 PM Author: Milky cerebral goal in life field I think there's better ways to frame your position which isn't unreasonable, but you should apologize for pulling the "I paid for it" card .
A marriage should not be that one person has no say on where they live just because one person is the provider. |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 3:23 AM Author: big quadroon foreskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44980532) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 10:22 AM Author: Black stirring kitty ape Stop flaming. You sound like a woman.
First, that was not my first go-to. It only occurs after several rounds of discussions.
Second, it's appropriate to bring up, given what she was asking.
Third, she literally *chose* the flooring she wanted. She has say in everything.
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Date: August 8th, 2022 2:50 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage He pays for it, he gets more say. I guarantee you that if he sat at home and she paid for it she would expect way more say. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44982578) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 8:44 AM Author: Effete police squad get better pads for the chair and possibly a better wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44981081) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 11:12 AM Author: idiotic personal credit line doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44981597) |
Date: August 7th, 2022 6:14 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978358) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:15 PM Author: Rose Boyish Gas Station Roast Beef strike her repeatedly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978361) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:16 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Would have significant long term negative effects. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978366) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:16 PM Author: Stimulating boltzmann indirect expression not if you do it hard enough (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978746) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 2:51 AM Author: thriller saffron resort chad And on the bottom only. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44980497) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 2:45 PM Author: Underhanded arousing prole (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44982549) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 2:53 PM Author: adventurous brindle dragon native I snort laughed a snot rocket on to my upper lip reading this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44982594) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:18 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Been in similar situations in a number of scenarios. Example: new car, I hate when wife eats in it, her response is that I get nice expensive cars but she gets to do what she wants in it. Same idea here. Tell her that at some point the floor will need to be refinished or replaced and you should accept that. There's no point to walking on eggshells in your own house so you could get a nicer floor. And when you replace the floors you'll get something better.
Another solution: there's an acrylic finish you can get for your floors that will be more durable (assuming it is real wood). When you refinish you should look into it. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:22 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness She screamed that she was going to put the linoleum back in that spot and I then invited her to do just that so long as she would stop acting like a freak over how I sit down for dinner.
It’s still new so for her the pretty newness hasn’t worn off yet. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:34 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Maybe just compromise on an area rug? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978465) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:37 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness That’s what I was thinking. A nice rug under the table. Will be messed up around the chairs though, which wouldn’t alleviate the issue unless it’s a really giant rug which sort of defeats the purpose of the wood floor to begin with. Also she put these storage bench things in as a replacement for some of the chairs and so the spacing for a rug would be kind of strange. Think like a breakfast nook area sort of. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978478) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:39 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Yeah, but at the point where she's talking linoleum (worst of the worst) a huge area rug is probably preferable.
Going straight from an install to a refinish sucks and she'll think she sees scratches anyway. An area rug will hopefully shut her up on the issue entirely. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:41 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness She was just bullshitting on the linoleum. I know enough to call out her bullshit. She’s not going to actually do that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978501) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:45 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Well, embrace the idea. Tell her that you're willing to work on a solution but you not being able to live in your own house isn't a solution. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978522) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:46 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness I think the gradual begrudging mutual half accommodation on both sides will entail less hysterical screaming than a direct “show your cards” but glad to know you are reading and helping man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978532) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:59 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Listen, I've been married for most of my life so I know the drill here. I'll give a recent compromise story. I got a 48" LG C1 OLED as a monitor but my wife didn't like the stand. So I got a monitor arm that she liked the look of so she was happy and installed it. No more problems. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978617) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:09 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness That’s the kind of stuff I would lose my mind over.
A few years ago I got a refurbished monitor for free that wouldn’t stand quite right and so I jerry rigged it which she thought was ugly so she got a—get this—pink silk scarf thing and tied it around the monitor arm to make it look pretty. Fine. Whatever. A pink-scarfed monitor. Very pretty. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:12 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage LMAO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978717) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:25 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Link to the acrylic coating? Maybe we should put that all on the kitchen floor. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978408) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:33 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Actually, just look at this: https://www.homeadvisor.com/r/best-durable-hardwood-floor-finishes/
I haven't looked at this in a while.
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:45 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Thanks man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978523) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:46 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage But again, I wouldn't rush to do that for a new floor install. When they get actually beat up then sure. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978530) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:47 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Oh hell no. I’m still paying for the floor. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978536) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:59 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Yikes. Last time we couldn't afford a nice floor install we installed it ourselves. It was a bamboo floor. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978624) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:11 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Yeah we self-installed bamboo flooring in our first house. Much smaller and much easier.
I already paid the $6k for the labor this time and the balance of the materials are on a Lowes credit card which is zero interest. I just haven’t bothered to pay the credit card off yet, which is about $9k. I’ll do it by years end. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:24 PM Author: duck-like mauve bbw kitchen Just pick the chair up. It's clearly important to her (even if it's objectively not that important). Do you want to strive to create peace in your marriage or not?
This "advice" is coming from someone who hasn't taken it fully to heart himself btw. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:27 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Well between me and the boart we’ve been married long enough such that I’m quietly going to make an effort to do that from here on out anyway and my raising hell about her total nonsense on this point will likewise prompt her to ease off on the totally psycho control freak response next time it comes up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978421) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:29 PM Author: duck-like mauve bbw kitchen I would just say "hey look, I don't really understand this chair/floor thing. to me it's not important at all. but i can see that it's very important to you, and since YOU are important to me i will make an effort to do it."
that's it. you'll go insane if you try to keep scorecard on give and takes |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:31 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Yes I think that easing off will happen naturally on both sides over time without the need to be explicit. But that’s only because we’ve been together a long ass time. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:43 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Thanks brother. Gonna be some tense garden green beans tonight. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978512) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:26 PM Author: contagious university It's impossible to tell without knowing what the structural equation model for your relationship looks like. Nothing happens in isolation. The fact you're asking xo for backup is a point against you, though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978416) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:28 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978426) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:31 PM Author: contagious university I can tell you though that it is not about the chair or the floor: it's about communication, understanding and being understood. She needs to learn to accept you as you are, you need to learn to be less reactive when she nags. The rough edges will smooth out over time.
Edit: wife suggests getting different flooring that is harder to scuff. Also good. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:34 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Tell your wife we just put this new floor in last month. I had nothing to do with the selection other than “okay! Looks good!” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978469) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:35 PM Author: contagious university I will when we're on speaking terms again (we just got into a big fight about her stupid precious flooring). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978470) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:37 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978479) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:29 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Beat your wife. Divorce her. Atd. Get a new bull. You aren’t alpha.
That’s just the basic xo stuff that comes to mind. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:29 PM Author: supple cordovan stead degenerate i had a similar situation with a gf. i had helped her refinish her floors. stained and polyed them.
the bed we typically fucked on start chewing up her floor. our go-to was her on top, and she would get wild and move the bed across the floor. the middle post started scratching up the floor.
she got insanely upset with me about it. i was just like "wtf, it's your bed AND i helped finish the floor. plus it's an easy fix, just need to stain the scratches."
we broke up shortly after that and she kept calling me an asshole for "scratching up her floors and not fixing it."
birdbrains. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:33 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness That would be my wife except that we’ve got a bunch of time in together already and it sucks being miserable over stuff like that even though you are totally in the right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978461) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:37 PM Author: supple cordovan stead degenerate i don't know how to handle it. you can't just walk away, they'll keep nagging about it forever. are you just supposed to cuck?
perhaps the best option in the case like yours if there is no way to get the chairs to stop scratching the floors. get those little rubber things that go over the legs or something. otherwise just get new chairs. you're stuck with this woman, i guess sometimes you have to cave to their insanity for peace of mind. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:39 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Yeah I said use pads and she said she already put them on and they aren’t helping.
Yeah, as a married dude I’m going to go with whatever gets me peace so long as I make it clear it’s obnoxious of her to try to change how I sit down for a meal which I guess I’ve done. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:44 PM Author: supple cordovan stead degenerate i'm wondering about those rubber dudes that fit over the whole chair leg
seems a lot better than the stick on things. if the chair is still "scuffing the floor" she is truly insane, but perhaps to save the marriage it will be better to simply lift the chair off the ground. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:49 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Damn my dude that’s legitimately a good idea. She’ll hate them but it might get some peace. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978545) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:37 PM Author: buff magical preventive strike she's in for a rough time if she plans to have kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978476) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:38 PM Author: impertinent vigorous pervert site Just tell her to shut the fuck up and stop being irrational
Either you're alpha and it works or you're beta and it's a failure. 50/50 |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:39 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Credited xo response. Thanks brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978495) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:47 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness Credited, Chad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978534) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 6:50 PM Author: carnelian startling chapel volcanic crater Acknowledge it. Tell her you can’t promise that you’ll be 100%, but you hear her, are aligned, and can promise her that you will make an effort. Then enjoy the sex tonight. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978547) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:14 PM Author: crusty turquoise parlor tell her to get fucked, youre gonna sit how you like. the situation you are describing would infuriate me. need to stand your ground. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978734) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:28 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness You aren’t wrong.
Hence the fight. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:32 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Yeah, you changing how you're going to sit in your own house isn't a realistic solution. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978847) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:25 PM Author: mahogany charismatic orchestra pit cuck I don’t get the appeal of a rug under a dining table. Seems like it will just get spilled on.
Compromises:
Put an extra set of pads on the chair
Get a rolling chair. Swap it out when you have guests if she balks at it not matching.
Put a towel or something under it that will slide w the chair
Petty solutions:
Make dings in the floor where her chair goes and show her that her way is just as bad for the floor
Lift the chair but slam it back down each time |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 2:40 AM Author: carnelian startling chapel volcanic crater You’re 180 but your petty solutions are psychopathic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44980475) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 9:23 AM Author: mahogany charismatic orchestra pit cuck They were meant to be lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44981156) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:46 PM Author: exhilarant house we got vinyl plank for this reason. shit is indestructible even with little kids constantly trying to fuck with it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978913) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:51 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness She’s an excellent mother, Spaceporn. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978933) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:55 PM Author: wonderful menage sound barrier What does she do when the kids draw on the walls, spill food on the couch, rub candy/food into the carpet? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978943) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 7:56 PM Author: ebony bearded messiness They aren’t that young anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44978953) |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 8:17 PM Author: wonderful menage sound barrier Is this new behavior from her?
This is completely disrespectful and absolutely intolerable imho. |
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Date: August 7th, 2022 11:33 PM Author: buff magical preventive strike are they even your kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44979942) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 3:01 AM Author: Rusted comical place of business school You must come from a place of pity. She freaks out over that because she is obviously neurotic and she can't help herself. Basically sympathize with her poor neurotic ass which probably has led to many interpersonal conflicts in her life and will continue to do so in the future. It's unwise to try to change her through proving her wrong in a debate or something because people don't usually change like that and such a discussion usually leads to hurt egos which worsen the problem. Pity her, not in a condescending way, and love her, and that will probably lead to you coming up with a wise solution to fix this and all sorts of other problems you have with her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44980510) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 3:25 AM Author: big quadroon foreskin "Pity her, not in a condescending way, and love her, and that will probably lead to you coming up with a wise solution to fix this and all sorts of other problems you have with her." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44980535) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 2:51 PM Author: Underhanded arousing prole Lol this is an irrational thing for her to be angry about, and you should sit however you like. Padding the chair legs better may be a compromise step though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44982587) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 2:53 PM Author: Concupiscible institution She sounds heroic.
And you should just put a rug down, you fucking prole.
It makes me LOL thinking of the absolute losers on this board thinking that their IKEA dining table on bare, shit quality wood laminate flooring is the PEAK of civilization because they are too poor to buy a nice rug and get it professionally cleaned twice a year
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Date: August 8th, 2022 2:57 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Bitching over how he sits in his own house is heroic? Jfc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44982614) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 3:03 PM Author: Concupiscible institution Yes, caring about stuff like scratches on the floor is literally what made Western civilization the strongest in the world (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44982660) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 4:09 PM Author: jet-lagged floppy mother theater stage Nyet. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44983079) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 3:01 PM Author: adventurous brindle dragon native jfc. you should've thought about this when picking out your floors. shit is inevitably gonna get scratched if it's prone to scratching. either shop around for some better anti-scratch pads for the chairs or deal with her psycho shit until she gets over the new-ness in a year. Here are some felt pads: https://www.amazon.com/Protectors-Silicone-Furniture-Scratches-Transparent/dp/B09GJGWXG2/ref=sr_1_6?keywords=Chair+No+Scratch+Pads&qid=1659985426&sr=8-6
even if you pay for everything, the fact that she takes care of the house is probably rooted in her compulsion to keep a nice home for her family. you trying to flex that you pay for shit diminishes her contribution to the household. don't do that. the fact that she flips over scratched floors is a result of her taking pride in the nice-ness of the house. it's a bit extreme but that's the price you pay for your current division of labor. tell her you're sorry, resolve the issue, give her a deep dicking, stick your thumb in her butt, and move on. |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 3:04 PM Author: Carmine nursing home old irish cottage you paid for the floors, but who choose them? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44982663) |
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Date: August 8th, 2022 3:11 PM Author: excitant juggernaut gunner can't you put those little pads under the legs of the chairs? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5168807&forum_id=2#44982696) |